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 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
sites
Posted: 11/11/2011 3:10:08 PM
all these lil websites ain't worth shit and i dont give a **** how mad the moderators get wit they gay asses


Ahhh,- another finishing school graduate!


 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 17 (view)
 
what women want ?
Posted: 6/24/2007 6:42:14 PM
I would say you are so right and i myself am guilty of this and end up with the wrong men.
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 55 (view)
 
Why do guys seem like they're genuinely interested in you....until they see your picture?
Posted: 6/24/2007 6:37:11 PM
I have that same problem thats why i had deleted mine, now i got it back up and not nobody i mean no one has written me so i just don't even let it bother me anymore.
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 85 (view)
 
Raleigh/Durham Area
Posted: 6/24/2007 6:20:54 PM
I sure am instrested count me in!
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
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We dont take the time.
Posted: 4/29/2006 4:22:51 PM
no we sure don't and its not always on here or right in our face either ,sometimes you just have no luck at all in that department and you have to go with the flow.
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Rate People....I don't get it
Posted: 4/24/2006 12:35:36 PM
do people really rate people on here?cause i just do it for fun not to hurt anyones feelings.
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Are there any ladies on this site who want to meet someone for who they really are!!!
Posted: 4/23/2006 4:29:43 PM
I would like to meet someone for who they are ,but thats sort of hard to find because they talk to you a while then they disappear so i would say just keep trying.
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 10 (view)
 
What is the best way to meet someone on here?
Posted: 4/23/2006 2:19:33 PM
Let them write and im you first,don't go all out trying to reach them cause they may not be instrested.
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 57 (view)
 
Do you think it is acceptable to let your child call you by your first name??
Posted: 4/22/2006 5:46:11 PM
No it shows no respect ,I mean I can't call mine by their names and won't let my kids call mr nothing but mama.
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 20 (view)
 
question
Posted: 4/21/2006 8:48:09 AM
Thanks for all of your comments and advice
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 27 (view)
 
teenagers and the internet
Posted: 4/21/2006 8:41:06 AM
Johnston County Home / Local & State / Johnston County


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Published: Apr 19, 2006 12:30 AM
Modified: Apr 19, 2006 02:51 AM


Rape case began online
Mother tried to stop girl's chats

Harris allegedly told girl he'd take her away.

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Mandy Locke, Staff Writer
A Johnston County mother had an uneasy feeling Monday night when a stranger knocked on her door, asking after her 13-year-old daughter.
She'd been battling her young teen for nearly a year about chatting with men on the Internet. The talk was very adult, very sexual. The mother finally denied the girl Internet privileges.

But before she cut off the Internet, she said, the girl apparently swapped phone numbers with a 26-year-old Florida man. They began sending each other text messages. When the mother caught on, she snagged the daughter's cell phone, too.

Monday night, the stranger showed up on the stoop of their rural home in northern Johnston County. An aunt shooed him away.

But the 13-year-old snuck out a back window and met up with her long-distance acquaintance, a man sheriff's deputies later identified as Will Harris, Jr., of Tampa, Fla.

Her mother spotted the pair running through a newly tilled sweet potato field, rising and disappearing as they ran across the dirt mounds.

The mother screamed for her to return. But sheriff's deputies say Harris held the girl tight by the wrists, dragged her through the soft dirt to an abandoned house and forced her to have sex.

"She's 13 and all mixed up," said the mother. The News & Observer is not naming the mother or the girl, because it is the newspaper's policy not to identify victims of reported sexual offenses.

For nearly three hours, family and sheriff's deputies searched sheds, fields and ditches for the couple. Just shy of 1 a.m., a cousin spotted the two running across N.C. 222. The cousin coaxed the girl into the car.

Sheriff's deputies charged Harris with statutory rape and second-degree kidnapping. He's being held in the Johnston County jail in lieu of $150,000 bail.

Harris promised he'd take the girl away with him, the mother said Tuesday.

