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 Author Thread: Lactation sex
 Mr.Mickey
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 126 (view)
 
Lactation sex
Posted: 8/4/2009 12:57:44 PM
dude once had her squirt me in the eye while having sex and she was on top not the most fun I've ever had needless to say, yeah its just a bit weird but silly dude, mommies milk is for kids
 Mr.Mickey
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 20 (view)
 
How did first love change you?
Posted: 8/2/2009 1:28:33 PM
my first love taught me to trust. I was always a very closed person living in an open world but with a closed view on it. She opened my eyes and helped me to learn so many things about myself and my surroundings that I never would've otherwise known. Though we haven't been together in a long time, I know that I do things and act a lot like her, in the way I do certain things or say certain things.

To me she will always be the beautiful woman who slow danced naked with me to "Unforgettable" by Nat King Cole before making love in her room. She was strong willed and beautiful, a tiger that was a kitten rubbing against my cheek. I've learned more about sorrow and heartache from losing her than anyone has ever taught me before or than I ever thought possible. But all in all, I will always love and cherish her memory and the things she taught me. I'm proud to have had her in my life, and though her chapter in it is finished, my book carries on.
 Mr.Mickey
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 1 (view)
 
It's Been... Since we broke up
Posted: 7/21/2009 4:57:18 PM
It's been two years since we broke up
and I have re-learned how to smile
laughter that was so hard once
comes easy and is unstoppable, contagious, just plain brilliant
I spent over half an hour yesterday just laughing
with friends again for no reason.

It's been 24 months since we broke up
I lost 60lbs during the few months
mostly from too much crying, lack of sleep,
too much booze and too much drugs
I didn't want to live anymore, once you left.
I've gained 40 of those back now
my friends have noticed
they compliment me often on how good I look these days
and I've started working out on the regular again.

It's been 104 weeks since we broke up
and sex is fun, amazing, crazy, wonderful, wicked awesome once again
along with a million other good words that I don't know
but surely are good descriptors of it.
making love is actually possible.
though I must admit
sometimes it's been too good for words to describe
and others...
well lets just say some people need to work on their skills

It's been 730 days since we broke up
I've taught myself to let go,
let go of all the anger, hate, malice, pride and despair that ruled my life
and was my only reason for existing.
I've made my peace with you in my heart
there a piece of you will always remain
you were a huge part of my life,
though that chapter is closed, my book carries on
I forgive you for everything.

It's been 17520 hrs since we broke up
and I have learned, learned to love
more importantly how to receive love
the wounds have healed and yes some have become scars
but those scares remind me of what I learned
of what you taught me,
sometimes like an old sports injury, these scars and wounds
still hurt me, but I've learned to deal with them
They are a part of me, just as you will always be.

It's been 1051200 odd minutes since we broke up
and I want to let you know, that I'm doing alright
I have my ups and downs, highs and lows just like everyone else
but I know now I can not only survive but flourish
no matter what thanks to what you and life have taught me
I am alive again, and I will continue to live
this is my affirmation of that fact
this is my affirmation of life,
of happiness, of joy, of pain, of sorrow
that this is my affirmation of me.

Dedicated to the people in my world, who helped me survive, taught me to live, and helped me to fall in love with myself again
 Mr.Mickey
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Proper pictures in profile as a guy?
Posted: 3/13/2009 2:47:58 PM
okay intersting thoughts I must say, got one question for all the women in here though,

you all say you want to see some insight into a guy in his pics but no shirt-less and flexing/posing, well what about a guy like me who is really into swimming, loves the beach and thus most of my pics yr round have me in a swimsuit? really not gonna lie its actually hard to find photos where im not right outta the water or in it.

Should it be posted, all of the shots i'm not posing or flexing just simply shirtless in my swimming trunks, sometimes with a towel wrapped around my shoulders, which is kind of a requirement of my hobby. any thoughts
 Mr.Mickey
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Fri, March 20th - RnR POF Party at Rock & Roll Heaven Toronto!
Posted: 3/4/2009 6:40:01 AM
just can't wait to hear those tunes
 Mr.Mickey
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Scarborough Meet & Greet @ McGradies - Thursday March 5th 2009
Posted: 3/4/2009 6:36:44 AM
okay so been trying to come out for the last four weeks almost and every single effing time i get called into work (I'm on call 24/7).

but this time not gonna happen Mr.Mickey shall make the scene, cuz I booked off work and told my boss short of him dying don't call me on Thursday night.

so look out you lot, Mr. Mickey is coming to town and all I wanna do is dance.....
 Mr.Mickey
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 5 (view)
 
After the I love you
Posted: 3/3/2009 11:16:07 PM
Well I can only give you what I would think if it was me.
By the sounds of it the stuff this guy does and how you react to each other, it sounds like you've found something real here. Not that I reccommend you let your guard down completely, but relax a bit hun. Over-stressing or worrying about the little things or trying to have things perfect, often ruin everything.

