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momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Do men really like Dominant Women? Posted: 7/22/2008 4:53:33 AM
[There are men that will totally submit his will, wants... and even his needs to a woman he loves. (OK, maybe even one he doesn't love... But I don't get that.) ] Oh jim, I have missed you and the forums here...been way too busy with that other site....and yes not everyday 50 emails but? A lot more than I ever had here....and closer to what I had been looking for! Life is still good in NY state.... Yes, Virginaia--- Men do Like/Love Dominate Women! Some need the 24/7 TPE some just need the appearance of vanilla and with the Woman in control of most aspects....a very few just want the Bedroom Dominate.... Just My personal experience....

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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How much do you love yourself at this moment? Posted: 8/29/2007 6:25:34 AM
While I have a healthy realistic view of who I am and how there are times when I looked and felt better...I still love the person I am. My pics are older about a year ago but I look the Same...as long as they truly depict you why keep changing them? I have met fellas that the pics in No way could have been them. Scary? Hell yeah! Those are the ones you meet in the parking lot and say you know you look nothing like your pictures and since you could lie about that what else could you be dishonest about? Next contestant...Oh by the by, everyone that meets me seem to be amazed that I do look like My pics...that is messed up! Momvon...aka Maria

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Are we revealing too much? Posted: 10/5/2006 4:54:41 PM
All very good and valid points...I post on the threads I feel I have something I wish to: add, contribute or share...Just like in My profile, "Don't ask the question if you do not wish to hear the answer. " Same with the threads If what I write offends someone than they can respond in kind or not. I will share of myself what I chose. I am a very open and upfront person about Anything, it just depends on my mood and frame of mind. Frankly, I think the only person interested in what sexual position I enjoy is the man I am going to be having sex with....I maybe wrong....Share what you are comfortable with. It is your perogative to chose the forums you post on. Sometimes a risque post has garnered me some very good friendships that began with a " hello, I liked your thought on that subject" Above all else, to thine own self be true. Peace.

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Can you sleep when you are cuddling? Posted: 5/26/2006 9:38:13 AM
Snuggling up in a spooning position and falling gently to sleep...Is the part I miss most of being alone.

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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How long should good sex last? Posted: 5/21/2006 8:12:26 PM
funny trubblemakr... But I will take as much, as long, as I can get....Darn where is My fishie????

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Oral sex the first time you make love Posted: 5/21/2006 8:10:31 PM
lonelyandcold* Now that is a Healthy attitude....Takes a lot to get me there but Whooo Hooo once you have me where ya want me....Make me Squirm>>>>>><<<<<<<

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Oral sex the first time you make love Posted: 5/19/2006 7:31:19 PM
I think as previously mentioned it is all part of making love. I am disappointed if a man isn't willing to please me orally. He would enjoy it as much as I would I bet. At least I think that is how it should be but it has been a while.....

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Sexy voices.......... what type turns you on? Posted: 5/15/2006 12:13:23 PM
To King Macho---- I bet I could just read you my grocery list and you would change that opinion. I work in phone sales, Not tele marketing, and my voice sells more product. A sexy voice is something you can just hear once and want to hear forever.... Great topic and diverse reactions surprisingly.

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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At the end of a date and you're not interested what do you do? Posted: 5/15/2006 12:01:15 PM
Good thoughts Bike man! Catwm----Cuts right to the chase..... I do try and be a little tactful if only for the sake of good manners, but I have had to leave at the first Hello, because I KNEW this was never going to happen! Just try and be kind, you would want them to be kind to you, correct?

