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Thread: Permission to Trick or Treat a Halloween Dilemma
kristadawn
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Permission to Trick or Treat a Halloween Dilemma
Posted:
10/29/2008 7:10:53 AM
I say "GOOD FOR YOU!!!"
IMO 11 is far too young (even in a group) to be going trick or treating unsupervised - next year, maybe, but kids these days are always up to no good...
I remember the year my mom sent me trick or treating with my older brother - all him and his friends cared about was shooting off fire crackers in the street (which scared the crap out of me and my g/f) - he was 13 then and that was 17 years ago - kids are starting to do stupid crap like that younger now so GOOD FOR YOU :) stick to your guns!
kristadawn
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hairstyles for your kids... for fun ..
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10/13/2007 11:47:06 AM
my son is three and has a mohawk - I don't really beleive in letting kids that young dye their hair but seein as its halloween I've stocked up in colour spray and when his mohawk is done up I spray it different colours - right now its blue and red :)
we've got blue, orange, red, silver, yellow and green - gotta stock up more before the season is over :)
kristadawn
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Halloween Costumes
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10/13/2007 11:45:09 AM
I tried so hard to convince my son to be something more original but alas he's going as spider man - the only difference with his costume is it has lights that flash and he's not wearing a full mask - I'm altering it so its more like a bandit mask that just covers his eyes and ties behind his head then I'll paint the rest of his face and spike his mohawk and spray it blackand red to match :)
kristadawn
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Favorite Cartoons..?
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10/6/2007 9:42:24 PM
I'm big on movies so I prefer movies to tv cartoons - my collection is growing on a regular basis - we buy almost all the disney movies as they get released from the vaults and all the great new movies - its a little problem I have - no wonder I can't save money lol
I only let my son watch Treehouse TV and even then I'm not a big fan of all the shows (eg. Max and Ruby - Ruby is bossy and I hate that - just like Caillou - he whines WAY too much)
my son loves toopy and binou Harry and his bucket full of dinosaurs
kristadawn
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My daughters dad is incarcerated
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10/6/2007 9:35:11 PM
My brothers dad had screwed up for a bit and was actually a "deadbeat" for a couple years then was incarcerated for about 18 months, it really was a wake up call for him and my brother and him have a good relationship now and he actually lives with his dad and my brother who was heading towards failing school and crime is now a "B" average grade 12 student who works weekends and is generally a "good" kid .....not saying that this is the case for everyone but think positively and if anything just talk openly with your girls so they don't repeat his mistakes and they understand the situation as much as they can :)
kristadawn
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single parents & ex's family
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6/18/2007 9:04:47 PM
my ex and I broke up when I was pregnant and I barely knew his family then, I only met them AFTER I got pregnant to begin with - my ex hasn't been in my sons life since he was 4 months old yet I am still in contact with his family, I see his mom once every month or two and see his dad a couple times a year (its a few hours to get to his dad as he's an hour and a half ferry ride and an hour just to get to the ferry)....
I keep in contact through email and phone calls and I have no problems with them...
he, however, has little contact with his family now though
kristadawn
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question about counselling
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6/2/2007 10:25:07 PM
my son still brings up things that happened before he turned 2 - hes 3.5 now so it is possible that she remembers it, but probably won't remember it down the road...
she's probably a little young for counselling but you can always talk to your doctor and see what he says
kristadawn
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Do women have a double standard when dating men with family obligations?
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5/30/2007 9:22:55 PM
I'm dating a man that has 2 kids and I admire that his boys come first - its actually one of the first times I've had to be patient because of his family commitments and I'm ok with it....
kristadawn
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Still send?
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5/29/2007 6:58:00 AM
I see my ex's family, but as for my ex I do the same, I've sent picture via email and some in the mail to him since he walked out, its been three years and sometimes I think I should stop but that would let him off easy (outta sight, outta mind)
I've even sent video footage of the first year of my sons life and a plaster hand print that my son and I made for him
kristadawn
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Favorite Children's Books Under Age 5?
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5/28/2007 2:37:55 PM
"Looking for the Gurrafolo (SP?) now."
we have one of the Gurrufalo books, its a puzzle book - my son loves doing the puzzles in there
kristadawn
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Alienation from Father
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5/28/2007 6:32:34 AM
"You need to see a dr and go one meds to handle your depression."
