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Thread: Are all men only looking for one thing on this site? (SEX)
joquer
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Are all men only looking for one thing on this site? (SEX)
Posted:
8/30/2007 6:16:06 PM
*lol*
you guys want to be part of a heist and have a pet monkey too right?
joquer
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Why do girls really care about this?
Posted:
8/28/2007 5:55:48 PM
well if its an addiction (like he is spending more time with porn than her and YES it can happen), if he never initiates but always looks at porn, or if he takes his porn to the next level and is looking to meet up with escorts... all those reasons are reasons to be mad...
but porn is GREAT... and plus, i would rather my man bust a nutt by himself and the internet (or what ever) than go find some one outside to do it for him when im not home...
Joquer
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Tonuge Rings, yes, no, maybe whats YOUR opinion....
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8/28/2007 2:38:32 PM
i got mines years ago before it was a 'sex' thing... i got it because i idolized prodigy (yah i know i know damnit)... i thought it was cool and i was like 14... what ever...
i think they are sexy, but i think almost all piercings are...
joquer
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Does it count?
Posted:
8/27/2007 5:22:21 PM
yes... nuff said.
Joquer
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Sex with minors
Posted:
8/27/2007 2:40:58 PM
i was 20 and dated a guy who was 36. so he has a crush on a 17 year old... 25 isnt that much older... as long as he waited until she was 18 to make any moves whats the problem? and even so, in some cases, 17 isnt a minor any more...
if it was a 17 year old boy and a 25 year old woman there wouldnt be as much problems with it...
how old IS 17?! i mean, come one, if she was 15 or 14... ok.. thats a little perverted, but, 17, shes almost a legal adult... if she is a responsible 17 year old who is mature for her age, i dont see any thing wrong with them dating casually...
Joquer
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What three questions
Posted:
8/27/2007 2:35:54 PM
do you have any more pics?
do you have a phat ass?
is it true that black girls can deep throat?
Joquer
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Cleaning up or Embracing the fluids?
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8/25/2007 7:30:51 AM
i dont know if it is common or just my ocd or what ever, but after sex, i sit for like 2 minutes and if im at home im like dude, im taking a shower, and if im at his house i HAVE to 'use the bathroom'... then leave shortly after unless its a relationship type thing and i can take a quick shower...
its not so much the fluids its just... i dont like to be wet/slimmy... god i enjoy being stuck in the rain but after a while i realize that im wet and slimmy so i freak out *lol*
Joquer
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What is it with all these spiritual ladies these days???
Posted:
8/24/2007 2:03:29 PM
perhaps your religion like many others is money.... many spiritual people will think you are shallow and only into instant gratification... your solution is quite simple... date non-spiritual people and quit whining
what he said...
Joquer
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Plenty of Fish or Plenty of Children?!
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8/24/2007 1:57:44 PM
well, try dating older women (they may have older children that dont require a 'dad')... or make it very clear that you do not want to date anyone with children or that wants to have them.
Joquer
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Question for all you mom's out there.
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8/24/2007 1:55:02 PM
thats not a huge difference... 17/21? come on... now if it was like 15/21 then yah... even 16/21 is kinda iffy, but that depends on the girl, but 17/21 isnt that big of a deal...
i would prefer 18/21, but hey, if the guy is respectable and honest, then i would have no problem with it.
Joquer
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WEBCAM Protocol
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8/24/2007 1:53:26 PM
i mean in that situation, sure, it might be better, but its just not as practical. i use to not be a fast typer either *lol* then i started chatting and now its a second language...
Joquer
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Why so callus?
Posted:
8/24/2007 1:50:19 PM
if thats the case, then use something other than intimate encounter, having that on girls profiles get us the same title (whore) and its like, if thats what she is seriously looking for, great and ditto to you. but not everyone wants to be someones sexual object!
Joquer
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Which side of the bed do you prefer to have your lover sleep on?
Posted:
8/24/2007 1:47:59 PM
i dont care what side its on, as long as i am closest to the wall (its cold and i like to lay against it)
Joquer
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Would you do you?
