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no angel

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Why are so many so mean? Posted: 12/27/2005 4:42:26 PM
best talk about the best butty(sorry from liverpool)or the best chat up line ive heard or the best thing to say to someone in certain circumstances, jeez, is there really any hope for us, frickin foolish fools....i guess not.

no angel

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christmas tv good or bad Posted: 12/27/2005 4:38:57 PM
watched zero tv, ita lootta crap.... never followed a soap in my life, thankfully, have so much better things to do, consider the pc my worst waste of time lol.

no angel

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What are you hoping for next year? Posted: 12/27/2005 4:24:52 PM
Well yes i guess!

no angel

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What are you hoping for next year? Posted: 12/27/2005 4:14:23 PM
crikey, you,all must have great lives if all you hope for is to be able to carry on with your fun threads.

no angel

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Why are so many so mean? Posted: 12/27/2005 4:11:01 PM
GULP; oh well, i guess some of us are just really nice people.others, not so nice!

no angel

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Iraq- should we or Shouldn't we? [OPEN again] Posted: 12/27/2005 12:49:23 PM
What Democracy is that? a cross on a ballot paper every four years? Lies and deceit? Oh yes, thats right a democracy is one that goes to war on a so called peice of bad information, a rumour, and then after countless deaths and the demolision of an infrastucture, spending millions to destroy a country and billions to build it up again, whilst trying to bring together different groups, and allowing loss of life in the meantime, if we had gone in and removed a dictator, which would have been plausable, yes, but to basically demolish a country, and then, talk about the different reasons, was it weapons of mass destruction, oh, no its akready been established that they were none, Was it to free the people of tyranny, oh no, we already established the deeds in question were way in the past and other dictators recently were more, in line for reprimanding, was it to bring the Iraq,s peace, er, tell that to the countless women and kids who are suffering, or was it cos of recriminations for 9?11 er thought that was another country altogether, what exactly are we doing there? democracy?? i think not!

no angel

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Why are so many so mean? Posted: 12/27/2005 12:26:41 PM
How many use this site? thousands? How many of you have done something unselfish, to help others, be proud of your unselfishness, confess to your good deeds, and show those who are greedy that they are not the way forward, are you with me?

no angel

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What are you hoping for next year? Posted: 12/27/2005 12:22:14 PM
Thats a wee bit negative, in my view, why have wishes, if they can never come true, why be hopeful, if lifes crap anyway,why expect the best in life if the worst is bound to happen....... if you want to feel like that, then hey, so you will, but surely, we have to have hope to wards the things that we feel would make us happier, rather than give up, you can....im not though!

no angel

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What are you hoping for next year? Posted: 12/27/2005 12:18:18 PM
Jo. personally I think that your not waking up with a smile cos your not happy with yourself, and that your unselfish wish for others is always a good start, but, why are you not happy with yourself? Why are you waking up without a smile? Surely its not cos you have no "mr right" Lots of us dont, but, we have plenty to make us smile anyway, Im not saying that I want to meet someone to make me smile or happier, Im very happy anyway, just be nice to share the love with another, hope not to send condescending in any way, but, if your not happy with you, how are you going to attract someone, you cant love another till you love yourself, do tell me if Ive got it wrong, and nergal, sunshine, in my view, is something that we know, will be shining on us, soon, YES?

no angel

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What are you hoping for next year? Posted: 12/27/2005 12:05:46 PM
So...what are you hoping for in the future jozafeen?

no angel

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Why are so many so mean? Posted: 12/27/2005 11:50:53 AM
Well you too should be proud that you care enough to give your own blood to help others, so many people rely on supplies of blood in case of accidents etc your obviously a caring person too, .... and then there were three......?

no angel

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Why are so many so mean? Posted: 12/27/2005 10:03:17 AM
ah, how sad for those people, well i know that if i ever was in that situation i would be so grateful for your support, as they are, kindness knows no limits, good for you for caring, and every good wish for you and yours for the future.

no angel

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What are you hoping for next year? Posted: 12/27/2005 9:52:49 AM
Why thanks Buzz, lol I hope that you also acheive everything that hopefully will bring you happiness for the future.

no angel

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Why are so many so mean? Posted: 12/27/2005 9:43:42 AM
Can anyone say how they have helped others instead of helping themselves, surely, we are not an entire race of greedy gits, or am i alone?

