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Papillongirl

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Seriously curious about how I make myself sound Posted: 9/8/2009 11:22:33 PM
Ok, I have never asked for help with my profile on a forum before so here we go... I'm wondering what kind of person I make myself out to be in my profile. Maybe I have it worded wrong? To long? To short? Not enough humor? Yikes! So if you have time to help a girl out I would much appreciate it!

papillongirl

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forum posts in profiles Posted: 6/10/2009 11:28:29 PM
does anyone know of a way to keep previous posts in the forums from showing on profile? I would love to get rid of the posts I made some 2 years ago that show! Thanks!

Papillongirl

Joined: 9/21/2005

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My embarressing oral question--UPDATE Posted: 10/15/2006 7:06:06 PM
ok, it's been forever since I posted that question! I can't believe it got brought back up! Anyway, yes, I finally had my first(and a few more)time, and I do believe that the first is the best. No, I didn 't have an orgasm, and still haven't. For some reason I can't relax. I'll definitly be working on that issue! Well, hard to work on it when you're single, but oh well... Anyway, thanks all for the advice. It was very helpful! I hope it helped some others too!

Papillongirl

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Fwd: To former, current, future and those who know Floridians Posted: 5/26/2006 6:47:34 PM
The bleach is the Floridians answer to everything just like ductape is the answer for all rednecks. If it's dirty BLEACH it! If it smells, BLEACH it, if your kid is bad, BLEACH them.. well.. you get the idea..seriously, I think Forida should just have bleach factories or something. All the stores are always out.. hmm on second thought maybe it all goes into all those drugs that they keep bustin people for... my god, what's the world coming to!

Papillongirl

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Would a girl let a guy buy her a new s** toy if she just wanted to be friends? Posted: 5/26/2006 6:23:45 PM
I would totally love it if one my guy friends offered to help me buy a sex toy! I'd love it if anyone would! lol I'm to chicken to do it myself, so any help would be great! If we were "just" friends before the fact, then it would probably stay that way, if we were "together" in any way sexually, then the toy would just make it more fun, IMO, so have fun pickin one out and I think that's really cool and sweet of you!

Papillongirl

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Sweeping her off her feet! Posted: 4/25/2006 10:18:34 AM
I kinda disagree. I don't know EVERYthing when I meet a guy off the internet. I know the statistical stuff, age, sex, race, kids if any, blah blah blah.. but I don't know the inside, and that is the important part right? Or, the little things, like will he look around at everyone else instead of talking to me? Will he look in my EYES not my boobs, behind me, around me, ect.. Anyway. Sweeping a girl off her feet isn't that hard really. Find out what is important to her. For me, the little things are important. Pay attention to what her favorite drink is, or where her favorite place to eat is, is she cold or hot? Do her feet/back/neck hurt? Massage it! Usually a woman places more importance on the small seemingly insignificant things, than you spending a ton of money trying to impress her. Then again.. I could just be talking for myself. lol

Papillongirl

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Nuvaring Posted: 4/18/2006 1:45:56 PM
ok, I may be going off course a little here, but I have a question. My Dr. said I couldn't have the patch because of my weight. I weigh more than 190. Anyone else been told that? I was on it before and it wasn't a problem and I'd never been told that before. I went to the website of the company that makes the patch, and it says nothing about weight being a factor for this. Anybody else have any ideas?? As for the NuvaRing, I've never tried it, but it would have to be better than remembering to take a pill!! And, I've only heard good things about it so far..

Papillongirl

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~ Do You Remember Your First Kiss? ~ Posted: 4/10/2006 2:19:09 PM
my first "first kiss" was on the cheek.. under a table at preschool. I was about 4 years old.. my FIST kiss, I waited until I was 16 for, and I should have just kept on waiting... He shoved his tongue down my throat and slobbered all over me! sigh I've have much much better kisses since then thankfully.

Papillongirl

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Help!!! I don't want to be the first to use the L word!!! Posted: 3/31/2006 4:16:34 PM
heh.. I'm jealous.. at least you have someone to feel that way about. And, I think you should say it. I agree with Becky, what if tomorrow something were to happen and you've never said it. You would be devestated that you didn't tell him how you felt. Besides.. be happy that you get to feel that way!!!

