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Thread: Abstinent dating, does it exist anymore?
racermatt
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Abstinent dating, does it exist anymore?
Posted:
8/3/2009 9:48:54 PM
If your not compatible with someone sexually the relationship will never last, and who wants it to for that matter?
Sex is an important part, especially as we get older and want alot of it and good sex...
so although you don't want to sleep with someone right away, if you wait to long, it could be a horrible let down. You should go with your instinct on that...and if the urge is there, follow it.
I'm glad you said "older" and not "old"... we're not old, we're just more experienced LOL
racermatt
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Loners - what gives ?
Posted:
8/3/2009 9:41:22 PM
You're being judgemental. I am 45, never been married, no kids, however I have lived with someone, I have come close to getting married, I have lived and I have loved. Why I am single by choice is a long and sordid and ugly story. I won't say I will never get married or live with someone or love again, but when you have been through what I have been through you would understand.
racermatt
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Penis size vs Breast size
Posted:
8/2/2009 12:48:17 PM
I don't think it's a fair comparison.
The size of a woman's breasts are usually part of the first impression that a man has. He doesn't know her name, age or whatever. But a man's penis size is usually not known until there's some physical action going on, which means for most women, that there's already an emotional connection.
So, I think it's comparing apples to oranges.
Thank you. Very well said.
racermatt
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when the sex is over is it wrong to want to leave
Posted:
8/2/2009 12:46:54 PM
Sounds like a lack of communication... one or the other may or may not be able to stay all night, and could/would/should make that clear before doing the horizontal bop. To just "bang and run" is rude and inconsiderate for either party to do.
racermatt
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foot fetish
Posted:
8/2/2009 12:31:39 PM
to each his own, but would rather have someones lips on my mouth or other places...not my feet.
*HIGH FIVE*
Thank you... I'll go as far as rubbing or massaging a lady's foot, but anything after that, no thank you, just not my cup o' tea.
racermatt
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Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted:
8/2/2009 12:25:21 PM
Porn, to me, is absolutely worthless. I feel the same way about pics, videos, or any other kind of "porn"... if I want to see a nekkid woman, I want to see her with my own eyes, and touch her with my own hands. What good is a pic of a nekkid woman? Yeah, OK she's hot, but it does nothing for me. And why on earth would I want to see someone ELSE making love to a hot woman and not ME?????
I can do without porn. Give me the real thing any day.
racermatt
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Do women ask for or like getting a picture of a man's penis?
Posted:
7/31/2009 7:02:56 PM
I would rather introduce her to it in person..... that way she carries a mental picture of it from that moment on. Same reason why I would rather see her "goods" in person... I can't touch and enjoy a picture.
racermatt
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What do women think when a guy comes too quickly?
Posted:
7/29/2009 1:50:15 PM
^^^^^ Chad...don't hold back, tell us how you REALLY feel...LMAO
What I don't get is why there is all this griping about men cumming too soon... if a guy is turned on by the woman he is naturally going to be ready to blast one off. But what about the 2nd, 3rd, 4th or 5th one? Sounds like these ladies need to find a man with some stamina and the ability to blast off more than just once.
racermatt
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Deodorant, perfume and cologne: Do we really need 'em?
Posted:
7/28/2009 10:02:50 PM
What one choses to do with their body is their business. For me personally, the NOSE KNOWS, and a man with a stale smell is an instant turn-off. Unless of course he is fresh out of the gym looking all pumped up and sweaty. Hell of a turn-on. Otherwise put on some smell good and spread on that deodorant. I don't want a guy having his arm all around me in the movies with stinky ass pits b/c he choses to revert back to rural times. The right cologne is hell of a turn on, as long as its not over powering but used in moderation. I find body odor offensive at times. Especially when i can smell a girls rotten kitty through her pants. Why not utilize the perks of modern day society. They make femine deodorant spray and special wash for that kitty. Now passing gas is one thing. Atleast the smell clears. . Anyway, usually at times i like to be a nonconformist, but when it comes to this topic, i'm all for the deodorant and cologne.
OMFG I am rolling on the floor over here... LMFAO
racermatt
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Deodorant, perfume and cologne: Do we really need 'em?
Posted:
7/28/2009 9:10:39 PM
OMG.... who would want to crawl up in the sack with someone who doesn't smell good, or even worse has BO??? Yuck!!!
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racermatt
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Why would a guy leave the first and last encounter with me a two second explosion?
Posted:
7/28/2009 6:17:54 PM
I don't know who is giving you head, but generally I have to pick one or the other until enough time has passed to "give it another go".
Maybe I should have been more specific...maybe she should have induced an orgasm via a BJ first...then wait until enough time has passed to "give it another go"
racermatt
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The Four favourite questions guys love to ask....
Posted:
7/28/2009 6:02:24 PM
I have NEVER asked any such questions in an email to anyone on POF...EVER. No matter how provacative their profile or pics might be, it's just personal opinion that if you're looking for anything positive or serious, questions like that are tantamount to shooting yourself in the foot. JMHO.
racermatt
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Why is no head an automatic turn off for guys
Posted:
7/28/2009 5:56:55 PM
I would say it's the first head they think with... Also, isn't the most powerful position a women can be in is on her knees in front of a man?...