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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At the end of a date and you're not interested what do you do? Posted: 5/15/2006 3:43:37 AM
Tactfully honest is the best way....I cannot say I know within a one date framework if I am going to be interested or not usually 2-3 dates is what I need to determine. I agree it is best to do a quick meet and greet and just to see each other, I have found. Some it was just not any chemistry with and some the chemistry was off the charts but they never called back.....Should have been more honest with me and themselves....Dating no matter how it begins is never Easy....Just because something is difficult though do you give up? Not me, I want to have a relationship. So I will continue to look till I have found someone I want to date seriously. Doesn't matter how we meet. My two cents worth

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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You'll Never Meet a Normal Girl By Dating Online-Is There a Stigma? Posted: 5/15/2006 3:32:50 AM
I have had some good experiences and some bad, online dating and with people friends or family introduced me to. I live in a very rural area that doesn't offer much in the way of meeting people. Online I have made some good friends and met a couple of very great men, but no chemistry for either of us. We wished each other well and parted ways amicably. I would recommend you follow Your instincts and Not others. I knew and have recently meet people that have met online and are very happy as couples. I wish you much luck and follow your heart.

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Sexy voices.......... what type turns you on? Posted: 5/13/2006 2:34:07 AM
Since my voice is a deep contralto, hearing a man with a voice deeper and more sultry than mine....is a Huge turn on...add a little bit of gravel like Sam Elliots or Tommy Lee Jones...Oh lala! Any accent or none as long as he has that baritone....Big sigh.....

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Leo...ruler, beauty, intelligence, passionate.... Posted: 5/7/2006 4:18:21 AM
<<<<< Leo? But of course! I am a typical Leonine Lady....Work? Work hard, play? Play well and as long as you can! I do agree with Scherrazade...I don't want to be the center of attention but....I also tend to be the power behind the scenes,lol. Having raised my two daughters to be strong independent young women...We tend to clash often, one is Leo and one is Libra....The three of us together is like a wild and untamed storm....Yes they are almost as passionate as ME! I do agree with HB...My beauty will never fade because, IT does come from within, strength, passion and the ability to constantly grow and overcome any obstacles because to Leos, a challenge is something we handle well! I also, tend to always champion the underdog....because it feels like the right thing to do. I walk into a room and before I ever see my friends.... they are there. People do gravitate to us fellow Leonines. They Must like the heat is what I think. The fact that they know they can trust us to always have their back, could explain a lot....Ferociously loyal in friendship and Love. Great thread and I should have known, different Ladies I have admired from the forums, Were Leos! Silly me, great minds Do think alike.

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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When in a relationship, what makes you FEEL loved? Posted: 5/4/2006 12:27:31 AM
Holding my hand for no reason or just having to touch me somehow makes me feel special...The look is a big one as well....Meaningful glances that promise so much.....

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Can you sleep when you are cuddling? Posted: 5/4/2006 12:12:58 AM
I am so missing someone to cuddle up with, spooning is the best way for me to fall a sleep, wrapped up in someones arms, holding me close and feeling their breath on my neck...Just the thought makes me feel contented and sleepy...

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Morning SEX..... LOVE IT or HATE IT!!! Posted: 5/4/2006 12:07:28 AM
Morning, noon or night...If I can get it 3 times a day...Whoo Hoo! Mornings are great if you don't have to get up in a hurry and go to work...Can play for hours before breakfast...Or a quickie that says more to cummm later...

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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A matter of Class . Posted: 5/1/2006 4:00:16 AM
proveit4me...I agree, our perceptions of ourselves will make us appear in different ways to people..Class is something you have with or without fashionable clothes...Class is an attitude first to yourself and then to others ...A sense of strength and character that makes you a presence ....angelab good thoughts... Everyone has their own fashion sense but few have true class..... just my two cents worth

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Do you believe in fate? Or love at first sight? Posted: 5/1/2006 3:50:42 AM
Attraction at first sight, Yes! I think love takes time to know and grow with each other... Love is a word used much to casually...I love chocolate..ie but I am not in love with it...I do believe that there is a match for everyone just being able to recognize it when it happens....tough call. Seen some great posts and thoughts here.....