NO - I have a lot of friends that have gone into a depression, try therapy before meds - it could be just a temporary thing due to many reasons, especially the break up and even though your daughter is 1.5 partly from having a baby - once you start meds its hard to come off them, most of my friends that have will have to be on them forever, every time they ween off the depression comes back - and it really messes them up
ANYWAYS
my suggestion for your situation get a custody arrangement on paper- don't let him manipulate you and by him being unreliable is more hazardous than you sleeping in the same room to your daughters emotions...my son sleeps in my room, and yes he is somewhat needy - just make sure she has a separate bed, I had my son in the same bed and since I moved him out he's shown much improvements
kristadawn
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Favorite Children's Books Under Age 5?
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5/27/2007 9:30:59 PM
Guess how much I love you
my ex's sister bought it for us when my son was born and at first I didn't like it, but after he was born and I read it a couple times I absolutely love this book
and my fav. Green Eggs and Ham
kristadawn
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children or grandchildren - who should be priority ?
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5/15/2007 8:09:56 PM
My ex abandoned our child and both his parents (broken home) and his brother and sister play an active roll in mine and my sons life, they still talk with him and such on occasion but my son is a priority in their life and they are definitely involved no matter what my sons father says
kristadawn
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Out of the mouths of babes!
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4/21/2007 8:46:33 AM
My son is a comedian its hard to keep track but last week or two weeks ago he was walking down the stairs (he's 3) and farted (he's got this thing where he says "I farted" instead of excuse me and I always have to correct him) anyways...
he farts walking down the stairs and says "I farted, when we fart, its not normal....carter says its not normal!!" I cracked up laughing
he was crying one day and when I asked him if he was ok and he said
"my tears are not broken"
it was sooo cute :)
kristadawn
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Forgiveness
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3/25/2007 4:12:52 PM
omg yes,
My sons dad was the same as yours (only he never got anyone else pregnant thank god) but it has been one struggle to the next with him since our son was born and he put me through the ringer and back.....then one day when my son was around 1 - 1.5 I just stopped caring...I felt so indifferent towards him, I don't respect him but I don't hate him and I don't like him I just don't feel ......him as a person could disappear and the only way it would affect me is my son wouldn't have a chance to meet him, but for me personally wouldn't feel any sense of loss...I just don't feel for him anymore...
so yes, I know exactly how you feel and it makes things so much easier in the day to day not caring anymore!!!
kristadawn
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Mommy?
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3/4/2007 9:11:53 PM
no, her mom was more irresponsible, def. not the type to win mother of the year
and no there wasn't a lot of women in her life, I was the first her dad dated since mommy and we were friends first for a few years - then got really serious but unfortunately it ended...hopefully she's not too terribly confused, my son still talks about them but doesn't really miss them (I ask when he brings them up)
kristadawn
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Mommy?
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3/4/2007 8:10:56 PM
I was in a relationship somewhat like this
the little girl would say stuff like "what do mommy's do" because I was so different with my son than her mom is with her (I'm very loving, affectionate and always there when I can be to fufill his needs) or "I wish I could kiss you like you were my mommy" and there were more
I told her she had a mommy and I was her friend or else I would just kinda not respond because I'd be in complete shock from some of her comments, something I never expected
I even once heard her tell the neighbours kids that my son was her brother - she was very confused, the only suggestion I have is just talk to her and explain what your relationship was in her life....
kristadawn
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Should a child have to carry the surname of an absent father?
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3/2/2007 7:56:59 PM
I don't know what the laws are there but the laws here prevent you from changing the surname unless he signs the forms or he's abusive or is a threat (signed letter from a police officer) or he hasn't had any contact AND doesn't pay support and hasn't for more than a year - my sons dad hasn't been involved since he was 4 months old and he has a very long and hard to pronounce last name (my dad still can't say it or remember it and my son is 3)
when it comes to schools - here at least - you can give them his "legal name" and "preferred name" so that on the class lists it shows up differently - I'm going to register my son's "preferred name" as my last name so that he won't be bugged or the teachers won't have trouble reading/saying his last name
I've asked his dad to let me change his name but he won't until I sign papers saying he's not financially responsible for our son - NOT going to happen
kristadawn
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Raising a bi-racial child
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2/27/2007 8:51:30 PM
My friends daughter is half east indian and yes, at first her fathers family didn't even know because he was scared to tell them - but he stuck around for the first year of her life consistently (the only broke up around that time) and his family eventually did find out about their daughter and they totally accept her and came to her birthday and invite my friend and her daughter over so they can spend time with their granddaughter so I think your son's father is just being stupid!!! how can he really know unless he tells them!!!
kristadawn
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for the daddies: did you prep or did you wing it?
