I've noticed A LOT of women on here put " white men only". Have most of you here had a bad experience dating black men or are you just racist ?

I just write to inform you that a Check of $1,980 will be issued in your Names and will be sent to your address on Tuesday. I will email you as soon as i have the tracking details from our Clients, this is what you will do, as soon as you get the check get it deposit into your bank account immediately

I travel a lot and get my hands occupied because am working with many companies in the states and outside,

This is very controlling behavior. Something that will mess up your relationships forever until you get it fixed. Trust me! Work with the therapist on this.

We've been going out for a couple of months and we've spent a lot of time together and we communicate a lot everyday.

but is it possible to be friends...with no 'sprinkles'?

he told me he likes kissing me • he likes certain physical traits I have • he was all over me on the dance floor, sang my songs with me • propositioned me the other night to go home with him • wanted to see me after a concert i attended without him • snuggled with me on his birthday • told me that I am the only person he wants to sleep with •

But, I'm envious of you abmccray, you get 50-100 emails in a month... I may have gotten 20 in the year I've been on here. LOL!

Oh well, hes loss.

But next time,please thank the guy a lot sooner rather than wait for him to contact you.
In the follow-up thank you (the next day) it's easy to arrange another date if you're both interested.

I think men and women would be better off if men, especially, stopped believing the hype that men are always horny, ready and willing - well, at least past the age of 25. :)

Thank you! That is exactly what I was thinking... Cheap, no imagination. I'd have been more receptive to a walk in the park with a bottle of water than a ... gag.. happy meal.

No, haven't had a FWB arrangement. I must say you make it sound quite appealing.

Is this another one of those threads where everyone attacks the poster.

First: it is NOT married/unmarried. Many many states/countries have provisions for *permanent* separation, and both sides are allowed to date and live their own lives without interference by the "spouse". . . . Once one half (at least) of a marriage sez it's over, the vows become null. The rest is legal maneuvering.

I KNOW but you told me I had to bring my own beer. I'm still outraged.

Which brings me to this. I would bet if the OP would've gotten a handy or bj, this wouldn't have been a thread. I wonder if he would have said "thank you". I mean, it's only good manners.

I NEVER drink alcohol on a meet up OR on the first few dates. Clouds judgement.

Speak on the phone and hear his voice and try to get him to video. If he is reluctant to do that, red flags.

Another thing I've noticed that the people who say they are only here for the forums have been here a LONG time. They are veterans, right?

"Yeah, but a bill like this is no big deal to me. If you pay your share and run short, your kids will have to do without. I couldn't do that to them. "

So my question is this. Is there anything that you can suggest that I can do to get over this "resistance" to all things romantic (that doesn't involve drinking goat's blood or using voodoo dolls)?

and that if he met me in person he wouldnt approach me O_o

I know people can be complicated but damn! why is is so difficult for shy guys to atleast carry a conversation with a girl they like?

I feel that if you are a grown man that is too shy to talk to a girl then you're not man enough for me,

As soon as I notice a guy is "too shy" I feel like I should just dismiss him, is that bad?

I also cant accept that a man is willing to let a woman he fancies walk by because of a small fear.

Stop putting women on such a high pedestal we're just women you wont be condemned to death by talking to us sorry to be harsh but grow a pair.

Rule number 1: No such thing as "just friends" between a man and a woman where at least one is sexually attracted to the other.

Can you say I am not good dating material because of {insert flaws}

Now, with knowing very little about her, I get constant phone calls. I don't think this is someone I am compatible with from the conversations.

OP, he's not a "great guy." He doesn't give a rat's ass about your feelings. He knows you don't like him hanging out with his ex, yet he continues to do it. Obviously, your fears and concerns are a low, low priority to him.

I am more concerned about their emotional connection. In my opinion, emotional intimacy could be worse than physical intimacy.

Is it normal for my boyfriend to hang out with his ex wife sometimes? I met her & she was very nice. She actually told me not to worry about her because their marriage was over years before he moved out of their house.

If we REALLY wanted to, we could date the first person who contacts us here because you have one thing in common. You are both single.

However, we look at a picture, read a few words and then make snap judgments on those things.

When we do contact each other, we are judged the same way.

No wonder why some of us are bitter because we do make contact and then we are judged “unworthy” by someone who doesn’t want to get to know us.

Cause we are all awesome right? (more sarcasm)

Ok so I want to snuggle.....then cuddle.....then go nite nite.
Anyone care to join me?? :)

Why gender bash??

Dated a man who insisted on paying for everything, bought me things, did things for me. Eventually I asked him to stop because all I ever heard was "I bought this for you", "I did this for you".

I've been Pagan most of my life.... I'm a published author of Pagan writings... and celebrate Pagan holidays! Why is this not a choice for me in the list?

A case in which an Asian customer of CVS is suing the chain (for $1 million) because a 'racially insenstive' term was scribbled on her photo envelope by a CVS clerk, when she went to pick up her pix.

Therefore, I am thinking about purchasing a 40 inch TV and keeping it at her place under the one condition that if we break up it is mine and comes with me.

Yes; myself I joined 9/2/2009.
As for yourself, just look to the left of your post, and there it is under your photo.

3. He told me the day of our date, "don't forget my kiss when I see you tonight".

4.Before the date he told me after looking at my full body pics, he couldn't believe how "hard" I got him.

6. Prior to the meeting, he kept saying that he couldn't wait to touch me and hold me in his arms.

7. The morning after our date, he sends me a text of his erect penis (through his boxers), stating that he woke up with "something bulging".

8. While on the date, he mentioned to me that he had been recently diagnosed with a sleep disorder, when I asked him if he snored, he said he did and asked " so does that mean we're not going to sleep together?" I just laughed it off thinking he was joking.

I must mention, that he did ask lots of questions about my ex and whether I still had feelings for him, as I mentioned to him while we were talking on the phone that I had seen him recently. He then asked me if I had slept with him, (which I admitted to since we agreed to not lie). I told him that I had slept with my ex out of sheer impulse while he was at the house that we used to share completing some contracting work. I hadn't had intimacy in 7 months, but I told him and also the my new friend that it wouldn't happen again. So when we finally went on our date, he had lots of questions about whether I missed my ex. I told him that I miss being in a relationship/marriage, but I did not miss him per se. He said that he felt that because my ex had done so much for me (he owns a successful construction business), that I was fearful of not having that security. I told him that this is not true, and I am indeed ready to move on now. I'm not sure if this played into things going down hill.