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Runz_With_Scissorz

Joined: 10/1/2005

Msg: 38 (view)

How do i tell him I like him Posted: 10/5/2006 1:10:08 PM
Oh... one more thing... And this is just MY piece of advice... NEVER mess with someone at work ;)

Runz_With_Scissorz

Joined: 10/1/2005

Msg: 37 (view)

How do i tell him I like him Posted: 10/5/2006 1:09:13 PM
i dont agree with asking him out or getting your mates to because if he says no..............then how humiliating is that. Come on venus... what's THIS crap about?!?! Seriously! Where is it written that a girl can't ask a guy out? There ARE shy guys out there who are totally oblivious to subtle flirting, and may need a little extra NOT-so-subtle hints! And don't worry, they lose the shyness once the initial ice is broken. Let's not get into a discussion about equal rights and expectations... we're not in the dark ages anymore! Stacey... ASK the guy out! There seems to be a common misconception that guys don't like to be asked out, and that a girl looks desparate if she does so. This is a load of crap! Some, (and I would go so far to say that MOST) guys would be flattered and love to be asked out. He probably likes you too and is just shy himself. OR, you can sit back and wait, possibly get asked out by a bunch of the "Hey, how you doin" types. Then you can come back here and complain (like a lot of girls do) that you are a loser magnet, or guys are pigs and only want one thing. Meh, I could go on and on about this.....

Runz_With_Scissorz

Joined: 10/1/2005

Msg: 441 (view)

Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you? Posted: 10/5/2006 12:38:25 PM
angelab! OUCH! I am so sorry to hear that :\|

Runz_With_Scissorz

Joined: 10/1/2005

Msg: 903 (view)

Crush list 2006 Posted: 10/3/2006 7:24:34 PM
Did you get my match with Eva Longoria YET?!?!?!? The suspense is killing me!

Runz_With_Scissorz

Joined: 10/1/2005

Msg: 34 (view)

Suggestive Profile Pictures... Posted: 10/3/2006 7:17:37 PM
Well put dtekog You reap what you sow. They have no right to complain. I have never replied to girls messages who had skanky pics in their profile. Do you remember back when we were kids? There was that little joke... "Hey Jimmy, got any skanky pics of your mom?" "NO!" "No? Wanna buy some then?" This is the internet age... those pics will be around forever. And I don't want MY kids being subjected to the non-joke version of that story. There's a lot more to this topic, but, meh!

Runz_With_Scissorz

Joined: 10/1/2005

Msg: 16 (view)

favorites lists Posted: 10/3/2006 6:28:17 PM
Why would it bother you? I'm not here to meet anyone, but have added four (4) people on my favorites list. I figured it was just a nice little way to say "You're Cool!" :) If you like what they have to say, or the way they look, what is the harm in adding them? I didn't realize there was a "you must initiate communication" policy if you add :\| Either ignore it, or initiate conversation YOURSELF! this site needs an eye-rolling smiley

Runz_With_Scissorz

Joined: 10/1/2005

Msg: 129 (view)

Why Women Prefer Taller Men - The definitive answer Posted: 10/3/2006 4:44:02 PM
Ah, the Napoleonic Complex... Short Guy Syndrome... Yet another stereotype, yet also somewhat valid. When you're shorter than average while growing up, yes the taller children have this perceived superiority and often pick on the shorter children. Kids are cruel. You're either the timid, wimpy type who takes it, (and ONE day goes postal) or you're the kind who doesn't take it and stands up for yourself. If you stand up for yourself, you get lots of practice while growing up. Don't worry ladies, most guys grow out of short-guy syndrome, but how they handled it growing up will determine how they let it affect them later on. Another short guy in this thread posted his disgust at the perceived notion that short guys aren't capable protectors. I am with him on that. But, at this day in age, does that ACTUALLY have any bearing? We're not living in prehistoric times, and we do not have to club women over the head and drag them by the hair back to our caves anymore, after a long hunting trip. Go ahead, pick on a short guy who doesn't take it... you'll be surprised and sorry But again, this comment is just rebutting the belief that the taller guy is "tougher" or a better protector. I think I am a decent looking guy, in decent shape... and I DO see the short thing is indeed an issue. I'm a "superstar in the car" :) You know, stopped at a light or stuck in traffic, I get a look or two, it's nice when you see her roll up a few feet to get a better look and smile. I get enough instant messages from my yahoo profile and pictures. But walking down the street, or in a mall, it is extremely rare when I can establish eye contact or even get a smile out of a girl. Years of this has provided the proof that the short thing isn't a PLUS :) Oh, and that "proportionate" arguement... well, people come in all sorts of shapes and sizes, and yes, proportions... but there is no mathmatical equation to relate to appendage size But I certainly do subscribe to the belief that the man should be the taller of the two. Blame it on society, it's one that stuck with me. But I do find it silly when a girl who is roughly 5'2" states in her online profile that her preference is for 6 feet or taller. Chacon a son gout... I have my own "shallow" preferences as well. But tall guys... quit stealing our short women!!! We're all the same height when lying down!

Runz_With_Scissorz

Joined: 10/1/2005

Msg: 51 (view)

would you take a partner back after they had sex with someone else during a breakup? Posted: 12/3/2005 2:44:17 PM
"We were on a BREAK!"

Runz_With_Scissorz

Joined: 10/1/2005

Msg: 20 (view)

ok, I think I am done here..... Posted: 12/3/2005 2:42:49 PM
Are you LYING about your age tlc?

Runz_With_Scissorz

Joined: 10/1/2005

Msg: 22 (view)

silly broads Posted: 12/3/2005 2:37:31 PM
and YOU TOO sparda :\|

Runz_With_Scissorz

Joined: 10/1/2005

Msg: 21 (view)

silly broads Posted: 12/3/2005 2:37:18 PM
sparsa... I vote you off the island!

