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kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Can I get some feedback on my profile? Posted: 8/15/2009 10:15:55 PM
Well...I didn't necessarily agree with how she worded everything....however attacking her about physical appearence made you sound like she was able to ruffle your feathers. It was just an opinion...which is what you asked for right? I think you make good points in your profile about who you are, what is important to you and what kind of relationship you are looking for. However you can get those same points across even if you condense it some. It really is too long...very wordy with too many examples. Generous, kind, loving, faithful...and BTW I don't know that a huge majority of people think that people who hunt or fish are not clean people. Your pictures are nice too...you should have one that is closer of your face...it is hard to see you in most of them....good luck to you

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Hi, hoping for some help. Posted: 8/15/2009 9:55:01 PM
The first comment you made about looking old...that doesn't need to be there. Way, Way too much talk about computer games and anime shows. It sounded more like an obsession. Saying you like it and would like your partner to like it too is good. Since your twenty three...you can take out the [girl?] comment...woman is fine. The pictures are nice. Let women know what kind of person you are looking for. Good Luck

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Profile review please!! Posted: 8/15/2009 9:47:09 PM
It wasn't bad, but I have a couple idea's. The few beers with friends is cool, but you don't have to add the "holding your booze" part, as well as the comment about ghanja...why mention weed at all? All the other things sounded like you are a good person...however you should let people know what it is you are looking for as well. Your first picture should be changed because you can hardly see you in it...put it inside your profile and exchange it with a picture of you with a smile? You sound warm...but your photo's don't reflect that. Good Luck...and thanks for helping to take care of all of us!!

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Tell me what is wrong with my profile Posted: 8/15/2009 9:39:16 PM
I think your profile is well written and you sound like a happy person in general. I would have to agree that I am not sure why sketchy people would respond. The only two things that I could think of is...it may be that the fella's that you actually end up talking to must have a certain attribute that interests you...but perhaps is not a good choice? I am going under the assumption that you don't go out with every person that you speak with. I hope that made sense...because it wasn't to critisize, sometimes it is subconscious when we do that. The other thing is that it is wonderful that you are happy and comfortable in your own skin....but after reading it, it was almost like you mentioned it too much and I wasn't sure if you were convincing yourself or others. It already said...Big/Tall BBW, and then chubby, vuluptuous, curvy, no excuses , only guys who like full figured women. Your a beautiful woman who is comfortable with you are just as you are and that says enough. There are a lot of 'stranger' out there though...haha, I agree.

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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profile review, please Posted: 8/15/2009 9:20:26 PM
Well...after reading your profile this is what I thought 1. Your moving. 2. You don't know where your moving. 3. Your competitive and a sore loser. 4. You don't need to tell people that you have edited your profile. 5. Instead of calling it a 'chase' ... what about putting yourself out there a bit and letting ladies know that if you are interested in them that you a nice guy and how you treat a lady that you like. We are past the "I like you, do you like me?" please check box [no] or [yes]...it wouldn't be coold to 'chase' a gal that doesn't like you, that would be more like stalking...but if it is someone who has mutual interest...what is wrong with going above and beyond and doing things that let her know? True people are unique, however, do you like a sense of humor or intelligence? Let people know in some way in your profile things that you like and how you are so they will have a general idea if you are compatible. It just doesn't give a very good picture.....Good luck

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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What do women want? Posted: 8/15/2009 9:05:31 PM
Seriously...have someone help you with your photo...that first picture is just terrible!! You are not unattractive...but that is a bad picture, and in all seriousness if that was the first one of the three I saw, I would pass. I read your profile and there really wasn't anything eye catching in it. What your personality is wasn't shared or reflected after reading your words. It doesn't really give a feeling either of the type of person your interested in. I also wanted to tell you that if you write to someone let them know what you liked about thier profile and what made you write to them....what the interest is as well as why you think you have something in common. Unfortunately in these goofy places your first picture is the first thing a person will look at, and your only other chance is what you say next. Not to mention this is a free site and no one really owes you anything. If you expect nothing, you won't be disappointed and then if you find a friend, you will be pleasantly surprised.

