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bedroomblue63

Joined: 8/18/2008

Msg: 232 (view)

WHATS THE WORST DATE YOU HAD ON POF Posted: 11/18/2009 11:41:48 AM
Now this ^^^^^ Ladies & gents, is the definition of a REAL gentleman!!~ Your Mom must be very proud of you!!~ ~B~

bedroomblue63

Joined: 8/18/2008

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Canadians: Would you move to America for the right person? Posted: 11/10/2009 2:37:41 PM
The thought of even leaving the city I live in is not really an option for me, so the chances of me relocating to another country is slim to none. I have too much here: parents, siblings, children and my first grandchild is on the way. I couldn't walk away from that, sorry - not even for the 'right' person. I do know a couple who did just that recently though. She lives in Chatham and he is from the U.S. (just the other side of the Sarnia border). They got married and he moved here - not her there. I would think it would be easier for people to pick up and move that have no roots or reason to stay. JMO only............ ~B~

bedroomblue63

Joined: 8/18/2008

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Type of face you prefer Posted: 9/23/2009 5:08:04 PM
Personally, I prefer my men to look like MEN - not little boys. Faces like Sean Connery & Chuck Norris........... NOT the Brad Pitts and the Leo's of the world. ~B~

bedroomblue63

Joined: 8/18/2008

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Why do women post one I like or a good one under profession? Posted: 8/20/2009 7:54:48 AM
I concur - privacy. It's no one's business what I do for a living or how much I make. (some people feel they can gauge what you earn by what you do) I have listed that I have a GREAT job - cause I do!!~ If you want to know more than that...............then introduce yourself to me and strike up a conversation. ~B~

bedroomblue63

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what's with the one sided conversations? Posted: 8/20/2009 7:48:41 AM
~OP~ Honestly, IMO only....................I think 'generally', the art of conversation has just simply gone by the wayside. "Some" people now just do not know how to hold up their end of a conversation. I don't know if it's because too many people rely on e-mail, text messages, etc.......................?? For me personally - that is a deal breaker. If someone cannot hold a conversation, and I feel like I am constantly pulling teeth....................then no, thanx - but no thanx. Don't get discouraged. The operative words above are 'generally' and 'some' - not ALL. ~B~

bedroomblue63

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what are the 10 top thing that atteract you to a guy. Posted: 8/20/2009 7:16:13 AM
In no particular order....... 1) honest 2) loyal 3) sense of humor 4) great smile 5) family oriented 6) has good manners 7) can hold a good conversation 8) good kisser 9) not afraid of showing/receiving public affection 10)is kind to animals and elderly people ~B~

bedroomblue63

Joined: 8/18/2008

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What are you women thinking?! Posted: 8/18/2009 3:51:43 PM
I'm still waiting for the appropriate quote from Leviticus to go with your self-righteous post, OP. ^^^^that was extremely rude and totally unnecessary My guess is lack of self-confidence. They think that's the only way they can get a guy to notice them. I'm with TXCurlyGirl on this one................. ~B~

bedroomblue63

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weak or strong? Posted: 8/18/2009 3:45:12 PM
~OP~ I am certainly not going to speak for ALL women - but for me personally - I consider it a strength. Any man that acts like a jerk is the 'big wuss' in my opinion. ~B~

bedroomblue63

Joined: 8/18/2008

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Is it right to ask a girl to put their life on hold for you? Posted: 8/10/2009 10:02:10 AM
I'm not sure what to do with my girlfriend OP - I'd like to think that you just picked the wrong verbiage with the above statement. You do realize the young lady in question is not an object to have anything 'done' with her, right?? Seeing as how you yourself are listed in your profile as 'single'...............ah, no. You are not justified in asking her to wait for you, when you're still looking before you even leave. JMO, ~B~

bedroomblue63

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How do you feel about sex with ex's Posted: 8/7/2009 1:29:01 PM
How do I feel about sex with my ex?? I would enjoy it about as much as I would enjoy being hit by a truck everyday.............. To recap: NO To echo the others: an ex is an ex for a REASON ~B~