no angel

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What are you hoping for next year? Posted: 12/27/2005 9:28:58 AM
Im hoping for everything i never had in life to date......sad but true, a good guy. In 2005 i got satisfaction in my own way, by concentrating on others needs instead of my own, something, I may have been subconsciously doing for ever, as ive never really had a "good guy" even though im not biased, and would never say that there is none, i just havent met one yet!

no angel

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What are you hoping for next year? Posted: 12/27/2005 9:19:17 AM
As this year draws to an end, and our minds turn to the new year, what are you hoping for? Apart from the international hopes, of an end to world hunger/poverty/wars. which go without saying for most. Personally, (Idont mean new years resolutions as we can to an extent control these) I hope that, noone close has bad health, and is happier than they dreamed they would be. And because ive spent 2005 basically, on a mission to help others who have are less fortunate, in one way or another, Im hoping that 2006 will bring me something that im ready for 100%, a good guy, who I can relax and be happy with for the rest of my life, not too much to ask, eh! What about you?

no angel

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Why are so many so mean? Posted: 12/27/2005 8:51:08 AM
According to United press international, overheads from $590 million UN fund spent 1/3rd on the money collected for the tsunami funds on administration costs and staff, and the katrina appeal has seen $39million on government employees credit cards, for relief items such as $5,374 for a paper shredder, $3,200 for golf carts, $1.461.42 for a portable printer, $1,461.42 for a laser printer, $1,461.42 for a wireless point, a senator is looking into whether anyone has used the cards for holiday shopping....from a disaster relief fund! How mean, can some folks get, I was so upset at the boxing day tsunami, that I spent 3/4 of last year putting together an album with 15 local bands , to help buy fishing equipment for a village in Talay Nork, it cost me even more money, in numerous ways, that I put out of my own pocket, even though Im struggling to make ends meet, I have had the whole venture overlooked by a local businessman, and sponsered by the local business community, why oh why, if i can manage it, cant people be less greedy, and especially those who are a lot better off than myself, it truly makes my blood boil.

no angel

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Christmas Presents - And the cost. Posted: 12/21/2005 3:21:34 PM
Or maybe its time we realised that the state education is not going to do this as they like to make the businessman better off by letting the lemmings carry on so therefor its up to us as parents to teach them

no angel

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Teenagers and Fashion. Posted: 12/21/2005 2:58:02 PM
And I bet theyve got tons of friends, like mine, who like them for who they are and not what brand they wear, thank goodness.

no angel

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Teenagers and Fashion. Posted: 12/21/2005 2:32:03 PM
My kids, like pc,s and books, but not everyone wants designer trainers, thats life!

no angel

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Christmas Presents - And the cost. Posted: 12/21/2005 2:24:50 PM
and neither do you, many kids dont follow fashion, i dont tell my kids what to wear theyre old enouth to wera what they damn well like, and no its not designer, and not theyre not freaks, and you, talk for your self, not for everyone. and dont liken me to some crazy cow in a film that was only intersted in commiting siucide. or i might start to make a few comparisons in your dept, lady!

no angel

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Christmas Presents - And the cost. Posted: 12/21/2005 2:18:47 PM
But not all of em. cinders, im curious, who is it that thinks that if you dont follow fashion, that you will be considered a freak, Is that your opinion or your sons?

no angel

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Christmas Presents - And the cost. Posted: 12/21/2005 1:44:19 PM
I think its sad that we have a society that has to wear certain clothes to be accepted by peers, when the person who wears the clothes has to become like everyone else just to feel a part of an approved society, whats wrong with individualism, maybe we should steer our kids in tha direction, instead, and i mean all parents, not one in particular.

no angel

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Christmas Presents - And the cost. Posted: 12/21/2005 1:26:52 PM
All well and good as long as the ones with the designer stuff, dont join with the others who have the latest trendy clothes, and pick on those who havent!

no angel

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Christmas Presents - And the cost. Posted: 12/21/2005 1:16:11 PM
Exactly, i just looked at his post, and he WAS being personal, not me!

no angel

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Christmas Presents - And the cost. Posted: 12/21/2005 1:11:38 PM
If this is about the cost of presents, then your asking people to join in with their views, thats all im doing.

no angel

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Christmas Presents - And the cost. Posted: 12/21/2005 1:10:16 PM
well i was being honest about my boys, didnt mean to offend anyone.

