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brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

Msg: 210 (view)

Oh, its to soon to have sex... yah, blah, blah, blaw Posted: 11/23/2009 4:30:36 AM
Im all for not having set in stone timetables, going with the flow-but if I am not feeling totally trusting, it aint happening. Some people take longer to get to know, some a shorter period of time-depends on the quality of time spent and how open two people are being with one another. I think it would be foolish for ayone to only go to bed with someone cause they fear losing him/her-if that is the underyling tone, it aint happening! If one of the two feel its too soon, its too soon.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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What we women do for a date.. Posted: 11/22/2009 5:11:47 AM
The things I do to make myself feel good are done regardless of a date on the horizon. I dont do anything before a date that I dont do any other day of the week.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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Dad or Jail? Posted: 11/22/2009 5:10:01 AM
When parents dont take control, this is what happens, the courts will take control. If parents cannot work together, even after the relationship between them disolves, for the best interest of thier children, the courts will step in and try to take control. My son chose to live fulltime with his dad for about two years. During this period of time the agreement was Id have dinner with my son every Wed, and he would sleep over every other weekend. There were times he would forget about our dinner date on Wednesday nights and make other plans. I let it go once. The second time, I showed up at his school for lunch the next day and during lunch I told him I never make plans for a Wednesday because spending time with him was more important, and Id appreciate it if he did not make other plans either. He never did after that. This family has big problems. Once my son saw the expression in my face, the saddness in my eyes about missing our dinner date, he 'got it'. For this young man to not care one whip about his fathers feelings says alot. My son is back with me fulltime again. I am glad he got to experience living with his Dad there is no longer any mystery about what it would be like, or anymore of the grass being greener on another side. All I know is if my son had ever chose to not see me, I would not have the court order enforced, if it was him telling me to my face he did not want to see me. If it were his Dad telling me, Id likely go to court to have the matter settled, but I would never advocate my son be sent to juvey for not wanting to see me. Doesnt the Dad, the one enforcing the court order have to ask the courts to enforce it for this sentence to happen? The courts can only enforce what one or both parents are making them enforce. They dont just go through an old file one day and say 'lets see if Jacob has been seeing his Dad'...'No?, well of to jail for Jacob'....the Father must be insisting this court order be enforced. I would be disgusted in any adult who would rather see thier child in juvey because the child told him face to face, he did not want to see him. There are better ways of dealing with your child. The relationship must be pretty bad if the father and son cannot speak face to face and come up with thier own solutions.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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Married woman becoming pregnant as the result of rape - does husband stay or leave Posted: 11/22/2009 4:10:29 AM
This is one of the crimes that just keeps on giving. What most women know already is if she is raped her man wont want her much anymore anyways, so whether or not she keeps the baby is not relavent-the hubby will leave eventually regardless, so she may as well make the choices that will heal herself independant of a mans feelings...because in the end he will leave anyway, and anything she did to keep him after the attack wont mean anything anyways. Personally, I dont think Id be having the baby, Id likely abort, or adopt it out. I dont like to be reminded of moments where I was victimized.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

Msg: 57 (view)

