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 Author Thread: What to do next??
 itwasalwaysamber
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 14 (view)
 
What to do next??
Posted: 10/18/2005 1:00:48 PM
I see the picture of you and what I am assuming is a beautiful baby that belongs to you. The advice that I am about to give you is comming from a young girl whos mother satyed with a alchoholic father for too long, and I saw too much. If you really care about this women like you say you do, then you need to let her walk on her own to feet as far away from you as she can travel. God only knows what you have put this women through inorder to feed your addiction. How is anyone here suppose to advise you on what to do? We dont know the situation, the details. When it comes to family its all about the details. There is no miracle patchkit that will put your family back together. You saying that "you have gone over to her house and cried your eyes out for the last week trying to get her back" sickens me. How selfish are you? You want her for yourself, so your going to go over there and try to grip onto what is left of the distarught emotions that women has. Not only are you paining her what about your children? If you really cared the way you say that you do you need to first be sober. Then you need to be a father. I guarantee you that if you did these two things without interference in her life she may start to respect you as a person again some day.
 itwasalwaysamber
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 12:41:23 PM
I personnaly feel that if the women is comfortable with it then it is okay. However if things of this nature are not discussed prior to sex how would a guy know? Look at the board its torn. Some women say they enjoy it and its adds to the pleasure of the entire experience. Other women, like yourself are very offended by the act. So if your having sex with a guy and he goes to blow it in your face, all the sudden this act erupts into a huge power struggle. Maybe you should know more about the person you are having sex with prior to when hes gonna blow.
 
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