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bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

Msg: 34 (view)

Mama's front porch Posted: 11/15/2009 6:04:38 AM
I have come to the conclusion no one is serious on these dating sites. I might stay on them for conversation and to keep up with the friends I have met but think I am going to put my love life in Gods hands and do it the old fashioned way from now on. Peace and good luck to everyone.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

Msg: 30 (view)

Mama's front porch Posted: 10/30/2009 7:19:09 AM
Don't know but stay gone awhile, come back and see no one has swept them off the porch. Whats up folks? Oh, Happy Halloween to ya!

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

Msg: 28 (view)

Mama's front porch Posted: 10/20/2009 12:49:15 PM
Sorry bout that. Mama always did tell me I wasn't much on cleaning. Like to sip the lemonade too much I reckon.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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Little things that mean alot Posted: 10/20/2009 12:47:29 PM
do you need a hug now tiger?? i'll hug ya You smoothie you. Just like a snake.

bluesoutherngal

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Msg: 28 (view)

This is ridiculous Posted: 10/20/2009 12:44:51 PM
woo hoo, timber we got 2 posters besides us. I'm feeling faint. Tell me it's true.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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Singles Dance Posted: 10/20/2009 12:38:23 PM
think alot of people stayed in to watch the ballgame or went places that were showing it.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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Organic gardening Posted: 10/18/2009 10:49:40 AM
I heard marigolds in between your tomato plants also. Actually heard marigolds all around your garden helps.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

Msg: 8 (view)

have you ever been stood up ? Posted: 10/18/2009 10:47:50 AM
I think I was stood up last night. Said he would probably see me there. Does that count?

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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This is ridiculous Posted: 10/18/2009 10:46:02 AM
don't leave trueblue! We need all the help we can get to keep this thing alive. Thanks for posting and hello to you. Thought there was a little smiley wavey. can't find the little bugar. Well I am waving at you.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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Singles Dance Posted: 10/18/2009 10:40:21 AM
Dance turned out to be ok but nothing to brag about. How did your night go?

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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why don't women make first contacts Posted: 10/17/2009 6:35:34 AM
woo hoo! can have me a hot time on the town tonight.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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have you ever been stood up ? Posted: 10/17/2009 6:34:31 AM
so you were one of of them abducties huh.

bluesoutherngal

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Organic gardening Posted: 10/17/2009 6:32:14 AM
not going to hold my breath on that one. I really would be blue. I keep cracking myself up.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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This is ridiculous Posted: 10/17/2009 6:30:53 AM
would that place be called "Sandy's"? If so a friend of mine and me went last Sat. night.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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Singles Dance Posted: 10/17/2009 6:29:06 AM
awh u r slick as a rattle snake button.

bluesoutherngal

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Organic gardening Posted: 10/16/2009 9:12:37 AM
ok, I see alot of people viewed but no posting so either you are not into organic or didn't know the answer to my question. Well here is a couple of tips I learned. To keep bugs off plants use a spray bottle with mixture of soapy water with a little bit of rubbing alcohol in it. Not sure how much alcohol so don't start out with much to see how it works. The other tip: When putting out plants use wet news paper, the thicker the better, and layer it around the plant with dirt and wet news paper in layers. Said weeds would not come up through wet paper. Thanks for stopping by and hope someone posts any suggestions they have.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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why don't women make first contacts Posted: 10/16/2009 9:06:21 AM
corse I will....leave it on mama's front porch

bluesoutherngal

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Mama's front porch Posted: 10/16/2009 9:04:19 AM
Nothing yet either...they won't give me the chance.....think they are skeerd

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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have you ever been stood up ? Posted: 10/16/2009 9:02:13 AM
Don't think I have ever been stood up but I think some of them got them selves abducted before the meeting part could happen and then when the aliens brought them back they contacted me again but they had been brained washed so no recolection of us being in contact before. I hate it when that happens.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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This is ridiculous Posted: 10/16/2009 8:58:02 AM
You going to dance tomorrow night? Some from other site are going to be there.

bluesoutherngal

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Msg: 23 (view)

Mama's front porch Posted: 10/16/2009 6:14:08 AM
I think they are skeerd. What have you done to them chicks?

bluesoutherngal

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Msg: 8 (view)

why don't women make first contacts Posted: 10/16/2009 6:11:10 AM
You giving away money? I want some!

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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This is rediculous Posted: 10/16/2009 6:09:27 AM
nothing yet. You should be well rested when it does though. I crack myself up!

bluesoutherngal

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Mama's front porch Posted: 10/15/2009 3:37:12 PM
Hey you chickaroonies, we got a taker! Where are ya?

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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why don't women make first contacts Posted: 10/15/2009 3:33:42 PM
How much you willing to lose? I contacted 2 guys, was not forward, just a friendly email hoping to start a conversation and both were read and deleted. Oops! I should have bet first before telling. Are there any serious men on here?

