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mh5bl

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Msg: 40 (view)

Full time dad with a son that is not his!! Posted: 1/2/2007 8:02:43 PM
I would have to say that you need to tell him. You could not keep the truth from children. the truth is alway the best. you will have to tell him sometime and if he know now it will not be confusing later in life. children are much more resilient then people thing. do you not thing it will brake his heart at any time in his life.. just my thought. hope it all works out...

mh5bl

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Legal ages... Posted: 12/28/2006 4:57:25 AM
I have to agree with 'The Tactile Guy' make it all 18 nice and simple. I do not thing you could ban smoke. if you wish to smoke you could be aloud. I thinks that many of the thing that the ban could not be.

mh5bl

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sexline Posted: 12/23/2006 4:05:28 PM
As other people have said the hole thing is a con. It is just exploiting mans weakness. The adverts suggest that you are getting a hot girl when you are not. This is false adverting and would not happened in any other industry, but this is the sex industry and no one complains. Maybe there weak man need to no that you can have an escort for less money. (Escort a person that accompany another to give protection or as a courtesy) £1.50 a minute works out at £90 an hour. These girl change around £60 and hour and will come to you house and chat all you like. pay £120 and some will turn into prostitutes. now who is been exploited........ and maybe this is why they do not legalis prostitution, It would put the phone chat lines out of business...LOL P.S. I am not a user of this phone lines or escorts or prostitute but I do no people in all three business.

mh5bl

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Budapest Posted: 12/15/2006 7:58:51 PM
Are you joking Budapest have everything 5 single men would every need ..

mh5bl

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Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups??? Posted: 12/15/2006 7:14:47 PM
her husband cheating on her it still doesn't give her the right to go and destroy his items If the two people are married. The stuff is both there and some the person is there stuff. Anyway I hate cheater and I thing there deserve everything they get.

mh5bl

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Why are men such cowards??? Posted: 12/15/2006 7:06:37 PM
I do not think he is being a coward as such. He is playing games and you and other are letting him. He leaves and you let him back. He is not running he is walking from you to another them back to you and then of to another. and you and others are allowing him.

mh5bl

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What countries have you lived in? Posted: 12/15/2006 6:47:22 PM
Well born in the UK but family more for work all over the world as a child, and I got the travel bug so continued... here is list I lived in for over a year:- England Spain Germany Cyprus USA I visited/lived for over 3 month:- Ireland Portugal France Belgium Netherlands Poland Czech Republic Austria Denmark Finland Estonia Russia Morocco Algeria Uganda Kenya Mauritius Canada Belize Venezuela Brazil do not thing I miss any, But I still got plenty of place I still wish to vist.... But now is sunny Manchester

mh5bl

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Something nice/genuine about the opposite sex Posted: 12/15/2006 6:17:48 PM
Well Willow, I thinks there things are true for many people boys and girls. But the problem with people is there remember the bad thinks more than the good. It is just human nature. But thanks for reminding us of the good ones.

mh5bl

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Discipline then and now.. Posted: 12/15/2006 6:01:25 PM
I do not have any children. But as I child I have the wooden spoon from my mother. I was the elides son, of five. At school I got the Kane. My father ever hit me. My younger brother and sister did not get the wooden spoon after my mother broke it on my bottom LOL and they band the Kane at school. I though both ways work if done right.

mh5bl

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what do you want??? Posted: 12/15/2006 5:31:06 PM
children so that I would live on. only thing I am missing

mh5bl

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violent porn Posted: 12/15/2006 5:21:07 PM
This is a classic west back lash to SEX. The hole law is about sex or anti sex. A now small group (getting small, but shouting loud) trying to stop the porn industrial one step at a time, in the case starting with violent porn. This porn is not real it is play action. just like all the violent main stream Hollywood films. There are using the augment that viewing this type of thing, makes people violent sex attackers. This is stupid and not true. This is simple censorship, and I am not for it.

mh5bl

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Husband and wife Posted: 12/15/2006 5:00:20 PM
This site is not just for dating it is also for meeting friend and chatting. If you went to a pub/club and meet someone there, then got married you would not stop going to that pub/club would you? All your Friend would still be going there...

mh5bl

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Just to let men know Posted: 12/14/2006 6:03:03 PM
Quote Message 11 there are some women who physically can't have orgasm's All woman can have a orgasm. They just need to find out what turn then on and gives them one. Fake it, is not going to help them find out. The man is not going to try any else if he things he is doing it right.

