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 Author Thread: Major help needed
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Major help needed
Posted: 8/2/2007 9:08:36 PM
thanx for the support from therobeffect but i want something clear for everyone on this forum. I do not reccomend what i did to anyone over my summer when it finally sank in i was hit like a ton of bricks. I don't advocate insane amounts of gaming in fact after realizing i lost something so important over something so stupid and trivial i stuck my pc games all in a lock box and tossed it along with the key in my closet. and before you say anything crimson this is not an attempt to impress you it's just that after i realized what i lost for what i got the games felt filthy and i didn't; want to play them anymore they werent worth what i lost i just hope this can help others from making the same mistake and losing such an important part of their life....anyway the good news is that without games i had a lot of time and apparently my creative block since i took up gaming in high school lifted so i started writing again with my spare time i actually am going to start a book and try to graduate college witha best seller or two already out......so anyway don't be fools games are never more important that the woman in your life don't make my mistake folks you'll be like me and regret it every day of your life even when you feel ready for a new relationship you'll still hate yourself for it.........best of luck to everyone.
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Major help needed
Posted: 8/1/2007 8:39:10 PM
lol wow i go offline for 3 months in the summer and just chill with my freinds and the public forums have turned into a circus oh everyone here please do continue i need a new form of entertainment with the boring stiffs in my home town i really enjoy reading this stuff. some of you make great points and it leads to interesting and funny conversations oh and just for the record crimson we hadn't broken up a second time when this was posted if you would have read it carefully this was after our very first break-up and it does look pretty stupid to be commenting on it now anyway i have a novel to get back to writing and maybe a piano practice too.
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Major help needed
Posted: 10/20/2006 11:07:58 AM
i thank everyone for the advice but this problem has sort of just today resolved itself and i'm no longer in need of help. we've both agreed to a split for a chance to see other people if not for good so thanx to everyone for the help but thankfully my head is clearer today and now i feel like a dunce for even posting such a rediculous problem......sorry if i've inconvenienced anyone and thankfully i've gotten over i'm a blubbering idiot phase. oh and to the suggestion of things to occupy my time outside of video games thanx for the advice but i already had that kind of stuff being in choir and in theatre, but now i have some new freinds i didnt' have before to spend time with too and it's all good.....well thanks to everyone.
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Major help needed
Posted: 10/20/2006 3:33:17 AM
to roo giddy up, it's not an attempt to suck up, and i didn't say they ment more she took it that way and i am fully aware of my addiction, in fact i've stopped cold turkey and intend to keep it that way for my betterment not for hers. to arealangel i won't be over it in twenty minutes because i'm not the average shallow 19 year old, 19 is only a number i am 19 but have the mentality of 30 by the opinion of many people a lot older than me. and thanx to everyone for the advice but it's all kinda over now as i was actually making headway but then subconciously decided to stick a size 25 combat boot in my giant stupid ****ing head.
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 1597 (view)
 
GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 10/20/2006 12:18:04 AM
i would wait if it was her choice. in fact i would really respect that decision
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Would you be willing to move to a different state if you met the one?
Posted: 10/20/2006 12:16:17 AM
I would move anywhere in the world for the one i love. that's just what she means to me.
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Major help needed
Posted: 10/20/2006 12:05:16 AM
OK so the story is the relevant part to this:

My girlfreind just recently broke up with me for a few reasons but a big one being i was playing to many video games and not paying enough attention to her. Now i've come to realize this but the since she broke things off i have gone cold turkey from my games which for me is like trying to get a 60 yo man who's been smoking since 18 to just up and quit. I've also tried to make it apparent that i would do anything just to keep her in my life. I've completely changed who i am in hopes that she will stay with me, because she has said that she does still love me....problem being she has a freind she has feelings for and she's afraid that if she stays with me she will end up cheating on me and so she's kind of in a stage where she is closing herself off from anything with either of us. I care about her more than i think she realizes but i've been slightly vague and not said exactly how deep my feelings run.

the story is as told what can anyone offer for advice. if there is anything needs clarifying i am glad to do so.
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 55 (view)
 
weird thing I noticed about teenage girls
Posted: 3/6/2006 8:57:03 AM
I think the Op needs to shut up...giving us younger people a bad image every time he opens his mouth and I sure don't want him speaking for me. I question if he doesnt actually type just like the teenage girls he acts close enough to their age.
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 65 (view)
 
love is all you need ..errrr...or is n't it??
Posted: 3/6/2006 8:20:32 AM
commonsens you just described everything that love entails and said it's not enough...I can only say...huh?
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 73 (view)
 