How to tell a woman to start paying for part of the date Posted: 11/20/2009 10:37:44 AM
These issues can be resolved by talking about it before you agree to go out together. I dont go anywhere with anyone unless I know what the arrangments are. I really dont understand what is so hard about telling someone what you expect. If you cannot do it, then you will always be let down. People who tell others what they expect find they get thier expectations met. Those that dont, wont. Pretty simple. Is it uncomfortable? Yes, it can be...but doing the correct thing is not always the comfortable route, at least in my experience. If a woman balks at the notion of paying during the planning stages, then you will know before you waste your time and money that you wont be compatible, which is a good thing! Say things like-you get the popcorn and soda, Ill buy the tickets-or-you bring the wine, Ill pack the chicken (for a picnic)-or-say outright 'I like to go dutch on dates'... There are lots of ways to say you want to go halfers without actually itemizing and****ring over it.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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I am heartbroken, women, please tell me what u think Posted: 11/20/2009 6:46:17 AM
Sometimes even if we care about someone, we 'just know' they are not the right fit for our lives, our families. She obviously feels something is not a good fit, and communicated it to you. It must be hard to admit such things- be grateful she didnt string you along longer than needed after she realized she felt this way. You both sound like good people, just not right for one another for the long haul. It happens. Hope you meet someone 'right'.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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Single Mums/Non-single mums. A mind-change??? Posted: 11/19/2009 3:46:27 PM
Then a few years down the line, they are a single mum and life isnt as beautiful as it used to be, they have seemed quite keen on me. Often apologetic saying I wish I gave you a chance years ago instead of getting with my ex. Lots of people regret choices they made in the past, and will approach 'old flames' when they are single again, thats not a single mom thing, it is pretty universal, and an act done by people in all types of positions in life. I have been approached by childless exes, and single parent exes, to try and rekindle, or to tell me they regret thier choice 'way back when'. Thier having children is not a factor in the act at all.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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The other side of WTF was he thinking? Posted: 11/19/2009 3:40:44 AM
There are lots of MEN and WOMEN who will not go on a second date if they did not get sex on the first date. You ran into a female like this, and us women run into males like this ALL the time. Some PEOPLE use sex to validate themselves, and if the one they date doesnt jump at the chance to have sex with them, they assume you do not find them attractive and will move on. Most men I have had first dates with dont come out and say outright that this is thier intention, they will flirt throughout the evening, but if thier flirting doesnt end up with me on my back in thier bed, they figure Im a waste of thier time. I dont see anything unusual about your experience, it happens a lot in the dating scene.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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do women really have a checklist Posted: 11/19/2009 3:07:15 AM
Men and women both have checklists.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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For Love & Odometer Posted: 11/18/2009 4:54:14 PM
I know I am not moving...my son is here, my job is here...I am settled. I may want to travel for fun, but my home is here. I dont see the point in going into a long distance thing when I have no itention of relocating. That is key here-some are willing to uproot, others are not, and both points of view are valid and to be respected.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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For Love & Odometer Posted: 11/18/2009 4:38:28 PM
I would like the option of having daily physical contact, the impromptu lunch here and there, and dont want to make an appointment to see someone. I dont do long distance, doesnt work for me. I am here looking for locals only. The 75 mile limit suits me fine.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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The Right apporach Posted: 11/18/2009 8:19:58 AM
I have MAJOR camera shyness so I really hate taking my pic taken, let alone letting it loose on the net Then online dating would not be for you. I dont walk around with a bag over my head in real life...it is the first thing people see upon looking at me, sizing me up, and I cannot do without that online. I am shy as well, but I know not too many men are willing to take a chance on a faceless profile, so I bit the bullet. You should too.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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Drama King. Posted: 11/18/2009 8:13:29 AM
Dramatic people can be fun to be around for a very short time-they make me feel grateful that I have a nice serene life. But I dont want them hanging with me all the time, and I for sure will not have a relationship with them. It is not a good thing in my opinion.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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What does he mean? Does it even mean anything at all? Posted: 11/18/2009 6:37:58 AM
Why don't you discuss that with him? I would but then If I'm wrong then I'm breaking the initial deal, I might lose him as a friend too. And it will hurt a lot on my side coz I think I love him already. Well, this is the risk you have to take, or you will never know. If you cannot just spell out your feelings and wants, expect to never get your wants. Deals get broken all the time, things change between people. The key is to keep talking while these changes take place and BOTH be accepting of the changes. Keeping quiet will only mean you are in turmoil longer than needed.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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cooking meal at home on a first date. Posted: 11/17/2009 3:30:47 AM
Most of us women had parents drill into our heads that we are not to enter a strangers home. This is a safe way to operate, and Id bet if the OP's freind has a daughter, he would be mortified if he found out she went to a strangers home for dinner as well. I always challenge a man who is asking me to do something not considered safe, if he would advise his daughter to do it. Then they get the 'lightbulb' moment, and realize, I am someone's daughter.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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He ran away... Posted: 11/17/2009 3:24:29 AM
Look at it this way...if he ran from a story about loss and suffering, how would he stand up if he had to experience it? Not a good mate if he bolted, and you weeded him out before you got super attached. I dont see this as bad. You did nothing wrong, he asked, you answered. He maybe shouldnt have asked while in your bed, but you answered honestly. If thats enough to send him running, do you really want him? I wouldnt.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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A question for you all... Posted: 11/17/2009 3:14:57 AM
People are much more versatile then we think. Many men can be dominant in bed and not at all dominant eleswhere. Just takes a bit of time to get to know someone and share what you both enjoy together. Personally, I like him to be more dominant in all aspects of life, not just the bedroom. Being a dominant type doesnt mean disrespectful.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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girl i`m seeing-need help in figuring things out Posted: 11/17/2009 3:03:03 AM
4 dates is not long enough to know it is a good idea to bring you around other people she already knows. These are things that happen over time, when more trust has been gained.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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? for the ladies, when should I call Posted: 11/15/2009 4:02:55 PM
If you are interested, call sooner rather than later. Do what you feel, and dont follow any dating rules, they just cause problems.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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Do you consider your equal? Posted: 11/15/2009 3:46:45 PM
I noticed over the length of my time on this site, that's it's often all about getting HER interest and whooing her, etc! Like it isn't a 50/50 relationship, and if it is? How is that being expressed? How is it equal? Your offering men do all the work up front, then woman pass back later? Sending emails on the site is not 'work'. I dont get that at all. How difficult is it to approach someone online? Ill give you its tougher on men in real life, you are expected to make the approach most times, and I know I get nervous, so Ill give that to you....but to compare that act to clicking send on a web page? No way. I am very shy in reality, but even I can send an email on POF. Once I meet someone in real life, and I am interested, I dont expect a chase, or whooing. I will always give as good as I get, and then some. As for whether it is fair or 'equal' in the early stages of dating and gaining intital interest? Both sexes have thier share of difficulties dating. Men do not have the corner on the market when it comes to feeling like they give more than they get.