no angel

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Christmas Presents - And the cost. Posted: 12/21/2005 1:05:55 PM
For the last time, noone has critisized your son, show me where, I said that that Im lucky, that my kids dont moan at me for expensive gifts, and that we should show them more love instead of buying them everything they want, this thread was about the cost of presents, how much is reasonable, noone, has said a word about your son.you said all teenagers are like this, and i said there not, mine are not, so why are you getting annoyed about your son, i never said anything to critisize anyones kids!

no angel

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Christmas Presents - And the cost. Posted: 12/21/2005 12:58:42 PM
no one said he was, except, you were moaning about him, end of!

no angel

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Christmas Presents - And the cost. Posted: 12/21/2005 12:52:47 PM
Exactly, about spending, and that he wanted some designer item, not all kids are like that, get it. If you can generalise and say all kids are like that, then i can say, no actually there not, if that makes you think that im having a go at your son, your wrong, im just stating a case that not all teenagers behave like that.

no angel

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Christmas Presents - And the cost. Posted: 12/21/2005 12:48:18 PM
I have not critisized anyones kids, just praised my own, Im not making out anything, if you write a thread saying your kids throwing a tantrum, cos he cant have what someone else has, thats up to you, i just dont think you can generalise that all kids are like that, cos there not, if that offends you, so be it.

no angel

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Christmas Presents - And the cost. Posted: 12/21/2005 12:42:52 PM
well said, Jo, thats my point, my kids are happy, that we are a happy family, and it would be out of character for them to have a tantrum about not getting something cos someone else had it, if this makes them angels, then they must be. We,ve been through some harrowing times, and learnt to appreciate each other more, so im proud to say that my kids are good, and if that makes them rare, so be it, but i doubt it.

no angel

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Bell's Palsey Posted: 12/21/2005 12:33:53 PM
Hi, have you got any better, now? I had Bells Palsy a few yrs ago, I got caught in the rain, and went to bed with the window opened on a very cold night, i woke with a painful neck, during the course of the next 24hrs, the pain was excruciating, and moved up towards my jaw, next morning i was paralysed down one side of my face, very scary as i thought id had a stroke, I couldnt even blink! I was put on steriods, for 3 weeks and it cleared up,hope your feeling better soon.

no angel

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Christmas Presents - And the cost. Posted: 12/21/2005 12:21:51 PM
Cinders maybe I do have rare kids, as for being dishonest, Im never dishonest, thanks,my kids dont pressure me, ok, im lucky, no need to take a tone about it. And maybe some kids have a better outlook on life, pardon me for being a proud mum!

no angel

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Your Parking Place Or Not? Posted: 12/19/2005 12:46:22 PM
parking rage. its deadly, really, my x partner got so annoyed about a car that was parked in my space that he pulled off everything that he could, mirrors, windscreen wipers, etc and posted them through the persons letterbox, i was s***ing myself cos i thought we were going to cause a war, but, the guy never parked there again, its scary dude.

no angel

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Whats your most embarrasing moment? Posted: 12/19/2005 12:34:58 PM
Ah man, you must have felt terrible, well done for having the courage to stand by your convictions, that must have been a tough one, being put on the spot like that, anyway how many people are prepared to be honest and talk about how they have felt embarrased about a situation...hmmm I wonder????????????

no angel

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Whats your most embarrasing moment? Posted: 12/19/2005 12:15:59 PM
I have a few but one I distinctly remember, (cringe)was when I was at an open air concert in a big park in liverpool, the toilets were situated at the bottom of the hill that held thousands of onlookers, you know, those porta loo boxes, anyway, the lock was broken and I had to pee whilst trying to hold the door shut, halfway through, a gang of little boys all pulled the door open, and I was left to stare at thousands of people all laughing at me on the loo, ooh little sods! So whats yours?

no angel

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Last CD you bought Posted: 12/19/2005 11:42:11 AM
I never download music! Am I the only one ? I just bought the new Korn and System of a down CD,s for my son. And for myself for xmas, the new Kate Bush CD, and the new stevie wonder CD. which i have wrapped up for myself, and im looking forward to opening (sad I know) on xmas day.

no angel

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Wine Tasting Posted: 12/19/2005 8:34:12 AM
Ruth Beer and wine... feeling fine Wine and beer...feeling queer Always drink beer first, then you wont feel so sick.

