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Thread: Bam chica wah wah. Bam chica chika groovy!
cityhorsewoman
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Bam chica wah wah. Bam chica chika groovy!
Posted:
6/22/2009 11:07:22 PM
f I think someone is the stupidest person around, and I say so, I certainly feel no need to back-peddle from the position.
But, you did say this. Completely avoiding that fact that Stupidest is so not a word. So in utilizing it, you should make it self applicable as well.
Andrew Wiggens, that was me he was referring to. Because I had mentioned that I didn't like men that "flopped back and forth in the wind" i.e. flaky.
Not sure if you were defending me, but if you were then I want to Thank You.
Cheers Babe!
cityhorsewoman
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preconceived desires.
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6/22/2009 10:26:28 PM
Everyone probably has "preconceived notions" about one's profile, whether they are correct or not is something entirely different.
For example, I messaged one fella who I thought would be quite fitting, only to have him respond that he doesn't like dogs. Uh, ok. My pets are DEAD.
Not sure if that statement applies, but I thought I would post anyways.
cityhorsewoman
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sex change operation
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6/22/2009 10:16:16 PM
would you date a man or woman who has had a full sex change but regrets it and wants a non same gender relationship.
No.
And besides, if they are getting a sex-change operation, I would assume (hate to do that) that they want to live as normally as possible and therefore be involved with someone with the opposite sex.
And I would hope, for their sake, after all that pain and suffering to have a sex change operation, that they would not "regret" it afterwards.
cityhorsewoman
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In the 1500's
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6/22/2009 9:37:35 PM
I also believe that the phrase "ring around the rosie, pocket full of posies..." also came into effect sometime during this era because of the plague.
cityhorsewoman
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Pro-Life vs. Pro-Choice in Dating *scary music swells*
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6/22/2009 11:18:26 AM
The Buddist monks do not differ from some of the aboriginal (indians) as they would also pray and ask for forgiveness to the Great Spirit for the killing of a buffalo or deer. And most of PETA's members are also vegan. And although I applaud some of the topics they are passionate about, as a Canadian I got sick to death recieving unending e-mails about the killing of baby seals.....and although I may try seal meat if it was cooked, I don't appreciate their forcing of the masses into vegetarianism. I think that we should be able to make that decision for ourselves.
But yes, I agree with CW35 in that we should consentrate our efforts towards what already is "alive" instead of putting all this effort into guilt-tripping women who are struggling with an unwanted pregnancy.
cityhorsewoman
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Pro-Life vs. Pro-Choice in Dating *scary music swells*
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6/22/2009 11:00:43 AM
That was an interesting post Andrew Wiggen. I myself talk to my car, have a name for "her" and everything. Gertrude is made of metal, and metal was once a mineral taken from the earth.....and in a strange way, I do consider her "alive".
Anyways, it has been proven that trees and plants "feel" also.
But when you throw religion into this mix you don't examine all religions views, which differ greatly on this subject.
cityhorsewoman
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Pro-Life vs. Pro-Choice in Dating *scary music swells*
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6/22/2009 10:36:53 AM
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@ bgrumbling
I appreciate the apology.
What we really have to look at is the whole position that surrounds a woman who becomes pregnant.
And as far as PETA, I'm not sure what their views are on hunting, but I do know their basic ideology is for the right to a decent life, no matter what the creature.
cityhorsewoman
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Does a man with a complicated personality threaten a woman's ego?
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6/21/2009 8:30:56 PM
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How could I not take
only the stupidest of people...
out of context? It was how I had chosen to describe this man at the time as that how it sounded to me, but yet I got your accusation to me of smearing him. That was not my intentions at all.
And alot of other posters also said, in a matter of words, that the poster had some incongruency to a certain level also.
You know Robert, I did come to the conclusion at one point that perhaps the poster had a reason for his unpredictability - medication, ADD or the like. And I am not "smearing" him even if he did have some of those afflictions. But he should be upfront then.
But I did not rush to anything when I read that you attached
only the stupidest of people would admit, inadvertently or otherwise, that "he changes on a whim and flops back and forth in the wind."
when that is what I myself had previously posted as a description.
It sounds to me as if you are trying to backpedal now.
Tell me, is this behaviour you show everyone, or is there a category of people you reserve this for?
To answer that, all I will respond is: whatever.
cityhorsewoman
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Does a man with a complicated personality threaten a woman's ego?
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6/21/2009 8:03:21 PM
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only the stupidest of people would admit, inadvertently or otherwise, that "he changes on a whim and flops back and forth in the wind."
