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 Author Thread: He likes me alright... NOT!
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 13 (view)
 
He likes me alright... NOT!
Posted: 3/15/2009 12:51:00 PM
Wow. This is the second post I've read by you, OP, and I have to confess that you seem to be a bit out of touch when it comes to dating and whatnot. How long has it been since you've dated?

The first guy strikes your fancy, but you have the second guy on stand by... This isn't really a dig at you, but I don't understand the "just in case" policy many people have adopted. Granted, I'm still relatively young, but with everything I have going on in my life, I don't have time for a "just in case" guy.

That kind of stuff just reeks of "playa playa school girl drama." You're a grown woman. I trust that you're a relatively smart female, as well. As such, you know that you seem to need extra attention, so why not get a man who is willing to be at your beck and call each and every hour of the day? It would certainly cut back on these doubts and whatnot that assail you.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 102 (view)
 
how do u know if he's not a predator?
Posted: 3/15/2009 12:19:50 PM
Haha! She said, "Duct tape."
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 89 (view)
 
how do u know if he's not a predator?
Posted: 3/13/2009 6:46:23 PM
I maintain that pink is all the rage...
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 66 (view)
 
how do u know if he's not a predator?
Posted: 3/12/2009 10:21:26 AM
Zekestone,

In the event that I offended you with the bit about Simmons, please accept my apologies. Truly, he isn't creepy or anything. From all reports, he's genuinely very nice and in possession of a sense of humor.

As far as the reference to the taser, it was more of a dig at the fact that they have a "fashion" taser. I probably shouldn't be amused by such, but it does amuse me that there is a market for a pink, fashionable taser. I rather hope the female has enough sense to refrain from making such a purchase.

I will, in the future, endeavor to contain my warped sense of humor.

Disclaimer: I do not condone violence, domestic or otherwise.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 60 (view)
 
how do u know if he's not a predator?
Posted: 3/11/2009 8:41:35 AM
Dude, you can meet a predator at your local grocery store. They have to buy groceries, too. Having said that, I work with law enforcement. Normal people morph into creeps all too often. The point of all that is to say that you don't have any promises or guarantees. This guy could make Richard Simmons seem delightful. Then again, he may strike your fancy something fierce.

It's dating, not rocket science. Common sense is your friend. If you do decide to meet him, do so in a public setting. Make friends and family aware of your plans and of his identity, such as you know it to be. If you're freakishly concerned, purchase yourself a taser, which you can get in the oh so fashionable color of pink here: http://www.personaltazerc2.com/product/TS31092 If he tries any funny haha stuff, make him ride the white, er pink, lightning...

Now, I'm off to hopefully find a masculine version of your post. I'll recommend he get his taser in a lovely cerulean blue.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 45 (view)
 
So I'm sitting at an intersection...
Posted: 3/11/2009 8:17:58 AM
Last night, I was driving home from the gym. I was rather humorously reminded of this thread when this fellow idling to my left at the red light began to rev the engine to his little itty bitty truck with the home made bed/tailgate... When the light changed to green, he squalled tires...lol. It was great.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 43 (view)
 
So I'm sitting at an intersection...
Posted: 3/2/2009 7:20:44 PM
This is hilarious...lol. He's twenty-one and talking about kids. I can't say much, though. I've talked about "back in my day" or "many, many harvest moons ago" for ages.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Why are people so quick to judge someone just by their profile.
Posted: 10/29/2007 2:16:56 AM
People judge your profile because it's designed to identify who you are as a possible companion/friend. The bottom line is that you're making a pitch. Initially, it's all they have to go on.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Why do women stay in a relationship that is not good for them?
Posted: 10/29/2007 2:13:33 AM
You seem to be one of those females who are so lonely/dependent on having a man in your life that you'll take one regardless of how horrible he treats you. You're stay with this man because you want to because you fear being alone and you don't value yourself enough to learn to live without a man. Fortunately for you, you know what you need to do to take care of you. Learn to live with yourself before you drag someone else into the picture... Best of luck!
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 4 (view)
 
in a relationship.......kinda
Posted: 10/29/2007 2:08:27 AM
I'm confused as to how one can explore a relationship while in another relationship without "cheating", so to speak. Additionally, I'm confused as to why you would want to date someone who is in the very process of casting his character into such a questionable light.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 354 (view)
 
serious message:
Posted: 9/4/2007 8:25:43 PM
I very well may die from laughter.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 343 (view)
 
serious message:
Posted: 9/4/2007 3:29:23 AM
MB58SC, didn't you know that Cosmo is written by people such as our dear Aviated?
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 112 (view)
 
