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Pokeysrevenge

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First message to a girl??? Posted: 10/15/2008 9:33:36 PM
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Pokeysrevenge

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advice.. Posted: 10/15/2008 9:31:46 PM
As for dating...you cant date a new person without less than a months break in between Where is that rule written? If you're over someone, you don't need a waiting period.

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What's the best place & circumstances for a good first date? Posted: 9/24/2008 4:07:04 PM
Personally I love doing something different than the basic "dinner and a movie" I'd done putt putt golf + steak and shake. That was pretty fun. I had one take me to a planetarium, and then a picnic. That was an amazing time.

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dating for over 2 years... arguing intensifying.. Posted: 9/24/2008 10:21:40 AM
Break ups are A LOT cheaper than divorces. Talk to her, find out why she thinks you're cheating.

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You Are Not The Father Posted: 9/23/2008 7:02:10 PM
She may not know who the real father is...

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How do you stay out of harms way? Posted: 9/23/2008 6:54:50 PM
If I understand your question right, I walk away. I walk away for a few minutes, until we both have cooled down as to not saying something we don't mean, or draw attention if in public. Then talk to them about it.

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To move or not to move on? Posted: 9/23/2008 6:52:26 PM
What may be too soon for you, may not be for her. Or, this guy is a form of a rebound. She may be using him for comfort; He might have been there to hold her when she needed it. Don't feel betrayed that she has already found someone else so fast; At least she didn't find that person while you were still together.

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Advice about when to ask someone out.. Posted: 9/23/2008 6:47:54 PM
Talk to her a few times first, see if she likes you back. If she does, ask her out for coffee/donuts/something simple. And go from there :)

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First Date Boozers Posted: 9/23/2008 6:43:20 PM
There is no slack. Especially if he's drinking that much and still expects to go out somewhere else. If he's willing to drive like that, I don't want to be his.

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One Nighters and Relationships Posted: 9/23/2008 12:13:21 PM
Relationships are always possible from "one nighters". I had a one nighter turn into an amazing two year relationship, and we're still best friends. I do agree though that it takes away the anticipation. It's like biting the tootsie pop the first time instead of licking it until you get to the center. As weird as analogy like that is...

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Girls Like Taking Things Slow... Posted: 9/23/2008 12:04:13 PM
I think most girls are scared of getting hurt. If you move too fast, they'll think you only want sex and not an actual relationship.

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I think I just got played... Posted: 9/22/2008 8:18:38 PM
I think she got scared off by the "I love you"s.

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~~ What do you SEE when you look in their EYES ? ~~ Posted: 9/22/2008 8:16:30 PM
I agree with you, eyes are a really big deal. Eyes are the window to the soul, as they say. If you're with someone and they can't keep eye contact, something is wrong. Its a big turn-off.

Pokeysrevenge

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Sure-Fire First-Date Killers Posted: 9/22/2008 1:08:02 PM
Number 6 and Number 7 deserve a b1tch slap, for real. And just why the hell do you think I and the other female need **ed slapped if I may ask? This comming from a 20 year old kid no less....., who posts this in her profile: I can put a sailor to shame with the words that come out of my mouth sometimes.** Number 6: "Good! Train them wrong so they die!!!" Really? Do I need to explain why number 6 needs a slap since she's telling the man to KILL the police officers? Number 7: "Her: “So how many people did you kill?!"" This one needs a slap to put her in her right mind. What kind of question is that to ask someone on the first date, let alone a combat veteran?! My age has nothing to do with it Sweetbabe. I put the sailor line in profile so people KNOW that i have a dirty mouth, and that I'm not offended by curse words. My original post was not an attack on you or poster number 7, it was an attack on Number 6 and 7 of JOE'S POST. Sweetbabe, we must have edited our posts at the same time. I'm not trying to start a piss match. :)

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Sure-Fire First-Date Killers Posted: 9/22/2008 1:03:39 PM
Chet B: Her: You were supposed to pay no matter what it takes! You're a cheap skate!!! Did you hit her after that? Because that really deserves a round house kick. What are you supposed to do, rip it out of her hands and demand that you pay for it? Jeez.

