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 Author Thread: Real or Fake Nails?
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Real or Fake Nails?
Posted: 9/24/2009 5:30:06 PM
As long as they look nicely kept either is fine in my books.
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Are men getting ruder?
Posted: 9/24/2009 5:28:38 PM
People in general are a little less nice, especially in larger cities. A lot of the examples you cited many would consider to be chivalry, which is dead these days. Women killed it many moons ago, can't blame guys for that one.
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 84 (view)
 
Wife finds porn on computer and....
Posted: 9/23/2009 8:39:35 PM
It's just porn, why don't you ask her to watch it with you?
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 52 (view)
 
What would you think?
Posted: 9/23/2009 8:38:39 PM
One very important thing to consider is how you're going to see her after you see her sexually engaged with another guy. If this doesn't bother you, then I think you don't really love her all that much, and enjoy. lol
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 64 (view)
 
role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/23/2009 8:26:46 PM
Nah, I'm not so big on roleplaying... I don't like it when a woman plays with my rolls
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 18 (view)
 
How do men feel about married a married woman dating?
Posted: 7/27/2009 8:25:26 PM
are you legally separated at least? If not, don't expect anything out of your adventures other then sex
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Does this make me terrible?
Posted: 7/25/2009 6:07:18 PM
If kids truly arent for you then no, you're not terrible. You're doing everyone, yourself included, a huge favor by staying away from a situation that would likely make you miserable and not end well
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 281 (view)
 
WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY????????
Posted: 7/20/2009 2:14:19 PM
Lol, daddy issues much?
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Younger women and communication in online dating
Posted: 7/20/2009 2:10:56 PM
That's just how most women (and guys) in your age group are. I'm guessing that you're not, and possibly looking for that "something more?" My advice is to just have fun, and enjoy the experiences along the way. All it takes is time, and you and others will start to see things differently
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Can ladies have a platonic relationship with an ex lover
Posted: 7/20/2009 2:03:20 PM
I don't believe so, In my experience most people who try to remain friends with the ex are desperately holding on to possibly re-ignite things again later. If you're looking to be shady, hooking up with an ex is almost always a given. How often do you see these on again off again relationships with people you know?
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Going Dutch???
Posted: 7/20/2009 1:55:51 PM

Maybe you should make sure they know you want to go dutch BEFORE the actual "date", so that they know what you expect in advance


Agreed, any time you're meeting someone for the first time it should be dutch anyways. If a woman has no problems taking your money the first time you meet, she will also have no problems taking your money in the divorce either
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
money back guarantee?
Posted: 7/20/2009 1:52:22 PM
Would you expect these women to pay for your ferry ride if you were the one venturing to meet them? You don't owe someone you meet off the internet anything; you're just two strangers meeting eachother and nothing more
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Ok how independent do you like the woman!
Posted: 7/20/2009 1:47:56 PM
Being independant doesn't make you any less feminine, it makes you more of an adult. I didn't think being a grown up was a strictly masculine thing
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Double bagging.
Posted: 7/20/2009 1:45:02 PM
Why would anyone do this anyway? lol. I think a better question would be; can you even feel ANYTHING if you were to do this?
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 14 (view)
 
How to date someone 4 years older than you?
Posted: 7/13/2009 1:30:07 PM
To be 19 again.. heh. A 4 year age difference is nothing, if you have common interests and are at a similar stage in life don't even think about it, and treat her like you would any other girl you're interested in dating
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Question for the ladies. :)
Posted: 7/13/2009 1:15:05 PM
It's called a double standard for a reason Lets not forget that they go both ways, a guy whose successful with the ladies is a stud, and a woman is a slut, and so on and so forth
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Did anybody ever think about how dangerous
Posted: 7/13/2009 1:13:06 PM
Whackadoos come in all different shapes, sizes, colours, and sexes. It can be dangerous for both.. then again so is dating in general so its just a risk that you take. Oh and for the guys who think a woman can't harm them, lets not forget about a certain football star who was recently shot to death by his mistress
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 14 (view)
 
we have plans with this guy i met online to go see the fireworks
Posted: 7/13/2009 1:09:04 PM

im not heavy nice atletic body and atractive colleage educated fun what up with guys lol


Wow, am I glad that I decided against going to college when the opportunity presented itself If you speak and conduct yourself in the same manner in which you type and butcher the English language I probably wouldn't be interested either :p
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 2 (view)
 
has he gone off her?
Posted: 7/13/2009 1:03:58 PM
If a woman told me that "it clearly isn't working out" I would be DONE. Why would I give mind and waste my time on someone who doesn't know if she wants to be with me?
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Men Ejaculation
Posted: 7/13/2009 1:00:55 PM
I dunno... after 3 or 4 times I'm usually beat from the experience and need my beauty sleep :p
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 50 (view)
 
How many is too many?
Posted: 7/13/2009 12:57:58 PM
The only number that should matter is how many people there sleeping with right NOW, in which case anymore then 1 is unacceptable :p

Your "sexual number" is a very poor way to gauge experience anyway.. the person who sleeps with 1 person 100s of times still has more experience then the person who sleeps with 50 1 time
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 156 (view)
 
but WHY do guys love it when a girl swallows?
Posted: 7/13/2009 12:55:04 PM
It's the surest way to know if the girl really loves you
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 11 (view)
 
what is a reasonable amount of time before making a committment
Posted: 7/13/2009 12:53:37 PM
Exactly 145 days, 17 hours, 26 minutes and 58 seconds...