That would be MOI and I resent that. And yet you accused me of trying to SMEAR this man?
And then you turn around and do the same to me.
Do bsdm master's enjoy pain themselves?
cityhorsewoman
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Pro-Life vs. Pro-Choice in Dating *scary music swells*
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6/21/2009 5:41:08 PM
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Sure, I may want to keep my baby.
But you will also have to admit, that if I was to seek conselling at a pro-life clinic, they would seek every available excuse and answer as to why I should carry through.
And I doubt like hell any of them would be at my bedside day and night, mopping my brow, making me eat (or monitoring my IV), and changing my sheets because I won't be getting up to use the bathroom. Never mind offering their arm so I could dig my nails in or bite into it because the pain is so agonizing.
No, most pro-lifers do not look at any health condition as any excuse as to why there is a reason to terminate a pregnancy.
Like the "intelligent" man who has also made his posts be known here, I would be considered a "murderer" no matter what...
\/ ... and I arrest my case.
cityhorsewoman
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Pro-Life vs. Pro-Choice in Dating *scary music swells*
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6/21/2009 5:30:53 PM
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@ RenaissanceMan1950
Also, the studies on the issue show a much higher incidence of serious depression and addiction among women, who have had abortions, when compareed to women, who have chosen adoption.
Where are you getting your information from?
I am going to give you a scenario, a very accurate one that will involve myself, and I would like your honest, heartfelt opinion and advice.
I have had tubal ligation done when I was very young.
Let us just say that for today, I have found out that my birth control has failed and I now have found myself pregnant. And lets say because I still ovulate and menstruate I am about 3 to 4 weeks along as I am sure I would notice right away why my period is absent....And we will just forget about the father for a moment.
There is a problem however.
I have severe degenerative disc disease at the L3/4 level, so severe that there is no joint that exists nor the spongy "padding" that exists between all our spinal joints. In essense, it is "bone on bone" along with the nerve endings that also are being affected. I am also classified as being in intractible pain, and I am under the supervision of a Pain Clinic along with being treated by various medications so that my pain can be controlled and I can live a near-normal life.
These medications are definately contraindicated for anyone who is pregnant. And there are no substitutes that supress the type of pain that I have.
Without them, I would be bedridden and probably dead within a month or so from cardiac-adrenal pain syndrome, dementia, and some other complication that would be just as lovely. The extra weight of a fetus left to grow (if I lived that long) would most likely end up crushing the disc and inflicting even more pain and misery on myself.
So, what would your answer be for me?
cityhorsewoman
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Does a man with a complicated personality threaten a woman's ego?
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6/21/2009 5:04:33 PM
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@ robertslovequest
Until someone asks the question, there is no need.
Its fair to ask questions, with the purpose of understanding better and more completely what he meant.
I'll go with that.
cityhorsewoman
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Does a man with a complicated personality threaten a woman's ego?
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6/21/2009 4:56:01 PM
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@ robertslovequest
I do not understand why you think I am smearing this OP.
you should at least provide some evidence to support the claim.
I refuse to Google cases in point why people - being women, men children or animals love consistent, understandable communication. To me it is quite simple really.
The OP states this:
....... active and inquisitive in several areas of endeavor. I'm not that easy to categorize, at least not using the terms most women choose when describing their ideal mate. In fact I function on several levels at once and frequently rework at lot of my communications and viewpoints and preferences as I go along because I become aware of connections and relatedness between topics and experiences that may not be so quickly visible to others or which may just be obscure.
We ALL vibrate a certain frequency. So great, the OP has some big insight on many frequencies. But what he needs to explain is how he is able to identify these "connections and relatedness's" that he is so apparently finds so easy to visualize to HIM and that others may find so obscure....? Like what?
He is the one that needs to explain himself.
To me, all that tells me is that he is talented at changing the subject of topics and his opinions at his convenience with no consideration for the other people who may also be involved, in this case, the women he goes out with. In essense, he switches radio stations in the middle of a song.....
cityhorsewoman
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Does a man with a complicated personality threaten a woman's ego?
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6/21/2009 4:41:37 PM
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Try and adapt how you talk to make sure the way they hear it is as you intend. Otherwise it defeats the purpose of communication :)
I totally agree Moombeamlover.
I guess what I am trying to say is that if someone is communicating to me in english, the language I understand the most, and then switches to German, a language that I can only curse in but cannot completely communicate in otherwise, then the line of communication will be totally lost and broken.....
