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 Author Thread: Why do you think Sarah will not speak to the media?
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 275 (view)
 
Why do you think Sarah will not speak to the media?
Posted: 11/20/2008 10:01:43 PM
Yeah, I mean she's the gift that keeps on giving. This is... AMAZING.
***WARNING**** To animal lovers. Again, Sarah shows us all how clueless she is:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2008/11/20/sarah-palin-holds-news-co_n_145375.html

Wow... what IRONY!
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 50 (view)
 
How Bad is it for Republicans?
Posted: 11/20/2008 9:46:51 PM
UMM... its this bad. And people actually cast a vote for this woman. Amazing.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2008/11/20/sarah-palin-holds-news-co_n_145375.html
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 103 (view)
 
COLLEGE FOOTBALL SEASON
Posted: 11/16/2008 3:14:24 PM
FOR THE RECORD... Obama has said he plans on using his presidential weight to influence a PLAYOFF SYSTEM in college football!! HELL YEAH!! He said this on 60 minutes. I believe it airs tonight.
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 335 (view)
 
Prop 8 in california (state constitutional amendment defining marriage between a man and woman)
Posted: 11/14/2008 12:53:29 PM
SETTLEFORTHIS...


I really don't think i'm going to convince anyone who believes differently, so i'll save my breath.

Lets agree here. As this conversation can go on and on and on. I'm getting exhausted replying. I see your point crystal clear. However, there are a few fundamentals things we just simply have differing view points.
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 333 (view)
 
Prop 8 in california (state constitutional amendment defining marriage between a man and woman)
Posted: 11/14/2008 9:02:07 AM
NOMADIC...
I BELIEVE, NO ONE is BORN neither GAY nor STRAIGHT. Just like no one is BORN liking cheesecake, or apple pie or cookies, democrat, republican, Christian or Jew. We SEE something that looks appealing to us. That sends a signal to our brains PROMPTING a decision. Go after it or pass. Do or not do. Act or not act. Be apart of or not be apart of. NO ONE is FORCED by genetics or other wise to ACT upon A CHOICE or said feelings. This is undeniable. Just because we have a feeling - no matter how strong - toward something DOESN'T MEAN we HAVE to act upon it. If we conclude that one is born gay or straight, then we have to ALSO conclude that someone is BORN a democrat, republican, deviant, prone to violence, promiscuous, liking sports, being a giver, or helping people etc. Right out of the womb. I don't believe this. We are all responsible for the CHOICES we make. You are what you DO. Regardless of what you feel. Our actions based off of our choices, make up who we are.

Now here's why I PERSONALLY feel that people CHOOSE to live a homosexual lifestyle. Simply because they want to. The SAME sex APPEALS to them. Just like the OPPOSITE sex appeals to HETERO's. Period. Its a PREFERENCE. Some would argue that...


why would someone CHOOSE a lifestyle that they know could bring social stigma?

Because they want to. Over simplification? Perhaps. But lets ask why would someone choose a to become a fireman? Why would someone choose to cheat on a spouse or eat a certain food or SMOKE? Because they LIKE IT. Or like the benefits of said CHOICE. Because it APPEALS to them.

One thing I've learned is that ALL of us will at some point CHOOSE to ACT upon our feelings NO MATTER WHAT! If we have strong enough feelings toward something WE WILL ACT regardless of what ANYONE thinks, says, or the consequences. Of course not all the time but some of the time. Be it in our youth or as an adult or whenever.

Example, I absolutely LOVE Dreyer's flavored peanut butter and chocolate reeses cups Ice Cream. (Best ICE CREAM EVER!) I mean, LOVE IT. With Diet (I know diet ha) Root beer soda mixed. Literally one of my favorite things in the world to eat. I know that if I eat this as much as I WANT, I will literally be dead inside of a month. I love it THAT MUCH. Lol! So I MAKE a choice NOT to eat it. Now my CHOICE not to indulge is based off of health reasons etc. But in the past, many times I've said TO HELL WITH IT and went crazy consuming those quarts you see at the grocery store. Same as someone who chooses to ACT upon their impulses be it toward woman, a cigarette, drugs, food whatever. It all still comes down to a DECISION that we all make. This is why for me, I have a problem with the comparison of being BORN BLACK or FEMALE with being BORN GAY. I wasn't born having STRONG feelings toward being black. I just am. There's NO CHOICE involved. Same as you had no say in being a woman. People who live a homosexual lifestyle HAVE A SAY in the matter. Act or not act. Period.

Now regards to treating people EQUALLY. Just so I'm crystal clear. I do not in any way advocate treating someone different because of what THEY chose to do with their time in their privacy. This is none of my business. And I don't presume to judge either. Again, who am I to judge? I'm guilty of a whole host of crap so I have NO room to judge anybody on anything. BUT in regards to Marriage since the term ORIGINATED in the Bible when :


"The man said, "This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called 'woman, for she was taken out of man." For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his WIFE, and they will become one flesh. Genesis 2:23,24.
Emphasis mine.

Now wether you believe in the Bible or not is a whole other topic but the point I'm making is that the DEFINITION of what Marriage is has been DEFINED as between a man and woman at least as far back as when the Biblical documents were discovered and or written.
FROM MY understanding of the bill, Prop 8 wants to CHANGE that definition removing the specifics of man to woman. This is what those who voted YES on 8 were against. (All that junk about it being taught in schools to me was just rhetoric. ) The bill seemed to be simply an ATTEMPT at JUSTIFICATION of a CHOSEN LIFESTYLE. A social VALIDATION of a personal choice. Bottom line. Its to remove the stigma attached with the CHOICE being made. I've come to this conclusion because with Civil Unions, they have the same rights that "married" couples have. But they still feel... "UNEQUAL" because of the definition. And as I stated earlier in this thread, once we change what MARRIAGE is defined as, we water it down to basically a contract with NO sanctifying meaning. If anyone is allowed to marry ANYONE than the IDEA of marriage looses its meaning. In the same vein, slightly off topic, Barbara Walters has a special airing tonight about the "Pregnant man" (ridiculous) asking the question of "What is a man and what is a women?" Are we now going to try and redefine actual GENDER as well?! The fact that this question is even posed falls right in the realm of what was discussed earlier in this thread being the slippery slope. Changing FACTS to accommodate someone's CHOSEN LIFESTYLE. Politically correct gone amuck!

Summing this up, the definition of Marriage should remain just the way it is. That is between a man and a woman. If two people of the same sex want to come up with a different definition to justify their chosen lifestyle so be it. But don't change the one that has been defined as far back as the beginning of time. Just my honest opinion.
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 328 (view)
 
Prop 8 in california (state constitutional amendment defining marriage between a man and woman)
Posted: 11/13/2008 9:47:28 PM
NOMADIC... AS ALWAYS, your posts are always clear and pretty much dead on. For me at least, and I can speak for some of my friends and family, the thing that strikes us the most is the idea that SOMEONE'S ACTIONS puts them on par with the way someone is BORN. As I stated in an earlier post, discrimination of "Minorities, and Women" is something WE can't HELP, change, avoid, alter, or choose. Those who live a homosexual life style still have to DECIDE to engage in said lifestyle based on how they FEEL. Huge difference. I have yet to meet a black person who WAS NOT annoyed that there is a comparison between minority rights and gay rights. One is genetics, the other is a choice. Better stated, preference. Of course this is my and a few people I know opinion.
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 326 (view)
 
Prop 8 in california (state constitutional amendment defining marriage between a man and woman)
Posted: 11/13/2008 8:54:15 PM

Uhm I would say he understands the community far more than you think.

UMMMM... I would have to STRONGLY DISAGREE with this ridiculous statement. Unless, your A PART of that community, there's NO WAY you can possibly understand it.


I dont see anywhere in his statement that he thinks an "entire race" is doing this.

I DO. So, what your saying is you don't have a problem with this...

What's even more interesting about the black populace...

STRONG assumption starts here...

...a great number of black men indulge in what is called "On The Down-Low",

GREAT NUMBER OF BLACKMEN??!!!!! WHAT?!! How in the WORLD would YOU know this. How many BLACK MEN DO YOU personally know?!

where men have sex with other men, but it's ok, just because "It's Only Sex" and it's "Just between us Bro's".

OKAY, now your sounding STRONGLY like a BIGOT!