no angel

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Any new year resolutions? Posted: 12/19/2005 8:20:10 AM
I think that I will stick to a bottle of wine, thanks pgooperman, because its less fattening, and good for the heart, ( I think!) and I resolve to only have a drink on a saturday night, which means i can save the extra pennies for a summer holiday, I stopped smoking on new years eve 3 yrs ago, and I still dont, so i know I will have set my mind on it, enough to accomplice my new goal, good luck with everyone elses too. I will be unashamedly rat a***d on new years eve though, even if I am alone!

no angel

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Christmas Presents - And the cost. Posted: 12/17/2005 1:14:46 PM
Well, have to disagree here Im afraid, not all teenagers are like that, I have a 16 yr old son and a 12 yr old son, and theyre both the nicest kids, polite. respsective of others, friendly, appreciative of anything they get, aware of the situations of others less fortunate, and both happy to give as well as recieve, I dont think you can say all teenagers, and generalise, like that, mine certainly are not.

no angel

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Christmas Presents - And the cost. Posted: 12/17/2005 10:47:27 AM
Good Thread It seems like xmas is getting way too commercial, some people on low incomes get themselves into debt for the whole of the following year, just to make sure that there kids have all they want, I think its time we started to downsize the whole idea thta everyone can afford all those very expensive toys that are thrown at us via the tv sets every year,it doesnt really make for better kids, it just teaches them that they are right to expect the best of everything, regardless of the consequences for the family, income or ability to provide, I think a few pressies, cds, dvds, choc,s clothes, or give them £100 to spend as they will. is a good idea, seems the less they have the more they appreciate anyway, you only have to look at the face of a child in a deprived country whos given a small gift to see that,we should stop spoiling with expensive gifts and showing our kids more love, talk to them more, and tell them we love them more, and we will see happier kids, than those with designer labels, just my two pennorth worth.

no angel

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who do you think has the best pic.... Posted: 12/17/2005 10:30:35 AM
Personally, in my opinion, noone has a better picture than anyone else, different strokes for different folks, everyone on here has good qualities, and everyones look appeals to different types of people, I just think we should look into whats inside the person, rather than how they look, cos time will change looks, and we are all beautiful in our own way. Some very attractive people may be not so attractive inside, peace out to all l

no angel

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HOW MUSICIANS DRESS Posted: 12/15/2005 4:27:49 AM
<--------- like this!

no angel

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As i Mature I have learnt???????????????....... Posted: 12/14/2005 11:50:57 AM
That I eat too much cake!

no angel

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Any new year resolutions? Posted: 12/14/2005 11:48:40 AM
Well, I really dont want to drink less lager...but... ive been diagnosed as hypothyroidic and I will put on tons of weight if i dont stop, (bummer) And yes, I agree with you miss H, we all need "me" time. hope you manage to stick to yours too.

no angel

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Any new year resolutions? Posted: 12/14/2005 11:29:53 AM
As the year draws to an end, do you have any resolutions for 2006? I resolve to drink less lager, and drink more wine. To find some musical companions to jam with on a regular basis...any offers? To exercise a bit more. And last but not least...... stop indulging in CAKE! How about you?

no angel

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puzzlers----you figure it out Posted: 12/9/2005 12:35:34 PM
Two men and a woman were stuck in a lift during a heatwave.One of the men had three bottles of water with him and the other had five bottles of water. They shared the bottles of water equally between the three of them. Once they had been freed, the woman gave the men eight coins as a payment. What is the fairest method of dividing the eight coins?

no angel

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helping others less fortunate Posted: 12/9/2005 10:40:56 AM
Thanks for the info, I did check the site and, it appears that it is too late for that specific event, was held on the 22nd october, and had a xmas on the beach, early xmas for the waveland kids, so hopefully I will be able to find another outlet for the gifts, there only small gifts, but its the thought that counts, thanx again peace

no angel

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Uk Forum Bickering... Posted: 12/8/2005 5:34:25 PM
with all due respect, when the three ringed circus involves the mods, does that mean that you can or cant report someone? Maybe the admin and the moderators could get together and explain abit more for the likes of me, who dont really understand, what this is saying. Sorry does this mean you should or shouldnt report anyone, if the forum moderators are involved with the thread? or that you should report if the moderators are not involved, or that you should never report anything, otherwise you get deleted, sorry if Im missing the obvious here.

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