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8/24/2007 1:46:59 PM
as i blast goodbye horses
would you fcuk me?
i would fcuk me...
i would fcuk me... hard
*nothing to tuck so i just do the dance*
Joquer
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Oral fixations....do you have one???
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8/23/2007 11:38:29 AM
i have an oral fixation like you wouldnt believe... its been semi contained with 3 tongue rings and a lip ring.... it gives meh something to play with... i use to smoke... but... *AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH* had to stop... but im always chewing on one of my rings... or playing with my lips... a lot of guys think i am flirting with them and im like, no hommie, im not... but saying i have an oral fixation doesnt make it any better!
Joquer
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Have you learned anything from watching porn?
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8/23/2007 11:36:33 AM
i learned not to look in the camera *LOL* no, i learned other things to try when giving head, differen ways to ride, new ways to arch my body so that missionary isnt so boring... i learned how to sit on it and turn in a 180 and ride from a whole different way... i learned that girl on girl shots never happen like that in real life *LOL*
Joquer
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Acne
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8/22/2007 10:31:01 AM
i dont think she was doing it as a 'sexual' thing. maybe it was just so gross to look at she HAD to get rid of it or she was going to vomit if she looked at it any longer...
Joquer
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Lube and Oral Sex - need a suggestion
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8/22/2007 10:29:40 AM
flavored lub is best... it all depends on what brand you like... hit up a porn shop they have a lot :) then know that no matter what it SAYS it taste like, its not going to taste like that 100% so stick with something safe... berries, mellons... dont go for something like orange sherbert...
coz thats not what its going to taste like!
Joquer
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Split tongues
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8/22/2007 10:25:21 AM
i wanted to get my tongue spliced... but its not legal any more and im not going to a back alley just to get it done. :(
but i have seen it and i think its awesome... very sexy...
Joquer
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Anal Orgasm?????
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8/21/2007 6:37:03 PM
i have had mind blowing orgasms from anal sex... i can orgasm from someone playin with my nipples JUST right though... so not all orgasms for a woman have to come from clit play i guess... or maybe thats just my crazy ass.
Joquer
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If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted:
8/15/2007 4:53:11 PM
And, if it's a guy, the multiplier is 3.14....
thats great!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Joquer
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If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted:
8/15/2007 4:52:22 PM
its stupid.
i dont give a number coz its none of anyones damn business buy my own....
im always like... enough to know what i am doing and not enough to never be surprised.... *lol*
Joquer
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For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted:
8/14/2007 5:08:45 PM
ummm... maybe an ex-escort... because TECHNICALLY they are not paid for sex, but a date... and some of them really do live by that...
but prostitute would be hard to deal with... i mean... it takes a certain type of girl/guy to get into the world of straight up prostitution...
Joquer
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DATING EXOTIC DANCERS!!!!
Posted:
8/11/2007 6:58:48 AM
kudos, but was there a question?
Joquer
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Omission of the truth is not a lie and it's not being deceptive either?
Posted:
8/9/2007 12:48:42 PM
ahhh... just had this arguement with a friend of mine. i will use it as an example:
the question: 'why dont you have any kids yet?'
there was never an answer, although at that time i knew his gf was pregnant.
so when his daughter was born and it was confirmed. i went off on him (long story short, he was still trying to get with me). he said he never lied.
true. but he never said anything (in fact i had asked him a couple of times and he joked about it or changed the subject) but he knew that once he either got his gf pregnant or they got married, our play time was over, it was a rule that was set like 9 years ago (thats how long we have been doing what we do + how long i have known him).
so, even though he didnt 'lie' not saying anything was just as bad as the lie itself.
i'm not the type to ask something like that if i dont want to know the answer... it wasnt a straight out lie... but it was a form of lying. and thats where i stand on all subjects like that.
Joquer
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Who would you pick ?
Posted:
8/9/2007 10:44:16 AM
without giving us any background on these two women its hard to say.
i would always go with the one who makes me feel happiest, who has the same goals and dreams, and who is on the same path to getting those dreams.
