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Do Men Really Want Honesty? Posted: 8/14/2009 6:44:16 PM
It's true, Zephyr2553 men do appear to run like hell when they are faced with an "honest woman". I've experienced a number of men online dating sites who all say they want Honesty as a #1 priority only to end up being a big disappoint and a liar. When you have a person who shows a lot of interest online and only want to chat with you and say they are "new at this" it is usually "B.S."!!!! I don't plan on giving up that easily by being discouraged as I know there are probably nice honest men online "somewhere" just haven't shown an interest in me, and that's o.k. If it is meant to be I'll meet someone nice and if not, I'll continue enjoying the single life. I am a very honest person and , of course, expect the same in return but have learned that you can't always believe what they say to you online or in person, for that matter. Actions speak louder than words, so they say.

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Are You Happy Being Single - Quiz Posted: 8/14/2009 6:16:13 PM
My results of the Are You Happy Being Single Quiz. You have a full, fun life. And you definitely don't need love to be content. Of course, being single can get you down a little. Especially when you've been single for a while. But you know how to be patient and wait for the right person. You're life is too good to settle for anything! The last paragraph hold most of the truth for me and I may have to wait a lifetime but I will not settle for someone who does not have the same chemistry and who is not an honest person. Better being single, for sure, unless this is met.

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Why is it and how many have truly? Posted: 7/30/2009 8:04:33 PM
Hi there, I have a close friend who is going through the same thing right now and I said to her to answer the following questions and then you may have a better idea of what you should do to get over him: Did he meet your financial needs? Did he meet your emotional needs? Did he treat you well and have respect for you? Did he meet your spiritual needs? Her answer was no to all 4 questions so I said "What are you trying to hang on to?". She admitted she is "needy" and it would appear she would settle to have a man rather than be alone! I myself have been living on my own since 1988 and quite contented in my life, although, if the right man (respectful, kind, loving, honest, etc.) came along I would give it a shot to see if we are compatible so until then I will be single and happy. Good luck in your future happiness.

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Any help would be Appreciated. Posted: 7/30/2009 7:52:08 PM
Hello Frank, I just viewed your profile and the first thing I notice is that the photo of you is very dark and you are wearing sun glasses. You should put another photo up that is front on so one can see your face without the sun glasses. Secondly, I think I would leave out the part about the ex and her husband as a new dating partner is not interested in knowing that. Thirdly, you could mention more about the type of woman you are seeking as you don't mention anything other than live in the US and be a certain age, If I remember correctly. You could re-read your notes too as the grammer is a bit off. You asked so I am only giving my opinion for what it's worth. Best of Luck to you Frank

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Losing a loved one to death Posted: 7/25/2009 7:43:43 PM
I lost a son at the tender age of 31 years old to sucicide. I am a Mom who loves my children unconditionally and was devestated to be the one to find him. That will be 5 yrs. ago in Oct. this year. A parent should never outlive a child no matter the age. I too, have lost many family members ie; parents, brother, nephew, grandparents, cousin, etc. but nothing compares to the loss of my son. The sadness, depression, anxiety, and all the rest of it near killed me emotionally and it has taken about 4+ yrs. for me to be able to talk about him without tears. I never tried to stop the tears because it seemed to be a release. I appreciate all the good memories and laugh about some of the bad ones. Everyone takes their own amount of time to grieve a loved one. Nobody deals with it for the same amount of time. Don't let anyone rush you through the grieving process. God Bless all of you who have lost loved ones as my heart goes out to all of you.

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Any assistance, greatly appreciated?? Posted: 7/19/2009 3:58:18 PM
You are quite welcome scorpio80.

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People never write back becaue of my profile? Posted: 7/19/2009 3:55:57 PM
Hello Paul, I agree with what an earlier lady indicated - change your profile picture as it does not do you justice. Some of your other photos are much clearer and better as the hood covers you up. Also, doing drugs is probably something that girls are not looking for when trying to meet a guy and you indicated socially. I appreciate the fact that you are being honest but it would be a turn off to a lot of young gals that are not into drugs at all. Lastly that mention of intense makeout session is a no no, only my two cents worth. Good luck with your future connections.

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Any assistance, greatly appreciated?? Posted: 7/17/2009 6:39:11 PM
Hi there scorpio80, You are probably going to say, geeeeee an older women responding, however, I have an opinion and you asked for one so here is my two cents worth. I viewed your profile and I only have 2 suggestions and that is remove the line where you say you talk to much some of the time. The second thing "my opinion only" is to change the "hair". Maybe bring it forward tone it down somehow. You have a cute face so don't be hard on yourself. Actually, your profile is well done, I thought. You say what your interests are and also what you are looking for, can't do any better than that. Happy fishing Good luck in your future wherever it may lead you.

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