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drbelieves

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Charlotte POF Party at BlackFinn in the Epicenter August 14, 2009 Posted: 8/2/2009 7:04:37 PM
I will see you there!

drbelieves

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Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX? Posted: 7/24/2009 8:55:48 PM
Yep....He was my good friend before I married him.And though the marriage ended. The friendship endured.

drbelieves

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Unemployed...the new 'retired'??? Posted: 7/23/2009 9:50:52 PM
[Unemployed, underemployed, disabled, retired, whatever...to me it means a big opportunity knocking. Very few people are content doing nothing. A person with extra time on their hands has time available for friendship/relationship and has the space and energy for making positive, creative changes in their own life (and maybe doing those new great things with me). You can kick people when they're down if you want. I love knowing people who can rise up from adversity and succeed. When I can be a part of it, a catalyst, supporter, confidante, mentor...all the better.] I agree with msg 14!

drbelieves

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The three things that a man wants in a mate... Posted: 7/22/2009 10:06:37 PM
Brains Beauty And Money.

drbelieves

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Why are women over 40 so desperate to get married? Posted: 7/19/2009 8:44:23 PM
I would say I disagree OP. Most women I know over 40 do not want to get married again. Yes they may want a long term relationship. But married? No,I don't think so.

drbelieves

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Does facial hair on men over 45 make them look older or younger? Posted: 7/18/2009 1:13:02 PM
I agree with post #6. You should keep it if you like it. The right woman will apppreciate it. I think a nice foo man choo mustache and beard makes a man look hot!

drbelieves

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What do men vs women consider to be RED FLAGS?. Posted: 7/15/2009 9:29:57 PM
Guy sends first email. One word and (I kid you not),over 50 smiley faces. Next email he sends two words and so many smileys I could hardly get to the delete button.

drbelieves

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why do alot of the guys at this site have a problem with dogs? Posted: 7/12/2009 7:01:00 AM
I had a guy on here write me and tell me he was a cat person. And that he did not tolerate dogs very well. I wrote him back to tell him. Well I don't think we have much in common then...Best of luck to you...LOL

drbelieves

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Charlotte POF Party at Buckhead Saloon. July 18th 6-10 PM Posted: 7/11/2009 8:22:25 AM
Thanks Dave for getting another one together. I might be able to make it!

drbelieves

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Question About 420 Posted: 7/8/2009 5:55:33 PM
Ok ,Got it! ...Thanks for all the info.

drbelieves

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Question About 420 Posted: 7/8/2009 1:18:17 PM
I actually did try to find out about it on the web. I did not have much luck either. So now you know.

drbelieves

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Question About 420 Posted: 7/7/2009 7:25:30 PM
I have seen this in some profiles. What exactly is 420? I was going to ask my daughter,who is in her 20's. But I hated to hear her laugh...LOL... Now I like to think I am pretty up to date on most things.But this is a new one for me. Any enlightenment would be great.

drbelieves

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Mental punching bag Posted: 7/5/2009 8:55:18 AM
Maybe you need to voice this to your girlfriend. If she will shut up long enough to listen to you.

drbelieves

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Over 40 crowd. Women calling. Do men like it??? Posted: 7/4/2009 4:46:42 AM
I normally never call. I had made an exception just recently. The guy had called me twice and left a voicemail. So I returned the call, as he asked me to call him back. When he answered he was not very friendly. And we ended the conversation after about 3 minutes. I am like, whatever! Now why he wanted me to call him back, is a mystery to me. I am not about to lose sleep over it though.

drbelieves

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When should the woman offer to pay? Posted: 6/25/2009 9:21:56 PM
When she is the one who asks the guy out. She should pay. Just like I assume when the guy asks me out,he will pay. Of course I always like to offer to pay for my share.

drbelieves

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2 questions about a first kiss with a new person Posted: 6/23/2009 10:13:12 PM
I have only had one guy ask me if he could kiss me. It was undoubtably the most memorable kiss I have ever had. He was the Best!

drbelieves

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My First Date With Patricia (im 59 she's 53) Posted: 6/22/2009 10:09:22 PM
I enjoyed you sharing that with us. Glad to see romance is still alive and well. I hope you and the lady have many more dates ahead.

drbelieves

Joined: 8/23/2008

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its easier to just be single. Posted: 6/22/2009 10:00:45 PM
So are you on POF to meet anyone or not? You are right about scaring the heck out of alot of women. My being a Virgo, I just try to analyze as to why you are on here. With you feeling like that.

drbelieves

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Is this a few days of space or is this it? Posted: 6/15/2009 9:52:59 PM
Op , Just give him his space. Don't call him. Let him call you. And try to stay busy with something . Go out with friends . You will not do yourself any good sitting at home, worrying about all of this.

drbelieves

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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You? Posted: 6/14/2009 9:32:32 PM
I would probably start laughing, after the initial shock. Then tell him, gosh that is so funny. I was thinking the same thing about you.