Eastern women v Western Women
Posted: 11/12/2006 1:37:48 PM
I'm an American. I conduct myself as a lady and I expect to be treated as a lady. I'll never have that exotic look, though...lol. I'm too incredibly white with a pink hue.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 334 (view)
 
Why a virgin?
Posted: 11/12/2006 8:52:56 AM
I was away for quite some time, but I'm back and this thread was made active again. I decided to read over it to see all that I missed. Apparently, I am ignorant due to my youth and my lack of experience, which is fine, people are entitled to their opinion. I don't begrudge 'em that. However, I don't believe that I was so very far off the mark with my original notion that we each have a right to make such a choice.

And as far as Carl's question about someone's opinion being of importance, I believe that everyone's opinion matters to someone, even if it's only to that particular individual.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 57 (view)
 
Where are the men with integrity?
Posted: 11/11/2006 8:28:45 PM

We hibernate during the winter months.


Nice cover, There_I_Go! We don't want everyone to know that I've rounded 'em all up and have 'em in my secret lab!
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 140 (view)
 
Does anyone know anything about group marriage?
Posted: 11/11/2006 8:25:50 PM
Group marriage? I think I'm slow.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 308 (view)
 
Why do men have affairs?
Posted: 11/11/2006 8:24:55 PM
Why do men have affairs? Well, like women who have affairs, they get something out of it.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 119 (view)
 
My embarressing oral question
Posted: 11/11/2006 3:16:14 PM
Hmm. I've yet to take a lover, but when I do, I think I'd like be a bit silly and maybe give him a piece of chocolate or some type of candy as a little surprise treat.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 16 (view)
 
~ Sex Education ~
Posted: 11/10/2006 11:53:14 AM
I have lots of questions which I intend to answer with hands-on, um, training.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 98 (view)
 
Why is it that I keep getting emails from people who I consider not my type??
Posted: 11/10/2006 11:12:53 AM
I'm recanting my earlier statements. It is simply due to the fact that no man can resist the reigning queen of all things desirable!

On a serious note, I'm still wondering why it's so "hard" to accept it as a compliment, possibly engage in friendship (or more), and to conduct one's self in a courteous manner.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 8 (view)
 
One brave soldiers march across Utah
Posted: 11/9/2006 3:48:24 PM
My brother and many of my friends are currently serving in the military and I refuse to believe that they represent anything other than fine, upstanding men who I am proud to know and love! They don't stand for a mistake of any kind.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 350 (view)
 
why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/9/2006 10:31:19 AM

Everyone wants to make love!males can admit it,but women dont!


Wrong answer. I'm a female and I readily admit that I can't wait to have sex, as well as to make love. When I do decide to take that step in my life, you better believe my partner will definitely know of my desire for him.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 290 (view)
 
Why is a decent girlfriend so hard to find?
Posted: 11/9/2006 10:08:34 AM
Okay. I wasn't going to do this, but it's not going to die, so I figured I might as well indulge myself.

Males:
Decent women are easily found, as they abound.

Females:
Decent men are easily found, as they abound.

If you have a bad track record with the opposite sex, take this time to work on yourself. Being single may be the best thing that has happened to you. If you can't be by yourself, why in the world would you want to create more drama/stress by dragging another party into the picture?

P.s.
The next person who makes a blanket statement to the effect of men don't want nice girls or girls don't want nice guys needs to be prepared for a wee bit of Auntie Kloey's Infamous Sarcasm and/or Advice!
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 260 (view)
 
Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 11/9/2006 9:58:35 AM
Dazed, just out of morbid curiosity, where in the world are you searching for dudefellers? I know hundreds of nice guys. Of course, I'm a rather social individual and in all probability, I know too many people, but the point is that sometimes people look so hard that they don't see. It's rather hard to see the good in people if you're constantly straining to see the bad...
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Does Everything Turn Us Off?
Posted: 11/9/2006 9:54:39 AM
I'm a female but I'm considerably decent in every aspect. I haven't the inclination or the patience to deal with "victims". If you ask a question or put something on the table, be prepared to deal with both ends of the spectrum, as well as the the bits between said ends.

