i've noticed a bunch of threads in the ask a guy forums about why guys will check out profiles and add women to favorites but not say anything. I hear a lot about being independent and all that BS but when it comes to guys you wont step into the 21st century and message him first then. Guys are as insecure as women. So my question is to every women that always ask this question. Do bother messaging the guy checking you out or do you fall into the "i'm to strong of a women to message a guy" category?

My favorite movie series is "Saw" and I've seen every movie atleast 4 times, now this is something she won't touch with a 10 foot pole, I don't make that big a deal out of it but I see it as a bit unfair.

Hard to believe? Are you kidding me? Most women seem to want to keep thier money for themselves, spend it on what they want and then expect a guy to pay when they go somewhere.
It is the same as saying men and women can't find decent men and women. Because they are becoming few and far between. More and more people are becoming more and more selfish, seems what is in it for them is what matters. That is aimed at both men and women.

I respect those women who on a night out have no problem splitting up the expense of the night. Like the ones I mentioned. One buys the movie tickets, the other buys the food for the movie. Not many women are this way. This is why I am still single. I guess because I am cheap and refuse to pay for nights out all the time.

I would love to meet a woman who will take turns paying for nights out. Split the groceries for dinner instead of one buying them all the time. One pays for the movie ticket, the other pays for the popcorn and coke. One pays for the baseball tickets, the other for the hot dogs and drinks. But what I find most common are women who want the guy to pay for it all. Sad. And the women reply "He should be happy I am with him" Ya nice answer!!

Now that I'm 32, I'm feeling quite jaded with a been there done that attitude. Almost nothing excites me anymore because I've either done it before or have read enough about it. Here are some examples of what I'm talking about:

Travel -- already been around the world
Hobbies -- have a good half dozen of them
Money -- have enough savings to sustain my lifestyle for 100 years
Friends -- had some close ones, but most moved on in their lives now

So in looking for a relationship, how does one go about getting excited about it when you feel bored with life? I've been using online dating for the past two years. But nobody I meet moves me. the novelty is just not there any more, so there's no romance in the dating.

Are there other people over 30 who still get excited when dating?

I don't find them, they find me. I'm on a 119 favourites lists and they are not all bookmarking me.

But, a friend of mine once told me that I'll never find the (type of) woman I seek on the internet ... and so far, she's been completely right.

Someone views you, yet they don't message. I have done this several times for different reasons. I would say for the most part its becase they already have so many friends. So I think whats the use it will just get over looked and I move on.

Seeing as that would not be a distraction for ladies that view me, I'm guessing they saw something that they were not looking for, I'm fine with that.

So they view me, I view them back. No one messages. I don't message because they didn't. Not because I saw something telling me "shes not for me".

So I am wandering how others address this cat and mouse game??

So my question to the women is, why do people lie in their profiles; specifically, why do women lie?

Whats the difference between talking on here and talking on text messages? If shes out alot or doesnt have a computer at home or doesnt get online often at home then a text message is much more convienent.

I want to meet as many single women as I can. I don't know whether it will just be a one time meeting and conversation, or whether friendship or soulmate will develop, but I would rather meet and treat a woman in her 30s or 20s in person than just email. Why do females always resist meeting?

Sorry to be pessimistic but I am starting to believe that a Northern Va POF Meet and Greet is not going to happen. I would set it up but I do not know of many places to have it up here. I don't get out much and I can't afford much now because of buying a house and having to pay my really high deductible on my car because of a deer. So if anything magically changes let me know.

Pft, you guys aren't thinking big enough. Screw the flowers. I'd get her a custom-made pink vibrating dildo with notches, and in gold lettering at the hilt:

"From John, with Love."

Well,
Going to a movie alone is perhaps one of the things that would be okay to do alone. Most activities, on the other hand are not much fun when you go solo. Yes, unfortunate as it may be, there is a certain stereotypical stigmatism associated with you when you do things alone. Unfortunate but true.

I would go solo to a movie, though I haven't. If you would like to go see the movie, then go anyway. It is most likely better than staying home but I wouldn't count on it being a place to socialize or hook up with anyone :)

I don't understand why girls shoot the bird in their pictures on dating sites. It's dumb, unattractive, and immature. Maybe they're trying to be tough or something. All I have to say to it is NEXT!