Posted:
2/27/2007 8:26:03 PM
"or did you just "wing it" and put the diaper on the babies head and duct tape it when the diaper snapped or bathe them with a turkey baster in the kitchen sink?"
haha I had to laugh at this one because one time when my brother was babysitting he ripped a couple diaper tabs off and he didn't want to waste any more of my diapers so he duct taped it onto my son haha guys.... if it were me (I wouldn't have broken the tab) but I would have just used another diaper
kristadawn
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my daughter
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10/16/2006 6:41:47 PM
oh and again, you can get all different types of "legal advice" on here but babe, the only proper legal advice will come from your lawyer!! the sooner you get the ball rolling, the sooner you can have control of your life back without having to walk on egg shells or put your relationships on the backburner because of your ex's freakouts!!!
and Like I told you months ago, document EVERYTHING and keep evidence that you have your daughter with you all the time (pictures, receipts of anything you buy her, ANY type of evidence etc.)
kristadawn
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my daughter
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10/16/2006 6:23:06 PM
hon, I told you you can get rights - you're the only father she's known and the judges favour that.....and you're a damn good daddy to her!!!
My uncle was ordered to pay child support of his step daughter adn still had rights to her after he divorced, why? Because he took over a parenting role as her dad, he was legally obligated to take care of her even after the divorce...just like you have legal rights to your little girl!! get on it or she's going to continue to control your life!!
kristadawn
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i think my nephew is a sociopath
Posted:
10/15/2006 3:23:33 AM
he needs a better situation adn some therapy...
most murderers/serial killers start out as kids abusing/killing animals...
you gotta take a stnad and help him out
kristadawn
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parents
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10/1/2006 10:40:42 AM
that and people smoking in a car with children are my TWO biggest pet peeves!!!
there is NO smoking in my car and my kid is ALWAYS in his seat!!!
kristadawn
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Dad becoming re-involved??
Posted:
9/30/2006 3:47:56 PM
well I'm kind of skeptical of his actual interest in seeing our son...
he says he wants to, seems to be pretty interested in being civil and working things out, but he's always "too busy".....I've thrown out a couple days so far and its always something else going on and no attempt to reschedule for a specific day....I hate having to put in all the effort, but its for my sons best interest....
at least he is being extremely civil and replies to almost all my emails and he actually apologized for missing one reply....so thats a huge step considering we usually just fight...more him eggin it on or twisting my words then anything...
I'm still very nervous about this whole thing....
kristadawn
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Dad becoming re-involved??
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9/25/2006 8:51:16 PM
^^ I wish he would see it that way, alot of the time he doesn't, he always sees me as being a selfish B**** that tries to control the entire situation, hence why he left in the first place....but thats a whole other story...
these last few emails I think he finally gets it.......which I'm hoping is true and I hope to hear from him reallly soon
I just want him to become reaquainted while my son is still so young and won't remember any of this as he gets older, I don't want him to hold anger to me for his dad not being around and I don't want him to feel he's missing something or hate his dad.........I was raised by a great single mom, who never received child support from my dad and feared he'd walk out of our lives if she fought him over it, she felt a relationship with our dad was more important and as much as I am missing a little bit of respect for my dad for the lack of support, I'm grateful that he was very much a part of my life and I want my son to have the same opportunity to know his dad - however, I'll make sure he's paying support!! I love Family Maintenance Enforcement!!!
kristadawn
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Dad becoming re-involved??
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9/24/2006 3:56:40 PM
I've been the only parent for so long that its just habit to say "my son"
thats what I was thinking, I just don't want him to get stranger shy even though he knows what his dad looks like
kristadawn
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Dad becoming re-involved??
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9/24/2006 10:07:02 AM
Oh, I've never ever stopped his dad from seeing him, I think he would be a good dad IF he put time into it and have always thought that....BUT its the effort and commitment that being a dad involves that he's never really understood and he's chosen NOT to come around....I've been trying to involve him since day 1....so I'm anxious for him to have his dad in his life just as much, if not more than my son is...I strongly believe a child needs TWO parents in their lives....
and like I said, I'd be taking him to his dads.....
I'm pretty sure it will be ok, if it actually happens....like I said, he's done this before...
kristadawn
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Dad becoming re-involved??
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9/24/2006 10:01:33 AM
well my ex doesn't have a car and we live in separate cities, but my boyfriend lives close to him and I'm there every weekend so I've offered him visits on the weekend if he wants them....so I'd be taking my son to him, which is good because I can prepare him on the car ride over....but I think 5 minutes of prep. on the way to his house might not be enough...
kristadawn
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Dad becoming re-involved??