drbelieves

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How big is too big of an age difference? Posted: 6/13/2009 10:25:38 AM
OP, I myself use a 10 year plus or minus rule. You are right about the guys in their 40's wanting the younger women. Most guys my age go after the younger women. If you are looking at long term or marriage. You would not want some one a great deal older for marriage. Because lets face it. As time goes by, it can cause all kinds of issues. I think you have to use common sense in this. I have much younger guys email me quite frequently. I really see no point in dating someone young enough to be my son. I guess that means I am not a Cougar....LOL

drbelieves

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Appearances & Money Matter? Posted: 6/11/2009 11:03:50 PM
There are lot of people(men and women) who this is a priority for them. I don't think money can buy happiness. I would not want someone who was lazy though. I'll take an honest, hard working man . It does not hurt if he has a good sense of humor to go with it...LOL

drbelieves

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I need advice on a weird situation Posted: 6/9/2009 4:45:05 AM
I think it is admirable that you are good friend to her. But you are being used. She can get help from the courts to make the absent fathers help her. Why she is not persuing this seems lame to me. You are started to care deeply for her. And if you don't make yourself back away from this situation,my friend you are looking at possibly getting badly hurt. I would do some serious soul searching.

drbelieves

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Has anyone NEVER had a ONE NIGHT STAND? Posted: 6/7/2009 6:34:41 PM
Nope.... Not shy here. Just have not did it.

drbelieves

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Has anyone NEVER had a ONE NIGHT STAND? Posted: 6/5/2009 10:37:27 PM
I have honestly never had one. I have had lots of offers though. I just do not believe in them myself. I would hate myself in the morning. So there is my honest answer...:>)

drbelieves

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Should she have paid for her share of meal ? Posted: 6/4/2009 9:36:35 PM
If a guy has asked me out to dinner. I always offer to pay half, when the bill comes. Rarely has that offer ever been accepted though. OP, maybe you would be better just going for coffee and a walk in the park next time. Then you won't have to feel cheated.

drbelieves

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My first actual online meet Posted: 5/31/2009 11:02:32 PM
Op, you are right. We all hopefully learn from our mistakes. And we have all made them. Don't let comments on here make you feel berated. Just like we all make mistakes. Seems everyone has an opinion too. :>)

drbelieves

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My first actual online meet Posted: 5/30/2009 10:35:33 PM
OP, he sounds like a Wanker to me! I would have just canceled ,when he changed plans. Bringing a friend would have been wierd. Unless I had brought a friend too.

drbelieves

Joined: 8/23/2008

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Done with Internet Dating..... Posted: 5/29/2009 10:23:42 AM
I agree with ImAHotMess. I just don't have alot of time for nonsense. So they would have to really stand out to make me want to meet them in person. I just take this site with a grain of salt. And sometimes a margarita...LOL

drbelieves

Joined: 8/23/2008

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Why are guys afraid to ask women out? Posted: 5/28/2009 9:23:03 PM
Women like a man who is confident. If you give off certain vibes alot of women will pick right up on it. Yes rejection sucks. But it is all in how you look at it. Don't take it personal. Women get rejected too. Just not as much as men. Because alot of women will not ask a man out. Don't be afraid to ask them. If they turn you down. Just look at them. Give them a sly smile and say...your loss babe! Just don't let it discourage you. And get that confidence in yourself showing. The babes will pick right up on it.

drbelieves

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So just how wrong is it? Posted: 5/26/2009 8:06:29 PM
I am glad it worked out for you :>) Rock On!!

drbelieves

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would you get mad Posted: 5/26/2009 7:58:49 PM
OP , that is an example of a great guy(Guitarguy10) So if he ever contacts you, you need to MAKE SURE you follow the plan.

drbelieves

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How do you make yourself be attracted to the unattractive? Posted: 5/26/2009 7:51:29 PM
I would get involved with things you like to do. If they have events where you can do activities (just for example) like a hiking group or something. Just as long as you enjoy it. You will meet guys who have the same interests as you. And don't settle for someone who you are not attracted to.(mentally, physically) It would just make you both miserable in the end. Yes it is best to put age restrictions, if you are being emailed by older guys. And you don't want their attention.

drbelieves

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would you get mad Posted: 5/26/2009 7:14:23 PM
Oh Well, it is water under the bridge now. I hope a lesson was learned in this. And by the way...Welcome to N.C. :>)

drbelieves

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How do you make yourself be attracted to the unattractive? Posted: 5/26/2009 7:07:38 PM
As far as online,you can't really tell anything by some of the pictures. Some people look better in person. There is nothing wrong with knowing what you want in a guy. I would not settle for someone just to date. When you do meet the right one for you ,you will know. Yes you may not date alot ,but heck that gives you time to do things for yourself...And with friends... I do think that it is worth the effort to give some guys a chance. I have found that a guy who has a great personality is sexier, than someone who looks great, but has no personality.

