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dolcesempre

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Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man - by Steve Harvey Posted: 8/20/2009 6:43:32 PM
I love this book. I love "Why Men love ****es" as well. Cheers, Dolcesempre.

dolcesempre

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what do you miss? Posted: 8/20/2009 6:41:54 PM
cooking together, attending community events, shopping for household items, talking to all hrs of the night, road trips. I love traveling (every once in a while it's good to travel with your partner as well (:

dolcesempre

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Is it really rude to ask a woman her age? Posted: 5/7/2009 10:22:50 AM
Asking my age doesn't bother me. However, people often think that I am younger than I actually am. This will work in my favour I suppose as I get older.

dolcesempre

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Joint Bank Accounts Good or Bad Idea Posted: 5/5/2009 2:04:03 PM
I believe it's a good idea to have both. If you want to buy bigger things it's better to pool your money together but you should have your own account as well.

dolcesempre

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Why can't people be honest on the first date? Posted: 5/4/2009 7:28:06 AM
I just prefer strict honesty... that's all I ask.

dolcesempre

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Why can't people be honest on the first date? Posted: 4/30/2009 12:41:32 PM
A guy once told me that "Women are Cold and Calculative" . Do you believe that is true indeed true?

dolcesempre

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Long distance relationship? Posted: 4/30/2009 11:16:32 AM
If there is someone that you truly care about deep within. I wouldn't mind going that extra mile. I am sure everyone else wouldn't so much either.

dolcesempre

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Long distance relationship? Posted: 4/30/2009 10:53:17 AM
Long Distance Relationships-Ha that's a good one! These rarely work out! They really, truly work out most if you both people are on the same path and make the same amount of time to see one another a regular basis. It's not the time that's spent together in these cases... it's the quality time spent with one another (;

dolcesempre

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rich man poor man and how they treat you Posted: 4/30/2009 10:49:42 AM
Good one Mimosa! Just let you know, I've dated men that were well off and I've dated guys that were recent graduates of MBA programs etc. In the end, you just want someone who will appreciate you for you. If they've got money... sure they can wine and dine you. In my mind money doesn't buy everything. It doesn't always lead to happiness either. Those who have everything and are financially stable-can never have enough. I guess there's no winning and they are always working longer hrs to support their extra added expenses. In the end- You should be happy that you are with that person, It shouldn't matter what he/she has or doesn't have!

dolcesempre

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Are Today's relationship nothing more the a business transaction? Posted: 4/30/2009 10:39:37 AM
Hey Sexfunguy, Funny that you mention this here in this note. I was having an in depth conversation with a friend the other day and he informed me that people you date are somewhat like choosing a job, who knows where you might up again, if things don't work out for whatever reason? Cheers, C

dolcesempre

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Why can't people be honest on the first date? Posted: 4/30/2009 6:57:07 AM
Abbicci, I would have to say that honesty is key (; I am the type of person that would be direct, honest & straight forward. If it isn't working out for whatever reason. I will be the first to mention that to my significant other and/or guy that I am dating at that present time. Only is life was simple lol

dolcesempre

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Getting past the friend zone Posted: 4/30/2009 6:53:04 AM
Hi Ron9, Very valid points that you bring to the forum. I once knew this guy who I was his friend for two yrs and he liked me so dearly and I kept telling that I am not interested in him but didn't really get the picture all. It's better to move away fast & furious.

dolcesempre

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Costa Rica: Pros and Cons Posted: 4/30/2009 6:49:46 AM
I would love to see Costa Rica within time. I am not in such of a rush for that. Just wanted to know what were the most memorable things about Costa Rica?

dolcesempre

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Saying the *L word... Posted: 4/30/2009 6:46:57 AM
I think it's weird when a women/man says "I love you" too soon! These are really really hard words for me to use so freely. Another question within the same topic... Do you POF's believe in "Love in First Sight"?

dolcesempre

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Getting past the friend zone Posted: 4/30/2009 12:23:06 AM
That's not true at all. I've seen both sides of the coin. It all depends on the situation. Everything differs...

dolcesempre

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Getting past the friend zone Posted: 4/30/2009 12:15:33 AM
Harsh it is. Better to be honest, loyal & straight forward then considering something is not at all.

dolcesempre

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when should you give each other things back after a breakup? Posted: 4/30/2009 12:11:48 AM
I would give back his/her items but gifts are gifts!!! Regardless if you are in the relationship or not...