bedroomblue63

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Did you keep your wedding photos? Posted: 7/30/2009 9:17:09 AM
Guess I'm the odd duck out here. From my first marriage - I took the mass majority of pictures and had a lovely bon fire the day after our divorce was final. Just me, the fire and a great bottle of wine. I have not once ever regretted that decision. I kept a 'select' few, in case my oldest Daughter ever wanted to see them. She's now 22, engaged to be married and has not once asked to see them. But they will remain in the bottom of my cedar chest, "just in case". From my second marriage - I still have all the pictures in an album around here somewhere. Eventually I will get around to either tossing or burning them too, all except for a select few. I highly doubt I will ever regret this decision either. To each their own............ ~B~

bedroomblue63

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Long-Distance Relationships: Do they work? Posted: 7/14/2009 4:59:11 PM
Sometimes, I just think cupid has either a really defective sense of humor or at the very least his aim is off. I have learned to 'never say never' because of cupids arrow. I was contacted (not on here, another site) by a gentleman who is based in the U.S. However, right now he is working in Europe, and due to be home in about three weeks. Home not being where he is based, but here - where I am. He is coming here first to meet me in person, and spend time together. He has no qualms about relocating to where I live. We chat on line almost daily - countless e-mails, and have spoken on the phone as well. This has proved to be a bit of a challenge at times because of the 4 hour time difference. If there was not a chance of him relocating, then no - I would not have allowed this affection between us to grow - it would have been nipped in the bud. But am I ever glad he will, otherwise I would have missed out on knowing a very wonderful, kind and thoughtful person. I wouldn't recommend this to everyone - but for me, it's certainly working!!~ ~B~

bedroomblue63

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Help with location Posted: 6/11/2009 6:06:55 PM
~OP~ I'm tired............I'm cranky........and I will admit, that I'm a little "stunned" at the moment. ( work related - nothing to do with your post) However - I don't think that I'm THAT far out of it to realize that PEI IS part of Canada. You may not want it to be...............sorry for your luck - it's a geographical fact. No one can change that............... Have you listed your home state/province incorrectly?? Just a thought............... ~B~ feel free to pop me off a note to discuss, as oppose to turning this into a 'chat' thread.

bedroomblue63

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What's Your Favorite Way To Relax? Posted: 6/11/2009 5:53:45 PM
~Thank Gawd for "Thread Searches"~ Although, I am sure there will be 'someone' who may report this as 'bumping' an old thread...................Whatever.......... However - I do believe I would rather be reported for THAT, as opposed to being "redundant".......... It's just past 8:30 pm (my time) and I've just arrived home after two days on the road. Which is good for me. Usually I am 4 days on the road. I'm whipped............I can barely speak a complete English sentence I will ask you all now, to please excuse any typos.................... All I want to do is strip and get my jammies on..............serious!!~ After a tour of duty..............my best way to relax...........is to get home.......NOT check work e-mail.................instead, 'check in' with my kids......................what's been going on with them is WAY more important. And they are 'older' kids...........22 & 16. But they will ALWYAS be THE most important thing ........... After that...............jammies on...................more than likely grab a 'light' c o c k tail............and curl up on the sofa ........... Tomorrow..................I will get caught up with all my GF's on POF................. Tonight gang................just too darn tired................. Luff ya all............. ~B~

bedroomblue63

Joined: 8/18/2008

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What happened POF?! Posted: 6/9/2009 7:25:44 AM
My withdrawal symptoms have nearly vanished already That's funny...............several people that I've met here and correspond with our 'real life' e-mails..........were whipping back and forth yesterday asking each other "is it me - or can you get not get on either" Markus - thanx for the quick reply to BDJ's inquiry............and for the upgrades. Last night was horrible for entertainment...........I actually had to watch TV!!~ ~B~

bedroomblue63

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Rude Posted: 6/9/2009 7:11:01 AM
Actually - what ~OP~ has gotta do is learn to use the thread search................

