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pam43

Joined: 10/9/2005

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Female and Male Prayers Posted: 11/23/2005 7:55:59 PM
He forgot "mute" LOL

pam43

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funny blonde joke Posted: 11/23/2005 7:52:21 PM
To erskine69, "I don't care who you are, Thats funny!"

pam43

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Class action against Yahoo Personals and Match.com for fraud Posted: 11/20/2005 2:56:16 PM
I agree with the post that said that we need to tell everyone else about this dating site. I personally have had a lot more luck with Yahoo than with this site, but I think it's because a lot of people don't know about this site. I've met several nice men from Yahoo and when we discuss the personals and I mention POF they have never heard of it. I notice a lot of Canadians and NY people on this site. I have a very limited number of matches on this site and I feel it's just that not many guys in my area even know about it. Maybe there is something we can do about that. I wonder if I could get away with emailing everyone on Yahoo just to let them know about it. Hmmmm..... I do want to thank POF for this site and your forums, sincerely, Pam

pam43

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Class action against Yahoo Personals and Match.com for fraud Posted: 11/19/2005 9:23:03 PM
I think your wrong about the "all guys thing". I was offered a free trial for a site called 'true". I had to fill out a lot of info before it said how much it was once the free trial was over. It was rediculously expensive, so I quit right there, but they act like I'm a member. I've had more winks and guys wanting to meet me from that site , than pof and yahoo combined. I knew this had to be B.S. I never even finished filling it out and posted no picture. None of these respective men ever wrote an email. It was always flirts or winks. Of course they were doctors and lawyers as well. I think this is just so wrong! I'm not that desperate or lonely, but I guess there are people out there that would fall for this.

pam43

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Rude or informative? Posted: 11/17/2005 2:08:47 AM
sometimes that "look" is all it takes

pam43

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what are you trying to say in your profile????? what is your goal???? Posted: 11/8/2005 12:37:55 PM
This is directed to "jackson". I have to disagree with you, pictures are very important, but it isn't all we look at. People on here are always discussing the fact that we won't write back to a guy who is unattractive to us. So what! Who does? But do you realize how many guys are attractive, but ruin it by what they have to say. I've recieved emails from really good-looking guys that go like this " you r so hot i wint to put mi thig in yur moth. i no yu wont me tooo." What a waste of handsome that is!

pam43

Joined: 10/9/2005

Msg: 134 (view)

Why are men such jerks? Posted: 11/4/2005 2:37:29 PM
To "what do you think" I don't care who you are "THAT'S FUNNY!"

pam43

Joined: 10/9/2005

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Ladies 37 and up Posted: 11/2/2005 7:07:24 PM
Honestly I'm sure there are some decent guys on this site, but the only ones I've actually met were from yahoo. Maybe they are more serious if they have to pay to be on the site. Most of the ones from this site that have contacted me just fizzled out before we could meet or were total jerks to start with. I think that it is inevitable that a lot of men really think we are just needy, desperate woman or here just to play. But I'm unemployed at the moment so I have really enjoyed these forums, probably too much I've got dishes to wash!LOL

pam43

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Msg: 33 (view)

How do I make him fall in love with me? Posted: 11/2/2005 6:38:04 PM
...but I thought we were friends...I thought we were friends...I thought we were friends...

pam43

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Flirting at your best.... Posted: 11/2/2005 3:57:06 PM
I hope your Porche isn't "red"! LOL

pam43

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Older Women.. Posted: 11/2/2005 3:42:24 PM
I'll tell you exactly what it is... We don't sweat the small sh--!

pam43

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Who are your what if's?? Why? Posted: 11/2/2005 3:33:43 PM
It is the first guy I dated after becoming single again. I was also his first since his divorce. We both enjoyed each other a lot, maybe too much. I decided we both needed to date others as well and planned to tell him this on our next date. He was called into work and had to cancel the date. I called him the next morning and before I could say anything he said things were moving too fast and we should chill for awhile. He went to work out of town after that and I never got a chance to tell him. I know he was just scared, because I was too. "What if?"

pam43

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Why are men such jerks? Posted: 11/2/2005 3:18:57 PM
I have had a similar thing happen several times, thought of starting a forum for some input. Not with anyone I've actually met, but emailing back and forth then suddenly nothing. I usually write one more time in case they didn't realize it was thier turn, but then thats it. It doesn't really upset me, but it does kind of drive me crazy! I have to wonder... Did he take something I said the wrong way, is he really married and got caught, or was he in a terrible accident which prevented his response! I really would like to know why they quit communicating so suddenly.

pam43

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Flirting at your best.... Posted: 11/2/2005 12:13:06 PM
I had a friend with dark hair sitting up at the bar and I guy came up and asked her if she had any Italian in her , she said no, and he said " do you want some?" LOL

pam43

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What Do You Women Want!? Posted: 11/2/2005 11:44:50 AM
For instance: I had an email from a guy who said he wanted to get to know me. So I told him a little about myself and asked him to do the same. He did write some more about himself, but blew it when he once again wanted to know where I was working so he could come by, and ended the correspondence with LOVE, and his name. That was enough to creep me out. bye, bye now...