Papillongirl

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No bras and nipples Posted: 3/18/2006 4:46:30 PM
ooo question!! Where on earth do you find sexy larger size bras, for the love of pete, I am sooo tired of those boring ones..

Papillongirl

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No bras and nipples Posted: 3/18/2006 4:39:38 PM
ok, so I've read through the whole thread so far and have a question. For those of us, that have large breasts (example:42DD) what exactly is so attractive about being braless.. ok if I am braless, which I usually am around the house, they first of all aren't all perky, like the girls that have C's or whatever. Not that they sag, just well, big boobs are shaped different...ok, this isn't coming out exactly as I'd like it to, so I'm just gonna pray someone can read between the lines and understand..

Papillongirl

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Central Florida, Orlando area, get together Posted: 3/10/2006 6:57:37 PM
I'd be interested if I could get an e-mail since I always forget to look at this forum. yeah I know..I'm bad.

Papillongirl

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The straw that broke the Camel's back. Posted: 3/6/2006 7:11:09 PM
It took him screaming his lungs out at me over the phone that I was a lying Fckng B*tch and then him punching a window beside my face, I figured I'd just be next..that was on top of all the other shit, but that was it. I was not about to get hit

papillongirl

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Canoe and kayak trip in North Florida Posted: 3/3/2006 9:01:54 PM
I would totally be interested if someone wouldn't remind me and let me know about the dates and ect..I always forget that this thread is here, and never look so an email would be great!! I love water, and even though I've only been canoeing once, I would love to go again!! Sounds like great fun to me. I'm a bit South of you in Putnam County, but I'd travel..

papillongirl

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You ever get that feeling? That, Need. Posted: 3/1/2006 7:48:06 AM
hmm melly, I keep being told I need to swing to the other side and try it. LOL I've always wondered if a woman would be better at it...

papillongirl

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You ever get that feeling? That, Need. Posted: 3/1/2006 7:40:57 AM
I'm with cagewench, and melly, and becky. I've been away a few days, and was all looking forward to reading the forums and relaxing and boom..I read the sex threads that have me squirmin in the chair. Bein single sucks, and yes garf, women, and men, get that "need" whether it's oral, or other. Shoot, at the moment a kiss would do

Papillongirl

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I think nice guy and jerk should be renamed. Posted: 2/24/2006 3:50:14 PM
reading this thread while drinking alcohol is NOT a good idea... I'm very confused now!!!! You should see the pictures in my head, circus (see now I can't spell either) jungles, wars, uhhhh

Papillongirl

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Hair on a guy's stomach, arrr how irresistable... Posted: 2/21/2006 7:01:49 PM
mmmmmmmm happy trails...makes me wanna lick, suck, kiss, and do all sorts of evil things up and down and ahhhhhhh what was i sayin again??? sigh gotta love men......

Papillongirl

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All for you, into me (Erotic) Posted: 2/19/2006 7:31:44 PM
hmm I think I'll take that as a compliment!! Glad I could replace Viagra (not that you would need any, but others may) for the night.

Papillongirl

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Ocean waves pouring and roaring over wild rocks on a coastline. Posted: 2/19/2006 7:13:33 PM
I would say because the sounds are relaxing and when we are relaxed we tend to let our minds-and fingers-and clothing, wander off. Could be that's just me though...and some of us (me!!) just find water itself as an erotic tool.

Papillongirl

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All for you, into me (Erotic) Posted: 2/19/2006 7:03:48 PM
I dunno where pinellas park is. Now, Pomona Park, I can tell you about.