bedroomblue63

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why a false profile? Posted: 6/8/2009 11:30:03 AM
Know this- I do what I want, when I want, and I expect you to be the girl that does what I want when I want it. yeah................let us know how that works out for ya................... I'm looking for a girl who will drink me under the table in a****ail dress, a girl who's wild enough to dance topless on a table at a bar Honestly OP, for the life of me I just can't imagine WHY you're only hearing from rude and rash women?? Go figure?? ~B~

bedroomblue63

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Mommy problems. Posted: 6/8/2009 10:34:53 AM
Oh Lord...........what a situation!!~ Document EVERYTHING Literally took the words right out of my mouth. Been there, had to do that............and you would not believe how much I was glad that I took the time to do it. you need to take the high road on this And you will be glad you did, further down the road. Children are not half a stupid as a lot of adults would like to think. You must never speak ill of their Mother in front of them, or to them. Hard though that may be at time. As for the 7 year old...........that just broke my heart reading what you had in your original post. How cruel this woman is, to treat him that way. Definitely NOT Mommy material - in my books, anyhow. As others have already said.........just BE THERE for your kids, and give them all the love in the world. Best of luck, ~B~

bedroomblue63

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Have you ever dated someone in a gang? Posted: 6/8/2009 6:28:46 AM
No, I have not, nor would I ever. However, 7 years ago, my oldest Daughter did - and believe me you - I've never had such a tumultuous 8 months, in my life Our whole house was turned upside down........I lost time at work, my then husband and our Daughter were constantly at logger heads. It even trickled down to her younger sister. It was literally like walking on eggshells/living in a war zone. I finally had to ban the boy from coming to our home. Every time I saw him I just wanted to high five the side of his face and then some. Even when he was in jail...........he still had this 'hold' on her. It was sickening.....truly. When she finally admitted she was only staying with him out of fear - I threw her into counseling the very next day. I knew she needed to talk to an impartial 3rd party. I could not be that person and I sure didn't want her talking to the boy's Mother. She wanted them to stay together, hoping my Daughter would be a good influence over her Son. After a while - this did the trick. She found the strength and courage to kick the boy to the curb, and has never looked back. Today - she can't believe how naive she was then....................... The only positive thing to come out of this was the end of the relationship. Also, my Daughter realizing she had way more self worth than that azzhole had her convinced she did. Today, she is a bright lovely young lady - who just recently became engaged to a lovely young man that we all just adore!!~ ~B~

bedroomblue63

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We got married May 17 Posted: 6/7/2009 8:17:09 PM
~OP~ Congratulations to you and your Groom!!~ (don't forget to change your status though.....you're still listed as 'single') ~B~

bedroomblue63

Joined: 8/18/2008

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What do you ladies do when you're logged in? Posted: 6/7/2009 8:04:22 PM
~OP~ I only fully log in when I have e-mail. I read and reply, then log out. I long ago quit read profiles.................. The majority of the time I post to the forums without logging into the e-mail side ~B~

bedroomblue63

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ever been in an off and on relationship Posted: 6/7/2009 7:58:06 PM
ever been in an off and on relationship Nope!!~ It's either 'on' or it's 'off'. Once off.......it stays that way. ~B~

bedroomblue63

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Handsome/hot men aren't asking me out or responding, Why? Posted: 6/7/2009 8:54:22 AM
This is too easy. My abrasive honesty would be too much here, I think. Can others handle this one, please? Go for it.............I always enjoy your posts!!~ ~B~

bedroomblue63

Joined: 8/18/2008

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Why am I flirting with my ex? Posted: 6/7/2009 6:05:29 AM
~OP~ In a word - no. Would you chew your food twice?? Me thinks not.......... An 'ex' is an 'ex' for a reason.....................please remember this. ~B~