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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How fair is it? Posted: 4/4/2009 10:57:35 PM
I think sometimes when people ask about who you have met on this site or responses...perhaps they are wanting to share some of thiers...good or bad. I don't know that that is criteria for talking to or not talking to someone. That would be kind of cheezy. The truth is though, life isn't fair. It never has been and you have to learn how to find the flowers and not just lump us all in a group thinking we are all weeds.You just need to not to take it personal...and don't worry about people who judge. Like I said earlier though, I think we all wonder what kind of good and bad things happen here. Just curiosity...not really a judgement. Good luck though

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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I like you but I feel like pushing you away... Posted: 3/16/2009 4:46:48 PM
She sounds like she has issues with comitment and intimacy. Don't make yourself feel bad because of her insecurities. If you do that you will end up fearing the same things that she does. Just move on and keep a positive attitude!

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Not giving space! Posted: 3/16/2009 4:44:29 PM
Well a person being clingy isn't for everyone I supose...but it sounds more like she is more on the jealous and possesive side. It is obvious that you don't like her, but it is most important for your friend who is dating her to like her. He needs to realize that she doesn't make him happy...or maybe she does and what makes him unhappy is your not liking her. It is hard when your friends don't like who your dating. If he stays with her though, she is obviously meeting some of his needs. If it is a trust issue though...it will definately rear it's head when he starts to feel that vibe and backed up in a corner by her. He will figure it out, don't you think?

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Same old song and dance Posted: 3/13/2009 9:44:07 PM
Well, he is right....the second picture needs to go. The profile didn't read as though your complicated. I don't know that it would draw the attention the kind of qualities in a person that you are suggesting you are looking for. We all have good an bad days right? Not sure what 'spontaneously dancing while white means' .... your profile I think would grab the attention of a partying kind of person. {I could be wrong} and you need to change the screen name....not attractive and does not put a good thought in a person's head.

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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I'm back and in need of a review! Posted: 3/13/2009 9:35:15 PM
I think you have a great profile...the only thing I can think of is to narrow your 'likes' list. I would just put a few less...and more specific. I think you will have strong level headed men that send you mail....Good Luck

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Interest lists Posted: 3/13/2009 9:28:20 PM
True that you need a photo...it is a must for most people here. Spell check your profile. When I read it...this is what I learned....instead of writing positive things, it came across as negative in a lot of ways. Instead of writing all the things you don't like....let's hear about what you do. Narrow down the interest list...a couple of them are a little cheesy. As a woman...I love thrift shops. However...in all my years, it is very rare that I see a man and a woman shopping around together in one. {I could be wrong} Good luck

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Need some input from the gals Posted: 3/13/2009 9:19:43 PM
Yikes...I didn't see the herpes thing...you must have deleted it. {thank God} Never talk about your Ex...it sounds like you have an issue even though you said it as a joke. Your first picture should be closer...when people look at photo's and you can't see the persons face, you pass them right by. A lot of women are shorter than 5'6 and unless it is an issue for you, it won't be an issue for them. Spell check it too. Usually when we make our profile, we re-read it to see how it sounds....a wrong word can change the whole meaning. Think of something better for the 'first date' part rather than...."Hell you pick" Find words that grab attention for good reasons and not the wrong reasons. Good Luck

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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How do I improve my profile? Posted: 3/13/2009 9:11:29 PM
Lose the 5 pictures with the sun glasses....the only picture that is your face, you are not smiling and the picture is really dark. Like the last guy said...there are many women who I guess are looking for a 'sexual encounter' but most of us aren't. I read your profile and it sounds more like a report. Go back and let your words flow a little. Every sentence shouldn't start with 'I', and you should say what it is you are looking for. Good Luck

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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would appreciate some advice Posted: 3/13/2009 9:05:42 PM
I would have to agree with the first gal. The occupation answer etc....You have to remember that there are two things that are going to get someone interested in you. You have to make your profile unique to you and try to capture someones attention. Your pics are nice though....When you send out a message to someone, the first thing they do before a reply is look at your profile. It doesn't look like much effort was put into it. Maybe try to read some and it may spark a little something that you could add to yours. Good Luck!

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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PLEASE REVIEW MY PROFILE Posted: 3/13/2009 9:00:06 PM
I think you have a nice profile. Maybe drop the first picture....the others are nice and in that one your eyes are closed. Choose your words carefully. The part about life is too short for drama and games. I don't think any of us who play or don't play games change our mind after reading that statement. I think telling what it is you DO want is good. You sound like a great person, be patient and the right man will come along. Maybe tell what kind of a person is of interest to you as well....hope that helps a little.

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Want to know what people think of my profile Posted: 3/13/2009 8:53:31 PM
Well...you may want to say a little about what it is your looking for....and something about yourself other than sports. I love sports, but there are other things I like too. Maybe a little more about who you are...funny? Happy? Spell check too...not all people are funny about spelling, but some are. Your pics are cool though! Good luck!