dolcesempre

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It's better to love and lost, then to have never loved at all Posted: 4/30/2009 12:10:10 AM
It is better to be loved then lost. In the end you will gain valuable and memorable experiences. Sure, it will be painful at first but it will make you stronger deep within your heart & soul.

dolcesempre

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dating as a interview... Posted: 4/30/2009 12:08:00 AM
Yankee, I second that response. All the way!!!

dolcesempre

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High Maintenance versus Being Realistic Posted: 4/30/2009 12:04:27 AM
I tend to lean more towards the realist side. I believe the realist is much more sexier.

dolcesempre

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High Maintenance versus Being Realistic Posted: 4/30/2009 12:00:37 AM
Like that one as well. Based the above posters definitions... I would say I am a combination as well. However, in reality... I would be realist!

dolcesempre

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when should you give each other things back after a breakup? Posted: 4/29/2009 11:57:38 PM
I've never asked for anything back either. Those were gifts during the relationship why should the other person have to give them back? Just because you are no longer together???

dolcesempre

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Do you feel that your exe's help make you a better person? Posted: 4/29/2009 11:55:21 PM
Relationships are all about learning curves. They are always going to be the good, bad & ugly. You will totally learn something from experience as it should be uniquely different & diverse. If you not, you are just creating the same mistakes which is not too good in the long term.

dolcesempre

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Would you move to another are or country because you loved someone from there Posted: 4/29/2009 11:51:51 PM
I would move to another country. If everything went well... I would expect the same from my significant other as well.

dolcesempre

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Would you extend the date if you're not interested? Posted: 4/29/2009 11:50:14 PM
Men or Women for that matter may ask for the first or second date. It doesn't really matter to me to be honest. At last we are in the 21st century lol.

dolcesempre

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Honesty - does it really matter? Posted: 4/12/2009 11:22:14 AM
Honest is key--In any form of relationship. With your friends, lovers, parents etc!

dolcesempre

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Dating Co-Workers Posted: 4/11/2009 4:06:02 PM
I will never ever ever do it again!!! We all learn our lessons... I guess (;

dolcesempre

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Dating Co-Workers Posted: 4/11/2009 3:48:55 PM
I've dated co-workers a couple of times, it never really ended out the best. I felt it was best to start things once one of us wasn't working at that place of work any longer.

dolcesempre

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I Caught You Looking: Is looking at a profile a green light to make contact? Posted: 4/11/2009 3:46:49 PM
If they were interested in you. They would've taken that extra step and contacted via personal message themselves. If they weren't they were obviously just browsing the system.

dolcesempre

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WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END? Posted: 4/11/2009 3:44:49 PM
Communication is always a big one, commitment (like how many times per week are you going to see one another and distance!!!

dolcesempre

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If we could Rewind? Posted: 4/11/2009 3:41:54 PM
I would have to second this as well. You learn from your stupid mistakes in life. If you didn't make those mistakes you wouldn't learn the hard way I suppose. There's no looking back for me anyway.

dolcesempre

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Stood up...this sucks! Was it me??! Posted: 4/11/2009 3:36:49 PM
I agree with this 100%. If you can't make it for whatever reason. You should at least call the person. Hasn't anyone ever heard of common courtesy?? I guess it's non-exsistant these days???

dolcesempre

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Stood up...this sucks! Was it me??! Posted: 4/9/2009 8:52:52 PM
This happens to all of us at one point or another. Just move on... There's no point dwelling on the past. There's plenty of other fish in the sea.

dolcesempre

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CHOCOLATE Romance, Love, and more CHOCLATE!!!!! Posted: 4/6/2009 9:40:57 PM
Great idea. That's a good idea for a party!

dolcesempre

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CHOCOLATE Romance, Love, and more CHOCLATE!!!!! Posted: 4/4/2009 8:52:14 PM
OMG--I love Chocolate and that's totally my weakness. I have a soft spot for imported Chocolate. Especially from France & Germany lol

dolcesempre

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HELP! I need an easy Appetizer! Posted: 4/4/2009 8:46:45 PM
Roasted Red Peppers Dip are always good. Hummas with Fresh Veggies... Bruschetta with Fresh Basil on baked bread.

dolcesempre

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Tomato- Fruit or veggie? Posted: 4/4/2009 8:42:38 PM
Technically it's a veggie but some would consider it a fruit.

