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heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 106 (view)

Sweet guy, low income OR abusive guy, high income Posted: 11/15/2009 10:39:34 PM
More and more I am starting to realize that most women are attracted to abusive douchbags money has nothing to do with it...

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 519 (view)

do any girls actually want nice guys? Posted: 10/30/2009 1:29:58 PM
It's not whining and to tell you the truth a lot of women have slept with me for nothing more than my 6 pack, perfect straight white teeth and muscular build so the shallowness has worked in my favour as well as worked against me if they don't like that look......

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 517 (view)

do any girls actually want nice guys? Posted: 10/30/2009 7:50:36 AM
allwomencareaboutislooksallwomencareaboutislooksallwomencareaboutislooksallwomencareaboutislooksallwomencareaboutislooks.....................all women care about is looks, it does not matter about your other qualities.................good,bad,nice,***hole,jerk,neutral...none of it matters if they don't like your looks

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 54 (view)

One week with him and pregnant Posted: 10/27/2009 9:38:32 PM
My life has been a storm since the day I was born... My concern is for the child with a mother that stupid that at 26 she is that irresponsible.

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 1421 (view)

What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart?? Posted: 10/27/2009 9:27:08 PM
Anyone who thinks suicide is a cowards way out has no idea........Think of the balls it takes to actually pull the trigger or stick your head in a homemade noose or run your Dodge charger into a barricade knowing that failure could leave you worse than dead. Suicide is an act of great courage when your rage becomes so great that you fear you may harm others but do not want to so you do yourself first. Some of us are to strong to resort to drugs or alcohol to suppress our angst and pain and we struggle 24 hrs a day not sleeping or experiencing anything other than the torment in our heads . I am still here for only one reason and that is my boy who must not know the truth about me and my depression and a lifetime of rejection.

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 52 (view)

One week with him and pregnant Posted: 10/27/2009 8:41:10 PM
You are an IDIOT....

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 509 (view)

do any girls actually want nice guys? Posted: 10/27/2009 8:28:55 PM
When I find a woman willing to to have sex with me you will all be the first to hear it about ok......

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 506 (view)

do any girls actually want nice guys? Posted: 10/27/2009 6:45:17 PM
Tell me why most badguys are cowards when faced with a real man?

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 70 (view)

No orgasm: dealbreaker? Posted: 10/27/2009 10:24:58 AM
I faked it once...

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 65 (view)

It is creepy when people avoid eye contact? Posted: 10/27/2009 9:48:08 AM
Women go out of there way to avoid eye contact with me......could be due to my ugliness?

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 503 (view)

do any girls actually want nice guys? Posted: 10/27/2009 12:47:18 AM
Most badboys are **s I would easily knock the ** out of most of the ones I have seen women with. And no I am not a nice guy anymore...

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 499 (view)

do any girls actually want nice guys? Posted: 10/25/2009 9:07:59 PM
People please.....lets not complicate the issue,it is all about physical attraction if she is attracted to you then your personality is not an issue...

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 330 (view)

Why do alot of the guys at this site have a problem with dogs? Posted: 10/23/2009 8:18:34 AM
I don't want anything in my house that can't use a toilet and wipe itself after and wash it's hands....

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 25 (view)

why am I so angry? Posted: 10/22/2009 11:27:22 PM
You have every right to be angry I am 4 years out from a similiar situation and I still can not move on I have not been with another woman since My wife cheated and left me taking my son and moving in with the guy the next day,then lied about me to get a peace bond so I could not get within 2 blocks of the guy without getting arrested. 7 days a week in the gym saved me but the pain and rage will never go away.

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 1417 (view)

What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart?? Posted: 10/22/2009 11:07:18 PM
My emotions are dead and my mind is tormented but I must go on and be a father to my kids so as much as I would love for my temple to meet the muzzle velocity of of a glock 40 I must go on as if nothing is wrong.

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 17 (view)

In what environment do you get most creative? Posted: 10/22/2009 10:58:37 PM
In bed with the right woman.....

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 327 (view)

why do alot of the guys at this site have a problem with dogs? Posted: 10/22/2009 10:54:32 PM
As long as the dog is well behaved and she understands that the dog will never go in my car or in my house I have no problem with it.

