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 Author Thread: I need breakup advise!
 cutesmilejunkie
Joined: 9/30/2005
Msg: 7 (view)
 
I need breakup advise!
Posted: 12/1/2005 1:25:21 AM
Break up on good terms you say...? Difficult to say the least..! My only advice is, dont wait, it doesnt make sense. Quick and to the point...its the best way for both. Expect, that he'll fight for you though...if this is the case, cut it off, let him know that there is nothing he can do to change your mind and finally leave it at that. It may sound mean but really its honest. If you both are adults, eventually, when the time is right, you'll both be able to see or speak with each other normally maybe even exchange why it wasnt right in the first place.

Break ups are all about moving on however; one person is always ready to move on quicker than the other. If you are on the receiving end of a break up, its harder cause you cling to hope. It only really gets better when you begin forgetting and moving on. So if you are the one doing the deed, keep that in mind. The best thing for your partner is to believe that there is no hope. Quick may be painful at first but one begins the process of healing faster.

Good Luck...Just do it...dont wait..!
 cutesmilejunkie
Joined: 9/30/2005
Msg: 287 (view)
 
I have too...but ask me in three weeks hows it going...!
Posted: 10/19/2005 1:05:41 PM
Did the same as you...showed some interest in a profile without a pic...get this! I'm fairly new to this whole shopping experience...she was my first meet...actually shes my only meet...but when we did, I was floored...instantly thought I was way out of my league...we hit it off...had a good click...but shes gone away for a few week for school so I wont know if it continues until she returns...looks promising though!

To anyone who wont take a chance without a pic, you are limiting yourselves...not to say that my story is common, i was just lucky I guess but, she was of the belief that if she had posted her pic she would have just been bombarded making it more difficult to honestly be selective than with just a few callers. I think she was right although, if it had turned out differently would I be singing a different tune..? Probably..

Pyhsical attraction is first and foremost...we cant help it its human nature...as long as we realize that its not everthing and that there is so much more to us as individuals...this shopping experience should be fairly enjoyable. If you read most profiles, we're all looking for pretty much the same thing...honesty, trust, a sense of humor and smeone to share time with...you could do this blindly and find this in all of us...take a chance...welcome the unexpected...let your instincts and love do the rest...

- cutesmilejunkie

 
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