I'll probably then be excusing myself to the bathroom and not coming back.
cityhorsewoman
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Does a man with a complicated personality threaten a woman's ego?
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In other words, as he gains experience and reconsiders his positions he grows and learns and thus finds himself letting go of past ideas and accepting new ones as they prove themselves to be better.
I would like to think that is what everyone is capable of doing, but that is not the impression I got from the OP.
The impression I have gotten from the OP is that he changes on a whim and flops back and forth in the wind.
Just my opinion though....
cityhorsewoman
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Does a man with a complicated personality threaten a woman's ego?
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@ Dance: Sure, he may learn alot from spending time with horses, but I have a feeling he won't get anything out of it:
In fact I function on several levels at once and frequently rework at lot of my communications and viewpoints and preferences as I go along .....
Horses value above everything else to be understood and for their human friends to be CONSISTENT. In fact, every animal wants you to be kind and consistent.
For the OP who "reworks his commications as he goes along" will get no respect from any animal or person. No creature (human or otherwise) would understand constant changing of communications and the total confusion it would create. And ultimately, there would be absolutely no acceptance nor trust given in those situations.
cityhorsewoman
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What would you do?
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6/21/2009 2:35:27 PM
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@robertslovequest
Would he be content to know this is the basis upon which you made your decision?
I would bet the answer would be a big, fat No.
cityhorsewoman
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Pro-Life vs. Pro-Choice in Dating *scary music swells*
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6/21/2009 2:05:31 PM
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The topic here is:
Pro-Life vs. Pro-Choice in Dating....Can you date a pro-life advocate if you are pro-choice, and vice versa? Is there a way to find a happy medium with them? Or are you just better off sticking with partners who believe as you do?
Ok youngsnowbird, we get that you have apparently dated someone who is Pro-Choice.
But then you sink to the lowest of lows and bash not only the poster above you, but her vocation as well?
Is that the consensus among ALL of the acupuncutarial assistants..? ..
Why can't you get through your head that there is a thread topic here and you have been repeated requested to not deviate from it?
Honestly, your misogynist attitude tells me that you should get you ass kicked off of these forums for a while to teach you a lesson...
cityhorsewoman
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Notice to vacate rental if....
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6/21/2009 9:17:20 AM
Now that you mention the grievance, that is exactly what I filed too on an old landlord of mine. And it was amazing how they came around.
Please keep us up-to-date with how this goes.
I really want to see you get your damage deposit back.
cityhorsewoman
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I Want Someone Like ME- is it too much to ask?
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6/21/2009 8:55:49 AM
At this point, I am sure I made ALL SINGLE DADS and MOMS FURIOUS. Don't be offended. Don't take it personally. I did not say anything negative about YOU. I just want someone who is like me.
Are you saying that you won't date a woman who has had children or has been previously married? Because it doesn't say that on your profile.
I am in good shape.
What do you constitute for being "in good shape" ?? Like for instance, I am in good shape, but I can't dead-lift 300 lbs.....
And has far as the master's degree and profession go, there are lots of women that have a profession but not a master's degree. Is having a master's degree that important to you in a woman?
There is nothing wrong with wanting someone who shares in your same interests, but to be "exactly" like you? You may be waiting a long time.....
cityhorsewoman
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Why do some women and men prefer
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6/21/2009 8:41:29 AM
Some people prefer a "no strings attached" type of relationship, and if that works for them then fine.
I myself won't entertain some married or attached guy, he can just get his sorry ass back to his significant other and stay out of my face.
With all the single guys out there, why would I want to fool around with an attached guy?
cityhorsewoman
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The silent treatment after a first date
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6/20/2009 10:20:55 PM
So, if you decide that you don't want to see someone anymore, do you just ignore them? Or do you let tell them on the phone or via text or email that it's over? I just can't believe how inconsiderate some people are, especially after you've forked over the money for dinner and everything.
I don't go on dates from here. However, I have no problem responding to all replies by e-mail.
You need to stop taking these unknown women for "dates" until you get to know them. I think a dinner and "everything" is way too much for a first meeting. Why can't you settle for just a drink or a coffee together first?
Yes, some people are inconsiderate on here but you will never have control over it. Accept it and move on.
cityhorsewoman
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How has your experience been with POF? Thumbs Up or Down?
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6/20/2009 9:29:22 PM
How has your experience been?