That depends on the man. I prefer looking at them eye to eye.
racermatt
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What is the best food or drink for your sex drive?
Posted:
7/28/2009 5:39:02 PM
Who needs food or drink??? As long as the sun comes up I am good to go.
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racermatt
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does size matter? my un-scientific observations
Posted:
7/28/2009 5:14:40 PM
If you do your research..as in THREAD SEARCH damassteel... you'll learn that size DOES matter to the average woman. There really IS something known as TOO SMALL... and there IS something known as TOO LARGE... wow.. imagine that.. I would think it's pretty much the same idea that men have ...
FINALLY.......... a sensible post on the subject. Isn't there some old saying about "he who brags"? LOL
racermatt
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Why would a guy leave the first and last encounter with me a two second explosion?
Posted:
7/28/2009 2:21:01 PM
Holy crap the OP is 22 and 6 foot tall?
DAYUMMMMM
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racermatt
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The Four favourite questions guys love to ask....
Posted:
7/28/2009 10:22:24 AM
Hmmmmmmmm,
Maybe it's just me, but the first four questions I asked most recently when I met someone here:
Are you married?
Are you separated?
Are you 100% single?
What are you looking for?
I don't care about the answers to the "other questions" unless she's being honest about my first four questions.
racermatt
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what's your perfect man/woman?
Posted:
7/27/2009 3:08:59 PM
A woman who is honest with me and herself about the past, present, and future.
A woman who enjoys loving and being loved.
A woman who means it when she says "I love you".
A woman who doesn't say "I just need some space" so she can go bang her ex.
A woman who loves me for me, and not what she can get from me.
racermatt
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What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted:
7/27/2009 2:51:46 PM
A sure fire way to make the sex last longer...try swallowing the first two loads... then when the time comes for the horizontal bop it will last much longer...
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racermatt
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I don't think anyone has enjoyed the 69 position since 1969.
Posted:
7/25/2009 10:46:44 AM
Yet another CLASSIC thread from the POF forums... entertaining, enlightening, and downright hilarious.
And yes, it is an all time favorite of mine...from any and all angles.
To me, there is nothing better.
racermatt
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Mature women want only companionship?
Posted:
7/24/2009 2:04:55 PM
In other words, married women are trouble.
That right there, is the absolute gospel.... you will NOT find any words with more truth anywhere in the world.
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racermatt
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Nipples!
Posted:
7/24/2009 1:51:27 PM
OMG! Stop all this nipple talk! I'm getting all hot and bothered just thinking about it. Have mercy people!
Sorry, there will be no changing of the subject...
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racermatt
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BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT????
Posted:
7/24/2009 1:45:50 PM
Definite limits and keywords must be set and agreed upon before any couple enters into bondage play.
Keywords? You're doing Google searches while you're tied up? Now THAT is kinky...
racermatt
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Why is no head an automatic turn off for guys
Posted:
7/24/2009 1:40:21 PM
This thread has been an absolute riot to read. My sides hurt from laughing... Oh I'm cryin over here LMFAO
It's threads like this that make this forum what it is...
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racermatt
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Celebrity one-nighter
Posted:
7/24/2009 10:34:22 AM
Oh that's easy. Hands down, from a very short list.... Eva Longoria.
There are others on the list, but she's on top... only problem is she ran off on me and married some basketball player.....
racermatt
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small breast appreciation
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12/27/2008 6:31:57 PM
Oh I guess I should just go crawl in bed and never get out because I was blessed with a bigger chest...........NOT.
Good gosh people........Boobs are fricking boobs. Brains don't come in boobs, I don't think personality starts inside the boobs so what difference does it make if they are big or small. Seriously, I have a large chest and have never had any man tell me that he doesn't want to date me because I am a 36DD after a reduction..........nope not in 36yrs.
I won't be the first one either
racermatt
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Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted:
12/26/2008 11:08:03 AM
I'm not trying to bust your balls or anything...........but I don't think a man that is here for just sex..........and maybe friendship after you have sex should be the slut authorities. Not that I think there is anything wrong with what you are searching............just the way that you are judging others.
Slut is such an ugly word, kinda like the word "perv"
racermatt
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Red flag?
Posted:
12/15/2008 11:24:16 AM
Hell, there are some beautiful classes women on this site that have partial cleavage shots in their profiles
There is? Where?
racermatt
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LAST SEX EVER..B4 U DIE
Posted:
12/14/2008 3:31:52 PM
Since we're dying and all....I'd do Halle too!
I'd like to amend my answer to say I'd like to watch that
racermatt
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How do you obtain a Fuck buddy
Posted:
12/14/2008 12:53:45 PM
Hell, I even have a F buddy.............his name is "BOB" (battery operated boyfriend)
I've been wondering where my thermos went.
racermatt
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Is this dating site to find love or sex?????????
Posted:
12/14/2008 12:42:09 PM
Racermatt............was that a serious post?