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Sure-Fire First-Date Killers Posted: 9/22/2008 1:01:18 PM
Number 6 and Number 7 deserve a b1tch slap, for real.

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Randomly 'IMed' Posted: 9/22/2008 12:40:59 PM
I hate being IMed first without an email. They have no idea what I might be involved with, and they're just butting in. It's much better if you email me a few times, and then ask if you can IM me, because then I know who I'm talking to.

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Do women get turned off divorced men??? Posted: 9/22/2008 12:33:41 PM
It really wouldn't be a big deal for me, depending on why the divorce happened. Also, the number of times they've been divorced is a factor. One I can understand, but more than that? He has some issues.

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What do you think of the casual, non-exclusive relationships? Posted: 9/22/2008 12:30:41 PM
I wouldn't take it. If he wanted to see other people, so be it. I wouldn't be seeing him again.

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Having Children and the Biological Clock Posted: 9/21/2008 9:57:53 PM
What causes women to suddenly want children? The biological alarm, of course. I myself for sure want kids in the future. Maybe 10 years down the road. I'd prefer not to be like the rest of my generation and have 5 kids by the time I turn 30.

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Lessons for Jill! Posted: 9/21/2008 9:54:01 PM
Have you had these discussions with your daughter? Did they ask you to show them??? I don't have a daughter. My story would begin with "I never realized how much I loved my period until, one day, it didn't come..." That made my day. I learned in health class! My dad really wants to know nothing about it, and always ends up buying bladder control pads instead of maxi pads!

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Why do 40 yo guys hit on me? Posted: 9/21/2008 9:44:38 PM
You may not be looking for a sugar daddy, but they may be looking for a sugar baby. Older guys love the younger girls. It makes them feel young again.

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How much does the Chemistry feature matter to you? Posted: 9/21/2008 4:44:04 PM
I did the whole chemistry test, but I honestly I don't think anyone uses it. I just did it because I was bored. Most important parts of the profile: Pictures, About me and the first date. I hate it when people just put "dunno, we'll figure it out" or something of the like.

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Commitment Phobia, Just a break, or completley over??? Posted: 9/21/2008 4:32:58 PM
You really need to break that up into paragraphs, my eyes are killing me. He's trying keep you in his life in case his other "plans" don't work out.

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Seeing her name everywhere...Do you believe in signs? Posted: 9/21/2008 3:03:44 PM
When I was on my way to the dealership to get my car, I saw my car EVERYWHERE. It's on your mind, your mind will notice it a lot more.

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Just eat me already! Posted: 9/21/2008 2:12:33 PM
If you're wanting to dump him because he won't go down on you, then you really don't love him. TALK to him about it, and find out WHY he won't.

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Success stories 174 pages long Posted: 9/21/2008 1:55:25 PM
Who are you to say the vast majority of people are "not especially beautiful or handsome"? All the matters is how they look to their significant other. Also, not every one who has success runs to the forums to boast about it...some people just delete their profile and be done with it.

Pokeysrevenge

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Review My Profile Plz Posted: 9/21/2008 1:42:21 PM
Whoa whoa! Get the words "Soul" and "Mate" out of there! Add more of your interests, and what you're looking for. I agree with the previous poster, get a new default, as well.

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review please..:) Posted: 9/21/2008 1:40:29 PM
It's extremely boring, to be brutally honest. There isn't really much information about you, or what you want in a date. Add another paragraph or two about YOU and what YOU want in a date!

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post coital talk of another woman? Posted: 9/21/2008 12:46:37 PM
He might as well tell her straight up "I'm pretending you're someone else while I'm screwing you" and then write "sperm bank" on her forehead with a sharpie. Is that clear enough? Couldn't have said it better. He is obviously thinking of the "friend" rather than her while they're gettin' down. Tell her to break it off and find someone else.

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If a girl asks about what parents do on a date Posted: 9/21/2008 12:31:53 PM
You're really over thinking it. She asked you to explain what your parents do, and you did. That's it :)

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18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man? Posted: 9/20/2008 10:31:13 PM
Thank you. He's leaving for Iraq for seven months on Monday. I will tell him :)

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Traditional Roles - Good or Bad? Posted: 9/20/2008 10:23:07 PM
"Check out the economy, go to college, and get a good job chial!" What's with this "Chial"? Is that the OP's Hebrew name? You are close friends with her? I was wondering that myself...