Basically, get over it. If you can't, there's always Dr. Phil.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 258 (view)
 
You'll Love my Sofa!
Posted: 11/9/2006 8:59:40 AM

hi Kloey, Rose is my cousin so she asked me to drop by and say thanx for the advice, she took it and now she's off here and dating him! he's a genuinely lovely guy and i really hope it works out for them.
so all you nice guys out there have hope cos they just show you can get what you want ventually and it is a nice guy we want! just hope i'm as lucky!


Hey, Speyes! Thank you for delivering the message. Please tell Rose that I'm extremely happy for her and her genuinely lovely dudefeller!

I have every confidence that you'll soon find your own lovely nice guy who will make your little heart go pitter patter stop!
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 4 (view)
 
One brave soldiers march across Utah
Posted: 11/8/2006 5:48:03 PM
Hmm. Who thought they'd ever see a day when Auntie Kloey doesn't have anything to say? My emotions are entirely too mixed to voice an opinion at this moment. Perhaps I'll be back in a day or so.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 67 (view)
 
Going to the bar as an attached woman.
Posted: 11/2/2006 2:04:56 PM
Boy sees girl. Girl strikes the fancy of boy. Boy feels the need to approach girl.

And/Or"

Girl sees boy. Boy strikes the fancy of girl. Girl feels the need to approach boy.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Guys who give the wrong phone number.
Posted: 11/2/2006 1:39:40 PM
Did you honestly feel the need to ask?

P.s.
I honestly felt the need to ask.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Why give someone your #
Posted: 11/2/2006 12:21:18 PM
Okay, so my conscience got the best of me and I decided to spill my guts and explain the real reason I give my number to people. It's because I secretly want them to become my stalker so I can stalk them in return! There's nothing more enjoyable than watching a stalker's face as he realizes he's been the one who has been stalked all along!
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 17 (view)
 
is any one truly who they say they are
Posted: 10/31/2006 4:08:51 PM
Nope. Not a one of us.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 322 (view)
 
why do men just want sex
Posted: 10/31/2006 4:00:04 PM
You want a real reply? Okay. If you want to have a good relationship with a good man, you need to stop generalizing. That's a good starting point to finding a man who will truly enjoy your company and vice versa.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Strong muscular guys
Posted: 10/31/2006 2:33:34 PM
Hmm. Sorry, folks, but I don't feel like reading all the posts. I'm feeling perfectly lazy at this moment so I'm merely going to respond to the original post.

And the answer is forty-two! Okay. That slipped out. On a serious note, I've been attracted to a variety of dudefellers ranging from skinny to thick.

P.s.
Must Auntie Kloey explain yet again why such sweeping generalizations are not, um, cute?
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Girls don't fight fair!!
Posted: 10/31/2006 9:34:09 AM
Probably because you talk to manipulative females. I don't resort to tears and have little patience for those who do so in an attempt to "win".
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 168 (view)
 
Why men wont date independant women
Posted: 10/31/2006 7:38:03 AM
My idea of my independence? Life went on before, during, and after any dudefeller I've had. I don't need a dudefeller, but I want the one who's going to compliment my life just as much as I compliment his life.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 25 (view)
 
I could truly use some advice.
Posted: 10/31/2006 6:16:13 AM
Adam, you should start dating. Find yourself a lovely lady who isn't attached to a boyfriend or who isn't possessed of a great deal of low self-esteem.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 229 (view)
 
Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 10/31/2006 5:26:32 AM

And that is too much work.


That little bit of fluff stayed on my mind. Too much work? I don't really understand why it's too much work to engage a nice guy. Consider how much more effort and energy a relationship would require with a guy who isn't nice... Why not invest your effort wisely?
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 45 (view)
 
Up Close and Personal!
Posted: 10/30/2006 9:17:48 PM
Sex, in any form, is intimate.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 227 (view)
 
Do women really want a nice guy?
Posted: 10/30/2006 8:35:00 PM
I find that some nice guys are really nice and they're anything but boring. As in they're great conversationlists and they have manners, as well. And that's just right!