brown_eyed_woman

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How do you explain to a woman Posted: 11/15/2009 3:26:47 PM
We all have been dealt a hand in life. There is something about all of us that will disqualify us from others. You need to meet like minded people who understand that sometimes we have toxic family and had to walk away. The people in your own boat will understand, and if they dont, you say 'buh bye' and move on til you meet someone who does. Same as we all do with our own 'crosses to bear'.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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opinions, honesty is best? Posted: 11/15/2009 5:48:49 AM
Getting closure would feel good, but many dont give it. Just know she lost her feelings for you, thats all you need to know, otherwise, she would still be calling. She may not even have a 'reason', feelings in early days are flighty.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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Chemistry and Feelings versus just a piece of @ss. I don't get it. Posted: 11/15/2009 5:08:29 AM
I believe in Karma. What you have done will come back at you. Prepare to be cheated on in the future. You cannot say you value a relationship, then go and dip your toes in someone else's relationship pool. You were both wrong to sleep together, and when someone cheats on you in future, I hope you remember trying to justify your actions here and see how it feels.

brown_eyed_woman

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Chivalry or babying Posted: 11/15/2009 4:42:34 AM
Keep being you, and showing the respect your Momma taught you. It will pay off one day!

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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traveling through town Posted: 11/15/2009 4:33:34 AM
I dont find it disrespectful, but I wouldnt be doing it. I am not interested in anything long distance, and dont want to get a crush on someone who is only in town for a small period of time. This scenario just doesnt work for me. Some may take you up on it tho, so no harm in trying.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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BF will not tell me his birthdate or where he works - is this wierd to you guys? Posted: 11/14/2009 8:06:14 AM
8 weeks is not a long time to get to know someone, he may have learned that the hard way in the past...HOWEVER, if that is the reason he is not telling you, why cant he just say that when asked? I would have no trouble saying "you know, I really like you, but I got burned by a psycho who showed up at my work and I thought I knew her, so I vowed to wait for at least 'three months' next time"...or something like that. I would be less concerned about the details of what he is not telling you, be more concerned with the fact he wont communicate his reasonings, the logic behind his choices etc.... I have learned that I can happily be patient if I am moving up the 'divulge of yourself' ladder quicker then he is, if I know his logic, where he is coming from. That is what relating is all about. He tells me what he is feeling and what pace he wants to go, and I can either accept those terms, or move on to find someone who moves at my pace. I dont have the right to impose my pace on anyone else.

brown_eyed_woman

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Girlfriend Question Posted: 11/13/2009 10:07:44 AM
Trust is a two way street. Id say she didnt trust you enough to be honest, and this is the result. Honesty is one the foundations of any relationship, it is not something that can just be worked out later on-it has to be there from day one. Id say move on, and dont try to get her back, she is placing this all on you, saying you dont trust her, and she is not taking accountability for the role she played by not being honest. This will never get better.

