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WBisME

Joined: 10/10/2005

Msg: 24 (view)

Not Single/Not Looking Posted: 10/25/2008 11:26:01 AM
I can only speak for myself obviously but I am here to expand my social circle with new friends. If I met my dream girl in the process ...fantastic! So for me I'm here for two reasons. There is the friends option for a reason this isn't only a "dating" site. That said I do think there are too many options. Hang out?

WBisME

Joined: 10/10/2005

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Will anyone take me seriously ? Posted: 10/25/2008 10:51:34 AM
I realize my profile is "slightly" different than most on here. Although written in a different format it does contain lots of information on me. My question is....will anyone take me seriously? Much obliged for any feedback. Cheers

WBisME

Joined: 10/10/2005

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Check Me Out :) Posted: 9/10/2008 5:51:56 AM
Not that a guys opinion counts as much but I dislike the photos they don't really show YOU. That's what you're trying to show off, yes? I think you should crop them a bit personally.

WBisME

Joined: 10/10/2005

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OMG... Is that your ? NO come on.. I'm over 30... they're my ??? Posted: 9/10/2008 5:15:23 AM
I don't understand why people have to apply labels in the first place. Why not address him by his name?

WBisME

Joined: 10/10/2005

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Cum volume enhancers.... huh? Posted: 9/10/2008 5:11:25 AM
Consume LOTS of water and take your vitamins. Majority of ejaculate is water.

DoubleUB

Joined: 10/10/2005

Msg: 46 (view)

Sexual Teasing... Posted: 8/21/2008 7:35:46 AM
I find most people are in too much of a rush to "do the deed". Intimacy should be a build up of teasing in my opinion. The anticipation makes the act that much better.

DoubleUB

Joined: 10/10/2005

Msg: 47 (view)

caught my bro with his gf Posted: 8/21/2008 7:33:19 AM
You're 27 you have the chat with him.Then I'd imagine he'll build a trust with you for the future. Ratting him out to your parents isn't gonna help I don't think. He'll just learn to hide things better.

DoubleUB

Joined: 10/10/2005

Msg: 536 (view)

boobs Posted: 8/17/2008 12:48:34 AM
I think you're likely to get a split decision here. Personally I like them (period) Size doesn't matter. However I will say one thing. If you really feel it's going to make you feel better about yourself....do! Just think it through a while first. Cheers

DoubleUB

Joined: 10/10/2005

Msg: 44 (view)

Single guys: Good service at restaurants while alone? Posted: 8/16/2008 5:16:52 AM
I think if you want a night out with a beer and some cute girls that will pay attention to you .....hit up a strip club. They ARE there to flirt with you and boost your ego. Last I checked family restaurants are for food.

DoubleUB

Joined: 10/10/2005

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Do hard times justify forgetting partner? Posted: 8/15/2008 9:13:42 AM
Personally I think that's a lack of respect. I can understand someone going through a crisis and not being able to discuss it. However they should have the marbles to say Hey i might need some time to handle things but I'm into you I'll talk to you soon. My 2 cents

DoubleUB

Joined: 10/10/2005

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No orgasm..a problem? Posted: 8/15/2008 8:59:45 AM
Personally I consider it my duty to make my lover orgasm. I know I wouldn't want to end sex often without "finishing". I dated a couple women who had never had an orgasm before me. Even though it took a while eventually they both did and it became much easier for them. I would say the person is selfish leaving his mate hanging like that. I wish you the best.

DoubleUB

Joined: 10/10/2005

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ice ice baby Posted: 6/11/2008 12:19:43 AM
Personally I'd be into anything that isn't painful.....oh yeah except ice. No thanks

DoubleUB

Joined: 10/10/2005

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Biking and walking in Ottawa Posted: 5/13/2008 5:20:15 AM
The bike/walking paths by the Ottawa river are my favourite spot. The government offers maps of the area for free and it shows paths as well as other areas of interest. If only i could remember how I got mine .

DoubleUB

Joined: 10/10/2005

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Never married & no kids Posted: 5/13/2008 4:40:28 AM
Why should there be assumptions? I didn't jump into a marriage that wasn't right for me and father children so I'm now a bad person? I MUST be missing something. It's now a negative to be thirty and not spread my seed around to random women?

