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erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

Msg: 34 (view)

no privacy? Posted: 11/2/2009 6:19:55 PM
I thank everyone for their comments, I think some of you got the wrong idea about me. But A lot of people had a lot of points and responded with thoughts I, myself, have considered. No, I do not want to do them both. As a matter of fact I woudn't want to go to the rodeo with mr. #3 period. He is not my type, and I am not that type. I am quite satisfied with my #1. Most of the time he knows what I need. I have set the dead line because our other roomate; like myself is getting tired of paying for everything while this guys sits back and enjoys the ride. Ps, I apoligize for the misunderstanding. I did not change my profile yet. But I am still single. My lover will not commit to me indefinately and I am free to see other people if i wish. I just do not wish. And the funny thing, neither has he. There are many different types of relationships... my lover and I understand what eachother needs and that in its own way is a special relationship all of its own. I do not pressure him to commit to me because I know he is not ready and he gives me all the attention and respect I want. But he is also the type to give the shirt off his back to help a friend. That is pretty much what he is doing, trying to help a friend. But in the end he is going to lose a good friend if everything keeps going the way it has for the past 3 weeks. Thanks again everyone.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

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no privacy? Posted: 10/25/2009 9:15:55 PM
Ok, so here it is. My lover and i are living together. His friend broke up with his gf and is going through some stuff. Ok, so he is staying with us. We are short of space so he is sleeping in the same room as us. I don't mind helping someone in need, he has no money.... but the dude is always around. ALWAYS. He doesn't go out to look for work. He goes and sees some buddies, but only when my lover is gone to work. It is driving me CRAZY. We just can't have any alone time. So I have tried hinting for him to go do something and he is not getting the hint. I don't mind that he is staying with us but C'mon! Us women need things too. What can I do? How can I solve this problem without causing problems and making my lover angry with me?

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

Msg: 18 (view)

Oldschool or outdated? Posted: 10/21/2009 12:19:17 PM
I agree with the first two, classy and nympho don't exactly have much in common friend. Maybe no one taught you exactly what class is. Class is a woman not needing to dress in practically nothing to prove she is sexy. She knows she is sexy and she can still dress sexy without saying "take me i am free and easy". I am sorry but no woman with class is going to be some nympho with you on a first date and if she does chances are you are not the only one that would be able to get a piece of her on the first night. There is a difference between a woman that loves crazy sex and a nymphomaniac. A nympho maniac will get it anywhere, any time from almost anyone they are obsessed, it is a condition. Look it up man. Like they said, sleep it of, drink some coffee and think about your question again.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

Msg: 19 (view)

Why would she tell me now? Posted: 10/21/2009 11:49:10 AM
I agree, she sounds confused. Drastic changes can cause major emotion ripples. Peoples emotions tend to unsettle in there stomach when they wonder if they made the right decision. You said you are leaving the country and she now has a bf. Those are two really drastic changes. Five years is a long time to be friends. Now that you are leaving it probably scares her and she obviously has strong emotions for you weather it is a friendship or more, she probably doesn't even know now. But she is probably wondering if maybe she had gave her love to you if that might have had an impact on weather you still chose to leave or not. I know i would be confused.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

Msg: 20 (view)

Is this bad? Posted: 10/21/2009 11:38:38 AM
those are really hard questions to answer unless you want to assume all women are the same. Women have different personalities as men do. A shy girl would certainly look down if a man was looking at her or talking to her. I know because i am a shy girl. But i have sassy friends who do aviod eye contact to show they are not interested. It is more or less up to you to talk to them anyway to find out there personality. You have to take that chance without fear of rejection or you will never know. And if she rejects you is it really a big deal? There are plenty of fish in the sea.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Can friendship evolve into something greater for real? Posted: 10/21/2009 11:22:41 AM
Okay this is my question. Lets say a girl is very good friends with you and she has been for quite some time. And there are times where your relationship is more romantic than just an ordinary friendship. She wants something more but you don't feel the same way. You really care about her and you tell her that maybe one day you could be more than just friends. Do you really think some day your feelings could somehow change to something more serious?

