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 Author Thread: Would you open you marriage to save it?
 fitzer64
Joined: 7/27/2008
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Would you open you marriage to save it?
Posted: 8/25/2008 3:23:57 PM
I have to agree with BigDaddy and most others on this thread. If they want to define their marriage that way, kudos to them, but I don't agree with it at all. The moment you bring someone else into the relationship you're opening a Pandora's box. It is problem avoidence, and really doesn't solve the "real issues" in the marriage that are obviously festering, and it really sets you up for more problems later down the road. Why get/remain married if you're not going to commit to a person? I just don't get it.
 fitzer64
Joined: 7/27/2008
Msg: 120 (view)
 
Just found out my boyfriend is married!
Posted: 8/25/2008 12:14:31 PM

I notice that he still has a profile on here - though it has slightly changed - I can only hope that no other woman gets taken in by this "silver tongued charmer" - not what i want to call him but not sure what I really want to say would get printed here !!!
There are online review sites that you can use to post your online dating experience with individuals. I can't tell you the website name but if you google "true dater" that should point you in the right direction. The sooner we weed out these types, the better for the people who are on here legitimately looking for someone.
 fitzer64
Joined: 7/27/2008
Msg: 117 (view)
 
Just found out my boyfriend is married!
Posted: 8/25/2008 10:50:25 AM
I'm not quite sure how long you dated before you figured out that this guy was married. I have heard this story before from multiple woman and I am a little puzzled each time I hear it. Call me untrusting, but wouldn't you (after seeing each other a few times) be interested in seeing where this guy lives?, getting his address?, maybe asking for a home phone number? If he hims and haws at that...that's a red flag right there. It's unfortunate, but there are plenty of married people on here and a little skepticsm always goes a long way. I'm very sorry that you had to go through that...but now you are wiser for it. We are dealing with the internet and the general public. Unfortunately this place is a breeding ground for Ne'er do wells and players because they can practice their craft with impunity and anononimity. Proceed with caution!!
 
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