Papillongirl

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All for you, into me (Erotic) Posted: 2/19/2006 3:17:50 PM
This is my first try at public writing. Feedback is appreciated, and yeah, it's course and not at all romantic. Hope you enjoy. I come up behind you quietly, turning your around and kiss your lips. Softly, slowly, letting my tongue trace the outline of your lips, slipping my tongue to yours, and then sucking on your lips. You kiss me back, savoring the tastes of each other. I want this to be about you though, and I slide my hand down your chest, unbuttoning each button slowly while I continue kissing you. When I get each button undone. I slide my hands into your shirt. Feeling your chest, and lightly pinching your nipples. I trace your jaw line with my tongue to your ear and wetly whisper in your ear that I want to suck your**and I want you to come in my mouth. Make me swallow your cum...I kiss my way down your neck, licking and sucking. I find your left nipple and bathe it with my mouth, and gently bite at it making it stand erect. I switch to the right and do the same. While I am sucking I use my hands to remove your shirt, and slowly start unzipping your jeans. I can feel yourthrough the pants and you are so hard it feels like you are about to bust through them. I kiss my way to your belly button and kneel on the floor in front of you. Sliding your pants down your legs, I remove them and lick your hardness through your underwear. You put your hands in my hair to play with it while you watch me taste you. I finally remove your under pants, freeing your hard and it stands up, begging me to taste. I kiss it up and down the shaft using my hands to stroke up and down. I lick your balls, rolling them around with my tongue, feeling them tighten as you let out a moan. I reach around with my hands and massage your ass cheeks, pulling and kneading them and I suck up and down on your You arch your hips up towards my mouth making me suck you in farther. Letting my tongue slide up, I look up at you and tell you to tell me what you want me to do to your hard "Suck it" you tell me, "suck it all in and I'll fill your mouth with my cum" I smile at you and go back to sucking. You put your hand on the back of my head and grab a handful of hair. "Faster" you tell me and I obediently bob my head up and down your hard shaft. I concentrate on not letting my teeth hurt you as you throw your head back and moan. When you look back down at me I take all of you in my mouth and caress your balls with my hands. You can feel the head of yourat the back of my throat and feel me swallowing my saliva that is dripping out of my mouth making your hardness shine. I feel you tighten your gripe in my hair and you ask me if I am ready to have my mouth ed. I nod yes at you and get ready to swallow all of you. Your hand guides the back of my head as your thrust yourin and out of my mouth. I have no time to breathe just letting you pound in and out, feeling my tongue on the underside of youras you my face. You move faster and faster and call out my name. I moan in response and you can feel the vibration tingling up and down your Shoving my face down into your stomach, I can feel the head of yourthrobbing in the back of my throat and know you are getting ready to cum. I moan my encouragement and caress your balls a little more firmly. With a few more strokes I feel your balls tighten and feel the first stream of cum slide down my throat. I swallow and you keep pumping the rest of your hot cum, I swallow the best I can but a few drops escape out my mouth and run down my chin. When you are finished, you withdraw and look down at me. I lick my lips and clean around my mouth, then lick up any leftovers I find on your softening** I lay you back down on the bed, and crawl up beside you. You open your arms and I lay in them, and we fall asleep together.

Papillongirl

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How do you show your Lover you love her without buying her stuff Posted: 2/17/2006 4:37:08 PM
That is pretty easy actually Stick love notes where she will find them later (sweet, sappy, romantic, erotic..whatever) Do little things for her like if you stay over night make her breakfast, coffee, start the shower/bath for her Give her massages even if it's just the head, hands or feet Help her with something that is a "guy" job, like changing her oil, or spark plugs or painting the cabinets ect... Write her sweet emails just cause you are thinking of her or phone calls Tell one of her friends that you love her sooo much and describe something you love about her like her hair maybe, be descriptive and very specific and trust me the friend will tell her later (us girls talk about everything!!) Skip something you like to do, to do something with her that she likes (a sports game, ect) Most of all.. Tell her, tell her, tell her. Look into her eyes while doing so, and MEAN it. She'll know.

Papillongirl

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Have you ever paid to use a dating site? Posted: 2/17/2006 4:03:37 PM
nope never paid....I think POF is the best I've ever run across! I'm constantly telling people to sign up here. off topic...somone above mentioned eharmony LOL they COULDN'T find a suitable match for me wonder what that implies

Papillongirl

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I have spent years on this,and no answer Posted: 2/11/2006 3:11:10 PM
neither: the sperm was first

Papillongirl

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What's grosser than gross?.... Posted: 2/11/2006 3:09:50 PM
ugh....I wandered in here feeling ucky and now I'll leave feeling worse......gross OT:Unclogging the shit barrel.. where I work we have a septic to dispose of the dog feces, and it goes through a barrel and everynow and again it gets clogged and I'm usually the one that gets the job...... ugh.

Papillongirl

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has anyone had an effect on you even though u never met them? Posted: 2/6/2006 4:24:34 PM
yup I have had this happen with a few people over the net, and the ones I did meet, the good vibes carried over to "real life" Not that those relationships lasted forever, but for me, if there is something in email/chat/IM/webcam, then it's probably really there in "real" life.