(Of course it's also responsible for a huge amount of unprotected sex, and then they go home and have sex with their girlfriends/wives unprotected and help to cause the epidemic proportion of HIV/AIDS among blacks...that part's not so funny)

Post some facts. In fact post some FACTS about ALL THIS!

So why would a population which has more hidden gay activity than any other vote against gay rights??

SUCH BULLSHIT! Dude, where are you getting this crap?! Black people FOR THE MOST PART are raised in a CHURCH environment, now of course some don't act like it but at their very core, they STRONGLY believe in the BIBLE. HENCE voting YES on prop 8. PERIOD. Get a civics lesson or take some racial tolerance classes.

I think his point is a very good one actually and to me it bolsters his credibility and knowledge about this issue and the community at large.

AGAIN, how would YOU guys KNOW THIS? Statistics?! Statistics say I should've been DEAD at 25! Look, I don't deny the whole "down-low" thing but to say stuff like "ENTIRE RACE', BLACK POPULACE, HUGE AMOUNT... HELP CAUSE THE EPIDEMIC PROPORTION... funny?!" Is ridiculous. I'm 100% that POSITIVE that MOST of my BROTHA'S and SISTA'S would take STRONG offense to such statements. Hell Eeezee was offended and he ain't even black!

Meet and talk with some black people first before you post GENERALIZATIONS about an entire community. Both of you!
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 13 (view)
 
John McCain the blame for his campaign failing not Palin
Posted: 11/13/2008 8:28:26 AM

She didn't even know the difference between a country and a continent.


That claim was already discredited which turned out to be a bogus. Get up to speed with the facts.


Um, no it wasn't. THE SOURCE was discredited. Not the FACTS of the actual story which came from someone inside the McCain camp.


Fox News won't be retracting Carl Cameron's original report about the Palin/Africa flap, because it did not come from Eisenstadt
Eisenstadt LIED about being the source for the story.


The hoax was limited to the identity of the source in the story about Palin _ not the Fox News story itself. While Palin has denied that she mistook Africa for a country, the veracity of that report was not put in question by the revelation that Eisenstadt is a phony.


"To be very clear, no, we were not the source for Carl Cameron and never spoke to him," Mirvish tells TVNewser. "We took credit for his anonymous sourcing. If they were going to be cowards, then we figured we may as well step in."


Bottom line. Palin, Africa info came from inside the McCain camp. The SOURCE for that claim has YET to be identified. The person WHO CLAIMED to be the source is identified as Eisenstadt and he LIED about being the actual source.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2008/11/13/msnbc-retracts-story-sour_n_143517.html
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Conservative Stars Vie for RNC Chair
Posted: 11/13/2008 8:10:00 AM
I THINK THIS sums up the Republican Party quite well...



SARAH PALIN WILL NEVER BE PRESIDENT-- TRUST ME

THE FUTURE OF THE REPUBLICAN PARTY (Additional title added by ME, because I think this is what this article is actually about)

The small smear of red on the otherwise blue electoral map looks more like a minor bloodstain on a dirty Band-Aid than anything resembling a national political party. Who voted for McCain/Palin in bigger numbers than they even voted for Bush/Cheney? Only one shrinking group: uneducated white folks in the deep south and a few folks in Appalachia. Take away the white no-college-backwoods-and/or-southern McCain/Palin vote and the Republicans would have been approaching single digit electoral college oblivion.

Sarah Palin will never hold national office nor will any Republican at the presidential level for a long time to come. Why? Because America has uneducated jerks in it but is not a nation of uneducated jerks. The Republicans are done, hoisted on the petard of their own "southern strategy."

The Republican Party is only a step away from becoming the fringe of the fringe, identified more with cross-burning weirdoes wearing hoods, folks like the Alaska secessionist party, all those gun owners stocking up on assault weapons before the "Socialist/United Nations/Obama/Muslim" conspiracy comes to fruition, than with anything remotely like a serious national political force.

The Republican Party--and I speak as a former lifelong Republican who, up through the 2000 primary campaign supported John McCain and even worked for him by arguing his case on various conservative and religious radio stations--is now the toy of the Rush Limbaugh windbags. These folks include outright crazies (such as Sarah Palin's Assemblies of God pals who are waiting for Spaceship Jesus to rescue them and/or rooting out "witches" from their midst), white racists and a few not-very-bright attention seekers, including Ann Coulter, Sean Hannity etc.

Read their blogs! Listen to their talk radio! You'll be in the twilight zone of front page tabloid fantasy on a par with Bat Boy Attacks! headlines. Bill Buckley roll over.

The Religious Right, the racists, the anti-gay hate-mongers are now not only marginalized but thoroughly out of step with even members of their own former constituency. For instance the Gordon College student newspaper (Gordon is an influential Evangelical College north of Boston) endorsed Obama this year. Many young evangelicals voted for the Democrats. James Dobson, Fox News, Limbaugh et al. were utterly powerless to do more than stir up hate. They are losing the next generation of their "base."

Meanwhile many former Republicans--like me--ran to Obama as fast as our legs could carry us and away from our willfully "we're not an elite" moronic former party. Republican commentators such as David Brooks and George Will mourned the loss of the Republican center. Others noted the Republicans have become anti-intellectual. "Anti-intellectual?" They wish! How about simply anti-literate?

Meanwhile the fringe of the fringe is holding meetings where they'll talk to themselves and look at the "facts" of their alternative universe in order to figure out "what went wrong." These are the same "leaders" (like William Kristal) who think Sarah Palin has a big political future!

Sarah Palin will never be president because the right wing of the Republican Party has perfected the art of believing their own bullshit, starting with the idea that is-Africa-a-country-or-a-continent?-Palin has a future. Palin and her fans don't know it yet, but having reduced itself to a grim angry joke, the Republican Party has also divorced itself from American politics and, along with that dirty used Band-Aid, is destined for the garbage can.

What's the best defense against the rube/Palin voters derailing the Republican Party forever? If the statistics of who voted for whom are correct, the education of white people in the deep South and their economic empowerment is the best answer. Maybe it will take a black Democratic president to figure out some affirmative action program that can get our southern born-again white underclass into colleges and thereby save the Republican party.


I think this about sums up the future of the Republican party. Someone on these boards noted during the about a month back, the correlation between the Republican base and lack of education. This article does a damn good job of detailing what republicans need to do in the future. If they have a future.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/frank-schaeffer/sarah-palin-will-never-be_b_143036.html
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 318 (view)
 
Prop 8 in california (state constitutional amendment defining marriage between a man and woman)
Posted: 11/12/2008 4:27:29 PM

IMHO, It’s probably time to redefine the meaning of marriage.

Marriage = A “Religious” sanctioning of a union between a Man & Women, (as it currently is) done ‘ONLY’ by a ‘church/religious official’ & recognized by the Govt. for the purpose of taxation and other perceived benefits.

Civil contracts = an official “Non-Religious” joining of whoever or whatever that wish to be joined together (done by a Justice of the Peace, or even a county clerk) and legally recognized by the Govt. for the purpose of taxation and the other perceived benefits of marriage.

This would leave it up to individual religions to grapple with the problem thus removing the Govt. out of the argument, as the Govt. would see both as simply civil contracts that are equal under the law the only real difference would be where the ceremony took place, thus avoiding the separate but equal arguments currently being used.

So Catholics could say, No Way, not in my church.
But Some Presbyterians could be ok with it. Ect….

Of course that would be too easy and make too much common sense.

PERFECT!!!
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 1010 (view)
 
Over for Mccain?
Posted: 11/10/2008 12:23:39 AM
DANCE...

The black man will be the one to change more then any of us ~ his excuse to underacheive is gone. He now be da man. No more a victim of life circumstances. Perhaps with new found hope and instilling of personal responsibilities and family conmittment ~ our jail population will start to thin out. ~ That always been a hudge load for socity to carry.


THIS is what the MAJORITY of my BROTHA'S and SISTA'S are hoping for. I can't tell you since tuesday how many times I've had this discussion. This is THE HOPE! Obama's presidency puts a MUCH NEEDED BURDEN on US in the black community which is...
GET YOUR SHIT TOGETHER! No more excuses!! This has been preached in the black community since Martin and Malcolm. But was always coupled with the REALITY of racism. Example: I had a friend tell me when I was accepted into a pretty prestigious college that I was WASTING MY TIME and MONEY going to college. WHY? Because and "The white man ain't gone give you a job ANYWAY! No matter HOW good your grades are. Period. THEY NEVER want a black person to advance, because they are afraid we might take over and do what they did to us. So, why bother." Suffice to say I was saddened and pissed at this defeatist attitude. But believe it or not thats what a lot of black folk INHERENTLY felt. See, in our community, if one person sees that someone else can do it be it sports, medicine, entertainment and now POLITICS its an IMMEDIATELY engrained REALITY. Oh shit, if he can do it, so can I!!