I'm here for the forums mostly, and those can be fun. So I would have to say overall, thumbs up!
cityhorsewoman
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women as pure sexual objects
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6/20/2009 8:45:17 PM
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I'm sorry OP if you keep on getting the wrong guys, I don't know why. I'm not saying they don't exist and I did have a few. But not 80% of my contacts.
And @cruzzinbruzzin: I read your profile, I don't understand why you received the riot act for your descriptive words geared towards intimacy and attraction to a woman?
Just another mystery in life as well as on Plenty of Fish I guess....
cityhorsewoman
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Pro-Life vs. Pro-Choice in Dating *scary music swells*
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6/20/2009 1:51:28 PM
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Hey rickeyes58, please read my post on the American healthcare system where it is a priviledge to have health care, instead of a right. A group of people need to put on a cape and demand better and more easily accessible health services. People are dying because they don't have health plans!
Anyways, I am off topic my dear rickeyes and so are you. I can't comment anymore about this because I'm too pooped to type anymore.
Be well everyone.
cityhorsewoman
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Pro-Life vs. Pro-Choice in Dating *scary music swells*
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but in the United States, a pregnant woman could contact Catholic Charities, Lutheran Social Services, The Salvation Army, or in most states the "Right to Life" groups, and be given all sorts of alternatives, and support networks. Through the Illinois Right to Life group, I know that there is an informal network of "foster families" who will take in a pregnant woman, and support her thr0ugh the pregnancy, and the early period following a child's birth, and groups that will "adopt" a mother and child as a church effort.
I would think that they would have that in Canada too. And I would hope that any woman who is in crisis because of an unexpected pregnancy, go there and be counselled. I honestly believe that every life is a blessing, please don't get the idea that I think otherwise. But I don't feel that women should be "demanded" to produce a child either, especially if they are not in a physical or psychological state to endure 9 months of pregnancy and childbirth.....and I know that there are alot of loving, giving, special couples that cannot have children of their own that are waiting to adopt.
This is such a contentious issue, I realize it. But I just don't want the government, church, or otherwise to dictate on anyone's body, male or female. Would you want the government, lets say for example, tell you that you have to wait a certain amount of time to remove a tumor?
cityhorsewoman
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Hey man, you asked for an explaination, and I gave it to you. You are free to comment on what I just posted. Take it or leave it, your choice. No pun intended, of course.
cityhorsewoman
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Pro-Life vs. Pro-Choice in Dating *scary music swells*
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I promise not to twist your words if you ever make a logical argument for taking an innocent life (< this goes for all posters ). Don't twist mine..
Hmmm, sounds like a threat to me....but I'll entertain you.
If you were to read my profile, I am passionate about animals and dogs. And as far as Vicks dogs go, they are/were living, walking, breathing, standing on the earth, alive creatures that were being brutally tortured. And they were being unecessarily subjected to physical and emotional pain. And I cannot stand any animal OR human being subjected to those type of pain(s). Most of Vick's dogs were euthenized, as they were too emotionally or physically "damaged" to be stable enough to be anything close to a trustful, loving pet. Yes I do agree, sometimes death is kinder...it is not fair for any dog to live out its life in a cage because of their unpredictability.
And as far as innocent lives go, I don't consider a clump of cells living, walking, breathing, standing on the earth, alive "anything" until it proceeds out of the uterus (either by live birth or cesarean section) and takes a breath and keeps on breathing. We do not know if those clumps of cells feel anything until they reach a certain point of formation, and that is a scientific fact. My father was Jewish and I do believe in the part of that faith that firmly states that the soul does not enter the baby until its first breath is taken. I can't change what I choose to believe, just like you cannot either.
My point is: If a woman is going to be subjected to any type of emotional or physical pain (or death) by carrying out a pregnancy, then she should have the right to decide about HER life and whether she wants to terminate or not. Like I said before, if the ship (mother) goes down, so does the crew (baby). It is as simple as that.
And I must ask that if you are so passionate about stopping these women from making that decision, then may I suggest that you support her and the child financially, emotionally, and give them both unconditional love and support for their entire lives so that they won't be a burden on the social system. And so that they don't turn out similar to Vicks poor dogs; broken, abused, and of no value to themselves or society. Our prisions are full of men and women like that.
I do not see any agencies that do that, not here in Canada anyways. But I think it would be a good idea.
cityhorsewoman
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How much jealousy is healthy?
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Trust is something that is built between people... it's a strong bond, but fairly fragile if one or both people start doing things to break the bonds of trust.
