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Should I? Posted: 7/2/2009 6:48:50 PM | | Do not let him. There is a reason why he was never there for you or her. My son's dad is a drug addict and even though he has supervised visits I would let him come by pretty much whenever he wanted. Which when he was here he was usually arguing with me more then he was playing with my son. Have you thought that the only reason why he is wanting to see her now is to get some control over the issue? My sister yelled at me one day saying how dumb I was being for letting the father come over anytime he wanted to because no telling when he is high he could be high around my son and that the courts ordered me sole custody for a reason they do not think a drug addict has the capapilitys to make any decisions for the kid. What made me see that my sister was right was one day(after court mind you) I let him change his clothes in my bathroom and latter on when I went to give my son a bath I found a pipe on a low shelf that my son could have easily reached. Thank god I found it befor my son found it and no telling what would have happened. SO I advise you to wait to see what the judge agrees to before he gets to spend any time with your daugher. | | | |
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