The tears seen by black news anchors and entertainers was a RELIEF and SHOCK that WHITE AMERICAN did the RIGHT THING for the RIGHT REASON which is LOOK PAST RACE and chose the BEST MAN FOR THE JOB. Its still, pretty overwhelming... the LOVE witnessed world wide brings tears to my eyes even now. 60% of white America said, this is the best man for the job. Wow... everyone should be EXTREMELY PROUD. EVERYONE!

None of us saw this coming. All my friends, family members etc... not one of us IMAGINED we'd see in our life time a black president. Simply didn't think it was possible. NOW that we have seen it come to pass the BURDEN has shifted RIGHTFULLY so to US as a community to get up and strive to be the best we can be.
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 277 (view)
 
Prop 8 in california (state constitutional amendment defining marriage between a man and woman)
Posted: 11/9/2008 11:46:09 PM

Why not get government out of the marrying business? Let faiths do the marrying, government endorse civil unions. From a legal perspective, why not just let any two people declare themselves a 'union' and enjoy all the tax, inheritance, etc.... benefits any married couple can. The sexual aspects just shouldn't be an issue. There are plenty of sexless conventional marriages out there. If I wanted to link myself legally to my best friend, why not let me do that? Whatever does or doesn't happen behind closed doors is NOT the government's business, so long as no one is being abused.


AGREED 100%. BUT, I thought this was already the case, no? This is what confused me a bit. I THOUGHT this is exactly what they were arguing about with civil unions. It was pointed out to me earlier in this thread that THIS is what is already done. It was also pointed out that the issue was being CONSIDERED EQUAL by legally changing the definition of what marriage is. THIS is what most people are against. Its CHANGING THAT DEFINITION be it literally or figuratively. Its redefining the idea of marriage.
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 269 (view)
 
Prop 8 in california (state constitutional amendment defining marriage between a man and woman)
Posted: 11/9/2008 7:43:49 PM
RAYZRSHARP WROTE :

The question with me as I've stated before is where do WE as a society draw the line."

SETTLE FOR THIS RESPONDED:

And this question was already answered before you asked it: The court has said that the line is crossed when the rights of one individual or group supercede the rights of another individual or group.

Okay, fair enough. Again lets agree with the court here. ONCE AGAIN, if a group of people DECIDE hey, I WANT TO MARRY such and such, and the courts say okay. WHERE DO WE DRAW THE LINE? I know where YOU stand but as a whole... if you had a son or daughter or both and at some point one wanted to marry a 2nd or third cousin would you support it ? Or would you be against it? If not, why? If so, why? Do we really want to say as a society: "Hey, do whatever you want as long as it doesn't hurt me or anyone else, I'm cool with it?" Do we really want to say that? People will push the limits of absolutely EVERYTHING

Actually this question is for those who support Gay marriage.
Would you support someone in their late twenties marrying a young woman of age 14? Its legal in other countries. Hell, its NORMAL in other countries. Again, I don't care WHAT the courts say. If they agree to lift a ban on prop 8 EVERYONE as to agree that ANYONE can be married. ANYONE can decide they want the rights as those who are married. And once again, if we go down this road it makes the whole idea of MARRIAGE MOOT. It doesn't make it SPECIAL anymore. To anyone!

Regarding slippery slope, I found this interesting:
http://archive.newsmax.com/archives/articles/2004/9/23/94446.shtml
Now, this article is ridiculous but my point is that there are PEOPLE OUT THERE who would TRY and argue such a thing using the basis of gay marriage as their starting point. Do we really want to see this fight?
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 268 (view)
 
Prop 8 in california (state constitutional amendment defining marriage between a man and woman)
Posted: 11/9/2008 7:18:08 PM
LASS...
You've proven here that you can see beyond the liberal view to the issue itself and I think that is so important because there are many issues that demand the ability to think independently of a party.

Uh oh, I know I'm in trouble if Lass is agreeing with me. Um, I change my mind. I support gay marriage. LOL!

Seriously, Lass, people are complex. Never assume that because someone thinks one way on one thing that they'll think the same on another.

I'm not giving you praise because you're agreeing with my stance on this issue, but because you've proven to me that you are not just another liberal mouth piece that doesn't think but goes along with the party.

While I thank you for you kind words, I do have to say that MOST liberals or those who call themselves liberals don't share the same views on every issue. Its impossible. I work in HOLLYWOOD, probably the most liberal place in this country. And YOU would be SHOCKED to find conservatives, and liberals thinking alike on a LOT of issues. Everything comes down to the individual. What they believe or don't believe. Want or don't want. Period. But thank you.

Now, here's what I've learned. Again, ME PERSONALLY, is that although I might not agree with someone's life style, I make it a POINT not to judge. Or try very, very hard not to. I'll either keep my mouth shut or speak when asked SPECIFICALLY what my view point is on said issue. I work with and know quite a few gay people and I've always and will continue to treat them completely equal. Some even know my stance because they've asked. And when I explained it to them, their response was NEVER SAW IT THAT WAY. And I always try and come from a place that removes RELIGION from the equation because I know most don't believe the way I do. But it never changed our friendship. And when asked did they have a choice ultimately, they ALLL agreed that YES it was a choice. Every single one of them. They argued that they had feelings as far back as they could remember but couldn't DENY that at some point, they CHOSE to give in to they're feelings. Some even say they can't help it. This is where compassion comes in. This is where I got the SHIT checked out of me in regards to treating people equal. People deal with a lot of stuff in a lot of different ways. So, I've learned to TRY and have compassion for them and see it from their point of view, instead of calling their behavior deviant or whatever. That just adds fuel to the fire and doesn't help anyone on either side.
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 262 (view)
 
Prop 8 in california (state constitutional amendment defining marriage between a man and woman)
Posted: 11/9/2008 6:26:00 PM

As far as marrying your sister, or five other people, or really any other consenting adult........unless someone can prove that it will negatively affect others, go for it.

Okay. This is all I wanted to know. Question is how many people in this country would be willing to be so open about this as you? I believe those who are AGAINST gay marriage would draw the line somewhere. Thus sparking the same arguments that are being made now.


By the way, the reason that we currently don't allow it is because of the possible genetic risk to any child they may concieve. Marrying your sister / cousin was widely accepted until the last few hundred years, so this is possibly one of the worst 'slippery slope' arguments that you could have chosen. It's even in the bible......as is polygamy.

Worst? Doesn't matter as the point was where would WE as a society draw the line. (I'm getting tired of typing that line.)
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 261 (view)
 
Prop 8 in california (state constitutional amendment defining marriage between a man and woman)
Posted: 11/9/2008 6:14:26 PM
SETTLEFORTHIS...

Bingo. Marriage does not equal procreation. If we assume that procreation is necessary, and we are going to remove the ability for two individuals to marry because they are not able to biologically have children with eachother, then we must logically remove marriage for heterosexual people who are infertile.


Haha... you went EXACTLY where I didn't want you to go. Thats specifically WHY I put that in parenthesis. This is a whole other issues that frankly, I can't delve into without spending an HOUR posting.


I disagree both in principle and in practice. Like above, I don't agree that marriage is necessary or even intended to increase procreation.

I wasn't suggesting that it does.


Even if it is intended to increase procreation, the fact that we have so many single mothers should make it plainly obvious that we DO NOT have a lack of procreation currently occuring. So why are we encouraging population increase anyway?

Hey, nothing wrong with more people on earth. The more the merrier. Tongue FIRMLY planted in cheek. Again, whole other issue that spins off into another area.


I also don't see allowing gays to marry as causing a decrease in the amount of overrall births either.

I see your point and I don't believe that this is the question. The question with me as I've stated before is where do WE as a society draw the line.
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 258 (view)
 
Prop 8 in california (state constitutional amendment defining marriage between a man and woman)
Posted: 11/9/2008 5:53:35 PM
GEELEEBEE...

What does it take away from another person if same-sex marriage is made legal?