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

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What is love? Posted: 10/6/2009 2:33:55 PM
I suppose in a way you have a point. There are more than one ways to view the situation. I asked for opinions and I recieved them. However to judge someone as harsh as calling them a "cowardly weakling" or to tell me my feeling are "stupid" is a pretty innapropriate in my own views. That comes across as decrementations in my eyes. I here what she is saying and I understand the whole; get away from the situation, idea. In some of your opinions I imagine that seems quite logical. It is hard to explain a situation as complicated as the one I am experienceing. But This "cowardly weakling" and I were friends before we were lovers. And even through all his troubles, he still gave me a place to stay when i lost my job until i got back on my feet. Friends are there for friends when they need it the most. But again... that is only MY opinion.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

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What is love? Posted: 10/6/2009 2:14:46 PM
I am sorry honey. I appreciate your reply, but I think you are a very bitter person. And anyone who has messaged me i have been fully honest to anyone messaging me about my circumstances. I would never hurt anyone and I tell them i am not dating at the time being. I think that if that is how bitter you are on the idea of love then you have never felt it and with a sad view on the subject like that I am afraid the possibility is greater that you never will. And I feel very sorry for you. And one more thing, i don't think you are in any position to tell me to be aware of other people's feels since you didn't show the slightest bit of compassion for my friend who suffered greatly. Either that or you didn't read the whole question before bestowing your opinion.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

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What is love? Posted: 10/6/2009 1:44:29 PM
that is a very intelligent reasponse. I am impressed. I didn't really look at it that way. You are right about the dangers. People have killed and died for it. But at the same time... if you spend entire life afraid to test the waters, how will you ever sail to another place. If you do not look you will never find.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

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What is love? Posted: 10/6/2009 1:17:42 PM
A lot of people seem to talk about love as though it is all just a ridiculous fairy tale. Now they are right about one thing. I do not believe in fairy tales. But I do believe that love is real. Just as we love our fathers and our mothers, and our sisters and our brothers, do people seriously believe that it is impossible to love another as well? Love used to be about families. You find a compatible partner you can care about and you start your own family you can love. But sometimes, the way some people talk, it is as if they truly do not wish to believe anymore. Maybe something bad happened to them before, or maybe they saw something bad happen to someone they love and it caused them to lose their faith. I have seen it. One of my most precious friends is a young man who was once hurt and used by the young lady he loved for three years and planned to spend the rest of his life with. A year later he met me and everything seemed to fit into place. We were seeing eachother for quite a while and then it happened. He realized he was getting in to deep and he ran. We are still good friends. And although he really cares for me and he is extremely attracted to me, he will not break his oath to let another woman do to him what his first love did. We are still good friends. And although deep down I will always have that hope that he will one day heal and feel the courage to try again, I will still care for him and be there when he needs me even if it must be as a friend. As long as he remains an important part of my life that is what matters. This is how I feel. Is that not love?

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

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what makes women feel insecure about themselves? Posted: 10/3/2009 3:43:54 PM
If you are talking to me sir, I did recieve proffesional help of witch I am not ashamed because I learned how to see the more important things in life. Perhapse you sir might be interested in recieving some professional help yourself for you seem to have difficulties expressing compassion. Just something to think about.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Gold-digger is just a term men invented to Posted: 10/3/2009 2:52:00 PM
I agree with Chitownguy40, there are both out there. It is true that there are many women out there that are just looking for financial support. Money money money. But I truly believe that there are also men out there that do use the gold digging statement as a way to be cheap. For me I see nothing wrong with a guy buying me a drink. It shows he likes me and wants to please me. Then I would return the favour and buy him a drink after. It is more or less the idea of being polite. I do not expect anyone to buy me anything. I am quite capable. But I do find it flattering. A guy would have no problem buying a round for his buddies so what is the difference in buying a drink for a lady you are interested in. Same as I like buying a round for my friends so i see no problem with buying a drink for a man who is respecting me and who I am interested in. Didn't we learne how to share in kindergarden people?

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

Msg: 72 (view)

Why is it ok to do him if you think you`ll never see him again? Posted: 10/3/2009 2:36:14 PM
I don't necissarly think that withholding sex on the first date will convince a man that I am a keeper. It is more like if I hold sex from a man on the first date and he still shows interest in me that HE is a keeper. I myself do not agree with going out and meeting someone and having sex (sorry guys), but I will not say anything against those who do. It is just the way I was brought up. I find it neither proper or ladylike. I know when I meet a man and he is trying to get into my pants so bad that there seems to be nothing else on his mind I think to myself. If it is this easy to get him in bed how easy will it be for another pretty girl to get him in bed if we were to eventually get serious. Now if I was a guy I would be thinking the same thing if it was really something serious I was looking for. If this chick is willing to jump into the sack with me so easily, how do I know she will be faithful if I choose to be with her. It all depends on what you really want. Somepeople out there are into open relationships. They believe in more than one partner. Then maybe you are looking for the kind of girl that just loves sex with no boundries or visa versa. But if you are like me and believe in giving yourself completely to one person and one person only... then you would be looking for that kind that is more restraint and does not have sex on the brain constantly. If you disagree on when sex should be considered then maybe you obviously are not going to work out because you both have different morals. Just something to think about. I think a big problem is that people are not that honest about what they want. I think if people were more honest about what it is they are looking for they might have better luck finding it without complications. Someone looking for sex may try to tell a person what they want to hear in order to get it and then wonder why they are expecting more after the night of "Fun" is done. Where as if they where to just come out and say I am looking for fun they might have better luck finding someone with similar intrests. Where as someone who is looking for love should not pretend to be interested in anything less and not expect hurt when they just hooked up with someone who wanted to have fun. Honesty is the key people.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