I do have a serious side. It's not just about being well hung and great in bed. If you had not been in such a hurry to click delete and actually read my email you would have known that.
racermatt
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LAST SEX EVER..B4 U DIE
Posted:
12/14/2008 12:37:54 PM
The Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders.
If that was out of the question, Eva Longoria.
And if she couldn't get away from Tony Parker, there are 3 members of POF who are at the top of my list... you know who you are
racermatt
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How long for cunnilingus?
Posted:
12/14/2008 12:30:18 PM
Who the hell times it?
The women I do it to, but only because they realize they are late for work.
racermatt
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Is this dating site to find love or sex?????????
Posted:
12/14/2008 12:28:01 PM
Lets face it... be real... I doubt anyone really knows what they are looking for when they sign up here. So they are single (or not LOL) and they sign up on a dating site, and they start looking around. Sure, they may THINK they are looking for the man or woman of their dreams, the one who can be their soulmate and will bang them like a screen door in a hurricane. Then they see a pic that catches their eye, they read a long ass profile and they realize, wow, we have alot in common and we have alot of the same interests. We're even the same birth sign. So they click the message button and send a well thought out, sincere message greeting that person, introducing themselves and pointing out all the common interests they have. Then when they look in their sent messages, it says "read/deleted" And after it happens several times it not only changes what they are looking for, but it makes them wonder about the quality of people on the site.
racermatt
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted:
12/14/2008 11:08:11 AM
racermatt~ you are such a perv....
I resemble that remark. But it doesn't make me a bad person.
racermatt
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How long for cunnilingus?
Posted:
12/14/2008 10:57:10 AM
I don't really look at the clock... but I'm not gonna just lick it a few times and leave it. I LIKE doing it, I crave it, and yes I'm good at it. As long as her clit is swollen and glistening I'm not coming up any time soon. I figure I've been down there long enough when she's pulling on my ears, screaming so loud the neighbors can hear her, and going into convulsions on the end of my tongue. Then I might come up long enough to ask her if she's OK.
racermatt
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted:
12/14/2008 10:40:56 AM
An instant turn on for me is a woman in a robe... with a "come hither" look in her eye
racermatt
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Is this dating site to find love or sex?????????
Posted:
12/14/2008 10:37:16 AM
I'm still trying to figure out exactly what this site is for, other than a few LOL's here on the forums.
racermatt
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girls with high sex drive
Posted:
12/13/2008 8:34:10 PM
Dear Santa, please bring me a woman with a high sex drive. I have been a good boy this year, but I would love to be naughty.
racermatt
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Practicing Celibacy am I alone!
Posted:
12/13/2008 12:47:38 PM
Wait a minute.... Does masturbation count?
If masturbation counts I'm a slut. If it doesn't, I'm celibate.
racermatt
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Why do so few women seek only sex??
Posted:
12/12/2008 3:21:45 PM
It's really quite simple........
They got half the money and all the pu$$y.
It's a weapon. They use it. Because they can. They got it made.
racermatt
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Guy holding out for sex??
Posted:
12/11/2008 8:03:24 PM
but you can turn on the sex appeal and see if it sparks his interest!
What better way to turn on the sex appeal than grabbing his package? Unless he's gay he'll be dealing out the hot beef injection
racermatt
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Guy holding out for sex??
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12/11/2008 7:54:19 PM
Why don't you make the first move? If nothing happens after that then you'd need to analyze this further.
EXACTLY. Word up. Grab right a hold of his package and see what happens. It might be the best sex you've ever had, but you don't know till you try.
racermatt
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Women geting help for sex addiction
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12/11/2008 7:36:49 PM
So that's my problem? After all this time it's just a simple addiction? That explains why sex is like nicotine coated crack truffles! Who needs a therapist when we have the POF forums?
racermatt
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Easing a womans gag reflex...possible?
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12/11/2008 7:13:58 PM
Cuz some of us care to learn Matt!
I was a gagger in my younger years.....then I learned how to relax my throat muscles and no longer gag! (or rarely!)
One trick....act like your swallowing .....helps bring the penis into the throat a bit easier.....
You should hold seminars... you could be a "motivational speaker"
racermatt
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Easing a womans gag reflex...possible?
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12/11/2008 7:04:22 PM
I think it's a legit question...some women do seem to have a knack for it, some don't. Why is that?
racermatt
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Tattoos on the breasts
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12/11/2008 6:57:57 PM
Racermatt...............again you are such a perv.
racermatt
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Tattoos on the breasts
Posted:
12/11/2008 6:43:59 PM
because they gave me about 5 sizes to big of boobs for my frame
racermatt
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Sex vs. Making Love - How Often?
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12/11/2008 6:26:11 PM
Why choose one or the other? Just alternate between the two, every time, and you'll get the best of both worlds
Yeah... do one in the morning, another at lunchtime, another in the evening, and a little mix of both at night
racermatt
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
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12/11/2008 4:14:25 PM
Lori... to me age is only important if you're a wine or a cheese. It doesn't matter if she's younger or older, it's what's behind the robe that counts. Keeping a robe handy in case of a fire shows wisdom that a younger woman might not have. Plus, you never know what might get set on fire.
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