bedroomblue63

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The Gym. Leave the ladies alone, or say hi? Posted: 6/7/2009 6:03:28 AM
~OP~ I can't speak for myself, as I have never done the 'gym' thing. When I was healthier, I always prefered to work out at home. However, my oldest Daughter has had a gym membership for years, and actually just switched gyms for this very reason. The first gym she belonged two had three sections - male only, female only and co-ed. ONCE she did the co-ed thing and came home telling me she wanted to 'puke all over herself'. Ladies wore makeup, matching outfits ( yes the thong over the tight gym shorts) and stared in the mirrors ^^^^^ pretty much sums up what she said. She also said she wanted stock in their mascara manufacturer......'cause if they were there to REALLY work out, they should have been looking like racoons!!~ When my Daughter goes to the gym she goes there to 'lose' herself. She does not want to be bothered with the 'pick up' scene. So my guess would be no - leave 'em alone....................... ~B~

bedroomblue63

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the sweetest thing anyone ever said to you Posted: 6/6/2009 7:39:26 AM
All depends on what a person's view of 'sweet' is. Everyone is going to have their own interpretation For example , after having met someone in the pond.......and some MSNing back and forth.......we finally had an extremely long chat on the phone yesterday. Very shortly after hanging up...........he called me back. Just simply to say how much he had enjoyed "meeting" me and how much he enjoyed out phone chat. I thought that was sweet (and yes, I told him so) Back in February, my Dad (who had been in the hosptial since January 1st) had a set back, and we were all called in. This fella I had been casually seeing, drove me to the hospital (90 minutes away). I was just so grateful to him...........On the way down, we were chatting...........and I was apologizing for having called him, but I knew there was just no way I could have made the drive (not with the shape I was in). He just simply pointed to his shoulder and said "You see this?? It belongs to you now" Although we didn't work out............I will never forget those words. ~B~

bedroomblue63

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Does anyone like being alone better? Can you take or leave having a relationship? Posted: 6/6/2009 7:26:27 AM
To answer the original question.....(no sense in addressing the OP as they have LONG left the building)......just because I am 'alone' does not mean that I am lonely. Huge difference.................. Can I 'take or leave' having a relationship?? You betcha I can............ I have a very full life. My Children........children whom have 'adopted' me as their 'other Mother'........my 'honoray' Grandchildren......my friends......the wonderful, WONDERFUL people I have met via POF (just too darn bad the majority live so far away..... )...and lastly, my job. My profile states that I am looking for the following: ....someone who will 'compliment' what I have, not 'complicate' . If someone is in my life (male or female, to be totally honest) it is because I WANT them there...............certainly not because I NEED them there ~B~

bedroomblue63

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Seperated, how long is too long? Posted: 6/6/2009 6:08:27 AM
~OP~ Honestly - I don't think you're ready to be 'dating' , as your profile states. I know people who live in glass houses should not throw stones, (I am separated too), but you're not separated in your head or your heart. I've been alone for just shy of two years now, but not once has a reconciliation taken place, nor will it. We stuck it out to the bitter end. When we parted - that was it. Period Apart - together.....apart - together.......that's not healthy IMO. Nor is still doing things as a family unit. Again, JMO. That you should be actively involved in your kids life is a no brainer. But to continually do things as a 'family unit' just gives the kids false hope. You and your wife for sure need to 'play nice' for the sake of the children. You need to keep on amicable terms............after all, you will be connected for the REST of you lives because of the beautiful lives you created as a couple. So why not get along?? You and your wife need to sit down and have a very LONG talk...........perhaps even go to couples councilling?? Figure out if together you can make it work. If not - then part and stay that way. Move on and move up...........hard though that may be. Good luck to you, truly......... ~B~

bedroomblue63

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CRAP CRAP CRAP Posted: 6/4/2009 11:45:34 PM
"hey I forgot to give you something last night" and kiss her then. Holy................talk about smooth.................. ~OP~: Can't speak for the lady in question.........but words like that ^^^ sure would melt me.................in a heartbeat!!~ B.

bedroomblue63

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CRAP CRAP CRAP Posted: 6/4/2009 11:30:40 PM
~OP~ OMG - you're so cute!!~ Listen to posts #2 & #3 Chances are good she realized it was just as "awkward". Just make sure in the morning..............you don't let another opportunity pass you by.............(you get my drift) Best of luck................come back and let us all know what happened, okay?? B.

