She said "Find a bald, fat, old, hairy man. He will treat you right and be faithful to you. The handsome men know they are handsome and because of that won't appreciate you, will get bored with you once you fall in love with them and will never see you as a keeper because they are so hott, they can get any girl they want."

Was the time he had with me so bad that he couldn't even write to tell me that he didn't want to have anything to do with me.

He said no I've just been busy with my son and I really didn't have any feelings for yu.

What gives? What changed?

Are guys just all ***holes?

how do you know there's a delete vote going on?

Is it our lack of experience, intelligence or common sense that makes it so that "we" are bringing hurt and failure upon ourselves ?

Ok I am also new here.....why is there a delete vote going on?

they're not all raving sex-crazed maniacs, you know...

I wasn't a participant in the other thread and don't agree with it

I sooo want to move to the US.

So, as others have said, if you approach someone and start a conversation with no agenda, then it isn't a 'pickup' is is 'conversation'.

There are women who would reject you despite finding you attractive, if you approach them at the wrong place.

When people conduct bitter post-mortems in the forums, IMO, it speaks volumes about them. Good for you for not retaliating. It would've been undignified and only dragged things out, OP.

a good rule of thumb to follow here is not to have sex on the first date or so....if they disappear or don't want to meet again, you have your answer.)

The worst advice I see to men in these Forums is to talk to women everywhere, try to pick em up at the supermarket, the book store etc... NO NO NO!!!!
Do you know how scarey it can be for a woman alone to be accosted in the book shop/fruit and veg aisle?
Some total stranger coming up to you, talking some nonsense about cabbages, with a great big smile plastered on his face?
uhoh,.. nutter alert!!

If you tend to dismiss partners when you find something “wrong” with them, you may have a history of letting pickiness overshadow possibilities. “Creating a great relationship is less about finding the right person and more about letting someone be the right person,”

When men state on their profile "Probably Not"

Men love to show off their penees.

I chose to relieve my pressures with booze.

some guys never know they've got a good thing until it's gone...

hmm if flirting to you is telling a woman how unattractive she is then we certainly would NOT be a match!

Curious... why would you have said that to me??

I called him back and told him what he said rubbed me the wrong way, and that Im telling him because I like him . I said I took offense to that comment .

She became extremely abusive both verbally and physically. she loved to scream and argue.

I guess men in general are just are too blind to see and appreciate women who are awesome like me, women who are genuinely nice with good personalities.

You'd think men would be able to appreciate a good thing while they have it but such is rarely the case.

I know everyone is different and I should give him the benefit of the doubt.

could lack of any relationship (bar 1 good one which lasted a year) compare to being hurt by a bad relationship.

So with that in mind he is heading off this weekend for a family get together. I have not been invited, which has me a little miffed.

The answer to world peace ladies is to keep all the men in this world happy. If we are keeping them happy then we really are in COMPLETE CONTROL! Think about it!

Imagine my surprise when I found exactly what I’m talking about on the profile of the person who has crudely dismissed my thoughts as BS and poppy-cock.