mh5bl

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OK.. What is wrong with my profile!! Posted: 12/14/2006 5:07:56 PM
Some good idea posted, Thanks. To answer some of your commands:- Yes maybe the sex as a interested put people off, so it is gone. I have put self-employed because I am. Would 'Company Director' or 'Property Developer' maybe 'Business Owner' be better? I build housing developments but I would not what to put this or explain what I do. What I do could not matter and would I not just end up with a load of gold diggers?? Not telling is the only way to stop then. On emailing I read the person profile before mailing, not much point in mass email or is there? But I do send out many email maybe on average one a day since I have join. That is at least 400 or more email since joining. so NOT a good hit rate. I do post to the forums. but I will do this more. good idea. On the personality and nature this seem a good idea I will work on this. Thanks again Mark

mh5bl

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OK.. What is wrong with my profile!! Posted: 12/14/2006 11:35:12 AM
Thanks for the comments. I agree the picture are not that great, so I will try and get some better ones. But I thought that looks where not important. Many of the people I message even say this in there profile. but OK I will get new one. To my emails, I do get specific and try and comment on things that we many have is common, things we are both interested in as-well. but still not getting any replies. I have had more people answer is forum post than I have message me since I joined this site. I have been on the site over a year and only got two reply to emails and not one person contacting me.. Is that normal???? Mark

mh5bl

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OK.. What is wrong with my profile!! Posted: 12/14/2006 5:32:15 AM
OK I have update my profile, and it have been 3 weeks. But it still is not getting any interested. I have had a couple of reply to mails I have sent out, which is better then the no reply I got before the profile update. But I think these were just reply for people that are nice enough to reply when someone sends them a message, but do not think there are interested. I have also attended a local meet run from this site with no luck. Maybe it is the email I am sending out, as I thinks the profile is OK now. I alway read the person profile before sending them a message and tell them about myself as well as ask questions. and comment on any interested we share. but not getting the reply. what do you alot think I am doing wrong?

mh5bl

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should prostitution be a legal business in the uk Posted: 12/13/2006 6:30:33 PM
Quick and simple answer is YES.

mh5bl

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Manc post- partyum .... pics and your reviews here Posted: 12/11/2006 10:41:41 AM
I had a good time Saturday. Sorry if I miss you.. hope to meet you at the next one. Hi, again to everyone I meet. Mark

mh5bl

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fathers doing their part Posted: 12/5/2006 7:53:10 PM
educate people better, teach them that having a child is best when you are in a very settled relationship, dont have kids till you can afford them. I agree with L.A.1974 . educate and do not have kid if you can not pay for then.. About the two day off well people do have two day off it is called Saturday and Sunday... and If you have children you have to give up time and money. If you wish to have kid you can not have you cake and eat it..

mh5bl

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The Richest 2% Own More than Half of Global Wealth, Poorest Half own less than 1% Posted: 12/5/2006 7:26:51 PM
Read your history. these % are better than they have every been in the past.

mh5bl

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Moonbase Posted: 12/5/2006 7:22:15 PM
I reply to merkin comments, If we had spent money on saving the poor in the past and now. Instead of moving technology along then we would still be living in cave. There will alway be people that money could be spent on, instead of technology. There are many technology that do not save live, IE IVF plastic surgery, TV, MP3, Internet, car, phone, plane and many other. there is no need for any of there. But ha people here in the west think they is. Maybe if every one here is the west give money to the poor instead of buying there thing for Christmas, it would help the poor. This would be the same as the government doing it any way. and change alway start at home. Another point, which may sound harsh but ha. If we save all these people for dieing, the earth population would grow so fast that we would need more space for them to live and more food to feed them. Maybe we need to kill more people not save them or maybe the Moon and Mars can be a place for them to go. China is already stopping it population for grow by limiting child birth. myself I am more concerned about the other animal and plant that we are killing so the human population can grow.

mh5bl

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Is It Cheating If Its Only Online???? Posted: 12/5/2006 8:30:34 AM
If you are hiding or deceiving your partner.. you are cheating... simple as that!

mh5bl

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MANCHESTER CHRISTMAS PARTY DEC 9th Posted: 12/4/2006 3:26:54 PM
Hi Looking forward to the meet. only 5 day to go. See you all there. Mark

mh5bl

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What is fair to expect financially, when your girlfriend moves in? Posted: 12/3/2006 3:26:47 PM
I see that a lot of the post talk about girlfriends with children. Are these mums not getting any money for the fathers of these children? Is this not what the money is for? feeding, clothing, housing etc... Having children is not a excuse for not paying you way..