drbelieves

Joined: 8/23/2008

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At Long Last I Have Found My Italian Stallion!!! Posted: 5/19/2009 9:31:31 PM
I love to hear about someone finding someone that knocks there socks off. I am happy for you. My fiance was Italian. He was wonderful! We would be married now if he had not died of a sudden heart attack at 48. But I have some wonderful memories of him. Good Luck to you Both!!

drbelieves

Joined: 8/23/2008

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how to describe yourself Posted: 5/18/2009 7:54:24 PM
OP.. I read your profile. I thought it was pretty good. You sound very honest and intelligent in it.

drbelieves

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how to describe yourself Posted: 5/17/2009 11:30:18 PM
I have my ideas of myself. And they are pretty much the way my friends and family describe me too. So I don't really have much trouble in that dept. Down to earth and laid back Practical Sometimes Anal...LOL Lover of Music and Dance.

drbelieves

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Kentucky Grilled Chicken Posted: 5/15/2009 7:09:57 AM
I noticed every time I have ever ate at KFC I get an upset stomach. So I just don't eat there. I prefer cooking my own food,to eating out. That way I know what I am eating. I also noticed how very thirsty I have been, the times I have ate fast food. I cannot help but believe that alot of cancers people get, are coming from the processed food. It is a shame there is not more emphasis on eating organic. So me thinks I will pass on trying the grilled.

drbelieves

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Age range you are looking for. What's that say about you? Posted: 5/14/2009 9:59:29 PM
Whatever happened to the original post question??? I think it got lost in all of the BS .

drbelieves

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Confused of how I JUST got dumped... Posted: 5/13/2009 6:15:44 AM
You need to date around. I am afraid you are getting too serious about this girl way too fast. P.S. I think it is cool she wore fishnet stockings!

drbelieves

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Is she too old for me Posted: 5/7/2009 10:59:13 PM
I think it depends on the person. And the life style they have lead during the years. My ex father-in-law runs marathons at age 77. He also holds titles in body building. His wife of 50 years can still wear a swimsuit and look good in it! I have a friend who's Mother of 72 is dating a 54 year old man.And he seems crazy about her. To look at them you would think he was the older one. She runs circles around him...LOL

drbelieves

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Is this true among women? Posted: 5/7/2009 6:56:18 AM
Yep. I would say that is true. And if they did get together with an ex, more than likely they are not a good friend.

drbelieves

Joined: 8/23/2008

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Guy who turned down woman twice now wants her... again. Posted: 5/7/2009 6:53:05 AM
Tell your friend to leave this woman alone. How shallow to go to her home and tell her what his friends said about her. And insinuate she is not good enough for him. This lady would probably not give him the time of day outside of work. Sounds like he wants her now because he see's other guys wanting her.

drbelieves

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Astrology and relationships: What's your sign?? Posted: 5/3/2009 10:57:03 PM
I am a Virgo. I don't pay that much attention to astrology. But I have noticed that the men I am most attracted to are earth signs. Especially Capricorn men.

drbelieves

Joined: 8/23/2008

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Does this site work? Posted: 5/3/2009 6:19:43 PM
I think it work's for some better than other's. But I think it is just one of the many way's to meet people. I still think it is better to try to get out and meet people in person. I will say that it has alot to do with your profile.

drbelieves

Joined: 8/23/2008

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Should I meet this guy ? Posted: 5/3/2009 7:52:30 AM
LOL... Sounds like he is playing some little mind game. Trying to turn it around like you are the one with the problem. I would tell him Goodbye .Don't contact me again. You might get a call one day from his wife. It happened to me! I was talking to a guy from POF. By email. And then a couple of times by phone. I get a call one day from a lady who wanted to know who I was. I asked her .Why? Who are you? She hung up on me. Then she called one other time. (same lady) Trying to get me to tell her who I was. I do believe it was this guys wife. I told him about it. He laughed it off. But funny thing was, he did not contact me anymore. And the lady never called me again..

drbelieves

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Giving or Asking for soneone's phone number... Posted: 4/30/2009 10:12:41 PM
I don't usually offer my number until they have offered theirs's. And then only if I am interested. I have had guys ask me several times for my number. And then when I gave it to them they never called! Oh well....LOL

drbelieves

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Should I meet this guy ? Posted: 4/30/2009 8:58:06 PM
I'd say the general consensus is he is married .Or he is living with someone. Go with your gut feeling on this guy.

drbelieves

Joined: 8/23/2008

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what is your opinion men and women? Posted: 4/28/2009 9:15:37 PM
I try to answer anyone who emails me. I just think it is common courtesy. I have emailed guys before with no response. I just shrug it off as part of online dating. I can only be responsible for the way I interact with people. I think it is a numbers game too on POF. The more emails you send out. The better your chances of getting a reponse.

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