Joquer
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BDSM - I want to make him happy, but not sure how to be a Dom
Posted:
8/9/2007 9:21:57 AM
well OP i was going to e-mail ya the name of someone who is a trainer of Doms/slaves. hes a really cool guy and i just talked with him and he was going to give ya some pointers, but im not going to post his stuff out here...
if you would like to send him an email, email meh and i will give you his information.
hes a really good teacher (i was curious about a lot of this and he has shown/taught meh a LOT)
Joquer
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Horrible kisser = deal breaker????
Posted:
8/9/2007 8:47:23 AM
it is a major deal breaker, theres nothing sexier than a man who can kiss you with all the passion in the universe...
but, depending on the guy, its something that can be forgiven... its just hard to live without...
Joquer
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Anyone who had culture problems enter here
Posted:
8/9/2007 8:32:20 AM
(stupid question alert)
whats/wheres east indian? like indian from india? (told you it was stupid)...
Joquer
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Weight and Sex
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8/9/2007 7:37:21 AM
its never stopped meh, but i do worry about my scars... thats about it though *nods* yah, i have stretch marks (i use to weigh over 517 pounds, you loose over half of that without getting stretch marks *lol*), i still have some jiggly bits (but i embrace them) and yes, one of my boobs is bigger than the other (i guess i am the only one that notices this.. no guy ever has *loL*) but thats ok, because if we are going to do it... then lets do it :)
Joquer
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She sticks her tongue in WHA???
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8/9/2007 7:25:53 AM
i once... by total mistake (it was new then) had my tongue ring slip in that little hole... i was SOOO embarased *lol* they guy was cool after the inital shock, but i wouldnt do that on perpose... just like i would PRAY that no guy would do that to meh *cringes*
Joquer
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too busy with schoolwork to care about me
Posted:
8/9/2007 7:19:20 AM
but again, appreciate you all putting me down
youre welcome. *nods*
because if your self esteem is THAT low were you think we were putting you down, you need to close your account and get out of the dating world and go concentrate on getting yourself to love yourself.
you wanted us to all come flocking to you and say 'its ok baby, he is a DOG, you deserve better' when in all reality, you deserve what you put up with. you say you went back 'because it was late' i wouldnt have, if you had already said what he was doing was rude, and then he turned around and did it again, the i would have left, and if it was too late to drive all the way back home, i would have checked into a cheap motel.
but you are clingy, needy and insecure. those are 3 major huge turn offs for anyone.
you need to be more confident and sure of yourself. set the bar high for yourself. learn to love yourself first. you dont need reassurance from ANYONE. because if you love yourself, FIRST then finding real love will come second.
so suck it up. and move on.
Joquer
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Invitation to his place for dinner, does it mean...
Posted:
8/9/2007 7:02:32 AM
I think maybe he was hoping it would end in sex, but he wasnt expecting it... All guys HOPE. But lets look at some other options.
Maybe he is an amazing cook and wanted to ‘wow’ you with his skills.
Maybe he wanted to be able to wine and dine you without breaking his bank account.
Maybe he wanted to spend some initiate time with you that did not end in sex (just to be able to feed you or serve you fresh strawberries dipped in chocolate)
Maybe he just wanted to cuddle with you on the couch and watch a movie or the game after a humble meal together, but would feel cheap inviting you to McDonalds.
Bottom line is, did he GIVE OFF that vibe, or mention it to you or even hint at the possibility that he was wanting to move on to that stage of the relationship?
Or is it that you assumed that that is what he was getting at and that is what made you uncomfortable?
Since you didn’t give much details on how you came to the conclusion that diner at his place = sex, I am curious to know where it came from?