For me when I tell a woman "I love you" it means that I am head over heels for you and want an exclusive(mono et mono) long term relationship and I'm expecting the same from her. For your sake I suggest you ask. It seems a shame to ruin what seems like a good run of open communication, and he might not view things the same as I do, but from the sound of it I doubt that he does.

Well best of luck sounds like your one of the luckier ones around here.

Cheers
Mr.Mickey
 Mr.Mickey
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Dating shift workers
Posted: 3/1/2009 10:50:29 PM
so I work night shift 11pm to 7am. The only way me and mine get around it is when I come home I get to bed asap, so I'm up by 4pm inwhich I have the rest of my time.
I guess we both learned to juggle each others schedules in order to make sometime. We try to make time at least everyday even if its only 15-20mins together somedays. We're just thankful for at least being able to have that time. All about appreciating and using the time you do have and not lamenting or worrying too much about the time lost.
 Mr.Mickey
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 165 (view)
 
What's with recently separated men online dating?
Posted: 3/1/2009 10:02:51 PM
its not only men, its women too, had it once, got hurt when I found out.
won't do it again ever or put ever myself in a similar situation. Unless your fully available
STAY THE F*** AWAY FROM ME !!!!

is my policy. and to that I stick
 Mr.Mickey
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 45 (view)
 
submissive guy in the bedroom.
Posted: 2/27/2009 3:38:45 AM
he said it in humor during a stand-up comedy routine I'm pretty sure that isn't Chris Rock's actual thoughts. LOL and I said that I don't agree with him.
 Mr.Mickey
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 51 (view)
 
why do men do that ?
Posted: 2/27/2009 3:29:41 AM
interesting thought but what exactly is" seeing someone?" some people don't view a relationship as monogomous until quite some time. A friend of mine actually doesn't mind anyone he has taken out on a few dates going out with a few other people. Some people need a longer amount of time in the "single-yet-not-alone" period in between dating and a relationship
 Mr.Mickey
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Is it normal?
Posted: 2/27/2009 3:13:00 AM
Hun, he was a cop, and looking for a good time thats it and his wife caught him (probably again for her). Trust me I know a lot of cops (including my own uncle) and I know that is the way it normally goes. Want my advice don't date a guy who is a cop, has been for awhile and is older than you cuz I can guarantee he's married and looking for a booty call.You will get tossed under the bus at the moment of first convenience, I've seen one too many of my female friends fall for this to too many cops and end up really hurt in the end.

And if you want a life without denial, neglect and infidelity, don't date a man who has just become or becoming a cop. My uncle is a cop and my aunt has been living this life for over 10yrs, and no matter what she always takes him back no matter what (personally I'd very much like to break the SOBs legs).
Trust me hun, count your blessings and run like the wind from the next guy who approaches you and is a cop, becoming a cop or wants to be one.
 Mr.Mickey
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 78 (view)
 
What does it take for a woman to suck in bed?
Posted: 2/27/2009 1:49:12 AM
1. Expects me to always be on top and intiate the sex. I hate that, sometime I just wanna be grabbed and ****ed too...

2. No communication doesn't let me know what she wants but get annoyed afterwards when I couldn't figure it out I'M NOT A FvCKING MIND READER, TELL ME WHAT YOU WANT and be quick cuz like most guys I've got a limited time before I'm finished

3. PUBIC HAIR DOWNSTAIRS. huge no no for me, I've actually gotten a girl down to nothing on and turned around put my clothes on and walked out once over this.

4. No creativity and constantly wants the same thing, making me bored, if I wanna be bored I'll go home to some porn on my own time, thats why your in my bed

5. Teeth on my balls make me scream, that area is damn sensitive so sharp objects like teeth biting into them hurt like all hell and make me wanna punch you in the head to see if you like sharp pain.