There is no steadfast rule to this type of thing, everyone is different! Some are quick to jump into something serious, and some never get there. Bring it up with him if this is eating away at you and you will soon find out! Communication is key
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 20 (view)
 
What Would You Be Thinking?
Posted: 7/13/2009 12:48:53 PM
I wouldn't be trying to get serious with her because I think her intentions are pretty clear. I'd think that she's looking to have a good time, and not really looking for a relationship right now. There's nothing wrong with that.. everyone does it at some point in their life
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
When is it time to get rid of the dating sites?
Posted: 7/13/2009 12:45:25 PM
Yea.. as soon as the two of you have for lack of a better term become official. If his ad is still there, have the discussion.. the site has to go. I'm in a relationship myself but only keep my account here for the forum. I've hidden my profile and stated in it that i'm not single and just here for the forum which I see as being acceptable
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Sending the wrong message by accident?
Posted: 7/13/2009 12:33:08 PM
I'm pretty sure after a bit it doesn't show you online in the "grocery store" lol. You have to log back in after being on the forums for a little bit
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Freinds, hanging out...
Posted: 7/13/2009 12:23:51 PM
Gee I dunno, I've had the same happen to me with women I message too. Lets not forget that this is a dating site, and ultimately that's what the majority of people on here are looking for. Based on what you said he's looking for, he's either wanting to take things slow with someone, or a FWB. My opinon on the matter
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Man sending mixed messages
Posted: 7/13/2009 12:21:05 PM
the two of you have been on one date... not quite enough for him or you to say one way or another. Don't read anything into this, and if you want to see things progress don't think about silly things like this
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 6 (view)
 
which one would you go for?
Posted: 7/13/2009 12:11:10 PM
I would probably go for the more outgoing one, someone whose distant usually gives off a rude or ****y vibe and why would i want that?
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Is no sex dating so terrible?
Posted: 7/13/2009 12:09:54 PM
Something I didn't mention in my post earlier is that this is usually a very hypocritical vow anyway. I'm willing to gaurentee that any couple that's waiting for "marrage" is doing everything else under the sun for the time being. She's sucking him like a champ and he's ramming it up her ass every chance they get but they still havn't had "sex."
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 4 (view)
 
MMM Threesomes
Posted: 7/12/2009 10:26:58 AM
Sounds like a sausage fest to me! Haowwwww!
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Is no sex dating so terrible?
Posted: 7/12/2009 10:23:12 AM
Haah are you serious? Of course this is a deal breaker. A relationship without sex... sounds like a friendship to me, and you don't see me running off to marry my pals. Lol! Sex is the glue that helps keep everything together in a relationship.

Here's a question for you; would you buy a car without taking it for a drive first? Buy a home without going inside? Marriage is an even bigger decision then either of these, so would you commit to that without fully knowing the person you're going to be with?
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 13 (view)
 
OK Guys help a girl out, Am I being played......
Posted: 7/12/2009 10:14:58 AM
I don't really know enough about your relationship to really say for sure... a very important factor being how long you've been seeing this guy? Time with your friends is important, as I'm sure it is for you aswell, but bringing your SO around is too. He may be playing you, but on the other hand if this is still a fairly new relationship maybe you're just not at that stage yet
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 65 (view)
 
Q about sex w/girl on top and guy going soft
Posted: 7/7/2009 6:39:13 PM
I think that depending on how your moving, where your weight is being positioned, etc that it can effect blood flow to a man's member. I enjoy having a girl up there, but usually have to change it up after about 10 mins or the same thing happens.. soon as the girl gets off I get it back short while later. Just keep changing the positions up
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Ok...I am not a Cougar...but I like guys that are younger than me.
Posted: 7/7/2009 6:28:10 PM
Well meow.. lol. Ok now that's out of the way :p

I don't see you as being a cougar. A cougar is usually much older (and definately look much older) then yourself and is out on the prowl to bring young men to their bedroom. If you're looking to possibly build a relationship with a guy, then someone 28-32 is just your preference. No different then men who date younger women, or anything else.