bedroomblue63

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Prayers Posted: 6/4/2009 10:41:24 PM
~Isabella~ I will add myself to your circle of prayers. Please be sure to keep us all posted as to your Brother & SIL's recovery. B.

bedroomblue63

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warnings Posted: 6/4/2009 10:33:30 PM
~OP~ No, you cannot use a member's name to warn other people - nice though that may be. This is commonly referred to as "name & shame", and is very much against forum rules. You would only get yourself into hot water with the Moderator and Admin. So really, it's just not worth it. I really CAN understand your need to 'out' this person. Believe me you - I myself would just LOVE to 'name & shame' at least one POF member. I also would not suggest reporting this member - just because you yourself have had a run in with him. This also could only land yourself in hot water. I know it's hard..........but it's a fact. I'm sure this is so NOT what you wanted to hear.............but, it is pond reality. TC, B.

bedroomblue63

Joined: 8/18/2008

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Blown Off Posted: 6/3/2009 7:32:16 PM
None, unless they are unconscious or in a cave, they can call. I do believe that pretty much sums it up............. B.

bedroomblue63

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What are some ways we can deal with this? Posted: 6/3/2009 12:14:11 PM
~OP~ As someone who is frequently in Port Elgin for business, I find it hard to believe you cannot make friends there?? I love it when I have to go there....(except for the 3 hour drive)........and will be there next week as a matter of fact for two days. I've always found the town to be wonderful and the people to be extrememly charming. You do need to broaden your horizons a bit there........ignore the gossip mongers - they are everywhere........even in big cities. Look around harder - I am willing to bet you will find all kinds of nice folks in your lovely cottage country town!!~ Good luck, B.

bedroomblue63

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Here's one for ya. Posted: 6/2/2009 5:05:09 PM
~OP~ Been there - done it already. 1) copy the profile to word document and save for future reference if needed, and before they have a chance to 'delete & deny' 2) contact the person with the profile, and let them know that they had "X" amount of time to come clean with their S.O. - or I will tell them myself. B.

bedroomblue63

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History repeating, or the real thing? Posted: 6/2/2009 7:59:44 AM
You can all go f*_(k yourselves. I got the answer I needed. and am never returning here to this cesspool of misery. WOW........... Wonder if the door hit him on his way out?? OP has left the building................. B.

bedroomblue63

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Possible wrong assumption Posted: 6/2/2009 5:30:44 AM
~OP~ So many people have 'group' shots posted.....I didn't think anything of the two women in your picture. My assumption was 'holy crap - he's tall' B.

bedroomblue63

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How do you cope with losing a daughter!!!! Posted: 6/2/2009 4:27:30 AM
~OP~ Having two Daughters whom I am very close with - I cannot even begin to imagine the pain you are in. To me, it must be unfathomable. Do allow yourself time to mourn, Do talk about your wonderful Daughter. "They" say time heals all wounds. I don't know if this a wound that will ever completely heal, but I hope over time the pain will become duller and duller. My heart truly goes out to you......... B.

bedroomblue63

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When you ladies get an email set to you, what gets you to respond? Posted: 6/1/2009 8:11:51 PM
When you ladies get an email set to you, what gets you to respond? I do not, for once, agree with the mass majority here. If someone has taken the time to drop me an e-mail...........I respond - no matter what. My upbringing would allow me to do no less. Mind you - some of the notes can be pretty rude/ignorant.........then I just simply reply with a 'thanx, but no thanx'. But - that's just me................. B.

bedroomblue63

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I am looking for single girl friends Posted: 5/31/2009 7:46:04 PM
~OP~ I am just an hour away from you................feel free to drop me a note!!~ I would e-mail you myself, but your contact restrictions are too high. B.