brown_eyed_woman

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Has your Adult ADD ruined/sabotaged relationships? Posted: 11/11/2009 7:38:38 AM
Some food allergies will present themselves by affecting attention related skills, chemically altering the brain. I think before anyone believes they have one of these disorders, they should eat completely natural, no processed foods for 2 months straight and see how they are feeling. Nothing pre made! Many people are allergic to the addititives and preservatives we use, namely red food dye. It is in almost every packaged food, even if you dont see anything red visually, and it has been shown to cause symptoms similiar to 'add' related disorders. You are accountable to give your body the best tools it needs to work properly, Id always check to see if I am supplying it with the right fuel before adding drugs to the mix, but thats just my opinion. I agree with the posters who say you have to take accountability for your life, including this condition. I would be doing a ton of research if I were you, and trying to come up with an action plan to deal. I wouldnt be worrying about bringing anyone else into the equation, til I felt a had a good handle on this. JMO

brown_eyed_woman

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lack of trust and harsh accusations Posted: 11/8/2009 4:35:40 PM
If someone cannot respect you...then its always time to leave the relationship Bottom line.

brown_eyed_woman

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I am TOTALLY confused! Posted: 11/4/2009 4:49:46 PM
You have to cough up the courage to just lay it all out there. Being confused, weve all been there-it is up to you to clear it up, and the only way is to just tell her how you feel, ask her if she feels the same, and ask her why did she block you. Get your answers. Asking us isnt going to tell you why she does anything she does. Be prepared to hear an answer you dont like, and think ahead about what you are willing to settle for. If her answers dont make you feel confident to continue, dont. Walk away and meet new people. Life is too short to put up with mixed signals and bullchit.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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What is really being said? Posted: 11/4/2009 8:30:52 AM
Are they really planning on no physical interaction until there is a long term committment? What people plan on, ad what actually happens are rarely the same thing, in my opinion. Just because someone says they would not do something, does not mean when presented with the right moment, they actually wouldnt do it.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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beautiful women VS average looking women Posted: 11/3/2009 5:34:33 PM
I hardley get approached. I see them looking, but it is rare one will approach. And odds are, he is not my type in any way shape or form.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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Does me being accommodating actually hurt?? Posted: 11/3/2009 1:07:51 PM
Being accomodating is not an issue, unless afterwards you feel you are always the one being flexible. If you feel no resentment about being accomodating, then keep doing it.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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False profiles Posted: 10/31/2009 6:28:32 AM
I am talking about women are on the site every day but never read their mail. You assume too much, all you can possibly know is they didnt read your email, not everyone else's.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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Interest from single moms. Posted: 10/28/2009 3:52:39 PM
I have a hard time believing this is an issue. Just dont respond.

brown_eyed_woman

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What does it mean Posted: 10/28/2009 3:27:47 AM
Take it as a warning. Anytime someone has told me Im too good for them, they were very right! People tell you who they are, you need to listen.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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Why is it such a stigma to be an older bachelor? Posted: 10/27/2009 3:37:15 AM
I dont know why people look at one aspect of anyones life and draw such crazy conclusions. Just because someone never took the plunge doesnt mean they are afraid to, it is not easy to meet totally compatible people. It is easy to meet people who you can grow feelings for, doesnt make them good marital mates. I get asked all the time since my divorce in 98 why Im still single-as if being still single is a disease or something. I learned a few things about marriage and now know with hindsight that I chose wrong, and am not willing to choose wrong again. Marriage is serious and I dont want another divorce, so unless I meet someone who views the important things in life the way I do, I wont be getting married. A bachelor who feels the same way, is fine by me. Says he is smarter than the average person who runs off and marries for the wrong reasons and ends up divorced anyways. Of course thier are people who actually are afraid to commit-it is better that they dont, and dont cave to societal pressures, they make terrible spouses anyways.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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Why do women chase involved men so much? Posted: 10/27/2009 3:08:59 AM
They're just more at ease cuz the guys are considered safe. I agree with that. I dont chase men who are taken, soon as I know there is another woman in the picture, Im out.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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Why do men with kids respond to my ad? Posted: 10/24/2009 7:54:32 AM
Most dont read the text on the ads, they see a pretty face and whip off a note. Blcok the ones who fire back at you, simple really. Its strangers online, who cares?