"For her, this was all one big adventure," she said.
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 26 (view)
 
teenagers and the internet
Posted: 4/21/2006 7:34:48 AM
As i stated the first time you did the right thing,"hell " i didn't know you could take the usb cable away all i do is pull it out so she can't connect and let me tell you another thing you could do if you feel is getting really bad cut off the whole service like i started to do because i am fed up with the myspace all those sites for these young people to abuse ,have you seen some of the language up there its terriable and they cussed me out real bad because i tell these youngsters you ought to be a shame of yourself posing nude pics and at 13,14,15, and up calling yourself sexnames like sexyass ,big****,etc oh its terriable i have went so far as to ask the parents to support me in getting rid of these sites .Livejournal is another one but you see we don't have enough parental support some parents think its alright for their kids to get on these sites even though i heard a girl was missing on my space they still haven't found her,my question is how much news must you listen to before we wake up as parents and say this is it!Im not standing for it anymore and i commend you as a parent for what you do and no you are not a spy no such thing as that thats your daughter you are free to look through any "damn "thing you want to if it will keep her from geeting hurt out here and save her life,when i find that article i will send it to you about the rape this week and the guy was arrested Thank God.
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 25 (view)
 
teenagers and the internet
Posted: 4/21/2006 7:05:05 AM
You did the right thing,I too have a daughter 13 and i stay on her becaucause it is in fact dangerous out here in fact two or three days ago in Johnston County a girl had been chatting she was 13 and she had been chatting with a 26 year -old man who she exchanged numbers with and somehow when her mom went to the door he was their i think she may have told where she lived,anyway he grabbed the girl in front of the mom and grandparents and drug her in the woods or shed and Raped her yes right in front of her familys very eyes.Thats way i say its is very important for our teenagers not to chat with older men or lead them on because they could get hurt real bad and i encourrage every teenager to stay off of here chatting with grown men but of course they want listen so its nothing really you can do but keep doing what you are doing you did the right thing and her parents just need to keep an eye on their daughter if not she is headed for trouble.
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
where are some nice places to meet people
Posted: 4/21/2006 6:43:14 AM
other then the internet?
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Anyone in here serious?
Posted: 4/21/2006 6:38:15 AM
I am serious but all i get is chats,phone numbers,when you call they don't remember you ,I have been told to try church there are good men their .
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
should you tell your your mate or the person you are seeing?
Posted: 4/19/2006 12:28:58 PM
How can i delete the first one?
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
should you tell your your mate or the person you are seeing?
Posted: 4/19/2006 12:11:09 PM
About you lifes history such as you not compleing high school because i do tell the truth and i just want to know is it right or wrong to tell?I would like answers to this one void the one i posted before,and answer this one
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 4 (view)
 
should you always tell the truth on your profiles?
Posted: 4/19/2006 11:51:18 AM
well on some profiles it does,but would you share that kind of info?
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
should you always tell the truth on your profiles?
Posted: 4/19/2006 10:49:44 AM
I am asking because when they get to that question about high school should you share that kind of info or no?or better yet what if you didn't finish and are going for your ged should that be shared too?
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 525 (view)
 
Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 4/18/2006 8:08:40 AM
I want talk to them unless they have a pic,but maybe i should try and welcome this as well since its not all suppose to be about looks,I just want a sense of who im talking too .
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 598 (view)
 
Why are you single?
Posted: 4/18/2006 7:50:30 AM
I think for me there is so many reasons why,but my main one is because i would say im not looking hard enough or haven't found the right one.
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
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question
Posted: 4/18/2006 7:31:45 AM
you all have good points ,but see i do not drive so its kind of hard for me,and i live with my folks so i am not all that scared i just go with my gut and im usually ok.
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
question
Posted: 4/14/2006 2:02:41 PM
Have any of you and i need for you to be honest cause i have,have anyone of you ever invited someone to come see you at your home or to pick you up?only those who did answer my question please.
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
I think online dating can be such a waste
Posted: 4/11/2006 6:25:28 AM
Reason why is because the guys on their proclaim the want to get to know you and its all lies ,they ae just leading you on.How many others feel this way?
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 65 (view)
 
