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 Author Thread: Lonliest Single Seniors To Come.
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Joined: 8/11/2008
Msg: 118 (view)
 
Lonliest Single Seniors To Come.
Posted: 5/21/2010 7:31:52 AM
I know that I will be on the "Lonliest Single Seniors To Come" list.
After being married for 35 years and putting my family first I find myself at age 53 divorced and in a situation where I am supposed to be starting over?
I married my high school sweetheart. We started going out at age 15.
I don't think it would be possible to be in another serious relationship. I don't believe in love anymore. I cannot imagine anyone who has ever been divorced believing in love.
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Msg: 5 (view)
 
Would love to hear someones honest opinion...
Posted: 2/10/2010 3:18:41 PM
I like your profile but it doesn't hurt to change it a little bit if nothings biting.
I like your pic with the bandana and guitar. I would use that as your user pic.
You could also add a pic of you smiling.
If you write your own music you could add lines from a song.
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Msg: 95 (view)
 
Staying Single On Purpose
Posted: 2/10/2010 3:02:30 PM
It's a lot healthier than going through a divorce someday. Considering that most marriages end in divorce, I think thats a very healthy choice.
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Msg: 150 (view)
 
AGE DIFFERENCE?
Posted: 2/5/2010 3:28:01 AM
You already know the answer and it's not what you want or you wouldn't be asking.
Always go with your gut feelings. It's never wrong.
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Msg: 19 (view)
 
A Profound Sadness
Posted: 2/5/2010 2:39:02 AM
I thought your words were beautiful. While reading it I couldn't wait to get to the end.
"I don’t know what the emotion is, I really don’t. It might be anger and frustration at a level that I can barely handle. Helplessness."
"I don’t know what to do at this point, I really don’t. Right now I have this awful feeling in my stomach. I’m so afraid."
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Msg: 45 (view)
 
One night together, then...
Posted: 2/4/2010 7:53:21 AM
You were dissected and you failed the test. Everything you said, did, wore, etc was dissected, torn apart and reviewed. From "how were you in bed" to "what kind of shoes you were wearing."
You could email her and ask for your test score but I'm pretty sure that "the exclusivity talk" did you in.
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Msg: 34 (view)
 
Full on relationship advice please guys
Posted: 2/4/2010 7:31:35 AM
"An he god darn is so prefect right now well other than no job" Can you say NEXT?
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Msg: 16 (view)
 
He didn't even say goodbye...
Posted: 8/4/2009 5:50:53 PM
Why would you give a man money?
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Msg: 27 (view)
 
Another Lesson Learned
Posted: 8/4/2009 5:47:08 AM
"I only go out to get me a fresh appetite for being alone."
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Msg: 29 (view)
 
blonde haired guys
Posted: 5/24/2009 5:40:44 PM
let me put in my 2 cents.......
I think your hair would look good pulled back in a ponytail (if your sides are long enough). It would look good with your bandana too.
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Msg: 53 (view)
 
Made my heart skip a beat
Posted: 5/24/2009 4:27:18 PM
I don't notice it because I had it myself for 34 years. People were always asking my X and I if we were newlyweds. We're no longer married now but I do understand what you're talking about. It's just a way or habit of showing affection. The grass always looks greener on the other side.
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Msg: 17 (view)
 
Why not to reveal herself?
Posted: 5/24/2009 3:57:14 PM
scary,weird or both
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Msg: 66 (view)
 
Does head over heels in love still happen after 45?
Posted: 5/24/2009 10:58:28 AM
Do you really think that you can control falling in "head over heels" love with someone?
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Msg: 941 (view)
 
Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 5/16/2009 3:57:04 PM
How old are you? 10?
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Msg: 64 (view)
 
Confused of how I JUST got dumped...
Posted: 5/14/2009 8:55:47 AM
" think it is cool she wore fishnet stockings!"
Me Too!!! I want some! Wonder what color they were? I used to love fishnet stockings. lol
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Msg: 62 (view)
 
Confused of how I JUST got dumped...
Posted: 5/14/2009 8:43:01 AM
Fishnet Stockings??? Everyone knows that when a girl wears fishnet stockings on the first date that means you're gonna be dumped!!!