mh5bl

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Topless girls Posted: 11/26/2006 9:10:44 AM
You can see topless girl on the front of magazine, in every shop you go to and not just the man magazine. There are in film and on the TV too and not just the 18 rated once. So I can not see the problem.

mh5bl

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OK.. What is wrong with my profile!! Posted: 11/23/2006 8:14:23 PM
OK I have made some more changes and I am getting some new pics. But to elaborate at the talk about, I was thinks of adding this list of place I have been. check it out . Do you think it is to much? Here is a list of countries I be to, along with through on them I lived in:- England - Home sweet home Spain - Siesta Germany - being there went the Berlin Wall come down Cyprus - Being able to ski in the morning and in the afternoon swim in the sea USA - I mini world, in a country I visited:- Ireland - Guinness and music Portugal - Great sail and windsurfing France - good cheep wine Belgium - good cheep beer Netherlands - Water and flowers (ok and the drugs and sex) Poland - Classic old East European country Czech Republic - The architecture. (Very beautiful country) Austria - Great ski and mountain views Denmark - Wonderful, wonderful Copenhagen Finland - The north light Estonia - The country cold and the girl and hot hot hot Russia - The underground (amazing, the gold leaf is every where) Morocco - Eating sheep eye or was it the live bugs Algeria - Sand duns and heat in the Sahara Desert Uganda - Climbing Mount Elgon (a volcano) Kenya - Being in the countries when they start a civil war Mauritius - The view over the India ocean Canada - The Forrest (so may tree) Belize - The Jungle (even more tree) Venezuela - Angel Fall (the high waterfall in the world) Brazil - Rio de Janeiro (what a city)

mh5bl

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Breastfeeding on a plane. Posted: 11/23/2006 4:29:19 PM
I get uncomfortable with people get uncomfortable with breastfeeding can i get them of a plane. There is alway someone that is geting uncomfortable with something.

mh5bl

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OK.. What is wrong with my profile!! Posted: 11/22/2006 3:12:04 PM
Right I have make a number of changes to the profile I will get so better pic and upload them. any commons on the update welcome. But I will keep working on it... Mark

mh5bl

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OK.. What is wrong with my profile!! Posted: 11/22/2006 1:47:21 PM
Right, I think I needing a profile review. I have been on this site for a while now, But not having any luck. I do not get any email sent to me for girls Search on the site. I do search myself, Sending mails to people I think will be interested in me and/or I am interested in. This does not seem to work very well ether. So give me brutal Criticism, because I am obviously not doing very much or any thing right. Thanks for any help ahead of time. Mark

mh5bl

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MANCHESTER CHRISTMAS PARTY DEC 9th Posted: 11/21/2006 6:25:40 PM
Been offline for some time now but I will still be coming to the meet. can't wait. I went to the Bolton meet and had a great time.

mh5bl

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Off Sick and feeling guilty Posted: 9/25/2006 11:42:26 AM
I do feel guilty as I am not sick and having a sick day.... LOL

mh5bl

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Another STD question Posted: 9/25/2006 11:01:51 AM
Yes I would tell them. I always use protection but I have still got an STD, before and so told. But I also have a STD test done regular so that I will catch any problem early and so I do not have any long term problem. I think if you have different partners then get tested it is FREE and you can be shore you do not have any thing to pass on. If every one did this there would not be an STD problem.

mh5bl

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BOLTON MEET,16 SEPTEMBER 06 8PM Posted: 9/17/2006 3:42:49 PM
Hello All. Thanks Jules, great meet. I have a great time last night and met some great people. Hope to see you all at the next one. about the problem with finding it. I had no problem fining the place as all the information was on this post, along with phone numbers. READ THE FORUM

mh5bl

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Party Night in Manchester for Singles Posted: 9/15/2006 1:04:43 PM
I would be interested in going to this night out. I am going to the Bolton meet this Saturday. Mark

mh5bl

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I am dating a man who has a girlfriend HELP!!! Posted: 7/25/2006 11:43:42 AM
Tell the other girl that he is seeing you as I bet she done not like being played and then when he comes running to you dump him. He is a player and you are being player. and naughty you, as you could know you are being player. This is why man can be player as woman let then. If it way you with two boyfriend do you thing he would hang around???

mh5bl

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can a cheater change? Posted: 6/6/2006 11:16:16 AM
NO Once a cheater, always a cheater.