dolcesempre

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Frugal Meals Question? Posted: 4/4/2009 8:41:47 PM
Frugal is key at times. I love Spinach & Chick Pea Soup. It's a Bonnie Stern Recipe. I love her as well. She's totally awesome. I was thinking of attending her cooking classes.

dolcesempre

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What is your favorite comfort food? Posted: 4/4/2009 8:38:59 PM
Myself. I love baked Brie Cheese with fresh pears and/or Pear Jelly.

dolcesempre

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why should the type of job u do matter? Posted: 4/3/2009 11:58:28 AM
I liked your response. I understand where you coming from on this one. It doesn't matter what you do or who you are... it should matter what's deep within your heart and soul. You could have a really crappy job for the time being but you could be really much better than that. Things happen... If only people got to know the person deep within!!!!

dolcesempre

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Whatever happened to Honesty Posted: 4/3/2009 11:50:36 AM
I would like to second that! Honestly is a big issue. It's hard to know if the person is honest... you can't really tell right away.

dolcesempre

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why should the type of job u do matter? Posted: 4/3/2009 11:48:24 AM
Great question and/or comment that you posed. It really really shouldn't matter what you do. Just as long as you are completely happy with yourself and your relationship. Excuse my language but what a BI***! Oh that's her loss... there are plenty of other fish in the sea. Have a great day! Dolce

dolcesempre

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salvador dali Posted: 4/3/2009 11:45:37 AM
I love Dali. He is totally awesome.

dolcesempre

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How do you feel about the goo goo dolls? Posted: 4/3/2009 11:44:17 AM
I love Goo Goo Dolls. Name & Iris are my fav songs.

dolcesempre

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Slumdog Millionaire: Best Picture Posted: 4/3/2009 11:40:21 AM
Come on Slumdog Millionaire was Awesome. You've got to admit. I worked at The Toronto International Film Festival this past yr and everyone was ranting and raving about it. So I finally decided to see it once it came out. Another movie that I wanted to see was Heaven on Earth this one was by Deepta Meetha Cheers, DolceSempre.

dolcesempre

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Kelly Clarkson Posted: 4/3/2009 11:34:05 AM
I have loved Kelly Clarkson from day one. I love Breakway, Gone, Walkaway, Since You've Been Gone, Never Again. Here's one of her newer songs and I am listening to it right now!!! My Life Would Suck without You--Kelly Clarkson Guess this means you're sorry You're standing at my door Guess this means you take back All you said before Like how much you wanted Anyone but me Said you'd never come back But here you are again 'Cause we belong together now, yeah Forever united here somehow, yeah You got a piece of me And honestly, My life (my life) would suck (would suck) without you Maybe I was stupid for telling you goodbye Maybe I was wrong for tryin' to pick a fight I know that I've got issues But you're pretty messed up too Either way, I found out I'm nothing without you 'Cause we belong together now, yeah Forever united here somehow, yeah You got a piece of me And honestly, My life (my life) would suck (would suck) without you Being with you Is so disfunctional I really shouldn't miss you But I can’t let you go Oh yeah 'Cause we belong together now, yeah Forever united here somehow, yeah You got a piece of me And honestly, My life (my life) would suck (would suck) without you 'Cause we belong together now, yeah Forever united here somehow, yeah You got a piece of me And honestly, My life (my life) would suck (would suck) without you

dolcesempre

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Istanbul Posted: 4/1/2009 6:19:42 PM
I would like to see Istanbul... I heard it's a lovely city as my ex-boyfriend was Turkish!

dolcesempre

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A Song That I Hate #1 Posted: 3/31/2009 3:30:25 PM
Hey! I hated that song since it came out lol. My friend in Elementary school adored it.

dolcesempre

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Can you date someone who your not attracted to; but they treat you very well Posted: 3/31/2009 3:29:13 PM
First of all you must be true to yourself. Stop thinking about personal gain and what not. If you don't really dig him... why are you still with him? Wouldn't you be hurt if you found out the same? Put yourself in his shoes!!! I'd say you should just tell him the truth and get to the point. It's all about how you feel and living with yourself. You should know the difference between right and wrong.... you can decide what you want to do in the long run.

dolcesempre

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LOVE & Chemistry Posted: 3/31/2009 3:19:43 PM
Love is something you shall seek and someday find! Chemistry is a connection between two people

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