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 52 (view)

Brown eyed Men? Posted: 10/22/2009 10:48:14 PM
As a man dealing with other men I have not found my brown eyed peers to be more difficult but brown eyes do far outnumber blue eyes.

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 11 (view)

We`ve split up n she lied to me about there not being anybody else Posted: 10/22/2009 10:26:54 PM
There is ALWAYS somebody else......women are like monkeys.....they won't let go of one vine until they have firm grip on the next one....I found out about it when my little boy started talking about mommys friend who would come over when I was at work, When she left she took my son and moved in with the guy the next day, then they lied about me to get a peace bond so I could not go within 2 blocks of the guy.

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 21 (view)

Is CPP Childrens benifits considered child support? Posted: 10/22/2009 10:12:41 PM
CCP childrens benefits is NOT considered child support...child support is based on the income of the non custodial parent for the previous year I have the book right in front of me.Maintanence enforcment will go after him and take away his drivers licence if he defaults [assuming he has a dl which I highly doubt based on what you have told us] The support goes for the childs needs, it is not spousal support but you should try to go after him for that as well. Even if you were making 100'000 a year he still must pay based on his income regardless of his other expenses. I may have sounded harsh on my posts but I am on your side I do not like deadbeat dads. My ex gets over 700 a month from me plus extras for just one child and I know she spends a lot of that on herself but there is nothing I can do because it is the law that I pay her the money and the law applies to your ex as well.

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 49 (view)

I Don't Need A Man.., I very Independent..etc etc = RED Flags? Posted: 10/22/2009 7:03:11 PM
I will try not to generalize but I and many other men have observed that any woman over 36 who has never been married or never been in a long term relationship are often very difficult personalities and that is why.

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 19 (view)

Is CPP Childrens benifits considered child support? Posted: 10/22/2009 9:35:19 AM
I dont think owning a house and 2 vehicles is excessive materialism,and I find plenty of time to spend with my son as well as his brother who is not my bio son but I have taken on the role of dad to him because my ex made a a baby with a loser after we divorced and the father is not in the picture,and I still find time to make it to the gym 4-5 days a week.

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 13 (view)

Is CPP Childrens benifits considered child support? Posted: 10/21/2009 2:36:37 PM
Ok diamondincnd...the problem that I see here is that pretty much every woman who picks this type of scumbag always reads everyone the low self esteem story to justify it...we see the same thing on the "niceguy" vs "badboy" threads, What women see as charm in a man is usually just a good bullshitter and they choose the same type of guy over and over again while snubbing any decent men who come there way. Honestly... at 22 how could you think 43 year old man would be a good prospect to father your children? How irresponsible of him to do that to you and the child that was created. Once again here is the checklist when choosing a father for a child....Does he have a car and a drivers license? Has he ever been arrested for drugs or DUI? Did he finish high school? Credit report? work resume?Does he take care of his body?does he drink to excess or spend money he does not have on cigarettes or dope?would he walk through fire to save you and the child?Is he capable of making the at least 90,000$ a year that it takes in this province raise a child and take care of you when you are not working?

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 10 (view)

Is CPP Childrens benifits considered child support? Posted: 10/21/2009 8:13:10 AM
Perhaps the next time you decide to procreate you should request a credit report ,criminal record check,work resume and high school graduation diploma..........It will never cease to amaze me the amount of women willing to hook up and have unprotected sex with this type of loser. The law of nature would suggest the women will choose the male most likely to provide for and protect her and the child,but it looks like that theory is no longer viable in this day and age. I hear this same sad story over and over again and in the end it is society that pays the price. This topic truly infuriates me because I do not understand why a man [but then again these losers are not men] would not want the best possible life for there child,but the facts show that so many women just seem to fall for and adore this type of fuckup.

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 26 (view)

Are all men potential rapists? Posted: 10/20/2009 9:03:10 PM
I myself just do not understand why a guy would want have sex with a woman who did'nt want it from him....I need some interaction from her to make it work.