I know I have invited guys over to my house just to hang out, and sex wasn’t even ON the plate, its just we both were broke, pizza, beer and a movie seemed like a great date and they usually were the funniest! I could dress down but still look cute and we could spend time together without spending 100 on a fancy diner, movie and then plus cab fare (my current bf didn’t have a car at the time, so getting places meant cabs or buses), but we waited to have sex. Just like I have been invited over to guys houses that I was dating in the past – during the day, and never thought that he was using that as an excuse. I remember one guy I was dating challenged me to a Guitar Hero challenge at his house, loose cooked dinner. There was never sex thrown in there. It got a little hot and heavy over time, but, on a 3rd date, I didn’t even think about it. So I was always comfortable and there were never those ‘awkward’ pauses.
Joquer
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Prejudice or Preference?
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8/9/2007 6:51:05 AM
Ok, OP I didn’t read all the responses but here is something that I think everyone can think about:
Racist: Rejecting the man in this situation only BECAUSE he was black.
Preference: Not wanting to be with someone who is ‘ghetto’ and yes, ghetto people come in all shapes and sizes.
Now, of course we can get a lot deeper than that, but we don’t need to. Lets just address what was asked.
People want to throw around prejudice because it’s easy to generalize, but in that case, we would have to say that someone who doesn’t like girls who are more than 125 pounds are prejudice as well. But then we argue that, no, that’s a preference. But say they only date 125 pound WHITE women then all of a sudden they are a racist! WHY? Because they are attracted to Caucasian features? Or a white man who will not date a black woman (because, hey maybe hes not attracted to black features?!)…
So where can we draw a line? We cant really, people are overly sensitive and try way too hard to be politically correct all the time.
If someone is not attracted to (example!!!) an Asian man or woman because they don’t find their physical features attractive (the smaller eyes, flatter faces, more petite features) is that person a ‘racist’? No, I just think that’s a preference. If they didn’t like Asian’s just because they are Asian, does that? Maybe, depending on the reason, but I still don’t think so.
I think a real racist is someone who looks down on a RACE of people or feels superior to them because of the colour of their skin. Preference and Prejudice are very closely related, so for someone to say I am prejudice because I tend to date more metal guys, fine, I’m prejudice to all guys who are not metal heads… I’m ok with that, because that’s my own preference. I don’t think I am racist though, because although the majority of metal heads are white, there are other races that love metal as much as I do.
So maybe people need to look at what they are calling people before they start calling them that…
I don’t know…
But here are the definitions:
racist
adjective
1. based on racial intolerance; "racist remarks"
2. discriminatory especially on the basis of race or religion
noun
1. a person with a prejudiced belief that one race is superior to others
prejudice
noun
1. a partiality that prevents objective consideration of an issue or situation [syn: bias]
verb
1. disadvantage by prejudice
2. influence (somebody's) opinion in advance
or
prejudice
[ˈpredʒədis] noun
(an) opinion or feeling for or especially against something, formed unfairly or unreasonably ie without proper knowledge
Example: The jury must listen to his statement without prejudice;[u] Is racial prejudice (= dislike of people because of their race) increasing in this country? [/u]
preference
noun
1. a strong liking; "my own preference is for good literature"; "the Irish have a penchant for blarney"
2. a predisposition in favor of something; "a predilection for expensive cars"; "his sexual preferences"; "showed a Marxist orientation" [syn: predilection]
3. the right or chance to choose; "given my druthers, I'd eat cake"
4. grant of favor or advantage to one over another (especially to a country or countries in matters of international trade, such as levying duties)
So maybe now after reading this… My argument itself is flawed… I still stand by the fact that you were not being a racist, you just had your own preferences and the guy took it a little hard.
End of story.
Joquer
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OMG! Found my friends' husband on this site!
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8/8/2007 1:07:58 PM
i would send your friend the link (that hook someone up with this person link) and let her see it for herself. send her an email with it and let her know that you are there for her if she needs you and that you wanted to let her know.
then sit back and make sure that you ARE there when she needs you.
