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Joined: 8/3/2008

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Do guys like single moms? Posted: 3/25/2009 1:48:55 PM
its funny when a woman say i m not lookin for a father but in reality that new man would have to play the role of daddy if he moves in with u, yes your child and him will bump head and he will have to discipline him which is a case of parenting most single men with no kids do not want to get involved with a woman with kids because of the lack of attention, complication thats is involved, etc i believe u r a wonderful person but a child makes it complicated we are all humans we have flaws, add your flaws and a childs, i think its alittle too much for a man to handle my advice, date a man with kids of his own too

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Question: singles parents who won't have sex outside of marriage....? Posted: 3/25/2009 1:39:05 PM
sorry thats doesnt exist remember this "if you are pleasing your man, someone else would" its not rocket science, its true, most people will say if you truly love the person u wouldnt do it, now lets flip, the person holding off, if you really love the person, you wouldnt do that to them, you would want to share yourself with them. and biggest factors if you really love them, you will hold on to them, and not allow someone else to take him from you. also, u dont have to be married to share love or make love

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Why guys run Posted: 3/25/2009 1:28:15 PM
most men dont want to deal with the complications thats all

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When dating a man who has a child, will I EVER come first? Posted: 3/25/2009 1:23:00 PM
i agree with u no parent should put a partner ahead of there its demonstrated something wrong there and i agree that people with no kids should stay away from single parents

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When dating a man who has a child, will I EVER come first? Posted: 3/25/2009 1:20:14 PM
thatmakesense i have to agree with you on your response perhap many will disagree with you but what you are saying is all fact peopple tend to say u need to understanding of a person's situation but bottom line is if your needs are being met then its not going to work people need to start taking responsibilty im a firm believer in order to establish a romantic relationship, a bond needs to be created, in order to created, time has to be spent and invested, person needs to feel wanted a priority, etc and i have to say and agree anyone who has kids, need to understand that single people with no kids have needs too not just u and ur kid my suggestion is to get involved with other single parents both of you will be able to understand each others situation thanks this needed to presented

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When dating a man who has a child, will I EVER come first? Posted: 3/25/2009 12:58:08 PM
i agree with you on what u had to say you will always feel second especially you are seeking your needs to be met however a child will always come before you not matter what i was in your shoes before and i could deal with it cuz like u i was at home alone or going out on the weekend and feeling like if i was single wishing it was the girl i was with but then i grew tired of it and didnt want to do it anymore i mean there are a lot single parent who are good catches but that doesnt mean nothing if your needs are not fulfill my sugguestion is to stay away from single parents

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Men dating single mothers Posted: 3/25/2009 12:30:22 PM
i recently dated a woman with a child i have to admit, she was great, and sometimes i wished she never had a child cuz we would have made a great couple but im the type that was raise old fashion husband wife and there children, its was hard for me to accept a kid who wasnt mine and that the constant interaction with the child family (i know it sounds selfish but if u had your own kids this wouldnt be happening) the constant restriction supporting & raising someone else child i guess, im the typical man but i have to say to date a woman with kids its absolutely hard and difficult and i could only imagine how hard it is for them i do feel sorry but i cant because in life u make decisions and u have to live with it thats all

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HELP - He's not sure if he wants to date someone who has young children Posted: 3/25/2009 12:25:13 PM
you are not being a fool cuz the guy is not trying to fool you he is very straight forward with you, he told he is not comfortable with the situation and he acknowledge it is somewhat selfish on his part but bottom line is that he does have feelings for you but his own way of life is getting in the way you have to see it in her point of view, here he is , wanting to be with this women which is you who he has connected with, but the restrictions are limiting him due to your circumstances i was in his shoes before, and i have to say i love the woman but couldnt get over the fact that she had kids and that she was restricted i could only imagine how he feels when u leave to pick up your kids cuz i used to go through that and the feeling sucks cuz bottom line, as the guy u are left alone, its a nasty feeling when the woman u crave is constantly slipping away (not intentionally) bc she needs to fulfill her responsibilities its just a tough situation

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Boyfriend Verus Dad Posted: 3/25/2009 12:10:32 PM
to be honest that is not your problem to be honest the mother was involved with this dude and it didnt work out now you are in the picture all you can do is support her emotionally and help her out if the dead beat doesnt want to help out that his choice dont go over to try to beat someone up cause they are not manning up to there responsibilty its all drama and u dont need it just be happy and enjoy your self

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Good Guys that want to see there kids, and the ladies dont let them Posted: 3/25/2009 12:01:55 PM
hello mr good guy i hear about this situation time and time again, many women who are bitter tend to do this, alot of women think by doing this they are hurting the man but in fact its actually hurting the child, i sometimes wish women like this will grow and deal with it it could be worst u could have been a a&&hole and stop coming around *(and sometimes i see that works even better) but since u r not like that, u fall under the category of let me walk over him but i feel sorry for u man dont worry take her to court ask for your visitation right and be done with it u seem like a good man, keep up the good work, you are doing a good job for your son, most men would have given up i think i would have best of luck

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How do you deal with strong feelings for someone who does not feel the same? Posted: 3/25/2009 11:56:05 AM
i have to say watch on VH1 the show that is call "tough love" when a woman pressure a man into something, sorry he is not going to move forward allow him to bond with u and grow with u, then he will c ome around but if you keep asking the status of the relationship, you are showing weakness and dependency issues which will scare a man away because he will start to think what if??? i settle down with her, will she drive me craxy bring it down a notch and just relax stop stressing your self out he might come around dont worry about it

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