DoubleUB

Joined: 10/10/2005

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No one believes my profile.... Posted: 5/13/2008 4:33:44 AM
If only the women would accuse me of having model pictures up. Instead they ask me if I have any others besides the roadkill I have up :) Take the compliment man I would.

DoubleUB

Joined: 10/10/2005

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What does your profile name mean? Posted: 5/13/2008 4:28:19 AM
Mine is my initials W B (whatever I thought it made sense)

DoubleUB

Joined: 10/10/2005

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Need advice and am clueless Posted: 5/13/2008 4:13:29 AM
I think if you're that worried about it you shouldn't do it just yet. It's not going to make the mood any hotter for you with negative thoughts running through your mind.

DoubleUB

Joined: 10/10/2005

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Your Profile Posted: 5/12/2008 2:03:34 PM
Doubtful you want a males reply but I think it's great! Reminds me a bit of mine. Cheers

DoubleUB

Joined: 10/10/2005

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Gay men seeking women?! Posted: 5/12/2008 1:58:59 PM
^^^^ Very impressive.Valid points. I have no legitimate comment but I do have a question. I'm curious to know all the things that set off your Gay Alarm ladies.

DoubleUB

Joined: 10/10/2005

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Too soon to have sex - really like him already!! Posted: 5/12/2008 1:14:38 PM
^^^ Classy :) I doubt you can really judge someone after one meet.I'm sure most would agree that some peoples online and offline personalities differ greatly. Personally I don't think you should ever sleep with anyone on the second meet.

DoubleUB

Joined: 10/10/2005

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August projected forcast....HOT! Posted: 8/2/2007 10:32:53 AM
Don't forget that legally an employer must make the conditions workable. Don't quote me but if the temperature rises above 32-33 degrees you can rightfully walk off the job with no recourse. Obviously check with the labour board first. Don't feel stuck at home in the heat. Hit a mall, movie or a waterpark.....never know who you might meet. Cheers

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

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How to approach a cute stranger on a bus... Posted: 8/28/2006 8:34:59 PM
Hi, I have a great idea (Or so I think) Tell me what bus you take each morning and what time. I'll be the guy sitting next to you striking up a sarcastic conversation. If I annoy you all you say to the other guy the next day is "Mind sitting next to me so the weird guy doesn't bother me"? On the otherhand if I turn out to be somewhat handsome and funny.....ya just might keep talking to me ! wink Whatchya think huh? Cheers,

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

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Separated and still in the same house Posted: 7/25/2006 1:26:49 PM
This topic relates to one of my favourite date stories. I went on a date with a girl who lived with her "ex" fiance. They apparently had broken up a month before (yup a month) and had planned to get married in 2 months. Can you believe this girl was looking to date? This is the the situation I pictured myself in.... I go over to her (their) house and sit on the couch watching a movie.While he holds her one hand I hold the other. Or she's in the kitchen and calls out "honey can you come here for a second" and we both respond. Obviously I refused a second date. Personally I would stay away from that situation.If it worked for others though congrats. cheers

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

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Fish Dating Service Posted: 6/24/2006 8:14:22 AM
I'm officially offering up my services :) What are my qualifications you ask? I have several suits and many many shirts and ties for any occasion. Doubtful you'd bring me to a funeral so i suppose I can lose the dark coloured ones. :) I can (and do) dance and as a bonus I actually keep to the beat. There will never be an awkward silence. Read my profile for proof. If at a wedding I will dance with the flower girl and play with the ring boy so all your female friends get envious that their man won't :) References are available upon request.