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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Singles Dance Posted: 10/15/2009 7:45:33 AM
The Christians Singles Dance at the JC's building every year is this Sat. night in Huntsville if anyone is interested. I understand there is a $10 charge to get in. I went to the one last year in Nov.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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Mama's front porch Posted: 10/15/2009 7:41:56 AM
You can sit where ever you like. Seems the rockers are open right now and no other roosters crowing.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

Msg: 4 (view)

why don't women make first contacts Posted: 10/15/2009 7:39:46 AM
I have. have too it seems.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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north / central alabama Posted: 10/15/2009 7:38:21 AM
I hear ya and alot of fussing and fighting also but I hang in there just don't participate in the crap. Try to come up with more interesting stuff to talk about. Tried to get this alabama chat going but not much luck.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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north / central alabama Posted: 10/14/2009 3:39:20 PM
yes, I remember reading that on the site you are talking about but did not get to make it. Are you still on that site?

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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north / central alabama Posted: 10/13/2009 4:46:51 PM
sounds good to me. would happen to have been in union grove? if so sorry I missed it.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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This is rediculous Posted: 10/13/2009 4:44:48 PM
Well at least you did post and gave your reasons for not contacting some of the women you check out. Thankyou and you come back now ya hear. Tried to get another thread going for just general conversation but not too many posting called Momma's front porch.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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This is rediculous Posted: 10/13/2009 2:56:09 PM
I might be right behind you gf. This is getting really frustrating. I see guys checking out my profiles with no contact or once or twice contacts and then they vanish, see alot of views on the threads but no posts. come on people are you serious or not? As they say either s$$t or get off the pot!

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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Organic gardening Posted: 10/1/2009 7:49:01 AM
I posted this on another site and it went over better than I thought so thought I might try it on here and see if I can get any tips I didn't get on the other one. Please post any tips or suggestions you have. I have a question if anyone knows the answer to. Someone told me someone told them to use vinegar and water to spray your plants with for insects. I thought this might kill the plants. Does anyone know or maybe how to make the mixture? You know water/vinegar ratio? Hope to get alot of responses.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

Msg: 5 (view)

This is rediculous Posted: 9/30/2009 7:01:11 AM
Yeah this online dating thing can be very frustrating at times. Thats why I haven't even been on here in awhile. Thankyou for posting.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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Mama's front porch Posted: 9/30/2009 6:56:49 AM
Can I post? I know I don't live in Alabama but quite close, just over the line in Rome, GA. You post anytime you like and it is very welcomed. Maybe just maybe more people will start posting. Thankyou for checking out alabama forum and you come back now ya hear! Your lemonade will be waiting on you.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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Mama's front porch Posted: 9/30/2009 6:52:54 AM
Love the title of this thread...make's you want to look and see what's going on... Thankyou mam and you check us out anytime. Wish more people would help get alabama forum going.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

Msg: 71 (view)

Did I jump to the wrong conclusion Posted: 9/7/2009 6:58:37 AM
"Oh, I can't get rid of the dating site because I talk to my sister on it!" Suuuure you do, buddy. What about AIM, Yahoo, MSN, or SKYPE? Or even E-mail? All of these are more reliable than chatting on POF, and usually if you've been talking to someone for any length of time you get at least one other address. My question back would be, "Have you seen where this guy lives?" Yes, I know for a fact he has yahoo. I use to have his regular email address but for some reason we never or he never contacted me on it or yahoo then when my computer crashed I lost all contacts and asked him to send me his or email me with his regular email address again so we wouldn't have to email each other on here and his response was "why can we not just talk on the phone" which we did but then he would still email me on here if he for some reason did not get an answer so I would email him back on here. Yes, I have seen where he lives. Been there plenty or times when I wasn't kicked to the curb. He has a pretty nice place but stays in alot of finacial binds I know. I think that is why he really wants me to move in and have felt it in my heart that he thinks I can help with the bills which would only be right if we moved in together for all the right reasons but have to have trust and I don't trust him and he has done nothing so far or in the past to gain it back and that is to delete his profile and quit sending all his roses to his sister.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

Msg: 69 (view)

Did I jump to the wrong conclusion Posted: 9/7/2009 6:47:29 AM
Yes.... you SHOULD consider deleting your profile. I say this in all gentleness, because you do not seem equipped enough to be able to handle the riff raff that permeates this pond. You are an easy target simply from innocent naivety. I really think you should try to meet people out somewhere else like social groups or church or anywhere else but here Thanks for you gentle opinion but no thanks, I think I will hang around awhile longer. This guy doesn't happen to have 'barracuda' as his fish personality identifier, does he??? Not sure, would have to go back and look but really don't care to do that.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

Msg: 67 (view)

Did I jump to the wrong conclusion Posted: 9/7/2009 6:29:46 AM
If you stay, you will see that I don't care for you by continuously seeing my roses disappear, month after month" or justification in some weird wacked out way trying to prove he doesn't cheat? Thanks! Was exactly what I was thinking myself which has proven to be true since all his roses before keep disappearing for some reason.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