What's the first thing you look at when you click on someone's profile?
Posted: 3/7/2006 3:51:48 PM
I look for their history if they got one how many times they been married,how many kids you got where you from .
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 23 (view)
 
any one here who has bipolar manic depression
Posted: 3/6/2006 9:24:49 AM
Let me just say too that i think you should talk to your doctor or therpist yeah you defiently need somebody to talk too don't put it off ,here are some drugs to mention to you doc effexor,risperdal,lamatital,depokote i may have spelled two wrong sorry
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 22 (view)
 
any one here who has bipolar manic depression
Posted: 3/6/2006 8:50:43 AM
In case you don't understand the second line of my post it states none of us are doctors or therpists
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 21 (view)
 
any one here who has bipolar manic depression
Posted: 3/6/2006 8:29:00 AM
I must say we need to get educated on it it has nothing to do with wanting to have your way some people don't have patience with it and aren't willing to help sick people and its a shame but yet we call ourselves caring people when we are not.First off none of us doctors nd somebody posts this before and you are more then welcome to go to me posts before or i will just say it again it is very wrong to suggest a person go off their meds especially when they could have more going on then bipolar that is so wrong for anyone to say not just on here anywhere ,do u know thats why so many people commit suiside and kill their kids ,mother,father,husband,wife,etc because it was to late folks knew they had a problem but didn't want to del with it no anyone with a mental illness and i speak for myself as well does not need to come off the medication unless a doctor advises it.Beleive me i know it can cause mad side effects its just not safe because you got some people who are sczio and bipolar and thats a combinnation in a half and you mean to tell me you are going to say oh just don't take the meds you are just talking to yourself and feeling like someone is after you cause you want to have your way i mean think about it now would you treat your parents this way?i think the mentally ill get a bad rap because no one is educted enough to understand the illness cause i mean anyone can grab a booklet and some pamplets and figure oh yeah i know about bipolar now not!!It takes more than that and thats why we have a thing called doctors now i will agree some of them don't know what they are doing but some try ,my cousin has a chemical imbalance but she still functations like a normal person but she does go off quite a bit on and off meds as a matterafact she takes her ownself off her medication and seems like she lives in these hospitals all because she thinks she knows more than the doctors and have fought several of them before and has been to jail left and right now she receives the shot and thats called perlixium and still cuts up as you all call it,hell everyone seems to be telling their business i figure i will give you some well known facts .Last but not least there is no such thing as bipolarmanicdepressive its either bipolar or manic depressive but hey nobodys perfect she just made a lil error thats all i applaud you for coming out with it so many people don't because of the ignorance i normally read about these illnesses people are ignorant to the fact of mental illness to start with once again i applaud who wrote this .
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Music You're Embarrassed To Admit You Listen To...
Posted: 2/23/2006 6:33:47 AM
I am not embrassed but i listen to hardcore rap all types really guessed im just shocked that i stll listen to it at my age
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 36 (view)
 
What's the first thing you look at when you click on someone's profile?
Posted: 2/23/2006 6:24:12 AM
I look for maybe thistory sometimes also location that thy are not to far away and their looks
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 93 (view)
 
Introduce Yourself Here.
Posted: 2/21/2006 4:29:40 PM
Hi single black female from raleigh nc just looking for friends first and for men who have never been married like myself and who loves kids because i have kids myself.
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Can anyone tell me why?
Posted: 2/21/2006 4:24:04 PM
Well i know what you men i go through it all the time mainly because thats the way i want it at first but i have learned you can't really get to know each other on here,so you or he must decide to meet sooner or later.
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Man sued for lying on dating sites
Posted: 2/19/2006 3:39:38 PM
wow this is not so much news to me,Dr.Phil caught a guy in a lie from online big deal don't put your trust in everybody not man not woman it goes both ways.
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 8 (view)
 