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Why can't I find a woman who can enjoy sex as much as me and keep up? Posted: 4/25/2006 9:09:32 AM
Teddybear....that was sweet. OH so true...Love is what makes intimacy so mindblowing. It takes all aspects of a relationship to make for the best ever. You do have to use your imagination and to keep your flirting, teasing, caressing, massaging, and other skills sharp! Once you start doing that, everything else should "fall" in to place. Even increasing a womans libido. I have NEVER had to worry about mine. Only had to worry when not in a relationship, said sadly.

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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good sex or good head which would you rather get in bed. Posted: 4/25/2006 9:01:56 AM
I refuse to chose! Both should sorta follow each other....A completed circle. Or is that cycle.....The rythem of LIfe.

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Why can't I find a woman who can enjoy sex as much as me and keep up? Posted: 4/23/2006 9:55:56 PM
Converteddreams, Honey the talk before hand sounds good in theory but I have yet to meet a man that didn't claim to be ready and willing to keep up but no matter my best efforts....He frankly just peetered out on me time and time again....Great in theory but not really true....

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Why can't I find a woman who can enjoy sex as much as me and keep up? Posted: 4/22/2006 7:23:49 AM
simplyshauna...Very well put and another poster said it is something that starts outside and is maintained outside of the bedroom also very true. Little carresses and meaningful glances all help a woman know she is desired and that is a key to keeping her libido high. Touching and being toched is very important, tender passionate kisses for no reason but to let her know more will follow ....Where are these passionate men?

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Could you say NO to sex Posted: 4/19/2006 6:48:30 AM
Poor killnik, A headache has never made me say no. But I am an interactive woman....hard for a man to keep me still especially if he takes good directions,lol. here, there or faster slower but usually I am busy with the non verbals....ohhhhh Yeeeeeessss, MORE!

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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What do you think about during sex?:) Posted: 4/19/2006 6:43:36 AM
In a word, what I think about during Lovemaking, (I never just have SEX). Is MORE, Pleeeaaaase? or sometimes, Next position please......

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Could you say NO to sex Posted: 4/19/2006 6:39:49 AM
You do NEED spanked but distance is an issue and besides your just too anxious for it! Now Behave and quit trying to out play me.... I have my mental tennis shoes on and am trying to find a date that can at least get to me, BEHAVE!

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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What do you think about during sex?:) Posted: 4/19/2006 6:36:08 AM
simpleman4u, You darn Canadian men...so far away and all looking and sounding like a sweet treat, yummy! I am just too hormonal this morning!!!! I best find some hard labor to get into to take my mind out of the lonesome bedroom. I do believe I have Spring Fever and need to Not be thinking about what I would be thinking about during sex....

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Could you say NO to sex Posted: 4/19/2006 6:28:51 AM
Not answering that one! Jim, you rascal you! Check your typos there tho' big boy,lol. I guess I have got something ,something going on somewhere....Moi? Heck yes I do try! Still not having just Sex, still want the whole shebang, literally!!!!!!!!!!! P.S. I do NOT kiss and tell!!!!!!!!!

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Could you say NO to sex Posted: 4/19/2006 6:02:26 AM
I have no problem with saying NO to just sex.... I want the whole deal...mental and physical attraction. After all, the most attractive sexual muscle is the MIND! Give me a man ready and willing to share and enjoy the playground I call my mind. Then we can explore other possibilities! I could have sex anytime I like, but I chose to hold out for more....

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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What do you think about during sex?:) Posted: 4/19/2006 5:38:59 AM
Go surfyg...That was scorching! But I truly hate getting sand anywhere near my tender spots,lol. Been there and done that, never want to try it again! But I will race my man to the bedroom first one there gets to chose...... simpleman....you got the right idea of how to keep a woman interested!

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Define the difference be intimacy and sex! Posted: 4/18/2006 11:42:22 AM
This thread has some very insightful opinions and Hello to all the men that understand the word intimacy! Now why do you fellas have to be so far geographically away. My applause to Yourdelights, Please explain this thought, concept to every man you know, perhaps the word will spread. Some have said it very simply, (Anudder) while others have plumbed the depths. But all of you have spoken truthful words of wisdom. Awesome thread, Cheers to all!