bedroomblue63

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Seperated but not divorced Posted: 5/30/2009 3:44:03 PM
s.n.marin I just tried to send you an e-mail...........but your restrictions are just WAY too high. I have like one or two.............nothing major (yet important to me) If you wouldn't mind popping off a note to me.......then I could reply and say what I wanted to in my original note to you. B.

bedroomblue63

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Seperated but not divorced Posted: 5/30/2009 3:32:18 PM
s.n.marin - what say you and I take our football and go to the compound where the adults play?? I have a bum knee so you will have to spot me 10 points............ Frau Blücher - You rock. Period. B.

bedroomblue63

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Seperated but not divorced Posted: 5/30/2009 2:26:03 PM
alrighty then............everyone to their corners........... s.n.marin - rise ABOVE it girl..........rise above it..................... You're a smart cookie.............why are you in a battle of wits with someone who has no ammunition?? SagMan4u - as I said earlier..............GET OVER YOURSELF B.

bedroomblue63

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Agelina Jolee Posted: 5/30/2009 1:30:38 PM
Angelina Jolie - nah...........she ain't got it. Never have been able to understand what all the fuss is about her. Julia Roberts either.............every time she smiles I think of Mr. Ed the talking horse........ I prefer 'classic' beauties..............BDJ's pick of Anne Hathaway is one example. Jacklyn Smith is another 'classic' beauty. Grace Kelly is the ultimate classic beauty. A lot of people today need 'enhancements' to look so wonderful. To look wonderful without that....................now THAT'S what I'm talking about!!~ B.

bedroomblue63

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Conan O Brien is taking over The Tonight Show Posted: 5/30/2009 12:06:18 PM
Conan O Brien is taking over The Tonight Show Yes, well - I suppose there is no accounting for some people's taste. The guy obviously has 'something'...........I'll just be darned if I can figure out what in the sam-hill it is?? B.

bedroomblue63

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Msg: 256 (view)

stupid things that scare you Posted: 5/30/2009 12:02:59 PM
Would you believe frogs? I can do snakes and spiders - even mice...............but frogs scare the crap out of me I've woken up in a cold sweat after dreaming about frogs. eww, eww, eww............ B.

bedroomblue63

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Separated but not divorced Posted: 5/29/2009 6:51:56 PM
Another thing that pisses me off about you separated women. Half of you come up with lame excuses why "your still separated". I always liked " if I get divorced it will hurt the kids"....love that one. If your "separated" that means YOUR STILL MARRIED. I don't give a *hit if your NOT banging your old man......your still MARRIED. And now you want to "date" another man??? Get over yourself................

bedroomblue63

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Listed as single But..... Posted: 5/27/2009 12:33:47 PM
why list yourself as single,give another guy your phone number, go out on a date with him and then the next day show him/ tell him your in a serious realtionship? ~OP~, If any of us actually knew the answer to that question, we could bottle it and sell it for a fortune. No one knows why anyone else lies about their 'status'.....or anything else for that matter. I personally tend to agree with the first 3 things in your breakdown list. Consider yourself lucky that you found out BEFORE you invested any more time with this relationship. B.

bedroomblue63

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Seperated but not divorced Posted: 5/27/2009 4:30:59 AM
Why don't seperated people just take some time to themselves and wait until the divorce is final and save us all from their drama and mixed up minds!! And why don't YOU stop painting "all us seperated people" with the same darn brush?? I've been seperated for almost two years now. No divorce is in the near future, nor will my children's Father and I ever reconcile. Am I going to explain my circumstances to YOU - not on your life. My mind is crystal clear - not mixed up - but thanx anyhow. Jeesh.................... ~OP~: unfortunately, seperated people like the one you were chatting with give the rest of us a bad name. I can't imagine why she would not be more up front with you. It does sound like perhaps she was hiding something. I don't, when chatting with people. If they inquire as to the seperated/not divorced thing...........I have no issue what-so-ever in discussing it with them. Nor do I take offence to their inquiry. B.

bedroomblue63

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Would you date a man with a Vasectomy? Posted: 5/26/2009 3:05:26 PM
Can't you two just 'get a room' and leave the rest of us out of this??

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