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Do I have the right to be..... Posted: 3/13/2009 8:41:55 PM
Wow! Interested or not...if he is behaving that way on a first date? That would be a big red flag for me~he had no regard for what you were interested in or what perhaps would have been the kind thing to do...which you are already aware of. You don't need us to tell you that he obviously has issues....you already know. Find a guy that will treat you like a lady and some respect.

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Happy single parent? Posted: 3/13/2009 8:36:05 PM
There is nothing wrong with being a happy single parent. Normal is what feels right to you....not what everyone else thinks you should need. The fact is, I find fellas all the time...lol, they are everywhere! It doesn't mean I wanna drag them home with me though. It isn't like you just go out and pick one, living happily ever after. It is a little more complicated than that. I think being able to be independent and ok is a very admirable quality in a person!

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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The ex is getting another divorce Posted: 3/13/2009 8:29:04 PM
Don't drive your self crazy...The fact is you can only be responsible for your relationship with your children. They can learn by your example too. While it is hard when people come in and out of your life...it happens. The most important relationships they will ever have it with you and your ex. Not their ex's. She should be responsible for being honest with them about the situation. We all go through hard times, have our bridges to cross and our burdens to bare...but as long as she continues to be a loving and supportive Mom...It will all work out in time. Right?

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Can't seem to make contact..... Posted: 3/12/2009 4:31:18 PM
Oh, by the way...sometimes people or women will look at you and not want to be the first one to say hello....they wait for you to look at their profile and make the first move. It may just be like a hint for you....try to bite and see what happens!

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Can't seem to make contact..... Posted: 3/12/2009 4:30:05 PM
Perhaps you can make the distinction of what you mean by 'other' in your profile? That might clear a little up. Most people want to meet in a public place the first time...only natural. Good luck

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Interested in Your Take on my Profile Posted: 3/12/2009 4:26:22 PM
Well...it is really long. You said you don't lie and then said you did. I think you should put your appropriate age on there whatever it is. Rehashing old events about your marriage that isn't legally "over" kind of sounds like you still have issues with it. There are better ways to express being sexy other than devulging what your husband told you and percentages. Sit back again and read it....narrow it down a bit...and talk more about what you are looking for and not what you didn't have. More about you and less about your body. You sound like a nice gal...but sometimes when you read profiles, you can tell exactly what peoples true issues are instead of getting an idea of who they are.....Make sense? Good Luck

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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review me please Posted: 3/12/2009 4:14:22 PM
I would have to agree with what has been said. Take a little time with your profile and you would seem as if you are more interested in what your doing. Instead of saying your funny....say something funny. You have only two ways to capture someone's attention on this thing...your face and then your words. You look a little nervous in the up close photo and nothing really was captivating about your profile. Good Luck

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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One liners Posted: 3/12/2009 4:04:35 PM
Hey Ma, what's for dinner? Go up your nose and pick a winner! {I can't even believe I am posting that}

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Why do we cry? Posted: 3/12/2009 4:02:34 PM
I believe whether it is laughter or sadness, we cry because it is too much emotion for our body to handle and it has to be expelled and can't be contained. We don't make ourselves cry or laugh...it is an emotion. Right?

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Is she playing ? Posted: 3/12/2009 3:48:48 PM
I don't want to make you feel badly...but if you call her and she doesn't answer...and then texted you instead of verbally talking to you, I really don't think she is too interested. I understand about not being able to text someone right away...but most people if you notice, who have a cell phone...well they check it. Hoping I am wrong, but that is the feeling I got after reading your question.

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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The Intimidation Factor Posted: 3/5/2009 2:26:34 PM
NO!! You are not a dork! I think that you should ask questions that you wouldn't mind somone asking you. Things that you would like to tell about yourself...pose them as questions. It doesn't have to be fancy. I can't speak for anyone but myself, but when you can tell that someone has read your profile and takes a personal interest in something you said it is flattering when they say so. I wouldn't put 'single' in there. Being that your 52...if I read it, I would think that you had never been married and if you claim to be looking for a long term relationship, unless you were a lifelong world traveler I would think there had to be something up with that. Oh, and make sure you give a little time for a response. Sometimes people have to think about their answer, don't have time to answer right away or don't get to the computer as often as others. Your best bet is to be honest about yourself and what it is your looking for and the kind of person you are. Good luck , you'll do fine!!