Its not that it takes away from another person. Because it doesn't. Technically. Its where do we draw the line?
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 257 (view)
 
Prop 8 in california (state constitutional amendment defining marriage between a man and woman)
Posted: 11/9/2008 5:49:57 PM
CHARLE... I COMPLETELY SEE YOUR POINT... bottom line is this. How far do we want to go? Where do YOU want to draw the line? Again, lets agree and say okay, LIFT BAN ON GAY MARRIAGE. Would you have a problem with me marrying MY SISTER?
Yes or no? Because, I pretty damn sure someone or something similar would be up next to the courts.



Rayz, in spite of all your hard work presenting your case ~ your argument is a moral/religious one and laws and civil rights are not based on that.


Not necessarily (re: civil rights) . See, NOBODY can discriminate against someone who is gay UNLESS YOU KNOW THEY ARE GAY. And aside from stereotypes seen in those who are gay, how would anyone know what they choose to do in the privacy of their bedrooms UNLESS they speak out about it. So to me, civil rights DONT APPLY. With race and gender people can see you coming a mile away and discriminate against such not knowing ANYTHING about them. So again, gay rights TO ME are not about civil rights.



It is not about nature vs. nurture and why gay people are gay. Judges don't make rulings based on whether or not they approve of the gay lifestyle. Once you can see that, maybe you will be able to see the issue from another perspective.

I'm not suggesting they do but one can't be separated from the other. See response above.



I think pornography is disgusting, immoral, and wrong on many levels, yet it is legal. What two consenting adults do is not for anyone else to dictate as long as they're not hurting anyone else.

Agreed.


There are already laws on the books making it illegal to discriminate against others on the basis of race, age, disability, national origin, gender, and sexual orientation in the workplace.


Don't have a problem with this at all. Because NONE of these things has to do with wether one can perform the job or not.


So do you think it's ok for employers to deny qualified people a job or terminate them because they're gay and the employer thinks homosexuality is immoral? If not, how is that any different than denying them the fundamental right to marry ~ from a LEGAL standpoint, NOT a religious or moral one?


Major difference! One has to do with making a living, feeding your family. The other has to do with being SOCIALLY and LEGALLY ACCEPTED based off of a LIFESTYLE CHOICE. Period. Again, can I marry my sister?


Moral outrage and religious objection are not legal grounds for discrimination and they never will be. Approval or disapproval of the choices other people make in their lives are not legal grounds for discrimination either.

Agreed. Look, what someone does in their bedroom is their business. And I could honestly careless what happens there. None of my business.


It doesn't matter if you think gay people are born that way or if they choose to live that lifestyle (which is hogwash, by the way), or if they could "fix" it, etc. That is not what laws are based on.


Why is it hogwash? You are what you DO. Let me ask you this... if you had dreams since you were a little girl of being a pianist BUT NEVER practiced it or took piano lessons but always dreamt about it would that make you a pianist? No. Why? Because you never acted upon YOUR FEELING, desire, or dream. No one can be predisposed to a DECISION at birth. I can't be born liking chocolate chip cookies. Just like someone can't be born NOT liking chocolate chip cookies. We see something that LOOKS appealing to us which illicits feelings which we at some point CHOOSE to act or NOT act upon said feelings. Regarding FIXING IT, well... again a CHOICE is made wether ONE feels this is something they need to fix. Those who DONT feel they are broken, don't need to be fixed. Those who feel they ARE broken (lack of a better word) do feel they need to be fixed. (Of course due to societal pressures etc.) This is an individual thing that I have no right, business or say in how they feel or not.



And no, nobody is asking you to accept anything.

Again, SURE THEY ARE. They want the LEGAL right to marry in order to be considered ACCEPTED as NORMAL. This is FACT. Otherwise they would be perfectly fine with civil unions. Again, you yourself pointed this out saying its about being CONSIDERED EQUAL.



People who support equal rights for all citizens are simply saying that whether you agree and accept them or not, you do not have the right to discriminate against them. I don't know why people are so incapable of seeing that simple reality.


Okay, Char, based off of that logic I ask for a THIRD TIME... where would YOU draw the line? All citizens, including those who want to MARRY ANYONE THEY WANT, RIGHT? Where will WE draw the line? Thats the bottom line of this whole thing. Take out religion and everything because you and I both know that SOMEBODY at SOME POINT will have the BALLS, GUMPTION and COURAGE to bring before the court a RIGHT to marry WHO EVER THEY WANT regardless of what society thinks. Again, its a very, dangerous slippery slope. Are we ready to go down that rabbit hole is the question.
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 254 (view)
 
Prop 8 in california (state constitutional amendment defining marriage between a man and woman)
Posted: 11/9/2008 5:23:38 PM

I agree, it is a decicion to act on what you feel. It is just as much a decision to act on homosexual desires as it is to act on heterosexual desires. So at the risk of implying that you are sounding like a bigot.......are you saying that one 'lifestyle choice' is better or more deserving of legal recognition?

Well, again lets think this out. What happens when TWO PEOPLE of the same sex have sex?
Nothing. Life can't be reproduced from such a union. (Of course this doesn't imply that those who get married get married to procreate) Now with regards to the legality of it all, as Charlemagne pointed out in an earlier post, correct me if I'm wrong, the argument isn't for LEGAL rights because they ALREADY have these rights from civil union laws right? Its to be considered EQUAL from what my understanding is. Not to be considered 2nd class citizens.

Now based off of wether one can naturally reproduce another human being one can argue that YES one is deserving of more legal recognition because MORE is at "stake" lack of a better word. (Of course this does not apply to those who are physically unable to reproduce.)


I guess first we would have to ask whether people are born straight or not, right? See personally, I don't care if straight people are born that way because as long as straight people getting married doesn't hurt me or anyone else......why try to outlaw what two willing adult participants engage in?

I don't think anyone is trying to OUTLAW what someone does in the privacy of their own bedrooms. The issues is one group wanting to be considered on EQUAL PAR SOCIALLY thru a court ruling, with those who are MARRIED. Thus legitimizing a CHOSEN LIFESTYLE. Do we all want to open that door to other areas? Even those who support gay marriage would ultimately want to draw the line somewhere if other groups of people started fighting for THEIR right to be married too.

Again, I'm ATTEMPTING to see this from both sides. And admittedly its difficult. But when I try and break everything down to its essence I keep coming back to how far do we want to go? Where do we draw the line?
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 251 (view)
 
Prop 8 in california (state constitutional amendment defining marriage between a man and woman)
Posted: 11/9/2008 4:50:05 PM

Legally speaking there was no definition to marriage until religious people tried to force one.

Is there evidence ANYONE can point to for this?


Rayz, nobody is asking you or anyone else to agree with their lifestyle...

Chare, sure they are. This whole issues is based on that. For if it weren't there would be nothing to discuss. It wouldn't even be a topic at all. You yourself said its about EQUALITY. Equality in the way one practices a LIFESTYLE. Let me clarify, its not DIRECTLY asking one to agree with a lifestyle BUT whats being fought is ACCEPTANCE as NORMAL is a lifestyle. Either way, its a lifestyle were talking about. Now, agree or not its an ATTEMPT to be considered EQUAL based off of a LIFESTYLE CHOICE. Not an inherent unchangeable thing like race or gender.



... nature vs. nurture attributes of homosexuality. That isn't what Proposition 8 is about. It is about civil rights, period.

Again, Char, the essence of this whole issues is comes down to the "Nature" aspect. Here's what I believe most Minorities have a problem with in regards to "Civil Rights" for people who live a homosexual lifestyle. The whole idea of civil rights was based on EQUALITY because of RACE or GENDER. Things NOBODY has ANY CONTROL over. This can't be said for those who live a homosexual lifestyle. Because bottom line at some point regardless of how one feels a DECISION- CHOICE was made to live the life style. Prop 8 from my understanding as mentioned before ATTEMPTS to legitimize that life style by making it on PAR with what is now considered NORMAL MARRIAGE between a man and a woman. There is absolutely no comparison between the struggle for equality between someone of color and someone who LIVES a certain life style. Nor can there ever be.

And even though I RARELY if ever agree with LASS (sorry Lass, haha couldn't help it) , its hard to argue for such a proposal because like I mentioned before where does it stop? Now, I'm trying to view this REMOVING religious goggles. Lets think this out for a second...