Msg: 60 (view)

Did I jump to the wrong conclusion Posted: 9/6/2009 1:03:17 PM
FGSakes! Why on earth would he need to contact his family on POF? Exactly! And I have questioned him time and time again about this with no really good response but think he has got the hint now that I don't buy his crap and tell it to his sister.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

Msg: 56 (view)

Did I jump to the wrong conclusion Posted: 9/5/2009 6:14:37 AM
woah there big fella , the OP already knows she's made a mistake believing the inbred. relax will you she's on the right path and has left the lying inbred. Thankyou kind sir and yes I told the jerk exactly what I thought about him and his lies and chat on with good ol sis.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

Msg: 55 (view)

Did I jump to the wrong conclusion Posted: 9/5/2009 6:11:49 AM
You are way toooooooooooo good for this man! I loved what you said in your profile - you are full of substance and quality Thankyou very much! That was sweet of you to say and made me feel better.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

Msg: 51 (view)

Did I jump to the wrong conclusion Posted: 9/3/2009 6:42:18 AM
Get a grip. RED FLAGS FLYING TO THE MOON and you don't see them. Time for glasses. No, I did see red flags and have seen them everytime he told me he chats with his sister on here and have no roses to be sent before. I just need to follow my gut insticts and stick with it intead of second quessing myself when I am told I jump to conclusions and it is a misunderstanding and then goes from there to what a horrible person I am and I start believing it. I need to stop believing these jerks who want to bash me because they get busted.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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Did I jump to the wrong conclusion Posted: 9/1/2009 12:48:56 PM
Here is a step by step guide on what to do. 1) go into your profile 2) look for the last message this hump sent you 3) click on BLOCK USER. 4) send him a message, I just won the lottery and Im saying good bye and you can kiss my southern beep beep and your beep beep , lying cheating cold dead beating, two time double dealing mean mistreating beep beep. Done done hun but thanks. See I am learning.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

Msg: 30 (view)

Did I jump to the wrong conclusion Posted: 9/1/2009 12:42:12 PM
Who the hell uses POF email to talk to their SISTER!? I asked him that but he never did give me a believable explanation.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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Did I jump to the wrong conclusion Posted: 9/1/2009 10:51:06 AM
Thankyou everyone for your input and I have decided my gut instinct was right and that he is full of crap. sent a "Be Mine" rose to his sister. Yeah, right! Maybe his sister will move in with him.

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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Did I jump to the wrong conclusion Posted: 9/1/2009 10:03:34 AM
Lose the loser hon..you aren't jumping to the wrong conclusion, that's your instincts trying to keep you from doing something stupid. Adult relationships do not require drama, find one that doesn't have it. I thought the same thing after him telling me it was his sister he sent it to. I kept telling myself my intincts are right but then after the horrible email I got from him I thought even as weird as it seems maybe I did jump to the wrong conclusion but after reading everyones input I realize what an idiot I have been to actually trust this man and allow him back in my life after all the hurt he has caused me. Nope, not believing he sent a "Be Mine" rose to his sister. I am starting to feel better now and I do deserve better and someone who will treat me better than this. Thanks hon!

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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Did I jump to the wrong conclusion Posted: 9/1/2009 9:47:50 AM
* After breaking up with you he calls and says, "I love you, move in with me.". Not, "Lets give this another try - let's start dating again and see where it goes.". Not, "Lets see if we can work out [insert reason we broke up here]". He immediately jumps to you moving in with him (translation: he's broke, and needs a second income). I think you are exactly right. I know for a fact he has had financial problems before and wanted me to move in and when I didn't due to wanting to see if we can make it first then he dumped me but said it was due to being too stressed out. BS!

bluesoutherngal

Joined: 8/27/2008

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Did I jump to the wrong conclusion Posted: 9/1/2009 9:41:03 AM
Thanks for everyones opinion. I am way too trusting and forgiving for my own good. I think I do have low self esteem from everything I have read because after reading everyones replies it all makes sense. When I first met him he seemed so down to earth and good hearted I guess I still wanted to believe that is who he is but everyone is right he is obviously on here for one reason and that is to contact women and not his sister. I do deserve better than that and no I do not like drama or being hurt so guess I need to cut my losses with him and move on and wait for the right one who will treat me like I deserve to be treated to come along. To the post about me stalking him I am not stalking him. Not sure what you mean by that. He is the one who keeps contacting me when he wants me to give him another chance not the other way around and only found out about the other rose by going to his profile to email him. I had no other way of emailing him because my computer had been worked on lately and wiped out all my addresses so I asked him to send me his regular email address again and he never did. Said we can talk on the phone but then he would send me email from this site so that is the only way of emailing him. Oh well. Your opinion of me stalking. Not mine. I don't care what he does from here on out. Thanks for your input though.

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