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Why won't Women Date Nice Romantic Overweight Gentlemen Posted: 4/16/2006 4:53:56 PM
Frankly I still stand by the fact that I am more attracted to a gentleman with some meat on his bones than I am to a man that looks like it has been years since he had a good meal....I would rather feed him than date him. I once dated a Greek gentleman that was about 70 pounds overweight, very muscular and Hello could that man dance! I have always been very muscular and often times have even out weighed the men I have dated....They probably didn't even know! Beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder! Hang in there and don't be discouraged...Be your self and true to the man in the mirror.

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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What do you think about during sex?:) Posted: 4/15/2006 8:08:26 PM
At this point, with the lack of intimacy, I would be thinking how long can I keep him going, and I sure hope he likes morning wake up calls for more!!!!!!!!!!!!!

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Make time for each other Posted: 4/5/2006 10:23:58 PM
Life is busy for everyone....But how you spend what you have to share together isn't a matter one party can try and hope the other will go along with them. My last relationship, I was the one that gave all my time to his availability....It just doesn't work if it is all one sided...It will always take "Two to Tango"...My two cents worth....Talk about how you both can make time together.....

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Friends After Relationship?? Posted: 4/4/2006 8:13:16 AM
All true thoughts for different situations, some sad but still true. If a relationship ends without deceit being involved, I see no reason why it can't continue in an amicable friendship. I am friends with most, of my ex boyfriends, husbands, lovers....Never could understand the need for animosity, hateful, hurtful, behavior. Perhaps you should invite her for a long chat, sharing your thoughts honestly and truly listen to hers as well. Just my best advice and two cents worth. M

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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HELP ME PLEASE!...profile advice needed Posted: 4/4/2006 7:58:19 AM
As posted before...these are all valid points. I too am trying to give up a nicotine addiction, it is hard! I do like (your name), the lair picture , but you should have other ones in your profile that any one looking will find. Another toughie for me as well, I take awful pictures...I think all your thoughts are good ones, you should just expound on them more. What do you like about thunderstorms? My profile gets lousy reviews, but it is a true summary of who and how I am. If you are comfortable enough to "just ramble" on about yourself in an orderly fashion, it will fill out your profile some more. Open up and let your self bring a mental picture of you, and what you are seeking. Great luck and hope to catch you around in the forums! M

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Men vs. Women who initiates sexual variety? Posted: 3/18/2006 3:00:29 AM
It doesn't matter to me who starts as long as we both finish with cuddles and giggles and maybe we start again I have no problem saying "race you to the bedroom....."

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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are women becoming more open minded to being the dominant partner? Posted: 3/15/2006 3:34:16 AM
I don't want to lead or follow all the time, would like a good mix of both! How about we both agree to discuss it?

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Ladies, please explain what this means.. Posted: 3/3/2006 4:38:25 AM
^^^ Very true, ksue44, James Dean or bad boys do not appeal to me! Confidence and self assurance in themselfs, Yes that is a turn on. You are also correct about the pictures anyone can buy a disposable camera and just have the pics put on a CD and download the pictures directly to their PC....No excuse for no picture! Even I have had a friend load my pics as my system is older and not equipped for ....So again, No excuse! "To thine own self be true" and portray that confidence!!!!!!!!!!!! It will go far.