woman on the view
Posted: 2/15/2006 12:36:02 PM
Its a talk show with women comes on at 11:00 in the morning time with Star Jones,Meridth,Joy ,Barbara Walters
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Over-plucked eyebrows on women !!
Posted: 2/15/2006 7:35:11 AM
It might be associated with nerves too that can play a factor,because i know i pluck mine plus i don't really like facial hair on my face at all.but u are right it isn't good at all
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
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woman on the view
Posted: 2/15/2006 7:13:04 AM
This lady on the view said she does not know where her clitoris is?Is that possiable i mean cause i know where mine is located.
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
livejournal and myspace
Posted: 2/7/2006 7:37:10 AM
I was looking at the news yesterday and was shocked to hear that myspace and Livejournal have had to make so many arrests for sex predators,and this should be important to us because i have kids and know of other kids using those to sites and i have warned and let them know already.Because thats what i always say you have to be careful on the internet thats anybody,If you want to check it out for yourself go to www.cbsnews.com and just pick the option or segment story dealing wit myspace the other one was on dateline about LiveJournal .


[Subject line fixed. Please don't use vague subject. It makes the "Delete Thread" button look very tempting. /Forum_Moderator]
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Leading Dating Sites Are Selling your Phone Records and identities
Posted: 1/20/2006 2:34:19 PM
This comes as no suprise to me
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 192 (view)
 
What if you meet someone on here thats bipolar and is an alcoholic?
Posted: 1/18/2006 8:36:09 AM
I agree no one taking psychotrofic drugs should be using any alcohol or drugs so thats my answer for that.
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 191 (view)
 
What if you meet someone on here thats bipolar and is an alcoholic?
Posted: 1/18/2006 7:45:04 AM
I want to comment again on your posts i see alot of comments suggesting run and run away from them,no we should run away from you all you are a hell of alot more Dangerous than any of us will ever be why because all of you are desperate to find someone off the internet don't care what kind of person they are what kind of background they have now what does that say about you all?then you againgst helping the sick well i got a problem with that suppose your mother went seenile or had to be bed ridden?or had Alzhemers would you run like hell like you stated on some of your posts or would you run period and also would you do like most kids do their elderly parents desert them and say the Hell with them huh?I would really like to know since all your comments are so negative and hateful againgst all sick people i mean think about what you are saying or better yet howw would you like the tables turned and Outdoor guy posted should Bi-polar people date stangers meaning people they don't know, people who are ex cons,peple who are rapists,etc how would you feel but he didn't state that i did and my point is you all are just as lost as we are and you are just as dangerous as a matter a fact more dangerous cause you could be lying about everything you print on here thats why OutDoorguy should watch out for cruel people like you all .Yes it is wrong to put down people with bipolar thats my point what if it was your moma would you run to the Hills then?or your child or any relative in your family lets take time to actually think about what we write before we write it because the things i have read has actually upset me but like he she you all are ignorrant to the facts and all this talk about volience,"Hell some people have hell in they sytem maybe thats what happen wit you women but don't dare put it on bi-polar because thats just a cop-out and a scapegoat alot of people use Bipolar as a way to get out of things but it doesn't work you do something wrong you going to Jail just like all the rest and people misusing bi-polar for mean as hell need to know that .You do the crime you do the time thats the way the law works and you all need to wake up and yeah we might be out of our minds as they call it for associating with your kind because i don't know about the other Bipolar people on here but my doc tells me not even to talk to people online but i do it for my choice,now as far as you all saying people can do better than us yeah right so ive seen they hook up with rapists,child moldesters,jailbirds,prisoners,men who like to whop you ass come on we can do alot better than that and have with no problems and last but not least we need to learn that our family will always be their for us no matter what friends and etc they come and go family doesn't so to hell with people that don't accept our condition!we are not living for you all we are living for ourselves and God put us on earth not you cruel humans who wrote such negative things about us!
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
has anyone tried those telephone datechats
Posted: 1/18/2006 6:37:08 AM
Its still around they never left some even have toll -free numbers like nightline its free (919)235-3131 yeah thats the newset one they been talking about or try this website www.questpersonals.com and they will give you the phone number these are people instested in really meeting.
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 63 (view)
 