Msg: 79 (view)

what makes women feel insecure about themselves? Posted: 10/3/2009 2:15:51 PM
I don';t know about all women, but I, myself, suppose I know what has contributed to my insecurities. Soetimes when you have had something drilled into your head over a long period of time it is difficult to let it go. Through out school I was teased and tormented because I had an acne problem from the age of 8 up and I was over weight. I missed out on school dances and i didn't make friends easily. For awhile my depression at being alone and tormented made things worse. I got bigger because I ate more and my face got worse from so much stress. Finally at 17 I said to myself that I am a good person who cares about everyone around me and that alone is a reason to be proud because many are not. I lost the weight and my acne began to improve. It seems like a happy story but the truth is. After hearing it for so long... well lets just say that people tell me now I am pretty but I don't really believe them. I am not totally insecure, I am just proud of myself for different reasons. I think I would be more flattered to be complimented on my intelligence and artistic abilities then how pretty I am. No matter how pretty you are there is always a billion more out there more pretty than you. I know I am not a supermodel, I would like to be complimented on something I have that you just don't see all the time.that is how I know a person is really inerested in who I am and not how I look.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

Msg: 146 (view)

Guys, what do you think of the girls? Posted: 10/3/2009 1:55:00 PM
Everyone has a point. A lot of PEOPLE on here are looking for different things. Some want a fast lay on a boring evening. Others want that ego boost i keep hearing about. But in my own defense, an ego boost is the last thing I would say I have recieved from socializing on this site. But is it all their fault for wanting what they want or is it also our own fault for looking in the wrong places. I listen to a lot of women talk about how all guys want is sex, but I have seen a lot of women have sex right away when not knowing a person enough to know what they want. I have listened to a lot of guys talk about how women want the whole package and that they try to mold them into what they want. But Yet is it not they prettiest faces they try to contact first? Sounds like a two way street to me. I think people need to quit blaming the opposite sex for all their problems. There are good people and bad people on both sides. If you choose to see all of the bad it is much harder to notice the good. Maybe we should stop looking at everyone else and start thinking of what we ourselves might be doing to contribute to our own misery.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Leaving POF Posted: 10/3/2009 1:30:29 PM
I can't believe most of the coments I am reading on here. Com'on boys, it sounds almost as though you want to crucify all women. Put us up on a cross or something and nail us all with a spear why don't you. It is always hard to see the other side of the coin isn't it? Boys I will not try to deny that there are some evil-seeming self absorbed women out there. One of my good friends was torn apart by one. He has never been the same since. But being men, I doubt you all go out on a date with other men to see how things can appear from the other side. There are some really mean men out there too. People in general. How many men come on here and ask me right away, how big are your boobs? Of course I am not going to carry on a conversation with you. I remember talking to a man on here over a year ago. We spoke online for about a month and then agreed to meet. When he saw me he actually ran away. It is quite embaressing and not something I like to talk about. All I am trying to say is that women are not the only people who want something perfect. If you are not beautiful like a swimsuit model you are often overlooked because there are many women who ARE around. Besides boys. With pesimistic attitudes like I am hearing, if that is how you think of all women, I am sorry to say, I am not suprised you have a hard time finding somebody. I am a good woman. I know I am. So I like to think that if I am here, there must be a good man out there somewhere too. I am not selfish enough to think I am the only good person left in the world.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Why don't people stay together anymore Posted: 10/3/2009 1:13:10 PM
I think everyone has valid points. I thankyou for your opinion. I personally think it is very sad that people think of marriage as a dying tradition. I think we do live in a very self absorbed society. These days I think people find it much easier to give up and start over intsead of trying to fix problems they run away because it is just easier. I think it is sad. We just don't value family morals the way they were meant to be valued and had been for centuries. Many people don't even think of marriage as important anymore. Marriage is more like a contract than it is the union between a man and a woman. Stuff like prenubtual agreements and such make a person scared to enter such an arangement. If i were to get married i think i would rather have it done in the old fashioned way. Maybe by a lake. Someone to ask "if we do". Even if it is not considered a "legal" marriage. As long as we are pledging our love and dedication to eachother that is what matters. Marriage revolves too much around money.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Why don't people stay together anymore Posted: 10/1/2009 11:51:49 AM
I thankyou all for your coments, you all make valid points. I wish sometimes that I was raised in a more modern family sometimes so I could worry about money and sex and whatever it is people think about these days. But my grandmother taught me that there are good men out there and that I should find one and always do what I can to work with him to get through this world. That is what real love is all about. A partnership. A partner to work with to help eachother through the hardest of times. These days it seems everyone runs away. Maybe there is too much sex out there. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free right. I hear people talk about how they have given up on anything long term. Everyone gives up. Then a good person finally comes along and they get hurt by you as you were hurt by others. Is it right? I may be old fashoned and sure maybe some people think the way i think is wrong or frightening. But it is not me they are scared of. It is the thought of any kind of comitment that is so terrifying. But I am never going to change my beliefs because some people think I am wrong. I would rather be the one getting hurt at a broken chance for something great than be the one to inflict that pain on someone else. Call me crazy. But I am one of those people that truly does care about everyone around me. Everyone.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