Lets say the NO vote on prop 8 passed. And the definition of marriage between a man and a woman is now between TWO PEOPLE.
Would this same group have an issue with ME wanting to MARRY my sister in order to share the same benefits as those who are MARRIED? This is a simple yes or no answer. Lets explore both answers.

---If the answer is NO one WOULD NOT have a problem with me wanting to marry my sister than we HAVE TO ASK where do we draw the line. OR do we draw a line at all? If we DO draw the line, one again can argue discrimination where ever that line would be drawn. Can I now marry my brother? Best friend? Multiple wives etc?

---Now if the answer is YES one WOULD have a problem with me wanting to marry my sister. Then we'd have to ask WHY? This would then take us right back into the same MORAL argument that those who practice a homosexual lifestyle are making now. Why CANT I marry my sister. I love her with all my heart mind body and soul. Who cares what people think, she's my sister and I love her. Your discriminating against ME because of YOUR beliefs that me and MY SISTER can't get married. Your INFRINGING ON MY way of life.

So you see, I think we run into an INEVITABLE situation where we would most certainly find ourselves going down a deep, deep rabbit hole of questions that ULTIMATELY would make the whole idea of marriage moot. A simple business contract in order to share in tax benefits and whatever else comes with being married. Both good and bad.

So we- ALL of us would have to ask ourselves where do we want to draw the line? Do we say NO on PROP 8 allowing ANYONE who LOVES someone regardless of background, morality, social views etc to be "Married?" Or do we simply leave the definition where it is?

NOTE: Those who would argue this isn't realistic, I would say SURE IT IS. In my 37 years of life, I have come to learn that no matter how wrong, dangerous, vile, gross, incomprehensible something is, somebody, somewhere will fight tooth and nail in order to indulge and subsequently RATIONALIZE it and ATTEMPT to make it NORMAL in the eyes of most of society. That's a fact.
Wether we agree on moral ground or not, we ALL have to draw a line in the sand SOMEWHERE or we would as a society find ourselves in a place where morality would mean absolutely nothing anymore. Are we ready as a whole (society) to adopt this mind set:

"Hey, do whatever you want to do so long as it doesn't affect me directly or indirectly." Definitely a slippery slope.

 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 11 (view)
 
A Note from an Honest Republican
Posted: 11/9/2008 2:15:34 PM
JUST WANT TO ADD.. AWESOME POST!! Best post in these forums I've seen in a LONG, LONG TIME! Sums up exactly what a bunch of us have been trying to say for the longest time. I shall save the original post in the form a PDF to pass on to my REPUBLICAN FRIENDS. Again, GREAT POST!
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 234 (view)
 
Prop 8 in california (state constitutional amendment defining marriage between a man and woman)
Posted: 11/9/2008 2:08:13 PM
THANKS CHARLEMAGNE, appreciate the info... so let me get this straight (no pun intended)


This, for them, is about not being treated like a second class citizen by calling their marriages "civil unions" or whatever other label they're grudgingly offered. They deserve equal civil rights under the law, period. The only "agenda" they're pushing for is freakin' equality. How dare they...


Equality, hmm... so gay couples want the right to be considered the SAME as HETERO couples under the SAME DEFINITION OF MARRIAGE? Is this right? If this is the case, whats being advocated is CHANGING what the definition of MARRIAGE has meant from being a union between a man and a woman to a union between... TWO PEOPLE? If this is the case, than can TWO PEOPLE from ANY background i.e. brother and sister, cousins, friends, associates can get MARRIED TOO? Would there be provisions that say TWO PEOPLE from the SAME FAMILY can't be married? If this is the case, wouldn't this in itself be discriminatory as well? If this is the case, than doesn't this negate the whole idea of MARRIAGE? It seems that whats happening from my understanding is that GAY COUPLES want to CHANGE what MARRIAGE MEANS from Man to Woman to just TWO PEOPLE in order to... I guess, VALIDATE the lifestyle. LEGITIMIZE it if you will.

With the risk of sounding like a bigot, it seems whats being argued is EQUALITY for a LIFESTYLE DECISION. I say decision because at some point each and every person has to make a choice wether to act upon what you feel or not. This is completely different from a racial or gender issue for obvious reasons. Hmm... seems like a rabbit hole of questions that can spring up from this.
In essence, its definitely a slippery slope that eventually TO ME, negates marriage entirely. In other words, waters it down to... a business proposal (contract). There's something at the heart of this that is being COMPLETELY ignored or over looked. And the question seems to be is one born gay or not. (this last question is for a whole other thread entirely).
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 68 (view)
 
Ralph Nader Drops Uncle Tom Bomb
Posted: 11/9/2008 12:46:22 PM

He really does have some psychological attention-craving disorder, the end. The man has saved countless lives over the decades by advocating for safer automobiles, cleaner air, water, and food, worker safety regulations, and most importantly the election of George W. Bush. Now he’s just some crazy racist losing an argument to a relatively mild-mannered Fox News anchor.


AGREED. I've often thought of Nadar was what I call an INTELLIGENT IDIOT. Because of his PSYCHOLOGICAL ATTENTION CRAVING DISORDER... he can NEVER be taken serious. Maybe he doesn't want to be taken serious. He just wants to stir the pot.
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 232 (view)
 
Prop 8 in california (state constitutional amendment defining marriage between a man and woman)
Posted: 11/9/2008 12:42:09 PM
SOMEONE HELP ME OUT WITH THIS... I'm confused on somethings... not really up on the DETAILS of this subject so forgive my ignorance.

Actually, it's about giving people the right to be with a loved one in case of emergency...

I don't understand this. Is this implying or saying that if a "partner" is injured or hurt, that the other person CAN'T VISIT THEM? If so, why not? I've visited, my best friends SISTER when she was ill. My mom visited church members who were ill and spent HOURS with them. So, I'm always confused about why people can't visit other people in the hospital. And if this is a rule for hospitals, shouldn't this RULE be objected to? I'm completely blurry on this.


...protecting their loved ones in the case of death that might eventually be put out on the street while family members squabble over an estate.

This really boggles me. If two people love each other and are committed to getting married. Can't one or the other simply draw up a will and STATE where and who they want their belongings to go to? I mean people leave shit to cats and dogs. So I never understood this. I can do a WILL and leave everything to ANYBODY I want so why can't this be done for a gay couple? Is there something I'm missing here?
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Who Might Be on an Obama Cabinet?
Posted: 11/8/2008 7:48:29 AM
THIS IS WHY I'M personally filled with soooo much hope for this administration. They created a cool website that ASK THE PEOPLE what it is they would like changed. Sort of like an administrative SUGGESTION BOX! The website is:
CHANGE.GOV

Very cool. Its SUPPOSED to be a transparent look at how they'll do things. Say what you will but doing something like this SUGGEST they are OPEN to being ACCOUNTABLE to US- THE PEOPLE!

I like the way these guys are thinking! Intelligence in office... FINALLY! We'll see what they'll actually do but this to me is a great start.
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 42 (view)
 
The 2nd Amendment & Obama
Posted: 11/7/2008 12:25:03 PM
MUSICIANFRIEND... what are you sooooooo afraid of? You write Bye bye country, then LEAVE! Then you say the Bible predicated these things. Then if thats the case YOU SHOULD BE HAPPY! That Gods word is TRUE! So why all the PANIC and FEAR?
The Bible says:
"For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind."
Do you not take God at his word? If your experiencing fear, it ain't from God!
So relax.
Geez... enjoy playing your music and focus on that instead panicking that Obama is going to BLOWUP the UNITED STATES. No matter how much you believe thats what he's going to do, its not going to happen. Oh by the way, show me in the Bible where it says OBAMA is going to send this country bye bye. Ridiculous. How do you leave the house being so afraid.
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 40 (view)
 
The 2nd Amendment & Obama
Posted: 11/7/2008 10:33:27 AM

with us leaving Iraq immediately when he gets in january
I have guns to hide
and when terrorists come attacking the US, i'll have my rifle and handgun ready.
I'll be prepared if someone breaks in, and there are still jury's, and I would be appealing till i got to supreme court if I got in trouble for shooting someone in MY house because I felt my life was at risk.