What's with the girly men?
Posted: 3/2/2006 9:40:15 AM
depends....does she know cars then hell yeah asside from changing my transmission I don't know jack....and I have nothing wrong with masculine women unless they look like arnold shwarzenneger see you guys are preaching to the wrong damn choir...I'm an accepting person I don't eliminate someone from a list of potential dates based on being too manly....after all I'm a good cook I clean pretty well I actually need a manly woman in a relationship because I already cover the feminine for her... I mean come on look at my name musicalthespian....shouts gay don't it... just don't tell my girlfreind
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 71 (view)
 
What's with the girly men?
Posted: 3/2/2006 9:30:31 AM
ok finger let me put it this way...now that I'm awake...man it's good to finally get some sleep after three days. anyway what is wrong with being in touch with ones feminine side? is it such a bad thing to have emotions. what is your take on the stereotypical romantic I spose any guy like that is considered to be a fairy tale....and what's with the girls comment...I mean just because someone is concerned about their appearance and hygiene doesn't make them a girl....or would you like your women to do the same...stop showering stop brushing, stop doing their hair and make-up I bet you wouldn't but you'll criticize a man for doing to much of these things...and as far as gays go a lot of them aren't all that "feminine" anyway some of them are more masculine than the straight guys I know. But I suppose something bad happened to you sometime in the past when you opened up and showed emotions and took good care of yourself and because something bad happened you just shut up in a little shell where all guys live on possum lake,shower once a week, use lots of duck tape, make things out of the crap lying in the yard and drink lots of beer. sorry but I don't want to be living in the backwoods again it took too long to get rid of the male stereotypes and I'm proud to take care of myself and to cry at an occasional chick flick....that doesn't make me any less of a man....and if you think it does well then w/e doesn't bother me what you think of me....I'm me not you and that is good enough to keep me happy
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 57 (view)
 
Do women still like guys who sing to them?
Posted: 3/2/2006 1:37:04 AM
Honestly.....I am in agreement with you finally. it's true opera singers most do have some training I would just like to point out to you that there are also musical actors who don't necisarily have any training....i.e. some guy is an actor and auditions for the phantom in phantom of the opera...he happens to have a great voice there fore gets the part ...not all people who sing on what musicians would consider the professional level have formal training...but yeah in opera definitely
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 66 (view)
 
What's with the girly men?
Posted: 3/2/2006 1:32:43 AM
hey finger5 I think you may just be jelous that these young boys growing up to be girls are getting more than you. or maybe you just feel insecure about yourself and are afraid that too many more of them will bring out your own true self.
 Musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 19 (view)
 
A sad inescapable truth. psycho mom = psycho daughter.
Posted: 3/1/2006 9:52:48 AM
it depends on the person I'm personally not all that much like my father I more closely act like my mother...sadly
 Musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 39 (view)
 
What's with the girly men?
Posted: 3/1/2006 9:39:17 AM
good thing for my gf that I know the thereputics behind it....considering a few freinds of mine are professionals and I love learning new things in life.
 Musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 35 (view)
 
What's with the girly men?
Posted: 3/1/2006 9:32:39 AM
sorry random bird I dont like the massage Idea in a relationship I'd rather give you a massage than go to a spa or something and get us both one...don't know how you would be about it but personally I like to bust out the oils and do full body if the person is important enough
 Musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 33 (view)
 
What's with the girly men?
Posted: 3/1/2006 9:08:08 AM
just curious what if the guy they can take to the day spa can actually change a tire and do other handy work?
 Musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 31 (view)
 
What's with the girly men?
Posted: 3/1/2006 8:14:47 AM
you know I don't know if this post makes me feel bad or makes me feel proud but what the hell are all you guys complaining about at least you have body hair in need of waxing....damn it why do you have to rub it in.... Anyway I think it's fine to take care of your body personally I am big on cosmetics but I can change a tire too...not to mention a transmision *under breath*(stupid pos car)....lol anyway one question though on this topic where do I stand?...just curious and one other question....I'm an actor so does being good at applying make-up due to being in lots of plays count to being a girly man?
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 61 (view)
 