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How do you know when something is just not meant to be? Posted: 9/30/2009 11:01:21 AM
Thankyou for your opinions. I never really thought of it as a rebound... i am not oh so bright sometimes. But now that i think about it, it is quite possible he was rebounding to me.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Why don't people stay together anymore Posted: 9/30/2009 10:47:44 AM
I remember living with my grandparents when i was a little girl. They always seemed so happy together. I would ride around in the car with my grandmother and they would radio back and fourth with their pet names. I made faces and hoped nobody else could hear them. But now that I am older I think about what they have and always did have... then i look at the relationships of today. Now i want the kind of love they had... and it just sometimes seems like people don't people stay together anymore.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

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How many is too many? Posted: 9/30/2009 10:12:11 AM
I don't think the number of partners had is as vital as the number of partners one has at a time. I am not talkking about threesomes. I mean When i am leaving, if another girl is arriving that is just wrong. You might think i am crazy, but i have seen it.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

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How do you know when something is just not meant to be? Posted: 9/30/2009 10:07:59 AM
thankyou for both of your coments. You both make sense eventhough they are 2 different points of view. Maybe he does care but not in that way, maybe it is real and we just hit a rock in the road that rocked the wagon. I guess I will just have to keep it going on and see what happens. Love is impossible to predict or understand.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

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How do you know when something is just not meant to be? Posted: 9/30/2009 9:29:28 AM
I have this friend. We had a romantic fling. It was so passionate. For months there was no place either of us wanted to be but laying next to each other. We would make eachother smile without trying, we would finish eachothers sentences. It all seemed so real. I knew he had been hurt really bad by a spoiled little girl without a heart. So I decided I would be there for him. When he was angry, when he was happy, when he was lonely. It felt beautiful. But somewhere down the road something happened. He started to pull away. He started looking for something else, elsewhere. We weren't fighting or arguing. He just drifted away. I know he really does care about me. When I lost my job he let me stay with him until i got back on my feet. But is it just not meant to be? All the good times we shared together... would they not have flourished into something spectacular by now if it was really meant to be?

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

Msg: 97 (view)

Losing one's virginity, some say it's easy Posted: 9/17/2009 2:44:51 PM
It is not easy to lose your virginity. You feel uncomfortable because you know your partner is more experienced than yourself and you get worried because you don't know how to please. People make fun of you for being a virgin it is wrong. I wish i was a virgin again. Honestly. If I could go back in time i would have saved my first time for someone special. Not just hurry up and lose it because people thought i was pathetic. Man, what a stupid kid i was.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

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sex is a good thing people Posted: 9/17/2009 2:28:49 PM
sex for me is only guilt free if i really do care about the person i am having sex with. If i have known a guy for a while and i really think i might like him enough to be with him it is different then a girl going to the bar and believing some idiot that tells her she has beautiful eyes. If i love a guy i would have sex with him in my parents house or even out at the barn in the stables without feeling any guilt at all. But if i don't even know a guy, I could be in my own apartment and in my own bed and i will still feel like a piece of shit the next day, no matter how good it may have or have not been.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