Joquer
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too busy with schoolwork to care about me
Posted:
8/8/2007 12:51:39 PM
a part of me wants to say ‘honey it will be ok!’ and the other part of me is saying, ‘omg youre a needy b!tch…’
this is why:
I need to be reassured every day how he feels for me.
why? why are you so needy? that would drive me crazy. you guys are suppose to be in a relationship right? you know he is
in school
which means he is trying to better himself. maybe if you gave him some space he would have the opportunity to call you or text you or let you know that he was thinking about you.
yes, it WAS rude that he sat on the phone and talked with a friend, but would it of mattered if it was a male friend? did he invite you down to see him or did you just ‘pop in’?
if you can not handle a man being a man and having a life outside of you, then you need to not be in a relationship with him or anyone, because there ARE NOT a lot of men who will let you be their whole universe. they had friends and a life before you and they will have them after you and WITH you if you let them.
but being clingy and needy is not attractive… at all.
JOquer
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Circumcised vs Un-Circumcised...
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8/7/2007 7:36:19 AM
for all the educated responses, this is good stuff... it seems that more women now-a-days dont mind if it is cut or not and a lot like the natural look... one of the post said that if the lord thought i was a good idea, then it should stay... im all for that *lol*
i know a lot of people are still saying they smell or have a higher risk of STDs, i think (from my reading) has not been proven 100% either way... its all about keeping yourself clean and safe... period...
thanks again for everyones responses...
Joquer
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Are you REALLY that tall?
Posted:
8/6/2007 2:51:42 PM
im 6'1, (well 74 inches) and yes, I wear heels (real heels thank you)
so i need a taller guy, he doenst have to be taller than me, but i do like guys 5'11 and taller. i love thicker guys too... i've always been afraid that i would break a skinnier guy...
Joquer
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Too Wet....
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8/6/2007 12:42:46 PM
i haven’t read all the post, but i have to agree with what a lot of people say… wet does not equal loose. i get wet and im still tight (thank you kegels *that’s spelled wrong sorry*). she needs to start doing exercises to strengthen her pelvic floor. or you need to stop and try to get her to give you a bj in the middle and give her a chance to ‘dry’ up a little bit. also, if anal is off limits try putting her legs on her chest and crossing them over (so they make an X) then penetrate her, her legs will add extra tension inside of her, you wont get as deep, but it SHOULD be tighter…
Joquer
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What do y'all think of...
Posted:
8/6/2007 12:33:48 PM
maybe a bit of a tease, maybe she just is super proud of her body (hell if i had a smashing body i would be)...
you shouldnt mind it unless its someone you are trying to seriously chase, and then i would wonder, how many other guys have that picture on their desktop to use one lonely days...
Joquer
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Sex Scenes...
Posted:
8/6/2007 12:31:25 PM
Sex Scenes...
Sorry, first off, if this is a duplicate…
But what is your favourite sex scene in a movie? You know, that one that will get you hot without the movie even being porn?
I thought it was a fun question!
Mine has to be right now the scene in 300 (I thought that was hot) and the one in Fur with her and the dog-man… Hell, her and her husband was even hotter… Or, the one is Fight Club (because it was like what drunk sex is like *lol*)
Joquer
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What are you attracted to 1st? Big jugs or pretty face?
Posted:
8/6/2007 12:25:39 PM
when i am with females the first thing i notice is her face, i have a weird thing with peoples faces anyway, they ahve to be unique and naturally beautiful. breast are breast... adn since people are always messing with them, they loose their appeal. i would rather have a girl with nice small ones that are perky and full (like friggin christina ricci in black snake moan *omg*)... but having a beautiful face is the first thing... nice smile, bright eyes :)
Joquer
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Dating guy, spends every weekend w/me. Saw his POF, he sends point gifts to others.
Posted:
8/6/2007 11:42:08 AM
are you guys exclusive? if not, then let it go and explain to him that you thought that you both were on the same level, if hes not or not ready to be and you cant deal with that, then leave him and find someone else.
now if you guys are exclusive, then you should tell him that that is not acceptable. mind you, those virtual gifts are just bs, trust me, i get them and its like 'thanks' i have like close to 5000 points so i guess i should start 'spending' them.
it would be more serious if he was sending out real roses and teddy bears...