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

Msg: 41 (view)

To much of a good thing ? Posted: 5/29/2006 9:20:33 PM
You misunderstood I was not being critical of your profile (I couldn't care less about it) I was using it as an example. I figured since you "wrote" it it'd be an example I could use that you could relate to. Saying that all people with long profiles are self absorbed (or whatever you said) is a bit much I'm sure you'd agree. As for your "I didn't ask for your opinion about my profile. I'm not that stupid..." comment I surely hope I'm taking it wrong and you're not insinuating that I'm stupid because of the profile question I asked.That'd just be foolish on your part. I appreciate your opinion I just don't agree with it. Regards

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

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Could you say NO to sex Posted: 5/29/2006 1:53:05 PM
I've said no to sex on two occassions and I was extremely attracted to the 2 women I said no to. Once was a first date with a girl I really liked.We had a couple drinks (to many) and got a little carried away.I stopped because I actually liked her if I had of slept with her I wouldn't have wanted to persue a relationship. That said knowing that I could have kinda ruined it anyways.......so maybe I should have but those damned morals got in my way! Second time I had a female friend over and we had a couple drinks (common theme). After one trip to the mens room I came back to the living room to see her naked on my recliner saying "I've always wanted you". This one was very hard (pardon the pun) to walk away from but her being drunk was my reasoning once again..... Sometimes I wish my moral standards weren't so high.....I mean does it really make sense to deny yourself pleasure?

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

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To much of a good thing ? Posted: 5/29/2006 1:00:33 PM
I have an idea.I'll post a picture of my abs on my profile. Then I get the best of both worlds. The people who read my profile because its a decent read and entertaining and actually want to learn a little about my world as well as the people who just look at the pictures and go from there! As a bonus I don't have a 6 pack I have a 12.......more is always better right? :) Cheers,

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

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How Does POF Compare To Other Sites? Posted: 5/29/2006 8:45:37 AM
I think the downfall of this site is the fact that its free.(not that I'd be on here if they charged) In my opinion alot of people are just killing time and not seriously looking for friends or dates.On a pay site I'd think that if you're willing to pay you're most likely seriously putting an effort in.

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

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I HATE Line-ups -- do you ??? Posted: 5/23/2006 8:43:20 AM
As far as dating goes on here I think most people are waiting in line. You start chatting to someone that is already interested in somebody else....so they chat to you incase the other person doesn't work out. Enjoy your wait ! In the real world I refuse to wait in line. You want me to wait so I can give you my money? Why would I want to wait in line at a bar?Then have to pay to get in, again to check my coat.Then have to wait in another line for a drink.Then again to use the facilities. No thanks I'll go to the quiet bar which has no cover where I can get drinks fast and pee all night ! :)

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

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things people say in their profile Posted: 5/23/2006 8:15:25 AM
^^^ Very well put^^^ I don't understand how people get so "worked up" these days about simple things. Nobody died here, nothing that tragic. Someone voiced their opinion of what they like (or dislike). People have preferences, Darlene look at your mail settings....you weeded out some people right? So did the gentleman with the tent comment.Why is your way of doing it acceptable while his isn't? For the record I think it was funny but what do I know about funny my profile is lame :)

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

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To much of a good thing ? Posted: 4/25/2006 1:18:01 PM
To the person who made the comment about me liking to hear myself talk (or people with long profiles in general) .....very interesting. I'll be the first to admit I talk alot.That is the main reason my friends like me,I'm entertaining.I'd rather be that way than have nothing to say at all.How boring would a first meet be? At the same time being talkative is a bonus to my friends because I don't just smile and nod when they have an issue and need to vent....I talk back when need be. Judging by your profile which is 95% copy and pasted from elsewhere you are then boring and not talkative because you said nothing ??? I think Its a bad generalization that you made my friend. This was never a question of my profile being to long although I used it as an example I was wondering in general if people bother to read them. I'd like to thank everyone who responded thus far and appreciate the input.My profile is not getting shortened for those who are to lazy to read or can't read fast enough. It is the perfect length for my perfect match !

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

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To much of a good thing ? Posted: 4/24/2006 9:39:05 AM
Yes KitKat it makes sense....I may look slow in my pictures but I catch on quick! I personally don't agree with your "opinion" but hey I respect it. As a different sort of guy than the average on here I tend to actually READ profiles and pick certain things out of it to write my potential new friend. The more I have to pick from the better.

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

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To much of a good thing ? Posted: 4/24/2006 9:30:14 AM
".....takes longer than 30 minutes though..." Please tell me thats a typo..............you mean 30 seconds correct ? And do you consider that "30 seconds" a waste of time or a decent read?