PURE CONCENTRATED, UNADULTERATED
FEAR!!
F alse
E vidence
A round
R eality

People who live operate and make decision based on fear is the worst thing one can do. Its sad. Its the essence of every problem we have in society. Very, very sad.
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 54 (view)
 
It's over Obama has won
Posted: 11/6/2008 9:20:59 AM

I've got no problem with Obama being president, he's a fairly intelligent guy, but he's horribly underqualified (most underqualified candidate for President in my lifetime)


Well, all I have to say is that based off of the details coming out about how efficient well organized and focused he ran his campaign, I'm EXTREMELY CONFIDENT that he'll be not just a good president but A GREAT PRESIDENT! The man is extremely intelligent, focused and determined and more importantly he has the good sense to surround himself by other intelligent, organized and focused individuals.
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 156 (view)
 
Elizabeth Dole: Lying Trash.
Posted: 11/6/2008 8:53:26 AM
LASS...

Throwing out those who are corrupt, who lie, cheat, and steal? Our new president elect is guilty of all of these things and we've proven it with the articles on soft money contributions and the breaking of his word on campaign finance, the absolute destruction of campaign finance through his attempt to buy the presidency, which was also successful. Yup..real moral guy, that one.


Wow... Lass. What's disturbing about you, is you pick and CHOOSE what YOU WANT TO BELIEVE. You consistently DUCK and DODGE FACTS. Posting so-called sources from the most biased of websites. If EVERYTHING you say about Obama were true, then how come camp McCain didn't use this stuff to their advantage? How come the 527's didn't use this stuff to their advantage? How come NO FEDERAL INVESTIGATION was being conducted? How come the WHOLE GOP just let ALLL THIS SO CALLED proof that YOU HAVE fall by the way side. Ridiculous. The reason? BECAUSE ITS NOT TRUE! If it were true don't you think every member of the republican party would have TRIED to use all this NO-EXISTENT PROOF you claim to have via "articles"? I mean seriously, look at the reality here... a BLACKMAN running for president IN THIS COUNTRY with a LYING STEALING CHEATING CORRUPT background skirted by EVERY SINGLE state and federal agency in the UNITED STATES to become elected president. If this were all true than HE DESERVES to be president with skills like that. Regarding morality. He who is without sin cast the first stone.


...it must be really weird for a Christian to actually defend those who have absolutely no belief in God, who make fun of and defame His name, outright corruption and lies, the murder of unborn children, gay marriage, and whatever else you're planning to stoop to supporting next.

Um.. PLEASE tell me who is this person you speak of?
WHO:
1. Doesn't believe in God that I support?
2. Who makes fun and defames his name outright that support?
3. Who is corrupt and lies that you have HARD FACTS to prove your claims that I support?
4. Who MURDERS the unborn children that I support?
5. Who supports gay marriage that I support?

Boy, seriously, do you NOT read your Bible at ALL? Who did Christ hang around, minister to, and associate with?

While Jesus was having dinner at Matthew's house, many tax collectors and "sinners" came and ate with him and his disciples. 11When the Pharisees saw this, they asked his disciples, "Why does your teacher eat with tax collectors and 'sinners'?"
12On hearing this, Jesus said, "It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. 13But go and learn what this means: 'I desire mercy, not sacrifice.'[a] For I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners."


You are becoming dangerously unhinged with your claims. YOU DONT KNOW ME LASS. You don't know HOW I conduct my life AT ALL. So for you to ASSUME how I live is completely offensive and rude.
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 48 (view)
 
It's over Obama has won
Posted: 11/5/2008 9:30:46 PM
^^^^^AND GUESS WHAT BIKEMAN... he is NOW YOUR PRESIDENT. Deal with it. Question, have you seen the future? How do you know he's NOT A CHANGE AGENT? His win is INSTANT CHANGE. Last night wiped out the notion that this country CANT LOOK PAST RACE. And we did. And that BIKEMAN is HUUUUUGGE! Maybe not to you, but to Millions GLOBALLY. Nobody, but insanely ignorant people, believe that he can be everything for everybody. Intelligent folk don't believe that at all.
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 144 (view)
 
Elizabeth Dole: Lying Trash.
Posted: 11/5/2008 9:19:03 PM
LASS...
His behavior seemed to be rather "harsh" from my perspective.
This is in reference to your comment about Jesus over turning the money changers.

Umm, I take it your not serious with this statement. But just in case you are, the reason Jesus overturned the money changers was that
they were RIPPING OFF THE POOR. They would OVER CHARGE for offerings (such as pigeons, other sacrificial items, used in ceremonial sacrifice etc.) and charge them exuberant prices (for said sacrificial animals) ESPECIALLY during passover festival when the money changers KNEW thousands would flock to the city to atone for their sins. So, Jesus was OUTRAGED that his FATHER HOUSE, place of worship, praise and holiness had been turned into a "den of thieves" taking advantage of people who humbly traveled great distances who had little money, to praise and atone for their sins. This is also a double meaning symbolic of THROWING OUT THOSE WHO ARE CORRUPT, LIE, CHEAT AND STEAL. Very powerful verse. Very relevant during this election.

Regards to Dole's ad LASS. The WHOLE AD WAS A LIE. The information may have been correct, but the TONE of the ad, the way it was cut, the use of copy over images at certain times and the voice at the end were SPECIFICALLY DESIGNED to MISLEAD those who view it who MIGHT support Kay Hagan, to believe that she is some how an atheist and she was (DOLE) REVEALING the truth to them. I'm a FILM EDITOR. I've worked with Ad agencies for years who are MASTERS at this. Although I've never worked on a political ad, I have cut tons of commercials SPECIFICALLY designed to cater to a certain aspect, preference, desire etc.. of the viewer. When I first saw the ad it was NO QUESTION what Dole was trying to do. Thus making it inexcusable. Besides, if your winning why put out an ad like that in the first place. Negative ads featuring (lies) and personal attacks on character were not working this entire election season. Everyone who ran them FAILED miserably on both sides. Hilary lost as a result, McCain lost as a result and now Dole. Guiliani... all of them. I hope thats the end of ROVIAN run campaigns.
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 87 (view)
 
Is it finally over?
Posted: 11/5/2008 3:49:49 PM
READY...

I know you have your head on straight, but I've been hearing plenty of contrary statements.

People are filled with HOPE and JOY that we've officially turned a corner. These statements are just reflections of HOPE. Grant you, theres some ignorance there as well but, more importantly THERES HOPE. Now SO WHAT if people feel that way. Let them DREAM. They'll eventually snap out of it and realize the tough road ahead. If they don't, that's on THEM.


You can call me a cynic all you like, and if that's your definition of what I am, fine. I prefer to think of myself as a realist.

Yeah a realist. A real-ist cynic. I guess what I'm hoping to convey is that "you'll only rise to the level of your faith" meaning if you believe the worse, you'll get the worse. Or limit your way of thing to stop at a limit, thats as far as you'll go. I understand the feeling though. But feeling that way is a choice. Now, its not NEGATING the reality of things its just being able to LOOK PAST and ASPIRE to a better future. And to me, nothing is wrong with that. Dream big. Isn't that what we teach kids?


There is a reason McCain didn't offer everyone the moon and the stars: he knew there was no way he could deliver. And there is no way Obama can deliver everything to everyone either, and a lot of people are going to be hurt by all the promises he doesn't keep, because the expectations are too high.

HENCE HIS LOSS. Obama offered something that's deep down on the inside of ALL of us. HOPE! Some of us chose not to take hold of that for FEAR of being disappointed if the dream isn't realized. I say this because I used to think like that. But learned a while back to change that sort of thinking. Its TOUGH. And of course, I'm COMPLETELY guilty of being a cynic is some areas of my life. But I'm working on it. Hell, prior to Obama winning the Iowa caucus, I was under the COMPLETE BELIEF that this country would NEVER vote a black man in office. In fact, NOT ONE BLACK PERSON I KNOW believed that. Just didn't think this country could look past color. And thank God we were ALL completely and UTTERLY wrong! Like the title of his book, Obama had the AUDACITY TO HOPE! And look where he is today.... amazing, absolutely amazing. Still a bit overwhelmed...


Once people realise he's just a mere mortal like the rest of us, then maybe he can do something with the mess he inherited.