love is all you need ..errrr...or is n't it??
Posted: 3/1/2006 7:39:40 AM
love is enough for some people not for others all depends on who you are. some people will stay with each other whether they have money or are dirt poor you know the whole "for better, or for worse" that's what love is about my freinds and everyone is looking at it as oh if there is no money then love can't carry through...bullsh!t I say....my family has been dead broke my whole life but that doesn't mean my parents just gave up on each other because they didn't have the money or what have you. no they kept to that vow..."for better, or for worse." I think if you look through the vows that are typically read at a wedding that will tell what love is about not these posts no matter what kinds of opinions are stated I think that really can anyone but the married and divorced people really know the truth on this since they are the only ones who have taken it far enough to say those important words...seriously folks modern society love isn't "love" anymore what people view as love now is just "convenience" when it's convenient for me to love you then we'll be together when you are older uglier and broke then loving you isn't convenient...anymore....if we're married we'll divorce since everyone in this world does it especially in America...mainly because we are the most greedyand power hungry....but to all of you on this post I ask this question and hope to see some responses.....anyone who has parents who are still together ask "them" what love "is" and if it's enough to carry a relationship by itself.....then maybe we'll start to see how corrupted all of us really are myself included probably but it'd be good to know and change..so let me know what those people who have been together 20-50 years or more have to say...talk to your parents people I assume that you all still remember them...older people giving you orders as a teenager...that'd be them...lol so go to these relics as some may call them and find the truth about what makes a relationship last.
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Do women still like guys who sing to them?
Posted: 2/28/2006 10:29:56 PM
hey honeslty over your knee that's really cool and everything but a degree don't really mean anything. the most succesful people in the world of music some havn't even had so much as a voice lesson....sorry to get off topic but I think girls go nuts for singing to them the girls I went to high school with all thought that my singing in general whether to them or not was hot. so yeah I think women love a guy that sings
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Do women still like guys who sing to them?
Posted: 2/27/2006 9:21:14 PM
lol honestly that's hilarious but truthfully a great tenor can sound both sexy and sing an alto or soprano part they are called countertenors and three of the beachboys were and women loved their voices.
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Do women still like guys who sing to them?
Posted: 2/27/2006 9:05:25 PM
damn honestly where've you been finally someone who finds us tenors sexy normally we get ...hey he sounds like a girl. thanx though
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 102 (view)
 
Yet, another what would you do...
Posted: 2/27/2006 8:46:13 PM
I can understand the wanting to see her more if you like her, however keep in mind you've met five times and had sex twice that's pretty lucky on your part there are a lot of women that wouldn't put out at all with only five dates....sorry but it's true and the fact that you brought it up means it's somewhere in your subconcious so don't try to bullsh!t me by saying that the sex doesnt matter that much if it didn't you would have only ****ed about the lack of time together not about the lack of sex.....and again it's not really a lack considering the ratio of sex to meetings....so in other words stop contradicting urself...talk to her about getting mor time together for hanging out or sex whatever you want to do with her I don't really care but talk it over straighten out where you both stand in the relationship and quite whining to people for help if your not willing to take their criticism as well as their advice.
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 17 (view)
 
how far would you go?
Posted: 2/27/2006 7:29:09 PM
I'm up for anything she can come up with except for another guy in the room...and one condition I need a safe word just in case...especially cuz' me and my gf have some pretty rough and intense fantasies
some which involve possibly drawing a small amount of blood...yeah call me crazy I don't care.
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Do women still like guys who sing to them?
Posted: 2/27/2006 6:38:45 PM
why thanx for the compliment dollar_bill....lol
just kidding of course
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Do women still like guys who sing to them?
Posted: 2/27/2006 6:35:58 PM
I've personally found that a guy who is a good singer is considered to be sexy for it...at least I've been told... so I would say that it could make you appealing at least I don't know if actually singing to a girl is a turn on but I would assume that at least a few of them find it romantic.
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Why do some feel they must tear others apart?
Posted: 2/27/2006 6:28:30 PM
yeah I've never been moderated for crassness but I'm sorry for being an @$$ anyway...lol if your offended by anything I've ever posted...too bad stop whining and get over it....haha just kidding I try my best to be nice but you have to be mean and agressive to a certain point but I agree some people take it a little far.
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 44 (view)
 
help help help help help help help
Posted: 2/27/2006 11:23:53 AM
you know I for the most part agree with everything that's been said here but just to avoid the op commiting suicide I'd like to say something nice...or at least try....it's already been stated everything that's wrong with this so I won't go into it but as far as advice I will say that you should talk to your freinds see if they know anyone or know of someone who knows anyone and go on some dates...secondly apologize to this family it'll hurt seeing as you "love" him so to say but trust me it'll be for the best to say your sorry and leave him be for good. if you freinds can introduce you to anybody at all take them up on it no matter who he is or what he looks like just get your mind on some other guys and see some other guys it'll make the transition easier....I'd hate to upset any posters but you know untill I read all these posts I prolly would have cursed you for an evil person but seeing as it's been done I'll leave with this: I hope sincerely that you can do as I've stated and then eventually forget about this guy and find someone that's right for you....best of luck but that's all I got
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 44 (view)
 