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

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To much of a good thing ? Posted: 4/24/2006 9:21:49 AM
I find it interesting for those of you who are here looking for some form of relationship. If you won't take 30 seconds to read a profile (say my profile for instance) then what would make me think you'd put any time or effort into a friendship? Isn't the whole point to get to know someone? " Posted: 4/24/2006 9:16:58 AM Kiaa, isn't that what the email feature is for though? To find out more? If it's already all there, there is nothing left to talk about! " The way I look at it is if after reading my profile they can't come up with one thing to say there's a social issue there and I don't really want to chat with them then.

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

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To much of a "good" thing ? Posted: 4/24/2006 8:55:55 AM
I've heard alot of complaints about people not putting an effort into their profiles. You know the one liners and such.... I however did put effort (its not really an effort for me I love to talk) into mine and its ended up quite long. My questions are: Does having a long profile like mine leave people with nothing to say/ask me? Even if it's a good read do most people on here get bored halfway through and give up? Cheers,

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

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Too early to bust out the B.B.Q?? Posted: 4/13/2006 7:59:16 PM
To early? C'mon bro theres no such thing ! A real Canadian never puts it away. I bust out the snow shoes and hobble over to the BBQ and toss on the steaks. Its rather hard to get close to the bbq seeing as these shoes are so big so extra long tongs help. I marinade it in 10w30....hey its the only stuff that won't freeze..tastes kinda oily but damn its tender! While freezing my boys off waiting I down a couple of shots I like to call antifreeze ! Good stuff.....sweet and oddly it doesn't freeze in the cold weather :)

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

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Do you talk too much or too little? Posted: 3/29/2006 7:50:22 PM
I'm not going to answer that.Check out my profile I'm confident you'll figure it out. :) I feel awkward during silences until I really know somebody personally.

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

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Justin Timberlake OR Kevin Federline Posted: 3/29/2006 7:34:12 PM
haha nice........can't wait to see how that kid turns out. We'll be seeing her/him on Montell in 10 years

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

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Justin Timberlake OR Kevin Federline Posted: 3/29/2006 7:13:45 PM
Hey I don't know why you're knocking this Federline character. I think I'm gonna make him my posterboy. Good for him if he came from nothing/is nothing and landed a "superstar". Gives the average joe atleast a glimmer of hope that we can find our superstar too! On the otherhand I don't think Britney is all that so what do I know?

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

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Body Type Posted: 3/29/2006 7:01:32 PM
While I think alot has to do with perception I believe there are other things at work here. Firstly,what is average? From what I've read lately the average Canadian is overweight. Therefore even though I'm at the "perfect" weight for my height and gender technically I'm THIN compared to the average. So 50 years ago I would have been average now at the exact same size I'm thin! I thank all the larger people for making me become smaller :) Its a joke take it as such. Another thing is some people just don't want to admit they are larger.Sad thing about that is many people still find them attractive,myself include.Its the denial and lying about it thats the turnoff. I'm about to sound Like an afterschol special here.....JUST BE YOU!

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

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Analyzing Valentine's Day gifts Posted: 2/15/2006 6:19:55 AM
I'm curious those of you who recieved a gift on Valentines Day what did YOU give? I think this post shows how people over analyize things. To the first poster,I'd say your "boyfriend" really tried.Maybe it was all cliche gifts he bought but there was an effort. So what if he bought an inexpensive (most likely) box of chocolates and as you pointed out "pink" roses. If he had of bought red would you be here saying he shouldn't have because red means love and he shouldn't love me yet? Are people ever happy? A little note. Flowers of any kind or colour are just that to a guy.....flowers. They are pretty yes but are overpriced and will die in a few days then they go in the garbage.Unless of course you dry them up and keep them. Whats the point? They are dead,old and withered. Do you keep your old goldfish too? I think Vday is an over commercialized joke and if people cared for their mate they wouldn't expect gifts or analyze the ones the were lucky enough to recieve. What do I know.....I'm just a guy.