pam43

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Guys, what gives? Posted: 11/2/2005 11:23:35 AM
Well put "yendor65" , that is exactly what I was saying. If you make first contact say something. At least more than "HI". When someone emails me and only says "HI", then I write back "HI". Hell of a conversation starter huh?

pam43

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is it creepy to... Posted: 11/2/2005 1:11:39 AM
I've only been on this site for a few weeks and the same thing happens to me all the time. I don't know if they are too shy or what. I usually write them, but still don't hear from some of them. I don't mind at all. Hey if any of you guys want to put me on your favorites please feel free. It will make me look real popular and make the other guys wonder what they are missing! LOL

pam43

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Guys, what gives? Posted: 11/2/2005 12:24:36 AM
I understand exactly what your saying "stoneside", but it can get to be the same way in responding. It seems like the ones who don't actually say anything in thier message didn't say anything in their profile either. So how do you respond to nothing?

pam43

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What Do You Women Want!? Posted: 11/1/2005 7:06:01 PM
Don't ask to IM them in your first contact. Mail back and forth a couple of times first. She wants to see if you can relate to each other. It would take hours to IM little tid bits of information to find that out.

pam43

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why do women flirt in a sexual way and then front on the goods? Posted: 11/1/2005 7:00:08 PM
Would you rather she threw up on you?

pam43

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Facial hair Posted: 11/1/2005 6:26:56 PM
Your style looks just fine mojo, not a guys can get away with that style, makes them look either fat in the face or look like a perv. I don't mind facial hair as long as it is cropped short and well kept, doesn't hide half of a man's face and doesn't smell like what he ate for breakfast!!!LOL

pam43

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I have decided to not give a schit anymore! Posted: 11/1/2005 6:21:28 PM
Must be something in the water!

pam43

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Can somebody please help! Posted: 11/1/2005 6:14:47 PM
It would blow me away too and I'm 43 years old. Especially if you are new to this thing. I have been very lucky. I have met 4 guys(none from this site) personally and I really like three of the four I've met. The other wasn't a bad guy just has issues and is immature (done raising kids). Just don't get to excited and jump too fast. Make them communicate back and forth for awhile , even before the web cam thing! Don't let the Pervs scare you away, and stop crying and get mad!!

pam43

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Women 30+ Posted: 11/1/2005 2:45:13 PM
I liked the pig and sasauge part too, never heard that! I also like that commercial when the woman says " and for all you forty year old men that want to date women half your age ... WE DON'T MISS YOU!"

pam43

Joined: 10/9/2005

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What do women over 40 want? Posted: 11/1/2005 3:29:19 AM
We rarely go into the supermarket just to look over the tomatoes. You guys need to find out what the single ladies would like to do! Have a hay ride or something!

pam43

Joined: 10/9/2005

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what do i do? Posted: 11/1/2005 3:11:25 AM
If he is that adament about it something isn't right. Maybe he has something you don't want!

pam43

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Is 30 it? Posted: 11/1/2005 3:07:52 AM
Oh nooo, definetly not! Just give it a little time. I know you think they are all taken, but I ashure you all the forty year old men going through mid-life crisis will be getting divorced real soon!LOL

pam43

Joined: 10/9/2005

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amazing how everyone is so easy going and so divorced Posted: 10/31/2005 8:58:13 PM
I disagree, people don't change. It's that they don't show thier true colors until later. After they win you over. After your stuck with them. They flat out fool us! Duh?

pam43

Joined: 10/9/2005

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What's the funniest joke/prank you have ever played on anyone? Posted: 10/31/2005 3:48:36 PM
So your'e the one!LOL

pam43

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Location, Location, Location Posted: 10/31/2005 3:45:25 PM
Might be your actually lucky! I'm from a small town in Arkansas, only been in Hawaii for a couple of months. I didn't know about the personals then. I have found it to be the best way to meet decent guys. Used to do the bar thing. Now they have to talk to me for awhile before we make face to face contact. I met 4 guys and liked all but one. Its the best I've ever done. I can see where it would take you a lot longer to actually meet someone, but maybe when you do it will be real.

pam43

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Msg: 32 (view)

What's the funniest joke/prank you have ever played on anyone? Posted: 10/31/2005 3:22:12 PM
This is a true story... I had a live in that was a total bum. When he started messing with a girl from work(who was married) I told him he would have to go. Anyway he moved into a motel room. I noticed that he had tried to call me (caller I.D.).I called him back and she answered. She said he wasn't there and wanted to know who I was so I told her and she asked if I wanted to leave a message. So I asked who I would be leaving the message with and she got all sassy and said that I didn't need to know who she was! So I told her to tell him that the pharmacy called and said he needed to pick up his AZT prescription!LOL Well it was funny at the time!LOL

pam43

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Help I'm a POF forum addict! Posted: 10/31/2005 3:03:58 PM
That won't keep him from posting, just makes it uninteellliiggilbe!LOL

pam43

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Help I'm a POF forum addict! Posted: 10/31/2005 3:00:09 PM
I see you couldn't stay away either.