love is all you need ..errrr...or is n't it??
Posted: 2/27/2006 9:40:10 AM
hey drew I can't believe you would have such a negative look at LDR's considering your in one.....not that it 's staying that way much longer but still....you just seem to making it sound like they are evil and should be avoided and that's hypocritical...sorry freind...lol
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 29 (view)
 
men seem to be either boring or shallow
Posted: 2/27/2006 8:33:26 AM
hey steelforarms that statement sounds like exactly what the poster is getting at. so I should say that maybe people shouldn't add and reassure this fact unless of course you are shallow and boring or just flat out stupid....anyway I don't necessarily agree with you either I know a lot of guys that don't care if your body is perfect....hell what is perfect there is no such thing....only what is perfect to the person in question...your idea of a perfect body may be totally different than mine. so you should find a little bit better way to put things and in general try to say something that actually contributes to the question rather than attacking the person that posted it..
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 20 (view)
 
men seem to be either boring or shallow
Posted: 2/27/2006 5:01:35 AM
amen broken soul that's really all I can say at this pt.. the lack of sleep is causing a loss of coherent thought..
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 229 (view)
 
Fun One Liners
Posted: 2/27/2006 2:54:58 AM
this is a bit dirty but...."there is no such thing as rape, only surprise sex."
"I've gone to find myself, if I get back before I return, keep me here."
"if there is such a thing as heaven on earth it'd be in your arms"
last ones' a little cheesy but oh well
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 12 (view)
 
men seem to be either boring or shallow
Posted: 2/27/2006 2:08:30 AM
that's an interesting finding thanx for the good peice of info filmscorpio....now I'll never look at shakespeare the same way again....lol jk actually that really doesn't have anything positive or negative on my arguement but I thank you for that being an actor I find that interesting since I've done a few things of shakespears
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 10 (view)
 
men seem to be either boring or shallow
Posted: 2/27/2006 1:52:20 AM
so just curious does every guy fit one of these I'd sure hope not....cuz' I'd hate to think that my gf finds me boring or shallow....however I wouldn't go as far as to say deep either there is such a thing as being too deep right? I mean sure shakespeare was romantic but could you imagine being his gf....and hearing stuff like in romeo and juliet every day. I mean how would you have felt if you were juliet it'd be a bit overwhelming....at least I think so. anyway to the poster of this don't give up yet....if your strong and independent and INTERESTING(being the key one here) you will find someone that will make you feel good to be around.
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 26 (view)
 
love ...
Posted: 2/26/2006 12:41:19 PM
[quotes] But I think you need to have a friendship, the ability to communicate about all things, not just the good stuff. Similar values/morals. Similar goals. Similar wants and needs when it comes to the domestic situation.

exoticblueeyes26...I'm on your side but I don't think I completly agree with you. Can you really fall in love if you don't have some of these things like similar values/morals?
-Drew-
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 24 (view)
 
love is all you need ..errrr...or is n't it??
Posted: 2/26/2006 12:32:34 PM

pap,

Been there many times, I distrust it now.

Friends LD - sure thing.

Love? nope.

I trust being able to see and feel someone often over phone, text, occasional flights.


Someone can cheat on you just as easily in person as they can in an LDR. I guess things tend to be less personal in an LDR and you do have tend to have more temptation to cheat but love can be enough to stop that temptation...but it isn't always enough I guess.
-Drew-
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 23 (view)
 
love is all you need ..errrr...or is n't it??
Posted: 2/26/2006 12:16:39 PM
Well, to start, I'm going to reply to the author and then read the follow ups.


is love alone enough??


It depends on what you are talking about. If by "enough" you mean to have a relationship that will last for the rest of your life (which I am assuming you mean)...no, then it's not enough. Money makes the world go round and if you fall in love with someone that is poor, financial problems can get the best of the relationship. Stability is another issue. If someone is in jail then that can get the best of a relationship.


Besides love, what else is needed??


Well, it depends on the couple. For many people here are the other things that are needed: money, stability, potential for children (although this is very contraversial), loyalty (yes, you can have love without loyalty), happiness, being somewhat close in age, being in the same point in your life for the most part, being able to adapt/compromise, and I'm sure there are more things. Not all of these apply to all people.


is physical presence a MUST??