I think you were moving too slow for her.
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Msg: 42 (view)
 
Often misunderstood, I think
Posted: 5/8/2009 7:44:45 PM
(Most) Guys are not reading your profile. They are only looking at what you look like. On the other hand... women look at the user pics and read all of the profile. Both the profile and pics have to pass to get our attention.
Try this test..... It's what I do.
Remove your profile pics. See how many emails you receive daily compared to how many you receive with your profile pics posted. LOL Let us know the results.

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Msg: 6 (view)
 
When I didn't call, she became interested
Posted: 5/8/2009 7:31:46 PM
never try to figure out a woman
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Msg: 4 (view)
 
A Broken Heart Is A Terrible Thing
Posted: 4/24/2009 11:12:39 AM
It is better to never have loved at all.
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Msg: 9 (view)
 
Just looking for opinions outside the box
Posted: 4/21/2009 5:25:07 AM
"Keep in mind I know what she did was wrong" (If she cheated on you once she'll do it again.) I think she's just trying to keep you on the back burner.

"but she's still my everything and I love her very much."
Good Luck. Falling in love is a loss of control.
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Joined: 8/11/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Where have the normal, well adjusted people gone?
Posted: 4/21/2009 4:52:58 AM
DO NOT "just sit back and let it just happen." When you see someone you're attracted to talk to her.
Your Susan probably passes you on the street everyday.

"What does a guy have to do to find someone very special?"
First you would need to feel very special about yourself. Likes attract Likes.

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Msg: 11 (view)
 
Please help
Posted: 4/21/2009 4:35:14 AM
It sounds great to me. Having fun being together without the big "Dating" word. Enjoy.
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Msg: 73 (view)
 
I'm not sure if I did the right thing???
Posted: 3/27/2009 12:38:09 PM
I hope you didn't spill your whiskey and coconut water! Maybe it was the whiskey talking?
I think you should have called 911. There was a child watching all of this happen. It is very likely that the woman and even the child could possibly be in more danger because of what you did. It was not your problem. You should have not got involved.
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Msg: 59 (view)
 
You are everything I ever wanted in a woman...
Posted: 3/27/2009 12:25:08 PM
It sounds like he's a honest guy. You probably are "everything he has ever wanted in a woman," when he wants a woman to "spend time with."
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Msg: 160 (view)
 
Are real naked women just bad porn?
Posted: 3/11/2009 8:22:47 AM
jimtash71
wow what did that woman do to you?????
you sound like you just came out of a BAD relationship or you're speaking from a broken heart.
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Msg: 159 (view)
 
Are real naked women just bad porn?
Posted: 3/11/2009 8:16:24 AM
which walmarts???????

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Msg: 59 (view)
 
ruining a relationship
Posted: 2/6/2009 7:56:11 AM
RUN............ She's probably still on her good behavior. What will she be like when you really get to know her? RUN ....FAST.....
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Msg: 29 (view)
 
Dunno What To DO
Posted: 2/6/2009 7:44:06 AM
I was referring to your Brain, not your birth age.
You look 43, not 33 in your pic.
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Msg: 19 (view)
 
She is....
Posted: 2/6/2009 7:28:40 AM
If you end up with him, you might want to keep your crayons so you can "color outside the lines" while he's "chatting" with other women.
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Joined: 8/11/2008
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Dunno What To DO
Posted: 2/6/2009 6:59:11 AM
How old are you????????
"chatted with this guy in IM for a year"
"This past weekend, his wife moved out and filed for divorce."
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Msg: 22 (view)
 
Why do I always anticipate them to walk..
Posted: 1/21/2009 5:05:55 PM
You need to not care if they walk.
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Msg: 9 (view)
 