pam43

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Smothering Posted: 10/31/2005 2:20:51 PM
Good luck to you sg. Thanks guys for your input and thanks mrbrad for the forum , got to do something more constructive myself, good luck to you as well. Signing off!

pam43

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Smothering Posted: 10/31/2005 2:11:08 PM
hey misterbrad glad your back, I think your thinking exactly right for your situation. I think it will work well for you. The feeling is the same , but my situation is a little difference. Thats why appreciate the mens input on this. I think there are probably more desperate girls than guys. So I think men get scared off more easily unless they are desperate themselves. I dn't want to appear desperate. There is a fine line. Its very difficult to see it sometimes.

pam43

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Smothering Posted: 10/31/2005 2:05:04 PM
No, its not like that, I would have been satisfied dating just him, but I wasn't getting enough interaction. He was always the one that has something else to do. Besides I personally would rather be chosen out of a few rather than being the only one. You kind of have things out of perspective. The whole thing is I like him a lot and want him to know, don't want to be pushy ( part of his dislikes in his profile), but want to date more often. Does this help?

pam43

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Smothering Posted: 10/31/2005 1:51:39 PM
What happened to misterbrad, sorry guy didn't mean to steal your forum. I guess maybe we got a little input. The rabbit just wont die!LOL

pam43

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Smothering Posted: 10/31/2005 1:48:45 PM
LOL! Enter the twilight zone!LOL

pam43

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Smothering Posted: 10/31/2005 1:46:40 PM
I think your right Sg. I had already been thinking along those lines. I'll put the ball in his court. He knows that I'm dating other guys, so do you think that maybe if I email him jokes every now and then that would be enough to show interest, but not pursuit. If I just stop all contact he may think that I'm more interested in one of the others. What do you think?

pam43

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Smothering Posted: 10/31/2005 1:36:55 PM
You missed your own boat man! You weren't supposed to boil it until you got here! The freak effect would be totally lost. Hell, I would just think that you brought me dinner!LOL

pam43

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Location, Location, Location Posted: 10/31/2005 1:33:09 PM
I don't have your problem, but I get a lot of guys asking me out from N.Y.C. I live in Hawaii. Does this escape thier attention or what?

pam43

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Smothering Posted: 10/31/2005 1:26:49 PM
Ok we are getting off the subject. The bunny thing has gotten way out of hand. Go take the bunny back to the neighbor, I can't have that on my conscience!LOL

pam43

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Msg: 44 (view)

Smothering Posted: 10/31/2005 1:24:24 PM
Nothing! Absolutely nothing!

pam43

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Smothering Posted: 10/31/2005 1:18:40 PM
Right Sg, I'm afraid if I ask where I stand he will get that idea. We have only had three actual dates, but used to email back and forth a lot more. I don't want to get that close, don't even want mono. Just want to know how much he likes me!

pam43

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Smothering Posted: 10/31/2005 1:14:06 PM
Your right it does taste like chicken. We raised rabbits when I was growing up. But revokd69, its all dark meat!LOL

pam43

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Smothering Posted: 10/31/2005 1:10:36 PM
Yeah Stellasgroove, exactly. I can't tell if he is going too far to not be pushy, or not as interested, or just too busy! I don't bug him. Talk to him about once a week, usually end up with a date, but I just don't like having to make the first move. Makes me feel like its a sympothy date. I don't need that, I've got plenty of guys to go out with. I'm just confused and need some insight and input on the subject. What will he think if I come right out and ask him?

pam43

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Msg: 36 (view)

Smothering Posted: 10/31/2005 1:04:45 PM
Hey J to the D, be afraid, be very afraid!LOL

pam43

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Smothering Posted: 10/31/2005 12:56:15 PM
I wondered where you went. Wish I had a nickle for everytime I heard that one, then I could afford the ticket!LOL

pam43

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Msg: 32 (view)

Smothering Posted: 10/31/2005 12:53:05 PM
I guess maybe I should say that in his profile he isn't just looking for fun, he seems to be looking for "the one". If that makes any difference. And he is a very busy man too. Kind of makes me wonder why he even wanted to date. Oh he did make the initial contact to start this thing. It seems like he doesn't really have time. Which why I feel like he's dating others. I guess if there is nothing there for him, I just want to concentrate else where! Would have to like him the most darn it!LOL

pam43

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Msg: 30 (view)

Smothering Posted: 10/31/2005 12:42:10 PM
I understand what your saying. but I really can't tell this time. I know that he really likes me. I just can't tell how much. I'm dating two other guys too. I assume he is dating others as well. I just like him the best. He doesn't blow me off, he just doesn't make the first move. If he likes someone else more, and wants to stay friends thats cool, would just like to know. I know that I could just come out and ask, but by asking will he take that as being pushy. I wouldn't be that heartbroken, but he probably would think that. Wouldn't he wrongly think I'm desperate? Just would like to know where I stand or if I stand at all thats all.

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