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Weird chicks standing me up, whats the deal? Posted: 2/23/2006 7:44:03 AM
^^^^^^^^^^ Lucky you, can I call your mom too? I had never been stood up so much till lately...lol. What is up with the rude people, no show, no call and just to disappear.POOF Gone...Some were legitimate, work or family emergencies and we made up dates later...But I digress, back to the post: Weird chicks love animals of all kinds..they are not big on arachnids however... But welcome to the fun world of online dating...You/I wanted to expand our opportunities and therefor we increase our odds of meeting unfortunatley also, the rude and socially lacking people as well. But, Cie la Vie....There are plenty of fish in the sea. Seriously though, great luck to you, Momvon

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Everybody has a past.... but does it really matter ???? Posted: 2/21/2006 4:24:40 AM
^^^^Good thoughts here...The road I walked yesterday helped me become who I am today and will reflect the road I walk tomorrow...Hopefully Everyone has made mistakes and walked away learning the lesson it was meant to teach. Sharing the events that made us who we are today is important but gradually and overtime. I ask certain questions and share events that are deal breakers, even giving the reasons why. A person that has never had any long term relationships would make me wary that they are not interested in having a long term....Someone that has learned what went wrong in the past and believe that they gained from it...Someone that is willing to not make the same mistakes...I learned a lot from my past and am now looking for some one that I can share everything with good or bad...but over time and growth together.

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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What are your deal breakers Posted: 2/18/2006 3:46:06 AM
Dishonesty in any form!!!! Be yourself, because eventually that is what will make or break any intereaction you have with anyone...Lying is unacceptable in any form and for any reason, that is my biggest deal breaker....

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Would you marry someone just because they are rich ? Posted: 2/18/2006 3:37:15 AM
Frankly, NO! I want an equal partner in my quest for a mate, would I just settle for anything that has lots of money...NO, NO and NO. I must have a connection on all levels....Mentally, physically and most of all compatiability. I get by on what I earn, I earn it honestly, I would expect my mate to be able to at least support himself as well. Money is an unfortunate necessary evil. But my love and affections cannot be bought for any amount! Just my feelings.....Good luck to everyone who feels they could sleep with a bank account....

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Male and females define stable in different terms Posted: 2/17/2006 5:13:20 AM
^^^^ So true...Give me mental stability and if you are finacially secure or stable all the better....Just please know who you are before.......

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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How do you express LOVE ? Posted: 2/16/2006 8:29:02 AM
Great Post! Agree with most of what everyone else has said but would like to add: Love is the give and take of daily chores and joys, the wanting to be the best you for your loved one, and wanting them to be the best for themselves as well. I have learned by being single this time, that next time I will never take for granted any of the time we have together...Good or bad and be happy to have someone to share it with!

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Selfish in bed Posted: 2/14/2006 4:12:55 AM
Happy Valentines Day to you also, Mesnafugal! I did try and correct my error. It still is a good book and I should re-read it myself. Hope everyone Has a Great day, coupled or otherwise, hugs to all--

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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Selfish in bed Posted: 2/14/2006 3:56:01 AM
My confusion and the fact I have read sooo many books is showing...My many apologies to "boo1979" the Celistine Prophecy was written by James Redfield and sits right next to two of the books by Deepak Chopra...That I read years ago. My Apologies young lady. Both are very good authors....With wisdom and insight.....

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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What do you hate most about being single? Posted: 2/14/2006 3:32:57 AM
To Ladypagey, If I give you a hug, then we both will have one! So heres a BIG huge hug for YOU! Okay so 3 sounded better! Happy Valentines Day to all us singles, Hugs and kisses all the way around!

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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What do you hate most about being single? Posted: 2/13/2006 5:56:32 PM
Tonight I am missing and hating being alone on Valentines day

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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do women wanna be swept off their feet? Posted: 2/13/2006 5:10:12 AM
Hmmm Swept off my feet..No. Swept up in the moment that goes on and on...Yes, like the best slow dance you have ever had, holding each other tightly, the song has ended but you both are so in to each other you quit dancing long after everyone else has sat down....Sighing softly and remembering that very elusive quality called LOVE.....

momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005

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imaginary Posted: 2/13/2006 4:32:04 AM
^^^^Very Good, communication at work again and both parties respecting the others view point...That does sum it up nicely in a nutshell- to each their own!!! No need to bash or blame all woman/men for the past actions of someone else!!!!!

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