READY, I seriously believe MOST PEOPLE do realize he's a mere mortal. Again, a small contingent of very ignorant people actually believe he can walk on water. And those that do will always look to and rely on others to change their lot in life instead of changing it themselves and there's nothing you, me or Obama can ever do about that. But again, Obama and MOST of America were simply motivated by HOPE. And that in itself -- no matter how you slice it -- is a good thing.
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 37 (view)
 
It's over Obama has won
Posted: 11/5/2008 10:04:08 AM
THE MORE DETAILS that come out about the specifics of how Obama ran his campaign, the MORE IMPRESSIVE his victory is. I'm even MORE CONVINCED that he will be a GREAT PRESIDENT. I wish I had an article to point to as to how his campaign was run beginning with the community organizing aspect, coupled with the tech savvy details of how he was able to TRACK and MOBILIZE each and every person in his campaign. I bring this up because I just finished watching a brief piece on a morning news show that DETAILED how computers and technology had a HUGE part in him connecting with potential voters. The system his campaign created in this election will be THE MODEL of how FUTURE campaigns are run. Truly, truly amazing. EXTREMELY smart man that had an amazing group of people around him.
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Until this morning...
Posted: 11/5/2008 8:38:46 AM
JUST 1ROSE... what do you base your post off of? What evidence suggest that Barack A CHRISTIAN Obama will challenge religious rights? What evidence do you have that he will lead the country into socialism? And do you REALLY believe that's possible given that its something everyone is afraid of? The silliness of the thought is equivalent to thinking that he will now try and ENSLAVE WHITE PEOPLE. When it took MILLIONS of white people to support him. What kind of man do you think he is??!! If John McCain isn't afraid of him, and Sarah Palin isn't afraid of him, than why should you?! Its sad that you bought into the lie that he wants to socialize this country. Man, fear is soooo powerful that the MERE suggestion of something - with ANY CONSIDERATION OF THE SOURCE - sends people scurrying and cowering in fear. From what I'm hearing now, Obama core group are making it a POINT to have a bipartisan CABINET! I believe we are going to have one of the best presidents this country has ever seen. That's just my personal opinion.
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 1 (view)
 
BEHIND THE SCENES LOOK OF BOTH CAMPAIGNS...
Posted: 11/5/2008 8:26:07 AM
This has been a very, very, very tumultuous and historic campaign. We've all had our strong opinions, thoughts, fears, and insights poured over examined and magnified in hotly exchanged posts. So, I thought it appropriate to start a thread talking about the issues, feelings, thoughts and ideas that went on behind the scenes of this historic election. To start, here are excerpts of a book to be released by NEWSWEEK detailing the stories that took place behind the scenes of BOTH CAMPAIGNS:

http://www.newsweek.com/id/167581 ARTICLE 1
http://www.newsweek.com/id/167582 ARTICLE 2. This details the first chapter of an upcoming book.

EXCERPTS:

-- McCain himself rarely spoke to Palin during the campaign and aides kept him in the dark about the details of her spending on clothes because they were sure he would be offended. Palin asked to speak along with McCain at his Arizona concession speech but campaign strategist Steve Schmidt vetoed the request.

-- The Obama campaign was provided with reports from the Secret Service showing a sharp and very disturbing increase in threats to Obama in September and early October, at the same time that the crowds at Palin rallies became more frenzied. Michelle Obama was shaken by the vituperative crowds and the hot rhetoric from the GOP candidates. "Why would they try to make people hate us?" Michelle Obama said to a top campaign aide.

-- On the Sunday night before the last debate, McCain's core group of advisers--Steve Schmidt, Rick Davis, adman Fred Davis, strategist Greg Strimple, pollster Bill McInturff and strategy director Sarah Simmons -- met to decide whether or not to tell McCain that the race was effectively over, that he no longer had a chance to win. The consensus in the room was no, not yet, not while he still had "a pulse."

-- The Obama campaign's "New Media" experts created a computer program that would allow a "flusher"--the term for a volunteer who rounds up nonvoters on Election Day--to know exactly who had, and had not, voted in real time. They dubbed it Project Houdini, because of the way names disappear off the list instantly once people are identified as they wait in line at their local polling station.

-- Palin launched her attack on Obama's association with William Ayers, the former Weather Underground bomber, before the campaign had finalized a plan to raise the issue. McCain's advisers were working on a strategy that they hoped to unveil the following week, but McCain had not signed off on it, and top adviser Mark Salter was resisting.

-- McCain also was reluctant to use Obama's incendiary pastor Rev. Jeremiah Wright as a campaign issue. He had set firm boundaries: no Jeremiah Wright; no attacking Michelle Obama; no attacking Obama for not serving in the military. McCain balked at an ad using images of children that suggested that Obama might not protect them from terrorism; Schmidt vetoed ads suggesting that Obama was soft on crime (no Willie Hortons); and before word even got to McCain, Schmidt and Salter scuttled a "celebrity" ad of Obama dancing with talk-show host Ellen DeGeneres (the sight of a black man dancing with a lesbian was deemed too provocative).

-- Obama was never inclined to choose Sen. Hillary Clinton as his running mate, not so much because she had been his sometime bitter rival on the campaign trail, but because of her husband. Still, as Hillary's name came up in veep discussions, and Obama's advisers gave all the reasons why she should be kept off the ticket, Obama would stop and ask, "Are we sure?" He needed to be convinced one more time that the Clintons would do more harm than good. McCain, on the other hand, was relieved to face Biden as the veep choice, and not Hillary Clinton, whom the McCain camp had truly feared.

-- McCain was dumbfounded when Congressman John Lewis, a civil-rights hero, issued a press release comparing McCain with former Alabama Gov. George Wallace, a segregationist infamous for stirring racial fears. McCain had devoted a chapter to Lewis in one of his books, "Why Courage Matters" and had so admired Lewis that he had once taken his children to meet him.

-- The debates unnerved both candidates. When he was preparing for the Democratic primary debates, Obama was recorded saying, "I don't consider this to be a good format for me, which makes me more cautious. I often find myself trapped by the questions and thinking to myself, 'You know, this is a stupid question, but let me ... answer it.' So when Brian Williams is asking me about what's a personal thing that you've done [that's green], and I say, you know, 'Well, I planted a bunch of trees.' And he says, 'I'm talking about personal.' What I'm thinking in my head is, 'Well, the truth is, Brian, we can't solve global warming because I f---ing changed light bulbs in my house. It's because of something collective'."
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 952 (view)
 
Over for Mccain?
Posted: 11/5/2008 7:55:59 AM
WHEN IT WAS officially over for McCain, anyone else notice the SOMBER, MOROSE tone over at FAUX NEWS? It was as if they were struggling to ATTEMPT to look neutral as they reported every state that went Obama's way. I know gloating isn't very becoming but with all the TOGETHERNESS last night and this morning, I just found it a STARK contrast to what other news programs were showing last night. Sigh... now comes the hard part. Getting this country back on track.
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 69 (view)
 
Is it finally over?
Posted: 11/5/2008 1:11:50 AM
READY... all due respect, your simply a cynic. And I completely understand the cynicism BUT, without a vision the people perish. You mention a REALISTIC VISION, I say why not shoot for the stars. If you shoot for the stars and land on the moon your a success. We know there's a tough road ahead. I don't believe ANY who support him believe things are going to change instantly. Not anybody with some sense. But man, we gotta start somewhere. And right now, we are at the starting line. There's a lot of work to be done. There are already RUMORS that he's going to have a completely BIPARTISAN cabinet. Least thats what I heard on CNN. Some names were tossed around but I missed them. I just caught that they have already DECIDED they WILL have a bipartisan cabinet. Lets hope so.
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 63 (view)
 
Is it finally over?
Posted: 11/4/2008 8:54:57 PM
KYDELIGHT... what's sad is on this HISTORIC DAY you can't for ONE SECOND appreciate the fact that MOST OF AMERICA chose to look past COLOR and RACE and elect who they felt was the best man to run the country. ALLL Americans should be proud. We have officially TURNED A CORNER just from the victory alone. He has manage to do something McCain couldn't do... pull together people of ALLLLLLLL RACES and tie us together with HOPE and a clear plan for change. McCain COULD NOT DO THAT! He ran a horrible, despicable, sloppy, fear & hate mongering, poor choice in Palin campaign with NO CLEAR PLAN FOR THE COUNTRY! So he lost. Obama got RIDICULED for being a community organizer and has shown tonight that his COMMUNITY ORGANIZING SKILLS proved to be vital in this election. He mobilized a ground game that will go down as one of the best ran campaigns this country has ever seen. Continue to hate all you want, but tonight LOVE has suffocated YOUR HATE!
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Is it finally over?
Posted: 11/4/2008 8:06:11 PM
Never underestimate the power of a COMMUNITY ORGANIZER!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HISTORIC GROUND GAME!!!
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Poll Results
Posted: 11/4/2008 7:02:55 PM
THIS IS FASCINATING to watch. FAUX NEWS tone is completely somber. They seem actually SAD over there. Of course MSNBC is upbeat and jovial, smiles abound. But FAUX NEWS, pursed lips with every state they call. I love it. This race is OVER! Blowout victory. The American people have spoken loud and clear. History!
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Is it finally over?
Posted: 11/4/2008 5:27:28 PM
JUST THOUGHT THIS WAS INTERESTING...