I agree. But to which end does jealousy start and mistrust takes over? Or is it the other way around?
I had a boyfriend once who had a female friend that I knew where lovers at one point. When he went back home, they would go for dinners and movies together - do very "datish" things together. Did I like it? Hell no. But I cannot figure out if I was jealous or mistrustful.
No matter, its been done and gone a long time now.
cityhorsewoman
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@ RenaissanceMan1950
We've seen a lot of examples in this thread of those with whom it wouldn't be possible to have a reasonable discussion, and respectfully "agree to disagree". I think, too, there are many posters who, if I encountered them in real life, it would be entirely possible to get past this issue, if we were otherwise "interested" in each other.
I would date you if you weren't so far away!
Thank you for your comment, it really is the truth.
cityhorsewoman
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How important is chivalry in an relationship to you?
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Do you still believe in the ideals of chivalry in an relationship? Or, do you think chivalry is demeaning and condescending?
I love it. I don't know what kind of chivalrous acts that a man could do that would be considered demeaning, but I'll let you know if I ever come across it.
cityhorsewoman
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6/20/2009 9:24:30 AM
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@ bgrumling:
For some reason, you aren't getting the fact that I don't care about where you have been or what you think about Canadians, or any other race, creed, religions, etc.
The topic is Pro-Life vs. Pro-Choice in Dating *scary music swells*
Eff off eh.
cityhorsewoman
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Thank you Satyr9 on your post. I have seen how people try unsucessfully do the parenting thing, only to see the child(ren) brought up in an environment of sheer hell. And grow up a confused, lost human being.
I think it a "procreation licensure" course is a great idea!!
cityhorsewoman
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6/20/2009 9:15:20 AM
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@ bgrumling
One more comment on your
and for all you non-americans this debate in america is not even for you. stay out of our ploitics as short of human rights violations and genocide we should stay out of yours.
In Canada, it is our God-given RIGHT to health care. In Amercia, it is only a PRIVILEGE. Meaning, that if you don't have health insurance, you die because you can't afford to manage what ails you.
So, instead of accusing us Canadians of poking our noses where apparently, I believe this thread is for everyone no matter what country they are from, get yourself down to your nearest elected government official and vote to make a change so that your kids can grow up alive if they ever get sick and you can't afford their health treatments.
cityhorsewoman
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and i hate to say this but it you are in canada you have no right to even think about what goes on in the untied states.
What are you talking about? You think that Pro-Life and Pro-Choice people don't exist here? God, are you a idiot.
And the rest of your bla bla bla on the rest of the world, in which you most likely haven't been to, is just some dumb a*s talking through his hat. You really don't have a clue what really goes on.
Stick with the thread topic, or be gone.
cityhorsewoman
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Pro-Life vs. Pro-Choice in Dating *scary music swells*
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The topic here is
Pro-Life vs. Pro-Choice in Dating *scary music swells*
The deviations that have been listed in this thread go from Michael Vicks fighting dogs, the women in Afganistan, the death penalty, and forcing women into unwanted pregnancies.
I can tell you that if some pro-lifer approached me in the hospital while I getting treated for being brutally raped and told me that I should be having the child regardless of the violent act that just had been committed on me, would be lucky to walk away unscathed. I would be demanding the morning after pill and be taking it immediately thereafter, no ands, ifs, or buts.
No one can ever know what is in the minds of women who are facing a unwanted pregnancy, or have those late term abortions to save their lives. If getting pregnant to a woman would be a death sentence, why leave it to God for both of them to die? Is that not double murder also?
Like A.S.is says, it is none of anyone's business except the woman and her doctor.
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@ bgrumling
I think that is fantastic of you to have, support, teach and love your kids. And as far as your religion goes, not everyone thinks like a Baptist.
I don't dislike children, I just never wanted any. And no, I don't regret not having any children. Apparently I heard my God speaking to me at a very early age, and therefore I listened and made my decisions accordingly. To judge me because I turned down having kids is wrong. You are suppose to be a man of God.
After all for example, I don't believe in divorce (I myself have never been married - my God spoke to me about that too), and I don't judge you because you are a divorcee.
Some people hear their calling in life and if it is not to have kids, then so be it. I myself have followed the path in life that I was suppose to take. Just because it wasn't the same as your path doesn't mean that it was a mistake by any means.
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@ kaliecat
Sure, we own our own wombs. But we don't own what is in it. When there is a child growing in the womb, that means you have been given a life to grow, whether by the horror of rape, by birth control that failed, ...