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9/24/2006 9:23:38 AM
Ok, my sons dad and I got into a HUGE fight when he was 4 months old, we were already broken up but he was over for a visit with our son......he walked out of my house that night and we've only seen him once, for five minutes just by accident since.....I've written him emails and updates and sent him pictures and a plaster imprint of our sons hand and video footage...just to keep him up on his sons life and to show him what he's missing out on.....but I never tried to pressure him, just keep him intune with his sons life and let him know the door is always open...
anyways..long story short, he missed his support payment last month, and I got really mad and sent him an angry email, probably shouldn't have, but I had a really hard time financially last month and had to spend about 1000 in the last 3 weeks... ANYWAYS lol he replied explaining why in a very civil way, which is odd for him, and we've been talking about him seeing my son and he seems very positive about it working out and wanting to see him........this has happened before so I don't want to get my hopes up, but at the same time I want to prepare my son but NOT dissapoint him if it doesn't happen....
does anyone have any opinions....
I've never held who his dad was from him, he has pictures of him in his baby book and he loves to look through that and he points at him and says "thats my dad!" but still, I don't know how he'll handle seeing him in person and going with him for visits....especially at first, so anyone who's experience similar situations have any advice??
(my son is 2.5)
kristadawn
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wanting to date but not wanting to date..
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9/24/2006 9:13:38 AM
"Krista? I hope you and your Mom weren't too badly scarred."
of course not, they weren't doing anything, just sitting on the couch talking.....but she'd have him over after we went to bed so that there wasn't this random guy coming around all of a sudden........she ended up being with that one for 9 years and out came my little brother :D
kristadawn
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wanting to date but not wanting to date..
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9/23/2006 9:07:46 AM
my mom raised us alone, and I remember her having dates over at the house at night after we were in bed, I found out because I caught her haha...but if you're kids are good sleepers and rarely get up (which wasn't me) then that might be an idea....
of course this is after an initial couple dates outside of the house, to kinda scope him out haha
kristadawn
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Incentive for a good report card.
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9/23/2006 9:04:42 AM
I had so many friends whose parents/grandparents would give them a certain amount per letter grade....like $10 per A and $5 per B....
A rewards system...I plan on implementing one of these with my son for sure!! I didn't start his college fund to have it go to waste!!!
kristadawn
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Any young widows out there?
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9/22/2006 7:57:41 PM
.................
kristadawn
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Any young widows out there?
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9/22/2006 7:56:47 PM
I'm a single mom not due to death but my sons father doesn't have anything to do with him, so I know whats its like to not have any free time
reach out and meet other "parents" and start a circle where you babysit for eachother so that you can enjoy some "adult" time
my friends sister lost her husband 4 days before her twins were born....that was pretty hard on her, but she got support around her so just reach out to your friends and family for help... :) good luck
kristadawn
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Are Single Parents Prejudiced Against At The Work Place?
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9/21/2006 8:50:34 PM
at my work place it is very family oriented....whether married, single, divorced whatever...
I'm a single mom, as well as two others...we're all in relationships but have kids from previous ones and we're treated just as good as the married family people and the single/no kids or the married/ no kids...we're all treated equally...
I think it actually helped me get my job that I had a child to raise!
two months after I started my son was put in the hospital for two days and they didn't even think about it for one second to give me the time off no hassle!
kristadawn
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Suggestions on how to keep a 3 yr old busy!
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9/16/2006 8:44:45 PM
find out about activities held in your community in his/her age group
My son is 2.5 and in 2 weeks we start parent/tot swimming lessons and that runs for 5 weeks...after thats over we start parent/tot skating lessons....after we're done 2 sets of skating he goes on his own adn when he's three he also goes on his own in swimming so...so hopefully that will be good, plus I'm putting him in soccer next year...
at home, cars, crafts, stimulate their minds as much as possible!!!
kristadawn
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Should the grandparents know?
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9/16/2006 9:38:20 AM
I was in a similar situation
My ex and I were not seriously dating for about 6 months before we decided to commit...well he decided, I was already commited to just him... and by then I was already pregnant. He didn't tell his parents about me until we commited and exactly one month later we found out I was 5 weeks pregnant....so I HAD to meet his parents (he wanted a baby so bad)...his mom accepted me right from the get go, his dad and stepmom....I had to meet his parents after they already knew I was pregnant and to them, we'd only really been dating a month...so yah..it was nerve racking BUT they are still apart of my sons life...seeing us as much as they can, and have kept me close like family even though my ex has nothing to do with his son now...
kristadawn
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Should the grandparents know?