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

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best fart story Posted: 2/14/2006 9:59:27 PM
I can't believe I almost forgot about this.I also can't believe I have two contributions to this thread. Maybe I should wear a diaper ? It was the weekend and I was over at my 38 yr old neighbours house having a couple drinks.After a few I realize I had some gas to release.As we've all done before (c'mon admit it) I gingerly lift one cheek off the couch cushion and relax hoping it eases our silently. Luckily it did and I sat there proud of my accomplishment (ok not really) until the odor crept up. I didn't know if I should leave the room or not move to try and contain the smell. Seconds later my neighbour begins to sniffle.This is my lucky break I think,she has a stuffed up nose. She continues to sniffle and I ask if she has a cold coming on.She says NO. Then I realize she's taking in deep breaths as if she's trying to smell something. Then of all things out of her mouth comes "do you smell chocolate?" as she continues to inhale deeply through her nose. I tried so hard to contain my laughter as she sat there inhaling my gas purposely. So ladies you may smell like roses but I have you beat.... I sh*t you not (punny huh?) true story There's actually a part two to this but I'll refrain.

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

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best fart story Posted: 2/14/2006 3:18:44 PM
Fair enough I'll let you use it free of charge. Just never use his name it vain !!

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

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University degree? Waste of time... Posted: 2/14/2006 3:06:21 PM
Psychology degree huh? You could make a killing off of our fellow POFer's I think there might be an issue or two around here Personally I'm more a fan of trade work as opposed to Universities overrated BA's. My opinion,University proves you are smart and can learn...doesn't give you a grasp of anything specific unless you continue passed a BA. As a bonus trade work is great for under the table work.....errr not that I recomend it I hear its illegal ..... Cheers

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

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CHEATERS Posted: 2/14/2006 12:40:29 PM
The original poster does have a point although not that well thought out. I believe that alot (notice I didn't say all) of people on here are "always looking for the next best thing". I have noticed it with alot of people I've chatted with. They end up in a relationship with someone keep their profile open and check their mail often. Sure you could say they are checking the forums or have friends here but c'mon everyone has MSN for their friends. The kicker for me is when they don't change their marital status or what they're looking for.

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

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Valentine's Day Alone Again Posted: 2/14/2006 12:34:40 PM
I think most of you are putting to much stock in a day that is 90% commercial. I realize it is thrown in your face and its hard to escape however so is every other holiday. Why is it harder to be alone today than it was yesterday? Personally even when I'm in a relationship I SKIP Valentines day. GF's always appreciate little things throughtout the year much more when they aren't forced or expected.

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

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best fart story Posted: 2/14/2006 12:22:47 PM
A little background first: I was sick years ago with crohns disease.After getting out of the hospital on one occassion I was taking my medication (steroids) for serveral weeks.To those in the know steroids make you eat....ALOT! One day after enjoying my 6th meal of the day I went to the park to play basketball with the boys. T'was a nice day with a slight breeze when I jumped up to block a shot and POOF ! I swear I thought I blew the @ss off my shorts and singed the hair off the friend behind me! After taking a wiff everyone ran in disgust.Thing was like a wall though everywhere you went there it was. It took 5 minutes in the breezy air for the court to clear. I'm sure the weather network issued a smog warning ! Luckily my ilness is under control and that was the end of Captain Craptacular !

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

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OTTAWA, Nov.19th, Maxwells, All welcome! Posted: 11/20/2005 12:57:03 AM
Curious........how many people actually made it there? I was there (around 1200am). Didn't seem to notice any POF'ers though. Had a great time nontheless.......you can see pics of me (to know if you saw me) if you read my profile carefully . Hope ya'll had fun. Cheers, Wayne

slickshooter2

Joined: 10/10/2005

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OTTAWA, Nov.19th, Maxwells, All welcome! Posted: 11/4/2005 7:50:09 AM
I'm there on Fridays fairly often and I would say trying to meet upstairs isn't a good idea unless everyone is there for the target time (9pm). Any later and its just way to busy there to even try to mingle. Just my advice to anyone who's going. Maybe dinner (drinks) downstairs first to chat and get to know each other? They wave the cover if you eat (drink?) downstairs Not trying to flame the thread I'd just like to see everyone have fun. Cheers, Wayne

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