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Joined: 7/30/2008

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OK for a man to ask woman to his apt on 4th date? Posted: 7/2/2009 2:59:17 PM
I would of dumped him and moved on if he hadn't at least tried to get me into bed by now lol

Joined: 7/30/2008

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She is barely legal, He is 48 Posted: 7/1/2009 11:28:45 AM
@capitano blaugh You said : "Deal with it. Best thing you can do is work on your OWN ass if it's a bit broader than it should be. There is no better way to attract men than to stay slim and fit." uh yea ok. She said they are looking for younger women not women who are slim and fit. You decided that all women over the age of 25 are overweight and unfit? Not all men like skinny women either. Some are turned off by them and some have a fetish for bbw women. You seem to be very narrow minded and superficial yourself.

Joined: 7/30/2008

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Justifying Cheating? Posted: 7/1/2009 8:26:14 AM
So let me get this right, it's ok to hurt the spouse by cheating on her because you dont' want to give her her 1/2 and pay her the alimony she is due? Sorry, but I got out of my marriage when it was like that and I lost a lot financially. But I would rather do that than further damage someone else (including my children) for the sake of money.

Joined: 7/30/2008

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Whatcha Gonna Do....when the jilted starts wanting you?!? Posted: 7/1/2009 8:22:17 AM
" in our conversations, she attempts to sidestep issues of possibilities" Maybe she just feels you don't know what the possibilities are until you have actually met and see that there is chemistry in person. I don't talk about "possibilities" with someone I am chatting with. I don't know them and until I do I don't know where anything could lead. Chatting is what you do to get to know little things about someone but when you actually meet it could sizzle. Why get someone else's hopes up by saying " you might do this and you might do that"?

Joined: 7/30/2008

Msg: 84 (view)

if i am so perfect to him why does he still need to chat to other women Posted: 7/1/2009 7:28:42 AM
Ask him why, he is the only one that can give you the answer. Then you can decide if you are ok with his answer.

Joined: 7/30/2008

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Searching for criteria Posted: 7/1/2009 7:09:30 AM
Why can we only chose either man or woman. Those of us who are bisexual would like to be able to indicate both/either.

Joined: 7/30/2008

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Just how necessary are bras? Posted: 7/1/2009 7:07:22 AM
Even small boobs will sag. Bras are necessary. As those who didn't wear them in their 20's when they had nice firm boobs if they wish they had.

Joined: 7/30/2008

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Life is too short, for sleeping Posted: 7/1/2009 7:03:58 AM
well if I don't sleep I will eventually die lol. Sleeping is kind of important.

Joined: 7/30/2008

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When a profile says here for Dating Posted: 7/1/2009 6:42:17 AM
Your post is extremely offensive and judgmental. You come across as bitter towards women and that's not wise when you are trying to find a female girlfriend. To post in "ask a woman" that women who have dating on their profile means they are gold diggers says more about you than them. I don't really see a question here, just a post to trash women. I have dating on my profile. It does not mean I want some man to take me out and pay for me. In fact I pay my own way. It's 2009 and there is no reason why men should be paying for all the dates. It also does not mean I am going to be dating more than one man. I don't like to date multiple men. What it does mean is I am not looking for a serious relationship at this time but would like the company of someone to go out and do all the other things that a relationship involves. I want a friendship and not a quick hook up or a serious relationship. I use to have other relationship up there, but unfortunately most men see that as I just want to hop in the sack and I don't sleep with strangers. I was forced to change it to dating to stop the perverts from messaging for a quick hook up.

Joined: 7/30/2008

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Unhappily married- am I wasting my time here? Posted: 7/1/2009 6:25:36 AM
Married but not in an open marriage means you would be cheating. I don't date married men unless their partners are aware of and support the relationship (poly). However, there are women out there in the same situation as yourself who would be interested. Do the single women a favour though and don't lie to them about being married. It always works out for the worst. Imagine the power your wife will have walking into divorce court after you have had an affair that she found out about from the girl you lied to about being married to.

Joined: 7/30/2008

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friend or girlfriend?!? Posted: 7/1/2009 6:19:01 AM
Cuddling you and asking you to stay the night is an advance. It's just not the one you want. To me it means he does not see you as a girlfriend or a friend. Right now he sees you as a possible "fuk". That does not mean you won't progress to girlfriend but after only 96 hours it's a bit soon to expect that. How about asking him? That generally gets the air cleared and everyone knows where they stand.

Joined: 7/30/2008

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Somewhat dumb question.... Posted: 7/1/2009 6:16:13 AM
To me it would mean that they are not really interested but feel you deserve a reply because you put effort into your message. However, because they are not really interested a reply to your message goes at the bottom of the "to do" list. We often don't get to the bottom of that list and end up just deleting things. At least that's why I do that lol

Joined: 7/30/2008

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been 3 yrs no meet yet Hes 7 hrs away Posted: 7/1/2009 6:13:24 AM
I have to agree with all of the above. You have wasted 3 years of your life. If someone wanted to meet then a 7 hour drive would not of stopped them. You don't know if there is any real physical attraction until you meet in person. They may have habits or mannerisms that turn you off. They may look different to the way they do in their pictures or on cam (had that happen a lot!). Personally I think he is married and enjoying an emotional relationship online. Something that is probably missing in his marriage.

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