Joquer
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Female with TMJ
Posted:
8/6/2007 10:03:55 AM
TMJ really does hurt, and it is aggrivated by over use of the jaw. She should see her dentist, they can show her things to do to relax the pain, but yes, it is a real condition.
Joquer
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why do women stop pampering themselves?
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8/6/2007 8:53:05 AM
im pretty laid back, i dont wear a lot of makeup, but i am a total shaving nazi *lol*, i wax and/or shave relgiously, i do still dress up when we are going out on a 'date' and try to look my best when i am going any where with my man period (even if its just out to his mums house or something). its summer time and he loves my legs so i will wear more skirts around him than jeans and make sure that i take note to all the little things he likes, but i guess thats easier for someone who was already pretty laid back to begin with.
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exotic dancers
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8/6/2007 8:41:29 AM
I use to dance, and I know where you are coming from, its f-d up that people STILL think that way. I never ONCE took or even entertained the idea of having sex for money or even giving head or a bj for money. I danced, did my set, worked the floor, even served drinks for a while, then danced again, and took my behind home.
Guys think that because we are selling in a way ‘sex’ that it should include the whole package… Women do that a lot too, then with media and what not, everyone has that notion that strippers = sluts.
Its such bs…
Joquer
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This new trend of people dating people so much older/younger than themselves
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8/6/2007 8:31:31 AM
OP: This isn’t new, in fact, its centuries old. Women would often be married to men their father’s age when they were 15-18 years old.
It’s not a trend, women are usually attracted to older men because they are more mature and responsible, they usually share the same goals. Some women are just attracted to older men that are distinguished and others for money or status.
Older men are attracted to younger women for the same reasons and sometimes because they like arm candy and want a woman that is still sexually active.
Younger men date older women because older women are more stable, they tend to play less games and be more upfront, which is convenient to a younger man who is looking for exactly what he wants (IE: sex, relationships, friends). Older women are usually more experienced, the ‘bio-logical’ clock issue is usually in check and sometimes, they have gone through ‘the change’ so the risk of an unplanned pregnancy is slim-to-none.
But most important, people are attracted to who they are attracted to no matter the age or race or in some cases even gender. Age is a number to most people and I think that who they date should only be justified between the two of them.
Joquer
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Videotaping Sex
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8/4/2007 3:58:03 AM
i have *raises hand* several times and yes, we would look at the tapes and figure out how we were going to top ourselves for the next tape *loL*
:) of course, i still have all the tapes *nods* no surprises 'hey i saw you givin a bj on the internet' worries for me!!!
Joquer
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Crikey, I've Lost My Mojo!!!
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8/4/2007 3:56:51 AM
i dont see anything wrong with you or your profile... of course i dont KNOW you so you COULD be a closet serial killer *j/k*
you seem like you have a good sense of humor, you are passionate about the things you enjoy and have an overall good 'vibe'
however, are you REALLY in your 40's?!!?!!!?!!?!????
you look like you are in your 20'2 early 30's... *lol* now, that can WORK for you, depending on what type of relationship you are looking for. because if i was closer (and not seeing some one *lol*) i would want to be like, hes kinda hott... :)
but like the poster above meh said... maybe a little bit of a make over... not much... because not much is needed, just a LITTLE makeover... and you will be good to go?
but dont assume that it is JUST you.... dry spells happen... maybe you are looking in the wrong places... maybe you are going in with too high of expectations?
i dont know....
but good luck!!!
oh, try going to the POF things... that way you know there are other singles that you may have spoken to, already there :)
Joquer
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Dogs in the bed
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8/3/2007 3:39:59 AM
three dogs (even 3 tiny dogs) is over kill in bed. i have a mini aussie and hes about 12 pounds, his butt will 'sneak' up into bed from time to time, BUT.... hes not allowed... *lol*
i LOVE dogs, but if i came home with a guy and he had his faithful buddies up in bed with him I would be slightly turned off...
(ok a lot turned off)
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