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shireknight38

Joined: 8/31/2008

Msg: 1296 (view)

Let T-Rex review your profile...I'll be gentle..hehehe Posted: 9/15/2008 5:31:01 PM
Thanks for the pointers Indigo Rose, I have a tweak of my profile at the weekend

shireknight38

Joined: 8/31/2008

Msg: 62 (view)

Worst thing you ever did to get out of a date gone wrong... Posted: 9/9/2008 8:35:38 PM
I did something terrible and I still feel bad about it even now years later. I met a girl through a lonely hearts ad in a local paper, we met up in a pub and right from the first minute I didn't find her attractive at all, we got on really well though and we just seemed to click. After the date had ended I had no intention of seeing her again (I was looking for a girlfriend at the time not a friend) but the very next day a letter arrived out of the blue telling me I had won a trip to London in a competition, I didn't have anyone to take and so decided to invite this girl. She was over the moon to be asked and we had a really, really great day out, the whole day she was all cuddles and holding hands and stuff and during the trip back on the train she cuddled up to me and fell asleep with her head on my lap which I thought was really cute but for some reason I still didn't find her attractive. We got back to my house and she said she wanted to stop the night, I didn't want her too and I tried to put her off but she would have none of it. Needless to say she insisted on sleeping in my bed with me and during the night she started to get romantic, we were kissing (which I was not enjoying at all) and then she tried to go for all out sex and this is when I did the lowest thing I have ever done in my life. To stop her I actually lied and said something to the effect of "I don't want to have sex with you tonight because I want to save it until later in our relationship when we know each other better and can enjoy it more" she was very happy with this and made no more hints about it. The next morning she left and I promised I would call her. She kept phoning me regularly after that and each time I kept saying I was busy and that I would call her soon, the last time she called me I snapped and said quite nastily "I said I'd call you soon now stop calling me" and that was the last time we had contact. I still feel like scum for what I did to her but I suppose in a way she got the last laugh because she probably forgot all about me after a couple of weeks and I still think about her and what I did to her all the time -It's now been about 10 years. I just wish I still had her phone number because for years Iv'e been wishing I could call her and apologise.

shireknight38

Joined: 8/31/2008

Msg: 748 (view)

Ever date someone with BPD? (Borderline Personality Disorder) Posted: 9/8/2008 9:30:52 PM
About 10 years ago I had a date in a pub/restaurant with a girl I met through a local paper lonely hearts column, when I met her in the flesh she must have been a good 25 stone which took me completely by surprise, she was really friendly and we were getting on like a house on fire when after about 20 mins or so I noticed that she was paying more attention to the people sitting at the other tables than she was to me. I pretended not to notice but eventually she started whispering things to me like "those people are staring at me because I'm fat" things became quite extreme from that point on and It became clear that she was really quite paranoid about her weight and what she was imagining others were thinking about her weight. At one point she went to the toilet and when she came back she said "wow I didn't think you'd still be here when I returned" It was then that I wished I had ran off while she was gone I assume that she had this BPD? disorder that you guys are talking about.

shireknight38

Joined: 8/31/2008

Msg: 124 (view)

Worst clothes to wear on a first date... Posted: 9/8/2008 9:09:44 PM
Ladies in leggings, track suit bottoms and extremely clingy stuff that shows the contours of the body make me cringe, call me a prude but I don't want to see everything displayed for me to see on a first date lol

shireknight38

Joined: 8/31/2008

Msg: 1279 (view)

Let T-Rex review your profile...I'll be gentle..hehehe Posted: 9/8/2008 8:11:42 PM
Hiya Indigo rose, I see you have quite a queue at the moment but add me to your review list if you get a chance will ya please hon. Shire

shireknight38

Joined: 8/31/2008

Msg: 47 (view)

are you really happy being single? Posted: 9/3/2008 7:15:42 PM
Wow this question gave me something to think about lol. Iv'e been single pretty much my whole life, Ive never been in a serious relationship and am perfectly happy living on my own yet obviously there is something wrong/missing otherwise I wouldn't be here right now so no I guess I'm not happy being single as for why though I don't have a clue.

shireknight38

Joined: 8/31/2008

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liars Posted: 9/3/2008 6:51:00 PM
Er if it was the police who told you about his history then clearly they have him under surveillance, have noticed you are spending time with him and thought it best to try and ward you off -I would suspect that they must be very concerned if they have done this so I'd sit up, take note and sever links with him if I were you.

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