Always contacting her, rarely contacts me...
Posted: 12/10/2008 10:15:19 PM
caanon,
You sound like a very sweet guy. Quit worrying so much, you're goin' miss all the fun! It might be that she's just taking things slow too.
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Joined: 8/11/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
So long ladies, it was nice not hearing from you...
Posted: 12/10/2008 9:40:48 PM
OhioMan2010,
I can probably tell you why "they won't even say boo most of the time".
NO USER PIC and "I want to be your stud muffin!" ?????????
We're all on freakin' diets!!!!!!!
 collecting moments
Joined: 8/11/2008
Msg: 14 (view)
 
So long ladies, it was nice not hearing from you...
Posted: 12/10/2008 9:31:10 PM
It would be impossible to answer all our messages. I only answer the ones that makes me laugh or makes me think "huh".
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Msg: 3 (view)
 
Always contacting her, rarely contacts me...
Posted: 12/10/2008 9:09:32 PM
It sounds like you're one of the nice guys. She probably likes bad boyz.
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Msg: 710 (view)
 
People who think you are hot V2.
Posted: 12/10/2008 8:52:23 PM
so... how do I put (smoranean) on my I think he's hot list?
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Msg: 39 (view)
 
People who think you are hot V2.
Posted: 12/5/2008 5:59:12 AM
I think it's a fun addition. Weird... half the men listed in mine are at least 10 to 20 years younger than I am.
20 year old hotties! lol.
I guess it could make you want to narrow down your profile a little and then check to see whose left on the list.
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Joined: 8/11/2008
Msg: 31 (view)
 
People who think you are hot V2.
Posted: 12/5/2008 5:41:36 AM
lol..."GAG" does this mean that we are on their we think their hot list too?
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Msg: 636 (view)
 
The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 11/25/2008 11:38:31 AM
spiders and stuck tampons
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Msg: 57 (view)
 
Really confused
Posted: 11/24/2008 4:11:31 PM
Yes, You need to focus on yourself first. Women come, women go, but there's only one you.
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Msg: 2 (view)
 
Miss Read
Posted: 11/18/2008 1:57:43 PM
It sounds like "she doesn't want to have a relationship."
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Msg: 225 (view)
 
Dressing too young
Posted: 11/18/2008 1:52:55 PM
Yes, I know what you mean! Do you also walk out in the parking lot to see if they are driving age appropriate cars?
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Msg: 65 (view)
 
like a dog chasing a car.
Posted: 11/18/2008 1:31:29 PM
did this happen .... after she took off her wonder bra?
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Msg: 14 (view)
 
Ok ladies give me your advice or opinion
Posted: 10/8/2008 6:26:51 PM
There could be lots of different reasons.

It might be that she likes being with you but doesn't want to be tied down.

She likes you but she knows the relationship would never work long term.

You might be too emotionally involved and that scares her and makes her run from you but she must love you if she keeps coming back.

My advice would be for you to end the relationship because it will always be in limbo. (unless you can handle the "wow" sex with no attachments)
 collecting moments
Joined: 8/11/2008
Msg: 695 (view)
 
Why are most men looking for Friends with Benefits?
Posted: 10/8/2008 6:12:33 PM
I would assume that they are realist. They're just cutting through all the "soul mates, marriage or love will last forever" bull-shit.
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Msg: 54 (view)
 
is it normal??
Posted: 9/18/2008 7:38:49 PM
He has alot of self confidence.
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Msg: 85 (view)
 
He Won't Stop Calling...
Posted: 9/16/2008 8:45:58 PM
stop answering his calls...lol
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Msg: 26 (view)
 
Body art - why the double standard?
Posted: 9/16/2008 8:29:58 PM
He was trying to impress you and you out did him. LOL
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Msg: 373 (view)
 
Why don't tall men choose to date tall women?
Posted: 9/16/2008 8:26:50 PM
bitter? models are tall!!
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Msg: 51 (view)
 
First experience with online dating......
Posted: 9/16/2008 8:25:27 PM
maybe he's dead....shark attack
 
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