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 8 (view)

Is CPP Childrens benifits considered child support? Posted: 10/20/2009 8:41:16 PM
I would like to know your IQ# .....so you knew he was a deadbeat loser and you went ahead and made a baby with him anyways,this is nothing more than natural selection at work..It's so unfortunate for the child now, but I would be willing to bet you would make the same mistake again anyway........I have no respect for little boys like that and even less respect for the women who make children with them,This is what you women refer to as a "badboy"have fun with that one.

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 94 (view)

When do guys grow up Posted: 10/20/2009 8:20:55 PM
And I would ask the question....when do women grow up?

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 134 (view)

Chinese ladies are they scammers?? Posted: 10/17/2009 7:32:27 AM
It kind of makes me sick when I see these fat ugly unkempt old white guys with these young asian girls............

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 150 (view)

A lot of guys seem to lie about their age Posted: 10/14/2009 6:15:02 PM
A lot of gals seem to lie about there bodytype....

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 485 (view)

do any girls actually want nice guys? Posted: 10/12/2009 10:08:05 PM
What about us average family kind of guys? where do we fit In? not overly nice not overly bad just reliable and responsible and respectfull,take care of our kids and families[if we have them]treat our woman well but don't let them push us around we are average looking for the most part, does this not describe most normal functioning men? We are not mean or trouble makers but if someone gets in our face we will deal with it and usually come out on top because we are men not boys.

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 483 (view)

do any girls actually want nice guys? Posted: 10/12/2009 7:22:10 AM
They seem to not mind good guys for the short term...but for the long term they mostly want a good looking guy who will treat them like crap and then they will complain about him to every good guy they meet?

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 480 (view)

do any girls actually want nice guys? Posted: 10/10/2009 7:52:40 AM
What we have to realize is that women have a very stringent physical critereria that must be met before she will even give the man the opportunity to show his personality, and this criteria is different for every woman,for some it is height for some eye or hair colour,length of hair the shape or build of the mans body,his ethnic background or colour can be a factor,so without meeting these criteria it won't matter if you are nice or an ***hole or whatever you are because the first thing she requires is the physical attraction anyways.

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 467 (view)

do any girls actually want nice guys? Posted: 10/5/2009 6:21:30 PM
I don't emphasize being nice at all I just act like who I am. I am outspoken at times can have a temper when need be but overall I try to think before I speak and show courtesy and respect to the people around me but if you are one of those idiots driving along in the left lane at 10 k below the limit and keeping pace with the car beside you so no one can pass you may see another side of me you may not like at all........

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 459 (view)

do any girls actually want nice guys? Posted: 10/4/2009 8:04:34 PM
whenwillthiswork26 I can understand that without knowing me my post would sound hostile but what I was making reference to was the statistical fact that a great many of these "date rape" accusations are proven to be false and were used by the woman after contracting a vd or becoming pregnant through consentual sex I am not talking about a genuine or violent rape event. Add to this the fact that the girl said she stayed with this guy who raped her until he dumped her some 3 days later tells me something as well......

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 37 (view)

Men that lead woman on with intensions Posted: 10/2/2009 6:47:21 PM
It's spelled"Intentions" not "Intensions"

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 588 (view)

I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice? Posted: 10/1/2009 7:32:23 PM
Most of these so called rapes are just an excuse for promiscuous young women to justify a pregnancy or a venereal disease

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 587 (view)

I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice? Posted: 10/1/2009 7:32:12 PM
You said that after the rape he ignored you and dumped you? So you mean to say that even after the rape you were willing to stay with this guy?

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 455 (view)

do any girls actually want nice guys? Posted: 10/1/2009 3:48:47 PM
Very good analysis magikarp you are wise beyond your years.....

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 453 (view)

do any girls actually want nice guys? Posted: 10/1/2009 2:28:13 PM
Its an odd phenomenon because I am regarded by my male peers as tough as nails and a man who can be counted on in any situation, but because I am well spoken ,polite,generous and treat women with respect they have no interest in me and consider me weak I suppose? Or maybe I am just ugly?

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 83 (view)

Do nonmuscular skinny guys have a chance? Posted: 9/30/2009 6:50:22 PM
I can tell you from my experience that I have been considered quite well built and muscular since my late teens and I have had no more success with women than the ultra thin guys or the overweight guys that I know,I have the six pack and the biceps and I have had very little positive attention from women in regards to my physique over the last 41 years. Studies show that height and facial features are far more of a factor than bodybuild or muscles to most females.