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Email Gifts Posted: 3/5/2009 2:16:35 PM
I would have to agree with a couple of the gals that those goofy gifts to provoke a person to at least say thank you...however, that is about all they do. BUT...those dam roses!! I remember way back when I sent out a rose to someone and everyone had to ask me...."who got the rose?" "where did the rose go?" LOL So, I am gonna go for the ROSE!! Final answer...the gift that provokes the biggest response.

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Standard tell me about my profile thread Posted: 11/7/2008 4:40:29 PM
Hey there.. Your profile isn't bad. It seems to reflect what you have done and not really who you are. More about your personality would be good...are you humorous, creative, easy going or spontaneous? Also I would have a picture in there where your eyes are actually open. The second picture in particular...may want to change that one. Perhaps a little about what you are looking for in a woman too? Good Luck! Kristen

kflower

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What is your take on this? Posted: 10/21/2008 4:43:07 PM
I think that if two people are in any kind of romantic significant other relationship that the cuddle-buddy thing would be out of the question. Now if you have a friend that you are very close to...and they had something horrific happen and neither of you were attached in any way to someone else. ONE cuddle-buddy night wouldn't be out of the question.

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Looking for friends = read/delete? Posted: 10/21/2008 4:37:45 PM
The phrase "looking for friends" is tricky. It is all in how you look at it. In general {not in all cases} Most women are friends with women. If they are friends with men it is usually through aquaintence. {I think I spelled that wrong} I know that a lot of gay men have women friends and visa versa...and that's great. However it seems on here that people are looking more for a date or a long term relationship. Have you tried sending those to folks that are also just looking for friends? Also...remember that there are people who put in their profile things about themselves that they would like to be, though really are not. Not to say that no one is friendly and can safely say it...but I have seen the other too. You should go into it without expectations and then you won't be let down and perhaps you will be pleasantly surprised!

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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My friends and I were having this discussion... Posted: 10/21/2008 4:23:29 PM
Well the fact of the matter is that if a gal doesn't want to be picked up in general she won't be. It really wouldn't matter how you approached it. I would have to say that I would be much more inclined to be listening to the guy with the sense of humor as apposed to the guy who is more on the arrogent side. If either one of them is just using their strong points to just "pick up" women though...I would assume that either way someone of substance would be onto it...even if they were funny.

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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mixed signals Posted: 10/16/2008 7:45:28 PM
I think that she likes you, however there is a definate age difference and while she may seem mature in a lot of ways, I think what confuses you about her is just that....she is only 22 and not as mature inside as she may seem outwardly. As you get older your idea's about relationships and the course they are taking is a little bit more evident. Possibly if you give it more time? She does sound like she is not quite as comfortable or able to openly talk about her "relationship" feelings as well as she may in the future. Who knows...but when it is right, you know it and you feel it. Right?

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Is Honesty the wrong policy? Posted: 10/16/2008 7:33:15 PM
You can always put in your profile that you don' t smoke cigarettes that you smoke cigars... but the gal was right about that. I think that you should narrow your interests to those that you really like. The pictures are nice...but you can delete the one with the mustache. I will also have to agree that honesty is the best policy. Good luck to you!

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Is it me or my aftershave? Posted: 10/16/2008 7:18:12 PM
Well...I think the aftershave smells ok. I just didn't get it? It was like one long, dry joke that didn't really say much about anything at all. Maybe a smile? Different tie and move he little deer in the back that looks like he is on the shoulder. Maybe you should put some of your great pick up lines in there...Good Luck!

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Sould I reveal to women that I'm part Native? Posted: 10/12/2008 2:54:48 PM
The truth is would you want to be with someone who won't accept you for who you are? Why waste your time? Be proud of who you are and where you come from! Kristen

kflower

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If someone emails you with misspelled words and bad grammar, do you respond? Posted: 10/12/2008 2:41:51 PM
Well some things I would suppose that you can disreguard...However when people start talking with R instead of "are" and RU instead of "are you" it gets to be a bit annoying. Also, if you are trying to put your best foot forward then perhaps taking advantage of the spell check button if you are bad at spelling might be a great idea?

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Ever date someone with BPD? (Borderline Personality Disorder) Posted: 10/12/2008 2:32:55 PM
Even though I see that people are making light of these conditions...if someone has a true mental illness it can be very difficult to deal with. Schizophrenia is a horrific disorder...I know this because I work with people that suffer with this illness. Use caution as this is not {nor are many other mental illness's} an illness that will ever go away.