mh5bl

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Snitching on married men Posted: 6/6/2006 11:05:44 AM
Just to add it is not just men but also women how cheat. I would not go out of my to grass-up a cheater but I would tell if I new how to tell. I would wish to be told if my partner was cheater on me. ( just need to find one now LOL ) There is NO excuse of cheating. whether you married or just dating. If there is a problem with your relationship talk about it, and end it if that is what is needed. If your partner knows and you have a open relationship well this is OK.

mh5bl

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Your idea of heaven Posted: 5/13/2006 4:16:20 PM
There is no heaven you just die and that is it..

mh5bl

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HARD-ONs are deadly Posted: 5/13/2006 4:11:32 PM
some drug are legal and yes these drug kill. cig & alcohol are also drug along the coffie and Tea. If you think that alcohol is safe you are wrong many young people are kill every year by alchol poisoning then what you call hard drugs. the smoking of pot can lead to hard drug but this can be said about any drug including cigs and alcohol below are some figures. all drug are damagers if miss used. Look at the figures MORE death by Viagra then Ecstasy every year, Drug deaths: 1994 1996 Methadone 259 357 Heroin 90 187 Temazepan 195 95 Amphetamin 20 29 Cocaine/Crack 21 15 Ecstasy 23 12 Cannabis (more details) 12 4 LSD 1 0 UK drug death figures: deaths per annum Alcohol[1] 4235 Tobacco[1] 120,000 The Herb[1,2] 1 LSD[1] 0 Peanuts[3] 7 Viagra[3] 7 Ecstasy[1] 4 The Office for National Statistics data revealed deaths in England and Wales rose by from 5,525 in 2000 to 6,544 in 2004 - an 18.4% increase long term deaths 5% of all deaths from diseases of the circulatory system are attributed to alcohol. 15% of all deaths from diseases of the respiratory system are attributed to alcohol. 30% of all deaths from accidents caused by fire and flames are attributed to alcohol. 30% of all accidental drownings are attributed to alcohol. 30% of all suicides are attributed to alcohol. 40% of all deaths due to accidental falls are attributed to alcohol. 45% of all deaths in automobile accidents are attributed to alcohol. 60% of all homicides are attributed to alcohol.

mh5bl

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North west meeting. Posted: 5/11/2006 6:11:09 PM
Yes I would be intrested is a meeting in manchester just move there and love to meet up. the more the better.

mh5bl

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Prefer Not to Say?? Posted: 5/11/2006 5:59:35 PM
What they mean is Yes. but I do not wish to scare men off or lie as they will fined out in the end.

mh5bl

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to say, or not to say.. Posted: 5/11/2006 11:39:46 AM
How is paying for the wedding? the brides father? The mum on the coach if old enoght to talk for her self. what does she thing. Is she happy with the arangments? If the money is a problem say so...

mh5bl

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If women ruled the World ? Posted: 5/10/2006 9:22:50 PM
Well I am fine with woman doing all the work. I can stay at home and watch TV and talk to friend. sitting around waiting for the wife to come home and then when they come home late for work complaining. Then make them work some more , by saying do the cooking and cleaning or there is no sex this month. Then when I had enough I can get divorce and get half your money and your house and your children. You can then spend more time at work so that you can pay me more money. Joking I think... The facts are some men are shits and have not brains, but some women are shits with no brains too. Man and woman are meant to be equal but this is not possible. One person is not equal to another. As one person can do thing that other can not. This is not equal. Examples are :- Women live longer than man. Man and stronger than women. But there are always exceptions to this. Some women are strong. Some men have long lives. So if women ruled the world there would still be problem, just difference problems. Jobs could go to the best person for the job if that is a woman or a man.

mh5bl

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Speedos. Posted: 5/10/2006 8:05:48 PM
Well. If we are going to banned fat man from wearing Speedos, then why not banned all fat people (man and woman) for wear swimwear. and if the sign of fat people is such an affiance to you maybe make no go area for fat people. maybe put a fence up and make all the attractive people where thong and speedo on one side and fat people is long cloth on the other. the question is witch side of the fence will you be on???

mh5bl

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Puzzles Posted: 10/13/2005 9:41:26 PM
Q 3 by first freezing the water in the jugs

mh5bl

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patiently-waiting Posted: 10/13/2005 4:46:25 PM
Your last two post are right on the money, I feel.. I would have to agree, the lady have unrealistic expectations and often contradict them self with lines like "looking for someone sensitive and manly" ????

mh5bl

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Why do women wear makeup? Posted: 10/13/2005 8:17:34 AM
I Love freckles to they are very sexy

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