WOULD YOU DATE SOMEONE WITH A DISABILITY?PART TWO!
Posted: 1/18/2006 6:15:05 AM
I must say i applaud you all for coming up with a thread like this and i mean i am touched by the postive comments you all have made and am only responding to postive not negative comments cause i think its very cruel and low to pick on people with disabilities or mentally ill,when you do that you are not human and you are not educated enough to even speak on the subject,but i will say this people with disabilities catch hell just like people with mental illness we re judged folks say we need to get off our butt and work and they say we are taking from the government which is a lie i see it this way hell if i got to be this way the rest of my life you damn right i desrve someking of secreity and if you find love good luck cause i don't know of too musch men wanting to take care of a women ,it just isn't so when i hear success stories im like bravo and it gives me faith well good luck to all of you and i admire the person who wrote this thread for having the guts to speak on people ith disabilities not many people can do that.
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 184 (view)
 
What if you meet someone on here thats bipolar and is an alcoholic?
Posted: 1/17/2006 12:36:24 PM
Outdoorguy i commend you for everything you stated i read your post and i was very pleased and you seem to really be intelligent,I wanted to also tell you there are actors and actresses with bi-polar and manic depression,Sonny from general hospital suffers from it and he and his wife are just fine and numberous of others so just keep doning what you doing and keep it postive as always!
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
SUGGESTION: Disallow Insulting People w/Mental Illness
Posted: 1/17/2006 12:18:25 PM
I do not think you should allow people to put down people with mental illness,its wrong and its cruel and it just shows their predjudice towards people i just think those type of threads need to be dropped because people are making fun of the mentally ill.I also feel this is a dating site a place to discuss your dates and your experiences not your personal life ,i think the thread should really read would you date an internet person whom you know nothing about those are the kind you need to run like hell from yeah they talk all nice but they have an angenda up their sleeve and from experience please don't tell anyone online of your illness because they will try to take advantage of you and the ones cracking on people with bi-polar they 9 times out of ten have it or will have it in the near future its like diabetes and kids get it to so i am just letting you as moderaters know i am very upset with some of these comments i have read.
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
has anyone tried those telephone datechats
Posted: 1/17/2006 12:08:19 PM
I was wondering if anyone does the phone thing in looking for singles ?because sometimes that a good option too
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 182 (view)
 
What if you meet someone on here thats bipolar and is an alcoholic?
Posted: 1/17/2006 7:45:52 AM
I think these comments are terriable that you all have made and very sad that why we live in the world we live in because of folks who think like you all do u think we enjoy being they way we are?I think you all need to get a book on it and educate yourselves who know you might even have it and you might be running from your ownself.
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Any Recovering Bipolar People Here?
Posted: 12/28/2005 7:44:36 PM
I am as well but thats as far as it goes,let me say that on the net is no where to discuss your personal business because people look you up and throw it in your face trust me its happened to me.
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 22 (view)
 
what to do when people make rude comments
Posted: 11/29/2005 4:50:31 PM
Look you do not know me sir so therefore all you have seen is things written by someone you don't know who but you just assume its the person in the pic right?thats what i thought now the only way you can say something about a person and this is anyone only if you know them in person not on the internet typing messages ok Mr.i think we have learned our lesson for today 1.
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 12 (view)
 
does anyone own a cockatiel ?
Posted: 11/29/2005 4:44:01 PM
I would like to view your birds and will send a pic of mine if anyone is instrested just give me your email
 sugarnspice30
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
does anyone own a cockatiel ?
Posted: 11/28/2005 2:57:03 PM
was wondering if anyone owned a bird?
 
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