Papillongirl

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Snowbirds from Canada! Posted: 2/5/2006 6:08:56 PM
In the area I'm in we don't get Canadian snowbirds but "northern" snowbirds mainly meaning New Yorkers ect....and yeah, they are the most anal, jerkiest(is that a word?) pain in the butts!! I DO NOT mean ALL of them! There are quite a few nice ones in the bunch, but yeah, everyone around here can't wait until winter ends and they go back home! Quite trying to change Florida into 'your' state, where you left it becuase you didn't like it in the first place! Sheesh!!! oh, and let me once again mention!!!! NOT everyone from up North is like this, I just happen to have some A-hole Northen neighbors so I'm venting.....

Papillongirl

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practical jokes played....by you or on you Posted: 2/3/2006 7:23:19 PM
My best friend and I saran wrapped the teachers toilets. We didn't find out until sometime later that the principal peed on his shoes......we hated that man.

Papillongirl

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Where did you meet your last boyfriend/girlfriend? Posted: 2/3/2006 7:00:03 PM
met my ex at Job Corps......and yes it was a disaster....

Papillongirl

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i questioned myself (once) Posted: 2/2/2006 8:54:49 PM
Wow, as I was reading your post I was thinking " he HAS to be a Scorpio" lol, but you're not...anyways, that sounds like something I would write/say, but would be to chicken to share. Back on topic...I read your profile and you sound like a great guy! Don't give up on what you think it should be like. I have been wondering and thinking the same thing lately. That when you fall in love it should be that sweep me off my feet, and totally romantic and perfect and well all that stuff that everyone swears up and down doesnt' exist. So tell me, if it doesn't exist and never happened, WHERE did the idea come from in the first place dammit!!! As you said, "to be overwhelmed for someone .. To feel that awe of breath ... Even for a moment within that relationship" well that's what I think love should be, an overwhelming longing ache for someone to be with them always and to feel complete with them in your life yet able to stand strong when they need you.. (hmm i think I could ramble too) Anways, I'm applauding your post cause yeah, you're not alone in this thinking HUGS cause you sound like you need one....

Papillongirl

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Single Dads -- especially sexy? Posted: 2/2/2006 1:06:36 PM
I agree that single Dads are awesome...that obviously isn't the most important aspect of what turns me on/off, or a prefrence, but I do have a special spot in my heart for them.. Especially if I'm out and about and you see a Dad with his kids. That really makes me smile, and to hear a guy brag on his kids is great! So go DADS

Papillongirl

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Awesome hairproducts? Posted: 1/30/2006 2:05:41 PM
Try FrizzEase products made by runs to bathroom to check John Freida....works great for frizz, defining curls and other stuff. I have super curly hair and I love it

Papillongirl

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Cool name for your kid? Posted: 1/30/2006 1:56:05 PM
Girls Names: Savannah Cheyanne Dakota Rose Aslynn Leilah Selah Boys Names:Isaac Jacob Cole Carson Micajah

Papillongirl

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What's your most embarrassing moment? Posted: 1/29/2006 6:13:46 AM
Mine so far was while in school. My father is a truck driver and every once in a while he would drive me to school in his rig before picking up the trailer and going to work. Of course, being kids, everyone thought this was to cool. On one day, I was all proud of the fact that I was going to school in Dad's truck and everyone would see. Well in our school, we wore uniforms which were skirts and a button up shirt. As I was getting out of the truck, I slipped and my skirt got stuck on the seats air lever. I was hanging there in the door, facing the WHOLE school with my skirt up around my neck. Needless to say, someone of course saw and shouted to the rest of the group "don't look" and everyone did.......yeah imagine what I heard the rest of the day... Moral of the story: Pride really does go before a fall.

Papillongirl

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I got hit on by a 14 year old....every happened to you??? Posted: 1/26/2006 6:20:51 PM
Actually I probably have your answer but it's pretty personal to me, so uh...... When i was around that age I had a lot of problems at home, no male figure or attention, or anything like that. In order to get the "attention" I felt I deserved, I flirted with older men, which, to make a long story shot, got me into trouble. At least you are turned off by in instead of encouraging it and making some child feel everything is her fault..umm anyways if you want more insight, write me and I'll tell you. But she may just be seeking something she thinks is lacking.