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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separated from bipolar husband Posted: 10/4/2008 10:42:35 PM
It was nice to hear about someone who is bi-polar and taking care of yourself too. In my blog I spoke about someone who was bi-polar. He was not even opened to the notion of something actually being wrong...I think that he had other issues that compounded the situation as well. So I suppose I should have said that a person with bi-polar disorder who does not "help" themself can be poison to relationships. *That is not to say that there are not a great many other issues besides that one that can do the same as well. This guy she is talking about is just a train wreck...and I am sure it does not all stem from the one diagnosis. Good luck to you...

kflower

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Profile for review: Male, 48, SoCal Posted: 10/4/2008 10:20:54 PM
I like the new heading a little.... How about..."Looking for the perfect Kiss" Again...I don't find you to be intimidating...of course intelligence and education shouldn't intimidate people. Check points!! 1. Don't say you want to IMPROVE someone you don't even know. You are already being critical. 2. Enough about how you keep in shape....no one cares how many crunches you do and your sucessful dieting habits. 3. Are you romantic, funny, outgoing? What kind of a person are you? 4. Loosin' up...delete the part about being a critic...you sound like a huge critic as it is...no sense in saying you did it on a professional level. You remind me of Simon from American Idol

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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kinda new here Posted: 10/4/2008 10:06:43 PM
Definately take out numbers 2,5 and 8. The back shot isn't necessary...the profile isn't either and the last one is a no too. The first pic is better...it's a start. You need to smile though...look a little more light hearted. It looks like a police line up or something hun!

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Never been in a relationship before...and im 23 Posted: 10/4/2008 10:00:03 PM
I would be concerned if you were like 35 or something...then you would have to wonder. Really all you have to say is that you haven't been in any long term relationship before. Your just beginning!! I am sure that there are tons of men and ladies in the same boat as you...don't lose sleep honey...just do your thang!

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Am I being too sensitive? Selfish? Does she really mean what she says? Posted: 10/4/2008 9:54:02 PM
Well...if you read what you wrote, I think that you answered a lot of your own questions. Words are just that, words. If you have nothing to back them up with they don't mean anything. All of the things that you mentioned are all RED FLAGS. She never answers your calls...only speaks with you during "by the way" moments...leaves you hanging...doesn't make plans that include you. When you ask her things like "what are you doing for Holloween?" and she says I don't know yet...do you ask her if she would like to do something with you? It sounds like your weight is more of an issue for you...especially if you want to blame her bad behavior on that. Whether or not you are overweight doesn't give anyone the "ok" to not treat you with respect. I have to say to you that she doesn't sound like she is meeting your needs. In any relationship needs have to be met. Don't sell yourself short. She is toying with your emotions at the very least...and someone who truly adored you would make you feel that way even if they didn't say it. When someone wants to be with you, appreciates you and likes you...you know it and don't have to ask to already know. I give her a thumbs down.

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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do guys like the smell of a woman's natural vagina? Posted: 10/3/2008 10:38:15 PM
your right, but you would have to agree that various fish and urine aren't what you are supposed to be smelling right? I mean experience or no...rank is rank. You can even explain the difference without using the word "Fish" or "Urine"

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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do guys like the smell of a woman's natural vagina? Posted: 10/3/2008 10:35:02 PM
Ummm...I am thinking you shouldn't be smelling anything from under the sea or anything that would remind you of urine either. Kinda nasty....

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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do guys like the smell of a woman's natural vagina? Posted: 10/3/2008 10:31:55 PM
Ewww...where have you been?

kflower

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Starting to get turned off with shaved women Posted: 10/3/2008 10:28:42 PM
It is pretty obvious from reading all these responses that people like different things for different reasons. Perhaps it isn't just women trying to emulate younger women or porn. That is a little judgemental don't you think? I mean hey...I am not going to get my panties {be they thong or otherwise} all in a bunch because one person shaves, trims or corn rows....it really makes not difference to anyone except the person who lives in that body and perhaps the needs of their partner....right? You didn't really expect that everyone would have the same veiw whether you liked hair or didn't like hair did you?

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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An aversion to french kissing? Posted: 10/3/2008 10:21:08 PM
Ok..Yeah, he didn't like French Kissing. Kissing him was strange and uncomfortable. PLUS he didn't like Oral Sex either. I don't know...it was pretty much a big deal to me...made a possible intimate feel like my first kiss by the lockers in junior high....Ewww Deal breaker for me...

kflower

Joined: 8/8/2008

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Profile for review: Male, 48, SoCal Posted: 10/3/2008 9:53:14 PM
LOL... Idea for your headline: Me, Myself and I

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