6. Hides under the sheets, lights always off, and embarressed about your body. I took you home, obviously I find your body attractive and obviously I wanted to see it

7. Acting like your doing me a favor by sleeping with me, I hate that with women in general. I hate that "I'm so hot, worship me, I command it" attitude. If your amazing, I will worship the ground you walk on. But ask me to or like your doing me a favor being with me and I will tell you to go fvck yourself.
 Mr.Mickey
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 47 (view)
 
wedding sex !!!
Posted: 2/26/2009 8:30:11 PM
dude i can imagine that is like having found kryptonite for your women, anytime just use it, it works lol
 Mr.Mickey
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Any other guys out there who do this.....
Posted: 2/26/2009 8:24:37 PM
dude cigarette and some food usually munchies is always needed for me, but I try to resist the urge to pig out after cuz it bugs my partners usually
 Mr.Mickey
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 41 (view)
 
wedding sex !!!
Posted: 2/26/2009 3:39:29 AM
went to one wedding, they sat all the single guests together at one table. Just about everyone at the table had just come outta something or another, either way most weren't feeling to romantic at first so the whole table was drunk before the bride and groom entered the hall. So all it took was some beer goggles for some and just hating being alone while watching everyone else with a dash of desperation from everyone. Basically I think just about everyone from that table ended up taking home someone from that table for the night.

Won't ever do it again, mainly cuz although the sex was good an everything, but just totally didn't enjoy the next morning. Dealing with a hung-over ****y woman, whom in my non-drunk state I would normally have called a psycho-bi*ch and walked away from, but as I was pissed outta me tree last night....
 Mr.Mickey
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Silent Sex
Posted: 2/26/2009 3:26:27 AM
Ok so I saw a post with someone asking about ways to quiet down sex without decreasing the fun. So my question is the complete opposite.

I have a problem of being absolutly silent from foreplay till end during sex. No matter how mind-blowing the sex or how much I'm enjoying it or how much noise she is making, for some odd reason I never make a noise nor do I ever feel the need to.

Weird I know, drives every girl I've ever been with nuts, some tried extremely hard cuz they didn't like feeling that they're not repaying the favor but no luck yet . All have told me my body movements and my face lets them know I'm still enjoying myself but vocally I'm not there and the silence is just plain strange. I don't know why I'm always completly silent but just wondering if I'm just wierd like that or maybe there are others like me?
 Mr.Mickey
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 41 (view)
 
submissive guy in the bedroom.
Posted: 2/25/2009 1:50:02 AM
okay to the tie down and blind-folded lady, same fantasy though she didn't start laughing, she did however cut off my circulation to left foot of for sometime though... lol

Chris Rock once said " for any man to be in a successful relationship, he needs to wake up every morning, look himself in the mirror and say "go f**k yourself, f**k you, f**k your dreams and your happiness, now lets go out there and try and make that b**ch happy"

I don't agree with him. I think it all depends on the mood, I'm not gonna lie there are times when I 'm really glad to have my girl to grab me and throw me to the floor and carry on as she sees fit.
Then again I also have those moments where I wanna grab her and do somethings that gonna make her cokc her head back so far she can watch her own ass shake.

It all depends on mood I guess
 Mr.Mickey
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Tough Times = Tough Measures
Posted: 2/25/2009 1:03:30 AM
not doing to much differently actually, with the difference in the economy. The only thing I'm doing is avoiding shoe stores a little more often, yeah shoes are my little guilty pleasure, for a guy I got over 34 pairs.
 Mr.Mickey
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Will be a year tomorrow..
Posted: 2/19/2009 3:15:59 AM
Thats exactly what I want. I know that this Christmas day was unbearable, but my hope is that it will get easier (though a part of me will always be a little sad on Christmas). I really want one day to be able to share in the joy of the holidays again and feel happy on christmas instead of it being a scar in my year for the rest of my life. One day I would like Christmas to feel like Christmas, right now it just seems like a day when everyone else celebrates and I'm mourning the loss of Amy. One day I want Christmas to be a special day because its Christmas and share it with my children the way my dad did with me and not because its the day she passed away. Thats my hope, thats the thought that keeps me going.
 Mr.mickey
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Why mostly younger men?
Posted: 2/13/2009 3:41:12 AM
It's not at all just about sex or dessperation (Stray Cat, thats your opinion becuase maybe as a young man that was how desperate you were, I don't know) just like some women are attracted to older men, some guys are attracted to older women, I'm one of them. I haven't dated someone around my age in some time. My ex was 37 and I'm 22 and to be honest it hurt like all hell when it ended, just the same as it would for anyone else. Just because there was an age gap, doesn't mean that the feelings or emtions aren't just as real or just as significant. Age is a number and it all depends on the people involved.