Runz_With_Scissorz

Joined: 10/1/2005

Msg: 18 (view)

My profile Posted: 12/3/2005 2:30:37 PM
Let her go... she deserves what she gets eye rolling smiley You girls who emphasize body parts in your profiles are only going to attract the kind of guy looking for a fling. If that's what you're after, fine. but don't complain later that you weren't taken seriously. Skanky pics in a profile are a turn off for people looking to actually meet people, and not just looking for one night of fun. You reap what you sow ;)

Runz_With_Scissorz

Joined: 10/1/2005

Msg: 19 (view)

Why can't I find a woman who can enjoy sex as much as me and keep up? Posted: 12/3/2005 1:27:35 PM
INITIATE! Yes, I know.... women sit back and expect the guy to initiate EVERYTHING. The first approach, asking her out, and especially initiating sex. Guys get tired of always having to be the one to initiate. This is why it drops off as the relationship moves on. Show you're interested for crying-out-loud! And in the spirit of avoiding that over-used cliche that all women are the same, yes, occassionally you do meet a girl that is not afraid to initiate. RARE I tell you!

Runz_With_Scissorz

Joined: 10/1/2005

Msg: 105 (view)

Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?... Posted: 12/3/2005 1:11:21 PM
Ah, the single mom thing. In the past year, the only girls to have approached me were single moms. They seem to be more likely to approach a guy than single girls would... and as cute as they were, I had to decline. I have nothing against single mothers, and I DO want kids myself. But I want them to be MY kids. So, that said, dating single mothers is out of the question for me. It makes me angry reading all these posts, with the women on here stating that all guys are the same (just out to get laid, they use girls, etc.) THAT is the attitude I am referring to. As dream stated, You get what you give. And you don't sound like you even have the capability of giving anything positive with that negative "I hate men" attitude. Not all guys are the same... as i am sure not all girls are the same. Still working on formulating an opinion on that one ;) Runz_With_Scissorz does NOT shoplift the pootie!

Runz_With_Scissorz

Joined: 10/1/2005

Msg: 49 (view)

meeting someone in a supermarket Posted: 12/3/2005 12:55:28 PM
I get my groceries delivered :\|

Runz_With_Scissorz

Joined: 10/1/2005

Msg: 98 (view)

Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?... Posted: 12/3/2005 12:20:36 PM
Ok, jig's problem is typical of many of the angry women out there. She is probably a good looking girl (as she has stated herself in a previous post) and has had guys "into" her for her "good looks" and don't see what's inside. That's what you said, right? In general, girls like you have been inundated with date requests in your youth, this in turn has led you to believe that you are some sort of "catch", and I have found that girls like you have rarely formed a personality. You rely solely on good looks to get a man. Guys get bored of BORING girls no matter how good looking they are. And angry girls... well, you figure it out And Jig, don't tell me you HAVE a good personality.... because I have seen your posts ;) DEVELOP A PERSONALITY!

Runz_With_Scissorz

Joined: 10/1/2005

Msg: 97 (view)

Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?... Posted: 12/3/2005 12:08:19 PM
No, it's because you go for the wrong guys. You're shallow and superficial. It's laughable, some of these girls' comments. First of all, for most guys, or at least a lot of them (note, the guy-to-girl-ratio on here), it is difficult attracting a girl or getting one interested in them enough for more elaborate relations than just email/casual communication etc. If a girl is complaining about a jackass, she's choosing the wrong guys and most likely, is passing over better guys for the jerks. 'Happens a lot... The girls should spare us the B.S. about 'all guys are... X. Aren't you glad I am here to give you the real facts? Again, well put!

Runz_With_Scissorz

Joined: 10/1/2005

Msg: 96 (view)

Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?... Posted: 12/3/2005 12:04:54 PM
I am not sure if this thread is SAD or worse...Pathetic now let me think about this for a minute.... he made u sleep in the car...no HUN...u did...and no man who "loves loves" his woman would make her sleep in a car....if he did...he woulda got his sorry ass in the car and given you his BED or some other worthy form of accomodation !! I got a better idea...why don't u call him & tell him u luv him...but say he has to sleep in your Fridge coz your not quite sure whether it's working or not....an easy request don't u think!! I think this thread should be called "dumb and dumber"....no wonder you women get stomped on !! go to the library or bookstore and pick up a book on SELF ESTEEM........maybe you and your "lover boy" can read in YOUR CAR during your work break ...LOL LOL Couldn't have said it better ;)

Runz_With_Scissorz

Joined: 10/1/2005

Msg: 95 (view)

Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?... Posted: 12/3/2005 12:03:20 PM
Hmm, it didn't include the message I was repling to :\| _________________________________________ ShaunaDanielle - going by your above multiple posts, you have a problem shutting up?? Regardless, no one here knows the answers if you don't. actually i'm one of the quietest people you could ever meet. I don't talk much at all in person.

Runz_With_Scissorz

Joined: 10/1/2005

Msg: 94 (view)

Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?... Posted: 12/3/2005 12:02:09 PM
THERE's your reason.... right there. Or, at least ONE of them ;) Girl's who don't talk are boring

Runz_With_Scissorz

Joined: 10/1/2005

Msg: 157 (view)

The drug thing. Posted: 10/4/2005 2:56:34 PM
Hmmm... scratch that... there IS a SOCIALLY check box :)

Runz_With_Scissorz

Joined: 10/1/2005

Msg: 156 (view)

The drug thing. Posted: 10/4/2005 2:55:29 PM
I agree... the "drug thing" SHOULD have an OCCASSIONAL check box. Unfortunately, I too had to check YES because of my occassional use ;) Checking YES is just so harsh... And I thought the dancing banana was bad... --->

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