"I believe that middle class white workers were tricked by Republicans
telling them that blacks were collecting welfare because they did not
want to work--and this led to voters in Southern states switching to
vote against their own interests. I also believe (as my father, your
grandfather, said) that there is a difference between being stupid and
ignorant. The fact that many white Southern voters will vote for Obama
is that they now realize that they were tricked. Making the rich richer
doesn't trickle down to feed their family, or help their children go
to college. White middle class and poorer white guys were not stupid--
just ignorant of the true meaning of Republican policy. After 8 years
of W they (at least many of them) now know."
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 924 (view)
 
Over for Mccain?
Posted: 11/4/2008 3:53:20 PM
GUY1 I'm not jealous at all. I think its great that he's comfortable financially. Hey it's where we all want to be. I have NO PROBLEM with that at all. I do have a problem with the notion that A CERTAIN GROUP OF UNIDENTIFIED PEOPLE are stealing his money. I can't help it but there's this thinly veiled racist tone to some of his post. Now, having read DMOTZ post for a bit now, I KNOW THATS NOT WHERE HE'S COMING FROM! LET ME BE CLEAR-- I KNOW DMOTZ IS NOT COMING FROM A RACIST MINDSET- one more time I'M NOT SUGGESTING DMOTZ IS A RACIST... But the tone of his post sometime reeks of it. Simply put, I just think its unfair to categorize a segment of the population as being lazy thieves, not knowing their situations, circumstances or conditions. People steal all the time and the ones doing the stealing on the bottom, USUALLY aren't paying taxes or actively in the system. Another thing is DMOTZ seems to have NO WORDS for the corporate AHOLES who cheat the crap out of all of us in every facet of this society. THOSE are the ones he should be pissed at. The ones HE CLAIMS are syphoning money out of his paycheck are the ONES at the top. Not the bottom. In regards to taking advantage of opportunities, of course I've missed some. But hey, I'm still in the 1st act of my life. And growing smarter and brighter each day. And lastly, I'm not blaming DMOTZ for anything. He's not running the country. What he does in his life has NO BEARING in my life whatsoever. And vice-versa. So, I'm not sure I understand your comment.
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 923 (view)
 
Over for Mccain?
Posted: 11/4/2008 3:15:54 PM
DMOTZ WOW!!

I am not afraid for me bubba...I have enough money and other necessity's to last another 4 years easy. What I have in the stock market will be coming out if Obama wins...my 401k will be in my pocket soon afterwards. I fear for the average person that is going to be taxed to death...for the business's that will be taxed into layoffs and increased cost passed to the consumer because of Obama's socialistic plans. My health care is taken care of so he can't touch me there either..As for my payroll taxes..I am going to claim 9 and deduct the air I breath. The Dems will not get much out of me for their bs welfare programs.

So what the HELL are you ****ing and complaining about???!! I mean, YOUR RICH! Be happy. And SPREAD THE WEALTH! Remember, the more YOU GIVE, the more YOU RECEIVE! LOL! Amazing. Dude, your something else. God bless you!
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 919 (view)
 
Over for Mccain?
Posted: 11/4/2008 12:12:53 PM
DMOTZ... re-read YOUR last view posts in this thread and ask yourself, WHO'S REALLY afraid here. If you weren't afraid you wouldn't be sending out so called WARNINGS of Obama's impending socialist regime. Face it, CHANGE IS ONLY A FEW HOURS AWAY! Change YOU might not like but hey... TOO BAD. We didn't like the change YOU VOTED FOR the past 8 years. Cheer up big guy... I'm sure you'll be fine. You've overcome soooo much. Your a tough guy. Now quit CRYING- YES CRYING about Obama becoming president. Like REDDWINE SAID...

He isnt crazy and he has run a brilliant campain. The man is intelligent, and in the end, I feel he will govern more to the center, trying to keep us all happy.

Now if REDD isn't afraid, and JOHN MCCAIN isn't afraid, and SARAH PALIN isn't afraid than why should you?
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 913 (view)
 
Over for Mccain?
Posted: 11/4/2008 9:59:21 AM
AND we can all say WE TRIED! We didn't cower in fear and go for the McSAME.
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 112 (view)
 
The truth about welfare!
Posted: 11/3/2008 7:12:49 PM
DMOTZ.. just curious... based off this comment:

Today we raise generations of democrat voters and pay them with welfare and other entitlements...Look lets be real...if there were no welfare there would not be any democrats...

How much money from your salary last year came out of your check and went into welfare? And how do you know it was some shiftless democrat that it went to? And do you think DEMOCRATS don't pay into this welfare pot too? And please don't cop out by saying it doesn't matter how much. It's annoying to constantly hear Republicans ****, MOAN and CRY about someone taking their money and giving it to poor people. But Y'ALL don't seem to mind if SOME RICH A-HOLE takes your money and puts it toward a new yacht. Also, can YOU our ANYONE provide some statistical evidence that this is happening? And that its FROM democrats? And going to DEMOCRATS? And at what percentage? Again, just curious.
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 132 (view)
 
Elizabeth Dole: Lying Trash.
Posted: 11/3/2008 7:04:25 PM

No, sorry, rayzr, you did NOT vote for change… you voted same old/same old....Anyone who thinks that Obama represents change can’t see past his color.

NOT TRUE!! The very fact that he's in the position he's in now is BECAUSE PEOPLE HAVE LOOKED PAST HIS COLOR!! Lets not forget something here. Barak Obama wouldn't be in position to win this thing if his COLOR was truly a factor! There are MILLIONS upon MILLIONS upon MILLIONS of White men and women who LOOKED past his color to his intelligence, charisma and his IDEA'S for how to best turn this country around. THATS FACT! Just like many looked pass Hillary's GENDER to get her CLOSE to being the first female presidential nominee. So, HOWDIDIGETHERE... I DID VOTE FOR CHANGE. Maybe not the change YOU WANT or EXPECT, but if Obama wins tomorrow there will be CHANGE. One way or the other. You can see it how ever you want.

I get your point though. I'm not lost on "TRUE" change, but we gotta start somewhere. Obama being elected POSSIBLY opens the door for people like Barr, McKinney, Baldwin, or my personal favorite Ron Paul. (Nadar is a smart idiot- I'll explain later) OR future candidates who share THEIR same views on how to best run this country. Those names mentioned ARE NOT IN POSITION at this time to make a difference. Be it lack of money, support or the ability to get their messages out and it sucks. BUT, AT THIS JUNCTURE the change we're LIMITED too is the change Obama will bring. We gotta start somewhere and Barak Obama is a FANTASTIC START.

ON TOPIC:
Elizabeth Doles numbers continue to slide. This election could be the election that snuffs out SMEAR tactics politics and bring things back to what really matters, issues. Least I hope it does. I'd like to see every GOP member who is running their campaign SOLEY on smears LOSE this election. And based off of the way things are going, that might certainly be the case.
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 109 (view)
 
The truth about welfare!
Posted: 11/3/2008 6:31:54 PM
QUESTION... I know this might be extremely ignorant on my part but ISNT there a limit to how much welfare someone can collect? If so, does anyone TRULY know the percentage of people on welfare WHO SHOULDNT BE? Just curious.
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 890 (view)
 
Over for Mccain?
Posted: 11/3/2008 4:28:19 PM
DANCE..

This election should not even be close.

Not even REMOTELY CLOSE! Hopefully, tomorrow will prove that IT WONT BE!
 rayzrsharp
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 124 (view)
 
Elizabeth Dole: Lying Trash.
Posted: 11/3/2008 10:25:50 AM
Are people reporting on you? Why? I might not agree with your point of view but I don't find what you post objectionable at all. Oh well, your right, such is life.
 
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