Just alone the psychological stress that a woman suffers after being raped, never mind being forced to bear the child would push her over the edge, most likely to suicide. When a woman has been violated by rape, it is not her choice to bear that child.
Obviously you have not been raped.
And I can speak for many women who are not psychologically or physically able to bear a child who had their form of birth control fail would also be making the decision to save themselves. After all, if the vessel was to sink, so would the crew aboard.
Great that you would support the death penalty on murderers/rapists/tortuers, but yet you have no compassion for the woman who suffers brutally at the hands of a rapist.
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@ RenaissanceMan1950
I really think you are an great man for wanting to support and be obligated to your child, even before the birth. Unfortunately, not all men think that way and are gone like the wind at the first whiff of fatherhood.
I'm sorry for your heartbreak at the decision your college girlfriend made.
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6/20/2009 7:04:34 AM
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@ A.S. is:
Thank you for the facts. Please note that you are up against a Baptist, and he will thump that bible hard no matter what facts you throw at him.
Oops, I spoke too soon. He did recognize it! Sorta.
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Have I ever enjoyed reading the comments about this post. Interesting!
I am not sure how you can compare pro-life to Michael Vick's abusing his fighting dogs, but that was interesting too.
Other comments I find interesting is about the pro-life men who don't have a uterus and will never carry a child. Another interesting matter.
But I do have an interesting story to tell about a very strict catholic friend of mine who abhors abortion but yet has no desire to help parentless children. When I suggested that she take in a young girl who is pregnant and broke, she became quite angry at me.
I myself would never tell a woman facing an unwanted pregnancy what to do, it is just none of my business. Just as it is none of anyone's business what medications I should or should not take for my chronic health condition.
Can a pro-lifer and a pro-choicer date successfully? I say "why not" ?? If they agree to disagree and are mature enough to recognize that, then it should be no problem.
Good post Justin.
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SHALL WE TELL THE TRUTH?
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6/20/2009 6:48:01 AM
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Thanks, hon.
You are welcome.
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@ bgrumling
so if you are like me and you like swingers and bi sexual women would you post thatin your profile?
Why wouldn't you? If you met someone special to you, don't you think that is going to come up eventually?
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ameerra, I love your posts. You are an intelligent lady, and I really agree with what you wrote...
Sometimes it's worthy to articulate the truth in a way that another person can digest it.
Right on. I love it when people are honest with me, I hate bullshit.
I believe in accepting people as they are.
Me too.
If you want to be truthful to someone then do it diplomatically. And be prepared to back up your truth with proof and solutions if necessary.
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what is love to you ?
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6/20/2009 5:38:21 AM
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so instead of love we should all seek substance
So what happens if a man or woman is not ATTRACTED to "substance" ??
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couch potatoes
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So around 8 or 9 I'm happy just to sit on my ass and watch tv or read or what ever.
I'm weird or what....I do not believe for a second that all those man, constantly doing something
If they are, then good for them.
Nope you are not weird and I am with ya there Saggy. There is nothing I love doing more at that time of the night than having a nice snack in front of the dumb-box....
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can men be trusted
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Well there has been 5 pages of basically the same advice for the OP, and strange she hasn't commented once.
Maybe she has gone back to the ads on Craigslist to find some girlfriends instead....?
Just another suggestion for you OP: If this guy is such a great friend, there should be no problem inviting your husband along to join you for your lunch dates.
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what is love to you ?
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now I curious to know what you guys think love is ?
I think you have pretty much summed it up:
putting your partner first in life
loving your partner for who they are .
when you cant imagine being with anyone else .
spending plenty of time with each other without being forced
And you forgot one important point:
Love is being able to express your true self and still be free within the relationship.
And as far as the guys that buy their women's affections - that is only "stuff" and those things aren't going to be there for you when you are sick, bedridden, or for the good times either.
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can men be trusted
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6/19/2009 10:05:16 PM
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For the most part you ladies don't give a da** about honor and morality. You just want to be catered to with no accountability or responsibilty. Fine, go forth. I'm just done trying to find any common ground with dishonest, immoral, creatures.
I'm glad that you are posting your obvious disrespect for basically all women here. It will give you a nice chance of finding a date. Perhaps your daughter will eventually find out about it and discover that her father is really a misogynist prick in disguise.
Good luck man, you are going to need it. LOL
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Honestly, what is sexier then a mullet?
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Do hairdresser's nowadays even know how to do that type of haircut anymore?
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