Msg: 377 (view)

How many is too many? Posted: 9/17/2009 2:05:12 PM
Every situation is different. What is wrong with everyone! Are you going to sit there and judge a person who has had bad luck in relationships to a person who thinks every weekand is time to go to the bar and pick up a quick lay. It doesn`t matter what a person did. It is what a person does now. Lets say a person has had 3 partners in the past year. Maybe things didn`t work out as they were expected to. It doesn`t matter how many people a person has had in there lifetime compared to how many people a person has been with in the past week. There is too many variables.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Why is it ok to do him if you think you`ll never see him again? Posted: 9/17/2009 1:57:02 PM
I had my stupid days when i would have sex on the first night with a guy because i was young and naive and thought for some reason that maybe he would enjoy it so much he would never leave me. Then I grew up and realized the ones that stick around are the ones who don`t get what they want so easily. Just from a guys point of view... i would be thinking if it was so easy to get her into bed with me, how will i know she will be faithful to me if i stay with her... I don`t like easy guys. I know most guys are pretty damn easy, but to me a man who can cantrol his sexual desires with me would be less likely to cheat on me in the future if some pretty girl shakes her behind at him.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Men help me with Fellatio?? tips??? Posted: 9/17/2009 1:44:41 PM
I can`t believe I am going to say this, but my first boyfriend and i had a very verbal sexual relationship. I don`t know if it will help you, but he would tell me that he want ed me to keep my hand wrapped around the base of his penis and moe it nsync with my mouth so it felt to him that my mouth was covering more of his shaft. Guys like you to suck and play with there balls too. And right under the head of his penis is a very sensitive are. Move your tongue all around that area, he will like it. And when you are moving your mouth up and down on him use your tongue too. Be as passionate as you can be so he feels like you really desire nothing more than to please him.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

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being good in bed Posted: 9/17/2009 1:26:35 PM
I agree. Had the same problem. Sometimes my boyfriend was on and off me so fast it didnt feel like he cared for what i wanted at all. A lot of the time i felt frusterated and unsatisfied. 1) Take your time and play around to see what she enjoys too 2) When it is over do not rush to get dressed and jump in the shower ( We hate that. Seriously, what is your rush\|) 3) For a woman the sex isnt over when its over. She wants you to hold her close to you and run your fingers over her skin, her face, her arms, her back... whatever. Make her feel like you really enjoyed her company 4) And finally, a fatal mistake for a lot of young men. Don#t grab straight for areas 1,2,3 and 4. We have more features than just that. Some of us have turn-on spots elsewhere. Infact, some of us get turned right of when i guy goes right for those areas.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

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what makes women feel insecure about themselves? Posted: 9/17/2009 1:01:33 PM
the thing about being a woman is that no matter how beautiful you are there is always someone prettier. No matter how good in bed you are there is always someone better. When a woman cares about a man she really cares about him. Sometimes she is worried he will find something better and leave her. Sometimes a girl is nervous in the bedroom because she had imperfections that were constantly pointed out to her. My previous boyfriend for example had a big issue getting me to make love to him with the lights on because my ex before him had put me down for many things he found unattractive. But than i realized that somethings that are unattractive to some are very attractive to others. It is always frightening to a lady to be naked with a man because she knows she will be judged. So to get her mind off of what she is uncomfortable with in herself tell her about the things in her you find very attractive. Besides, if some of us didn`t have any insecurities what so ever that would mean we thought we were perfect. Girls who think they are perfect don`t usually have the sweetest caring attitude.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

Msg: 504 (view)

What is a Real Man? Posted: 9/17/2009 12:50:21 PM
My opinion of a real man is one that knows how to take control of a bad situation. The truth is people do not stay together very often. You find something you don`t have in common and POOF it is over. Just like that. I am a woman and i have insequrities. When i feel under appreciated and unwanted i want a man who can take me in his arms and tell me sweet things to make me feel better. Men are men. I do not get mad at my man for saying another woman is beautiful. Why should he get mad at me if i don`t feel beautiful sometimes. It isn`t about real man or real women. When do we grow up. People give up to easily and move on these days. To me a real man is a man who loves me enough to keep trying and keep working to make things right. It will never be perfect nothing ever is. But as long as i know he loves me enough to keep trying. That is what matters to me.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

Msg: 47 (view)