Also its not a move of desperation, actually its a compliment. Most of my guy friends consider older women quite sexy, appealling and in my case I like the stability and lack of chaos that comes with being with an older women. If you are an older woman who has a younger guy hit on you or make a pass, all I can say is be open and see whats up, he may just actually want to make you a happier women in the long run.

p.s. any older women who read this and is interested in a younger man, drop me a msg, and we'll take it from there
 Mr.mickey
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Will be a year tomorrow..
Posted: 2/13/2009 3:14:28 AM
Firstly as strange and as condesending as this may sound, but thank you for posting this thread it's nice to know that I'm not alone and crazy for feeling this loss and that I can finally feel comfortable saying this out loud....(I've never spoken about that night since)

My fiance passed away December 25 2007 at 9:22pm. She was 21 and so was I, we were highschool sweet-hearts who met at 13 on the first day of highschool. She passed away while dancing in my arms, one moment I was holding her in my arms dancing to Christmas Carols, surrounded by both our families, and the next she went limp, she was gone before I could even lower her to the floor. I remember saying to her " babygirl your leaning a bit heavy on me". And that's when I realized I couldn't feel her breathing and her eyes were closed. It was instant panic, everywhere just choas, I remember the screams and people running about but not much else till the paramedics got on scene. I remember feeling this incredible sense of helplessness, I didn't take my arms of her, I kept holding her even though I couldn't do anything and hoping that if I held her tight enough she just might comeback. I've never felt so scared afraid and helpless in my life and I've survived a tour in Afghanistan.

This year christmas of 2008 was horrible for me and I cried the entire time through despite my family and her family doing there best to see me smile.
I think the hardest part for me to deal with was the anger. Everyone can talk about being sad, or hurt or abandonded feelings. But it's so hard to admit being I never expected it but I was angry at her after awhile. When I had to go and do all the wedding cancelations, to feeling cold at night cuz she wasn't there. I'm so angry sometimes with her, and I know I shouldn't be that it's not her fault but sometimes when life hits me hard, I get angry at her. Like how could she leave me like this, or this wasn't supposed to happen to me. In my darkest moments I even blamed her sometimes like maybe if she had done this to improve her health, but in the end I know there was nothing she or I could have done. And thats the hardest part for me is dealing with that anger. Because sometime I do wanna just yell and ask her why she's not here, or how she expects me to do this on my own now. And of course there is the anger at myself for even thinking these things sometimes. To be honest this is the first time I'm admitting to anyone besides myself that I felt this anger.

I'm trying my best to move on and it has been the most challenging thing to do, but still I'm trying. So on that note my friend thank you for your thread and I sincerly hope that things work out for you. In the mean time God bless and keep you if your religious, and I hope things work out and I keep my fingers crossed for you if your not.

Michael


Christmas Dreaming by Myself Dec 27 2008
Last Christmas I dreamed of a Christmas
just like the ones that I used to know
the ones with lots of family, my laughter
with food and drink, and a snow on the ground
singing songs of the old days with the men
a tree with decorations and lights
gift giving and receiving
drowning in expensive wines and beers
brightly sparkling with an altruistic beauty
drinking and poker with my cousins.

This year I dreamed of Christmas
one without sadness, one with joy
to walk with my head held high
a Christmas without fights
which was nothing like the last
without anger and doubt,
pain and frustration
without shame
This year I dreamed of Christmas
with sleep instead of tears.

This year like last, my dreams could not come
and yesterday remained elusive

So, next year I'll dream of a Christmas....
 Mr.Mickey
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 3 (view)
 
I need some Help
Posted: 2/4/2009 12:59:17 PM
thanks i never even noticed that one anything else
 Mr.Mickey
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 1 (view)
 
I need some Help
Posted: 2/4/2009 2:43:33 AM
Okay so basically I've been here for little while with no success. Tried reading some advice and someone said my profile maybe my problem. Can anyone take a look and help me out, especially ladies as it is a nice lady that I would like to me can you give me some advice.

Thanks ever so much
 
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