Every single time I see 'em, they chime in with some interesting tidbit or whatnot. If I've had a bad day, they offer a friendly smile and possibly a shoulder. They don't apologize, but I know they're not happy that I'm upset. Try to tell me that isn't a lovely dudefeller?
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 76 (view)
 
Tongue Sucking
Posted: 10/30/2006 8:18:16 PM
Having my tongue stroked and/or sucked on (I return the favor, of course) is terribly exciting. I also love to have my lips lightly traced with the tip of a moist tongue, sucked, and nibbled. Oh! And the corners of my mouth...nibbles are excellent there! Then again, I'm partial to kissing!
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 89 (view)
 
The Importance of looks test
Posted: 10/30/2006 9:01:58 AM
The Appreciator
You are 78% non-critical of a guy's and/or woman's appearance.
You most likely would've given a chance to the person with acne who wears glasses. Over time, they could get a clearer face after taking on anti-acne medication (like Accutane), do without glasses thanks to contacts or vision corrective laser surgery, and ends up being great in bed. So give yourself a pat on the back! While you can appreciate someone's looks, you likely don't overly fantasize about someone's nice features, and you can see beauty in more people than most others. You most likely develop your physical attraction to someone over time or perhaps the attraction is somewhat psycological. For example, you might be attracted to someone who has an average figure, but can give you a look with their eyes or facial expression like they want you. Shirley Manson from the band Garbage is a great example of this in action if you're into women and Jimmy Fallon could have that boy from next door look if you're into men. H*ll, you might even find me to be attractive. ;) If you liked my test please rate it highly below, and feel free to send me feedback. Thanks!

My test tracked 1 variable How you compared to other people your age and gender:

You scored higher than 99% on non-critical.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 4 (view)
 
If they don't ask do u tell?
Posted: 10/30/2006 8:30:56 AM
I do think it should be made known that nothing is exclusive...
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 718 (view)
 
Can men and women be friends without sex?
Posted: 10/30/2006 8:22:55 AM
Do you have sex with everyone you meet and befriend, regardless of gender? If the answer is yes, then no, you can't have friends of the opposite sex. If the answer to that question is no, then yes, you can have friends of the opposite sex.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 41 (view)
 
WHO IT'S MORE HONEST: MAN OR LADY ??????
Posted: 10/30/2006 8:18:00 AM
Can it be? This thread is still going on? Ironic, considering the fact that I'm posting in this thread, eh?
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 163 (view)
 
That Ment Will Get You Every Single Time..!
Posted: 10/29/2006 8:21:06 PM
You have a point, Benzjaguar. How large is your tub? Tubs are important. I don't need a huge house, but I do so heart indulging myself in steaming hot water, lightly scented, of course!
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 155 (view)
 
Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/28/2006 8:50:11 AM
Benzjaguar, let's get married!
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 152 (view)
 
No, it will never end!
Posted: 10/28/2006 7:06:41 AM
And the battle of the sexes continues...
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 223 (view)
 
You'll Love my Sofa!
Posted: 10/28/2006 7:02:08 AM
Rose, if this nice guy is worth it, send him a card or an e-mail asking him to go out for coffee. You could even saunter over with your cute self and ask him to eat lunch with you . No pressure!

Don't ever let your HR department treat you or your concerns as nothing. If your complaint is legitimate, which it is, regardless of how amusing it is, their department should give it all due consideration. At that point, appropriate action should be taken. After all, that's why they're on the payroll.

I worked at a place in which customers thought it was just fine to reach out and grab my bottom. I don't take kindly to that and sometimes, the grabber found himself on the receiving end of a blow. When the customer lodged a complaint, my manager attempted to write me up, but being the cheeky bit of baggage that I am, I told her that if she did so, she was not going to be satisfied with the results, considering the fact that I'd brought this to her attention previously. I strongly believe that if I've approached my employer about something and action is not taken by the management, I am then fully within my right to remedy the situation as I see fit (within reason, of course).

On a final note, since you've put in your notice, you could always do a surprise lunch hour visit to your nice dudefeller...
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 56 (view)
 
Attractive people!
Posted: 10/27/2006 3:58:57 PM
Nope, I'm attractive in my own right, just as everyone else is... I'm rather comfortable in my skin, you see.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Why give someone your #
Posted: 10/27/2006 3:31:20 PM
Generally speaking, of course, when I give someone my number, it's because I'd like to speak to 'em.
 
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