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 94 (view)

All Suck No Blow Posted: 9/30/2009 9:23:18 AM
Are WOMEN shallow or just cold hearted?!

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 117 (view)

Chinese ladies are they scammers?? Posted: 9/28/2009 5:37:13 PM
White Canadian women are pretty bad as well and quite frankly I just do not trust the entire gender at this point....

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 115 (view)

Chinese ladies are they scammers?? Posted: 9/27/2009 10:50:01 PM
Not neccesarily all scammers but most of them are remarkably shallow and superficial and are far more concerned with clothing brand names and your vehicle make and model than anything else about you. I met a Thai girl off here once and when she saw my car which is a brand new Dodge Charger R/T she told me she did not think she would look good in my car....wtf who says something like that? Polish women are the worst though from what polish men have told me...

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 437 (view)

do any girls actually want nice guys?winston877.............. Posted: 9/26/2009 1:45:50 PM
What kind of cracks me up is these guys that women think are so "bad" and dangerous are more often than not some out of shape peon with few tattoos and a drinking problem, most of these so called badboys will crumble when faced with a real man in any given situation. A true genuinely strong man does not need to be a jerk or an ***hole to get respect.

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 1390 (view)

What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart?? Posted: 9/25/2009 10:33:16 PM
Five times more men than women commit suicide after a divorce or breakup

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 26 (view)

Sick of being the second rate guy.. Posted: 9/25/2009 5:41:09 PM
I am always the second rate guy, I am the one they call when there car breaks down or they need help moving or a job reference or a ride home or fix an appliance or protect them from an abusive ex or babysit there kids it goes on and on and on..I am good for everything but the one thing I wouldnt mind being used for..they wont even give that opportunity

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 432 (view)

do any girls actually want nice guys?winston877.............. Posted: 9/25/2009 9:05:58 AM
This is a very complicated issue with many layers but is is apparent that the women who prefer badboys are typically from lower income undereducated backgrounds,often with 2 or 3 kids with 2 or 3 different men at a young age but still are to stupid to learn there lesson yet will gladly tell you there stories of abuse after abuse after abuse from every man they have ever been with. I have yet to meet an educated proffesional independant woman of quality who would put up with the antics of one of these badboy types, so to sum it up we can say that women who go for this type of guy have other issues to deal with that make them unsuitable girlfriends anyways. I am considered by my peers to be polite,well spoken and courtious to women and and other men,not because I am physically weak or timid or a pushover but because it is who I am, and I find get nothing but respect from other men but there is a certain variety of women who do not respect the goodguy type of man for some reason. Nice guys are not all physically and mentally weak pushovers who have to be nice for fear of reprisal from others, sometimes we are just good guys,some of the biggest strongest and toughest guys I know are the nicest guys I know to women and to ther male peers as well

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 276 (view)

why are hot guys so mean ???? Posted: 9/21/2009 4:19:43 PM
Why are hot girls so mean?

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 164 (view)

DO YOU DREAM ABOUT YOUR EX? Posted: 9/21/2009 4:18:15 PM
4 years later I still wake up at least once a night from rejection dreams regarding my ex wife, her name is Melanie and I call the dreams "M terrors" and the subject is always seeing her leaving me for other guys or sitting on some guys lap and laughing at me or making out with other guys it never ends and I dont know what to do about it? I have not been with anyone in 4 years now so it makes it even worse for me, it seems I do not have the looks to get another woman so I am doomed to being alone with these dreams for the rest of my life now I think.

heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008

Msg: 419 (view)

do any girls actually want nice guys?winston877.............. Posted: 9/21/2009 8:05:56 AM
I think deep down women do want a nice guy but the problem is that women do not respect or want sex with nice guys because the percieve nice guys as being weak. Being a nice guy does not mean having no backbone it means being polite and courtious and treating people with respect and possibly putting others ahead of yourself at times when it is the right thing to do. Unfortunatley though I find the nicer I am to women the less they respect it.

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