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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Deja-Vu for her, should this matter to her? Posted: 10/24/2009 7:45:23 AM
Your new lady is just being smart. My new girl friend says that this is Deja-Vu for her because she lost love before because of a similar situation She went thru something like this already and it didnt turn out well, so I agree that she should be extra careful...what good are our experiences if we dont learn something from them? I wouldnt date someone who had things stored at his exes and was paying for so much from the relationship he had prior. Too much drama for me. If you are serious about starting fresh, you need to clean up all the loose ends from the past, then you can say you are ready. Til then, you are in dating pergatory.

brown_eyed_woman

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Hard to find the right girl Posted: 10/23/2009 8:43:46 AM
Dont take this the wrong way, but actions speak louder than words. If a man was serious about settling down roots, he would do that regardless of having a mate or not. He would already be living that type of lifestyle, because he wants to, and a woman in it will only enhance the situation. Most women will want thier mate to already be in 'that place' and not have to ask him to change his ways for her. Be carefree as long as it is in you to do so. When you are ready to live a more grounded lifestyle, then make the change for yourself. That is the only way to be happy, is to be living the lifestyle you like regardless of who is in your life. People will naturally fit in where they will. Some will evolve alongside you, others at a faster pace...you get my point Im sure.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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he wants kids and she doesn't, yet she contacts him first, why? Posted: 10/23/2009 7:43:39 AM
Most dont even read the printing on these pages. I get emails from men who have that block on for 'must not smoke', AND they preach in thier profile about how gross smoking is, and they want long term. When I reply that I smoke, most admit they read that after they sent the message.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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Are women motivated to impress men? Posted: 10/23/2009 7:23:53 AM
^^^^ I agree with woman in progress. I do feel the urge to try to impress once in a while, but I grind one stilletto into my other foot til the compulsions go away. I try to remember not to be something Im not to impress, as I wont be able to hold a fake standard for very long, and I had to learn the hard way that little lesson. I also have been on the receiving end of someone trying to impress me, and it can be offputting, so I keep that in mind too-dont wanna be 'that person'...LOL

brown_eyed_woman

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if i were a girl... Posted: 10/23/2009 7:17:39 AM
Id like similiar personalities, but would not want a man who looks like me at all.

brown_eyed_woman

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Marriage to do it or not to do it Posted: 10/23/2009 6:13:10 AM
Why would the piece of paper be kind of important, you don't get any tax breaks from the goverment, your insurance won't go down in fact it might even go up, so really is having that piece of paper important. Im in no rush to be married, however, if I were in a long term relatioship, Id likely want that piece of paper eventually. Especially as we aged. If one of us got sick, and became unable to execute the things we both knew we wanted, that paper would give the healthy one the rights to follow through. I have seen a few partners wishes not get met because adult children were given the power of attorney over thier parents, and the only one who really knew the unhealthy ones wishes was thier partner, but the family didnt want to hear it and did not honor the unhealthy ones wishes...and without that paper, they didnt have to listen to the partner, or do anything that was asked on behalf of that partner. Sad situation... Not everything we do needs to come with a financial 'bonus'. I dont care if I dont save on my taxes if I marry. If I marry again, it will be because I feel my life is further enhanced on way more planes than financially due to that man being in my life.

brown_eyed_woman

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I Don't Need A Man.., I very Independent..etc etc = RED Flags? Posted: 10/23/2009 5:33:05 AM
I am wary of anyone who toots thier horn about things that I just expect in an adult. I expect any adult, male or female, to be able to be independant, and not 'need' to lean on others all the time. In my experience, the ones who claim to be this way, are really not at all. They wouldnt feel the need to proclaim it if they are. I liken it to somone who calls themselves classy. No one who has any class refers to themselves as classy. And people who are truly independant dont give a rats ass what anyone else thinks and do not feel the need to call themselves independant.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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Do girls hide their intelligence sometimes? Posted: 10/23/2009 5:25:19 AM
I dont want a man who wants a woman to dumb it down...so No, I dont pretend to be dumb or unable to do things when I am perfectly capable. If I do need help, I will ask, no problem there...but cant pretend to need help just to get attention....not my style at all.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

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Do I Look Like A NON Smoker ???? Posted: 10/22/2009 8:19:16 PM
Most views, they likely didnt have a filter on thier searches saying not to select smokers...they didnt know you smoked til they looked at the profile. I wouldnt worry one wit who views you, making contact is the only thing that counts.

brown_eyed_woman

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They're not here looking for sex... booohooo Posted: 10/22/2009 3:31:38 AM
Most people will publicly say they are not into one night stands, when trying to attract the opposite sex, they think it makes them look better...and while they are looking for long term, they will have fun with people who arent, so long as they are attacted enough.

brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008

Msg: 19 (view)

Playing games? Posted: 10/21/2009 3:58:44 AM
If a man I am interested in asked me out, and I had to cancel, I would automatically offer an alternate date, cause Id want him to know I am interested. She did not do this, so Id say you have enough info to decide to cut bait on this fishy. Actions speak louder then words in cases like this.

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