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9/15/2006 9:06:39 PM
another story, my friend gave birth to twins 6.5 years ago and the dad denied paternity (had a test, they are his kids) anyways, I called his parents for her to inform them of their grandchildren while they were in Intensive Care in Childrens hospital (born 11 weeks early) that they had twin grandchildren.. the fathers sister has been so actively involved as well as the grandparents in raising the kids.....so yes, tell his parents...if he wants to be a deadbeat then he doesn't deserve respect....!!!!
plus your child has a right to know his/her grandparents IMO
kristadawn
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Should the grandparents know?
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9/15/2006 9:02:53 PM
Yes, the grandparents should know....just because dad doesn't want to be involved doesn't mean grandparents shouldn't have the right.
My sons dad is a dead beat, but he sees his Oma at least once a month if not more and we talk on a regular basis...its only fair that they can know their grandchild
kristadawn
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Halloween ideas......
Posted:
8/19/2006 7:12:33 PM
You should take up sewing, then you don't have to worry about getting the costume asap
I'm making my sons' costume as well as my own this year!!
I love halloween!
kristadawn
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Hamster Horror Stories.
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8/18/2006 10:42:42 AM
last weekend I went camping for the weekend, came back and went right to the pets (hamster and fish) and went to clean the fish bowl because it needed to be cleaned before I left but I ran out of time - he was gone!! couldn't find it anywhere!!
I mean how does a fish just go away (bowl and all)...got confused and didn't even think about checking the hamster..
asked my mom, she didn't know - her b/f didn't know - his daughter didn't know but she did notice the hamster was missing over the weekend...
so we go in his room to check it out, his room being a mess because other kids came over and dumped his toys everywhere and I didn't have time to clean up before we left... sure enough - no hamster and she looks down and voila..theres my fish on the ground in his bowl - lying on its side and the fish in about 1/2 inch of water!!!
He's alive and well, got a clean bowl immediately and food :)
hamster was found about 30 mins. later waltzing down the hallway
kristadawn
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Serious issue please advise!!!
Posted:
7/31/2006 8:14:45 PM
if you cant find out the childs name, I'm sure your friend knows the name of the lady and I'm sure you can report her without knowing who the child is...
thats just wrong...I'm so glad I have a daycare I know I can trust!
kristadawn
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Circumcision...To cut or not to cut?
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7/30/2006 9:50:08 AM
^ I agree!!!!
unneccesary pain!
kristadawn
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Is there a Section for single mom meet-ups?
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7/30/2006 9:23:22 AM
they are usually just arranged by friends....they haven't been happening very often where they are big, I'll msg you with my email and maybe we can meet up and I'll bring some of my single mommy friends out - especially the one closer to you :)
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Single moms
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7/29/2006 8:36:52 AM
I actually get an opposite approach...but finding a good man is still difficult...
I've met lots of guys and some even who I hope would go running and they never seem to care that I have a kid....I think only less than a handful of times I've had one instantly run in the other direction...
but I dated one guy seriously since my son was born and when we ended the reasons didn't seem like enough...and I knew he was getting irritated about baby proofing (my son was learning to crawl at the time) and he told me after that he's definitely not ready for kids...so I'm pretty sure my son was a big part, better to find out sooner than later...
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Is there a Section for single mom meet-ups?
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7/29/2006 8:33:24 AM
You should try posting this in the Vancouver forums because it is more local
but on another note, I live in Maple Ridge and have a couple single mom friends in Surrey as well and all over....I have lots of parent friends....moms and dads....so we just arrange meets amonst us, but usually don't restrict it to single parents....just anyone
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TATTOO'S?? suggestions
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7/26/2006 10:48:23 PM
"dutchman tatoos in new west."
thats where my bro goes and is actually friends with the guy...maybe I should hassle my bro to talk to him some more, its not like it will take forever, only an hour or two tops..its not a big tattoo....
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TATTOO'S?? suggestions
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7/26/2006 9:02:15 PM
So, I have my next (2nd) tattoo planned out, and my brother recommended me to his guy so I asked him to talk to him and see if he was booking for September.....I really would like to go to him, but haven't heard anything from my brother yet and I'm getting impatient to book my appointment
does anyone know anyone else who does really good black and shading and detailed!!!
I'm getting my sons hand and some writing done on my shoulder and I want it to be perfect!!
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POTTY TRAINING STORIES!
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7/25/2006 7:00:16 PM
I forgot about the time he went in his pull up just as we got home and he just went pee pee AGAIN !!!
now thats 6 times in an hour!!! I'm really amazed because they aren't just little tinkles either haha
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