Papillongirl

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My embarressing oral question Posted: 1/22/2006 6:57:13 PM
Nope, no horns, and .......lol and my legs up in the air while he hold my ankles?? come on now.......we're not all Barbie with multi-flexing legs!! sheesh!....

Papillongirl

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My embarressing oral question Posted: 1/22/2006 6:39:58 PM
ok.... 1.relax 2. don't cross legs 3. don't cross legs 4" " and do whatever with hands.. does breathing have any part in this?? lol... Oh, and, guys, (or other girls) question: what doyou like a girl to do, while you are down there? What (besides the head slapping and ect.) are ways to communicate what is good/bad/ouch/stop...and so on? And thanks everyone for the education!!!

Papillongirl

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My embarressing oral question Posted: 1/22/2006 6:02:09 PM
thanks, i feel really really silly asking this....but oh well, nothing to lose but lots to learn

Papillongirl

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My embarressing oral question Posted: 1/22/2006 5:52:09 PM
Ok blush I've never been given oral sex. Never had a guy interested in doing so to me. Now I have someone who wants to do so, and I am excited/terriffied/scared, and a whole other range of emotions. So, my question is, what the hell happens? Well, besides the obvious, like, what do I do with my hands, and what's my body going to do. What if I'm not normal down there? (he says I am beautiful there). Is my body gonna make/do weird things? Help.....can any other woman tell me what happend the first time they had a man go down on them?

Papillongirl

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In Shell Shock!! Posted: 1/19/2006 3:28:40 PM
Hi matiki, I have empathy for you. I was in the (almost) exact situation about a year and a half ago. The difference being he wasn't(but close) my fiancee. To answer your first question about what do with your family, my advice is smile, nod, and go on. Listen to what they have to say, and seriously think about it, but realize that you have to live your own life too. Now, I am reading between the lines here in your post, and I think another question you may be asking yourself is "how do i go about HAVING my own life". It is really really hard to move on to your "own" life after sharing so many parts of it with another. I have now sat alone for almost 2 years trying to figure out who I am, and what I want, and what I need, and me me me...and yes, it is worth it. I concentrated on my work, my pets(get one or more) and what I wanted. Don't think about 3 months from now or more, think about today, now, this minute, what do I want. When you can do that the rest will come easier. As for your (ex?) fiancee, it is best to stop talking to them. Yeah, its hard. Been there, done that. I cried and cried. But this is about YOU now, not her, your family, or anyone else, just Y.O.U. And, by the way, when most or all the people you know have the same opinion, they are almost ALWAYS right... by the way, if you want a shoulder to cry on and more (probably unwanted) advice, write me. Like I said, I have experience on this one(for once)

Papillongirl

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Psychological attractions Posted: 1/18/2006 6:31:34 PM
I seem to be mostly attracted to men that are divorced with children. Somtimes I know this up front, sometimes later on as we become friends and are chatting. What is up with that? I'm 22, and seem to find men that are around 25-28 with kids more attractive than someone my age. So, someone please explain this.Anyone else finding this happening to them?

Papillongirl

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The Gifted One Posted: 1/17/2006 5:42:22 PM
I think the weirdest thing I have had happen was an email asking my how my feet smelled. Then he went into a graphic description about how they should smell feel and taste. I've heard of foot fetishes but come on........

Papillongirl

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Is it possible to fall in love with someone before meeting them in person? Posted: 1/17/2006 3:37:53 PM
In my personally based opinon, yes. I didn't say it out loud but I knew I was falling for a guy online, when we met, it was a sure thing. It didn't last forever, but what time I was with him I was in love. As for doing it again, now I am more cautious than before, but yeah, I belive it can happen as long as the persons involved are honest and true(does that happen anymore??) But that was me, not anyone else, so take it as you will.

Papillongirl

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Your view of the world... B&W or Gray? Posted: 1/6/2006 4:15:27 PM
I think I am more of a gray when it comes to looking at things from another person's view. I can see both sides of the story. As for myself, though, I think I have more Black and White views as to my personal beliefs. Such as, for me abortion would be wrong. No matter what. I would keep that baby. I understand that others may not feel that way, and that's ok. That's why we live in America(which people seem to be forgetting these days). So I guess I am an inbetweenie?? lol... (what's between black, white and gray?? )

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