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What does it mean when she says she will call, but doesn't? Posted: 9/20/2008 9:04:52 PM
Are you sure you even know what love is? Stop being paranoid about her not calling, because it will affect the 'relationship'.

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a response to I love you Posted: 9/20/2008 8:54:48 PM
Giggle like you did in grade 4, punch her in the arm and run. If you are lucky she will think you are just being funny and showing affection like we did when we were kids, kinda of an "aw shucks" moment. Worse case scenario she starts to throw stuff at you but by then you have a 10 step head start! Best reply to this, ever.

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Do you need to have everything in common with a guy? Posted: 9/20/2008 8:19:01 PM
Differences in hobbies and interests aren't as important as differences with morals and beliefs.

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Traditional Roles - Good or Bad? Posted: 9/20/2008 7:04:05 PM
I was raised in a very traditional household. I'm not a religious nut, I was just raised to believe that a woman's place is in the home, cooking, cleaning, doing what it takes to keep her spouse happy, etc. Not bare foot and pregnant all the time, but you get what I'm saying. A man's place is at work, supporting his family. My question is this, what do men these days think of that? I don't see what the problem is with coming home to find a home cooked dinner on the table, in a clean and spotless house. And please don't get my wrong by thinking I'm saying that it's also a woman's job to lay around the house all day and spend his money, because I'm not saying that. If anything, she should at least have an at home business.

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Ok, I can handle it, review my profile! Posted: 9/20/2008 6:49:48 PM
It needs serious re-writing, and re-structure. The first paragraph is WAY too long. I agree with everyone else that you shouldn't open up your profile with a put down on yourself, because it gives off the essence of low self esteem.

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Messing around with gender roles Posted: 9/20/2008 6:16:34 PM
This totally goes against what I believe, but If a woman can't cook, clean, or raise the kids worth a poop like she should, should the husband kick her out? Double standard.

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What if this happened to you? Posted: 9/20/2008 6:04:10 PM
That guy doesn't know what hes missing. Fatties can't break in half if you're too rough! :D Forget him, he probably has a concave penis anyways!

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Went on a date to see Hitman in cinema, and I WAS spied on Posted: 9/20/2008 5:23:10 PM
Sounds like shes a child. Honestly. I've had something like this happen to me, and it does suck. There's nothing you can really do but forget about it and move on.

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18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man? Posted: 9/20/2008 4:27:27 PM
I was engaged to a 35 year old when I was 19. We had dated since I was a week shy of 17. We ended up not working out, but we're still best friends. I've always dated older men. (Daddy complex, anyone?) Age is what you make of it. If you choose to make a big deal out of it, it will be a big deal.

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Your Pet or YourRelationship? Posted: 9/20/2008 3:55:54 PM
Love me, love my dogs.

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Is courting dead? Posted: 9/14/2008 4:59:07 PM
I'm nowhere near 45; I'm only recently turned 20, but I love courtship. Luckily I found a guy who does that (on here none the less!). However, I'd say 99% of don't even know what courtship is.

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How do you feel about interacial dating? Posted: 9/14/2008 4:55:39 PM
There is never a reason to date outside your race. Ever.

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Why do married men masturbate? Posted: 9/14/2008 4:51:19 PM
The same reason married women masturbate. You're making Mt. Everest out of a friggin' ant hill. Men jack off weather they're married or not. It doesn't mean you're worthless, or he doesn't want to have sex with you. It's a different experience doing it by yourself than with your significant other. I have a feeling that you're a snooper too.

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Ok...Am I reading this guy wrong? or is he interested? Posted: 9/14/2008 4:40:22 PM
I want to know what kind of school you're going to if faculty members talk to you like that, and treat you that way. Any guy, it doesn't matter how much "in love" they are with you, that hits on someone who is his STUDENT is NOT worth dating. It's sick. The age difference is nothing, but your ex-teacher? How is there a picture of you two "together" to begin with?

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