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 jwgisme
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Single Again
Posted: 1/14/2006 8:13:28 AM
Its been around 8 years since I,ve been in the dating see and I use to drive long haul I,m a 37 year old man and I have no idea where to go to meet people, the bar seen just doesnt seem attractive to me and I feel a little to old for that seen, I'm welcome to any suggestion.
 jwgisme
Joined: 9/25/2005
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Why are relationship so difficult to deal with
Posted: 1/12/2006 12:44:31 PM
Well if he was as serious about this relatioship as you and he new how you felt he would pit her to the side and respect you for how you felt. I,m still going threw a divorce all I can say is make sure its what you want because a marraige is suppose to be forever and if your having these kinds of problems this early on mabe you should step back and re-think things.
 jwgisme
Joined: 9/25/2005
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Divorced but still in love
Posted: 1/12/2006 12:40:58 PM
I go to mediation tommorow with my ex-wife I have custody of our 7yr old son and she's fighting me on that, I want to point out all the things that have gone wrong with her during visitations these last few month's and I know its in my son's best intrest if I do, but I find it had to talk bad about someone I still find myself in love with. What makes it harder is I left her, not for another women or anything like that but because I didnt feel she was putting our marraige first like I was, it just seemed no matter what it was it had to come befor us. I,m just having a hard time know what I need to do and doing it with the way I feel.
 jwgisme
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 67 (view)
 
Deadbeats!
Posted: 11/17/2005 2:24:56 PM
Well I went to court this morning and I was awarded $256.00 a month child support she has to pay me, we'll see if she pay's it.
 jwgisme
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 66 (view)
 
Deadbeats!
Posted: 11/17/2005 2:24:49 PM
Well I went to court this morning and I was awarded $256.00 a month child support she has to pay me, we'll see if she pay's it.
 jwgisme
Joined: 9/25/2005
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Whats in his best intrest
Posted: 11/16/2005 7:52:43 PM
I,m going threw a custody fight with my ex-wife over our 6yr old son she lives in Vegas with her mother and her boyfriend in there house there's a total of 6 children, my son has a step sister and two step brothers she had from a previous marraige, she believes its in his best ntrest if he was to to live with her and her mother, he's ben in my custody scence Feb. and he wants to live with me not his mother, I am able to give him personal attention that he needs for school and other things where he doesnt have to fight for attention, and become 1 of 7 kids in a small house, I am able to provide for him better then she ever could and the I believe the choices I make as a parent are better then she could do, I like to think I,m doing the best thing for my son and I have to think I am because the courts so far have given me full custody but there's part of me that doesnt want him to hate me later in life for takeing him away from his brothers and sister.

I guess what I,m asking is how do you know when your doing the right thing and not just being emotionally selfish ?
 jwgisme
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 64 (view)
 
Deadbeats!
Posted: 11/16/2005 7:39:59 PM
I,m a father of a 6yr old boy I've had full custody scence Feb 6th of this year and mom hasnt bothered to help out with a thing, not even school clothes, tommorow we go to court I have a child support hearing with her, its not the money I dont need the money from her I make more then enough its the fact I believe she needs to help out with our son at least a little and if she would have offered or just helped a little I wouldnt have taken her to court.

Wish me well tommorrow I'll let you all know how it goes.


Jim
 jwgisme
Joined: 9/25/2005
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thankfull to be a dad
Posted: 11/15/2005 5:49:15 PM
Just thought I would post something happy for a change and if someone else is having a great day maybe they could do the same,

Today I was unable to go to work because of some car problems whick costed me around $360.00 to fix, but I picked up my son from school and we walked home just spending time togeather when we got home we did the normal thing of homwork and just sitting around and playing vidieo games that he wanted to play, I could have been mad about the car and missing work but I choose to look at the time I was able to spend with my 6yr old son that I would not have had today if my car was working.

I hope everyone who reads thiscan try to do the same when problems come up with them, remember what really matters.



 jwgisme
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Definition of a single parent?
Posted: 11/13/2005 8:09:27 AM
I was reading your definitions and I just thought I would add mine or at least what I see it being to my son.

I have a 6yr old son who is the number one thing in my life I try to devote everything I do to him rather it be work, I make sure it doesnt interfear with his school, to the company I keep, you see some people look at being a single parent as a burden and at time's it might get tough but I never see it as a burden because I know his mother is still trying to get custody and I see it as a privlege to be a role model on a daily basis, to be the one he wants to be with, and the one he want to be like.

In simple terms I believe a single parent is a hero to the children there raising and they should never forget that less they truly loose track of the meaning of single parent.


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