On a side note I personally wouldn't see anything wrong with this. You're attractive, independant and established, and probably have a lot of offer a guy, especially if he's looking to avoid the drama that comes along with the younger ones. Good luck!
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Is there men that are NOT obsessed with sex?
Posted: 7/7/2009 6:21:45 PM
Being obsessed with anything is usually never good, but at the same time yes of course sex is on my mind lots. Does that make me a freak? Nope, just a person with a normal sex drive. It's simply not very polite or appropiate to be raunchy when talking about sex with someone you don't hardly know, but I see nothing wrong with some mild sexual humor and innuendo here and there ;)
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Is woman's sexuality more selfish than men's?
Posted: 6/22/2009 1:27:11 PM
Love this, lol. I may not be a woman but here's my take on your points:

1. In general women don't desire men as much as men desire women. Men desiring women is the focus.
- Yes and no. Men tend to desire (in fantasy at least) more women, and women tend to desire the best man. Sounds very similar to how things go in the animal kingdom

2. In general women don't initiate sex as much.
- Maybe if you're with the wrong woman! Unless there's an underlying medical problem she's probably not that into you if this is the case.

3. In general men's fantasies are fulfilled less of the time and are usually easier to fulfill.
- Neither mens' or womens' fantasies are easy to fulfill most of the time. Men are jaded from what they see in porn, and women are jaded from what they see in romantic comedies.

4. In general men give women more pleasure than women give men. The woman's pleasure comes first. Also the man usually spends his time thinking about other stuff to prevent orgasm and never gets to relax.
- Have you never recieved a blowjob in your life? How about your favorite position? Sounds like these guys think too much.

5. In general men do most of the physical work and women lie back and that one would be hard pressed to find a couple where the woman does most of the work.
- Tell this to all the women out there that prefer being ontop

6. All women use sex to maintain control and have a lower sex drive.
- Usually only immature women use sex as a weapon, and are only able to because men tolerate it. Have a lower sex drive? Maybe if there not attracted to their boyfriend or husband, and if this is the case you only have yourself to blame. My personal experience tells me that women have a MUCH higher sex drive then men do.
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 22 (view)
 
cummin in a woman
Posted: 6/22/2009 12:55:12 PM
This is something I don't condone unless the woman is one that you would consider having a kid with anyway. Being a guy whose had a vasectomy tho, it's something that I enjoy when it happens, but I'm also just as happy making "the deposit" anywhere else too
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 909 (view)
 
Expain the phrase My children are my top priority?
Posted: 4/26/2009 4:07:01 PM
it means: "I'm emotionally unavailable." This rings true for both men and women
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Pointy toed shoe girls
Posted: 4/26/2009 3:59:40 PM
Maybe her feet are triangular shaped? lol. I definately look at a woman a little more critically if she's toting around a purse worth that kind of money or more tho. I have 3 leather jackets in my closet that cost about that much... 3!
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 3 (view)
 
How does a man know
Posted: 4/26/2009 3:57:27 PM
If he's very wise the answer should be "never." There is no better way to hand away your civil liberties, and at least half your stuff if things dont work out
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 66 (view)
 
Fed up with sex...
Posted: 4/20/2009 6:35:11 PM
smoking too much weed makes you too lazy to do pretty much anything, and this is just further proof of this i guess
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Is this Bad to Ask?
Posted: 4/20/2009 6:33:39 PM
nothing wrong with that, so long as you do the same too
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 8 (view)
 
What's the deal with toes and feet!?
Posted: 4/20/2009 6:28:14 PM
I'll observe a woman's feet in the summer time as a judge of how well she looks after herself. Typically if there in good shape and devoid of corns, busted nails, and etc it stands to reason that she's lookin after everything else too
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
are men afraid of commitments?
Posted: 4/16/2009 6:15:37 PM
men aren't afraid of commitment, there just afraid of the evil and crazy creatures their girlfriend's turn into after the commitment is made ;)
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 76 (view)
 
Is Analingus the new Cunnilingus?
Posted: 4/12/2009 5:05:16 PM
I for one certainly hope not :p
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 18 (view)
 
why did this guy just send something mean for no reason??
Posted: 4/12/2009 5:04:17 PM
Maybe he's just a jerk?
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Do guys find short haired women less attractive?
Posted: 4/12/2009 5:03:13 PM
Unless you're amoung the approximate 10% of women who actually look better with a short hairstyle, then the answer is yes. Most women do look much more feminine and attractive with at LEAST shoulder length hair
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Can you get STUCK during sexual intercourse?
Posted: 4/12/2009 11:46:19 AM
Yea, happens to me all the time. I don't want to stop so i don't want to go. lol
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 94 (view)
 
But I'm still married!
Posted: 4/9/2009 7:14:00 PM
What i mind the most amusing about this situation is how so many of the posters are all over this guy, criticising him, and basically saying he should just suck it up because she's moved on anyway, etc..

BUT...

if the roles were reversed and he was the separated and not divorced person, dating the widower all these same people would be calling him a scumbag for not finalizing the divorce. Food for thought
 
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