Why the nasty girl Posted: 9/17/2009 12:34:42 PM
P.s Your friend is a free whore and nothing more and one day when she gets old and loses that pretty face she will wonder why she is alone. Don`t feel bad about the guys she stole from you. If they would stray so easily then you don`t want to keep them anyway. Better now than 5 years later.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

Msg: 46 (view)

Why the nasty girl Posted: 9/17/2009 12:30:58 PM
I know that feeling. I was dating a guy that would tell me he didn`t want a serious relationship but he would keep me near by saying maybe he would eventually because i was pretty and amazing. But he was still hung up on his ex-girlfriend even two years later. Every now and then i would come over and make hime a nice dinner and rub down his tired muscles after work. We had a healthy sexual relationship. But he would always go to his ex whenever she called crying. She treated him like garbage using him for what ever she wanted. He worked cooked and cleaned while she did nothing but spend his money. She would only come around when she needed something and then she would be gone. I always asked myself that same question. Then i realized that visually he was far more attracted to her than me because she is a very pretty girl. The rest did not matter. When you read romance novels do you hear them describe how intelligent and nice the girl is... no. You hear about her flaming locks of shiny red hair and her sparkling green eyes. The rest comes later.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

Msg: 233 (view)

ok boys which do u prefer boobs or butts? Posted: 9/17/2009 12:20:02 PM
you are decrementing yourself hardcore girl.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

Msg: 226 (view)

why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head? Posted: 9/17/2009 12:17:38 PM
I can`t believe everything i am reading. The way women are being judged by looks and talent in the bedroom is too much. Guys, do you preform the same way everytime you have sex... Well neither do we regardless of looks. I have my good days and my bad days. Its all about feelings. When I was not in the mood and my boyfriend would insist yeah, i would pretty much lay there. Just take what you want and get it over with, kind of think. When he would do something romantic for me like get rid of all his friends for the night and do something special with me i was in a much more desiring mood and therefor displayed much more passion. And sometimes when i would be pissed of it would be the best sex we ever had. Maybe those girls didn`t really want to have sex with you. And just for the record. I have dated a couple guys who like nothing better just to lay there as well.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

Msg: 20 (view)

Afraid of what's next, any advice? Posted: 9/17/2009 10:40:12 AM
I don't want to try to pretend that I know exactly how you feel because i do not. Nobody ever does. But I am going to give you another prospective. I have a special love myself. He is a boy like yourself. It is hard to understand feelings. He was so inlove with his first love that he would literally go to the end of the earth to save her from any kind of harm. God he loved her. You don't see that kind of devotion very often anymore. And when she would call a-crying he would go a-running. Over and over again. Finally he left her the apartment and left. Her laziness and unfaithfulness had gripped him in the unmerciful grasp of a cruel vice from a girl that did not know how to love. He cares about me too, but he doesn't know how to love me. And I have waited by while he experimented with other young ladies. But he is far too broken and I do not blame him. So I finally had to tell him that we are only friends from this moment on because I couldn't let him hurt me anymore. We are still good friends and I have watched him hurt others over and over again. But really it is himself he is hurting. At the end of the night he goes to bed empty wondering why he can't love. He burned it all on a girl that wouldn't have cared if he got hit by a transport. Don't be that man. Do not waste your ability to give on a girl who does not know what she is looking for. If you cannot bring yourself to throw her out on the street that doesn't make you any less of a man. I admire that. But you cannot sit there and let her rip out what humanity you have left. Don't kick her out if you can't, but that doesn't mean you have to stay either.

erotic_fever

Joined: 8/8/2008

Msg: 163 (view)

DO YOU DREAM ABOUT YOUR EX? Posted: 9/17/2009 10:14:07 AM
Why does everyone feel the need to put a scientific analisis on love? Science is evil. Science is why people do not dream anymore. Even scientists can't put analisis on love. The say pain is develloped in a particular area of the brain. Why then is it that the pain you feel does not overtake your brain, you feel it burning inside your chest? People just don't believe anymore. Through centuries of time past love was guided by that burning in the chest. Those who loved eachother would die to save the other through war and discovery there was still loyalty and dreams. A man would scale a wall and bring his lady flowers to demonstrate the passion of his desire for her. A woman may have sang a sweet song or danced an exotic dance to allure her lovers mind. We live in modern times you may say. People just don't talk like that anymore. But maybe they should. Everyone wants love but they do not know how to love. I feel sorry for you all who have love and lost. It is a hard world we live in trying to find others to believe the way we do. But do not waste your love on one who does not know how to except and return it. Tell yourself you will love again and keep on loving until you find the one who will return that burning passion to you in the same way.

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