For most people I would say it is. I'm not going to judge people on how they feel on this issue. I think at least the probability to see them in the future really is a must. If you know you will never see them again most people would look for other people. Your religious beliefs can really dictate this, however. For instance, some religions don't allow for you to get re-married after you become widowed. I think this is a great example for you to figure out if physical presence matters for you. If you became widowed, would you remarry or no? Could you keep a relationship with your dead spouse or no? If you move on, it really isn't much different from moving on from a long distance relationship because of physical presence. So does that help? I hope so.
-Drew-
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 13 (view)
 
love ...
Posted: 2/26/2006 4:21:15 AM
all I can say to this is that if love is not enough that what you have is not love....real love is binding and is always enough and if it's not enough on it's own then it's not enough.....my parents have been happily married for over twenty years and it's love that gets them through the times when they fight...if you break up the moment there is a fight or you try to avoid confrontation then you don't have love it's some other "l" word....and love should be enough over a distance to if you actually really love the person not just think you do.
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Is old fashioned courtin out of date?
Posted: 2/26/2006 4:09:42 AM
I agree I think poetry is an awsome way to show affection I love writing poetry not to mention a guy deffinitely should hold a door open at least once in a while. well said
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Is old fashioned courtin out of date?
Posted: 2/25/2006 1:24:14 PM
where the hell are the woman like you around by me snowflake....I hold a door open for a girl and get called a **** or a wimp....what ever happened to being a gentlemen
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Is old fashioned courtin out of date?
Posted: 2/25/2006 5:32:45 AM
well speaking on a grand scale including online and not online dating situations Ithink courting is just out of date I mean personally I think it's a great thing but the media broadcasts the image that it's all about kissing and sexx and making out...which personally I would rather a first kiss be something that means something rather than just cuz' the media says it should happen on a first date. I mean seriously people we really should start thinking for ourselves anyway....Fight the media Fight the man.....lol anyway just my personal opinion.
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 9 (view)
 
A relationship that ' worked?
Posted: 2/25/2006 5:28:27 AM
actually squirrly I'd like to see some hard facts on that if you would be kind enough to look them up I think the divorce rate is still only around 50% or maybe still under therefore the love lasting works over half the time if my math skills are still sharp as they used to be....
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Different backgrounds - Can it work?
Posted: 2/25/2006 3:03:08 AM
I agree with almost everything said her and I just want to add that you should let her know it's only right if the relationship gets serious I mean a couple should have no or very few secrets in my opinion the more you know about each other the stronger your relationship....

P.S. Desert rat I'm pulling for you man your story actually really touched me. it gives me hope for a couple of my high school freinds who went a bit off the well beaten path...if anything your an inspiration thanx man for sharing.
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 22 (view)
 
why has dating change
Posted: 2/25/2006 2:51:24 AM
I have to say that it's true that people are too materialistic but I don't beilieve this thing about looks being able to be passed by....something on someones physical body has to catch your eye to make you pick that person out of everyone in the room to talk to....aside from that I would agree that money can't buy love but it sure buys a lot of nice things and sorry but lack of ambition is not a good thing regardless of what you think about materialism because the truth is having money will keep you alive longer and get you a woman at least in this world....medical bills don't pay themselves...and as far as the women are concerned they may not care as much if your working and just don't make much but if your a guy who is unemployed and making no effort to be financially succesful you can't expect most women to fall for you....for the simple fact that it's hard enough supporting ones self in this world most people don't want to support their bf/gf as well unless that person makes some effort to bring in money. As far as being a nice guy as I've seen stated in here somewhere that doesn't make you a loser...being a romantic is perfectly fine...I am myself actually ...and just for reference if I'm coming off as an ***hole I'm sorry but I am entitled to an opinion and this is just it.....and broken sould I'm sorry to hear that about your bf I hope he gets out soon and I wish you well.
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 61 (view)
 
Does anyone know how to love anymore ?
Posted: 2/25/2006 1:58:30 AM
I hate to have to say it but to get the truth is that love is becoming a myth in modern day society...people who are willing to be in serious loving relationships are dwindling...and probably because of the cruel ways that people hurt each other now adays...not to mention that even in serious relationships neither person trusts the other and is constantly concerned that their significant other may be cheating on them. when people can't even trust their bf and gf without seeing undeniable truth then how is anyone supposed to be open enough to truly love.....not everyone is like this but it is the most common reason for why no one knows how to love....everyone is shutting themselves out and protecting #1. for example I'm one of the few people I know who is willing to entrust personal information to anyone that isn't a close personal freind...albeit I may just be very open with things about myself but that' isn't a bad thing at least by being open I show that I trust the other person that way they can develop a trust of me....in any relationship someone has to disclose something personal to start building trust.....don't believe me ask anything you want and chances are I'll have an answer.
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Are there any guys out there .......
Posted: 2/25/2006 1:42:03 AM
I'd agree some guys are looking for serious relationships but location does play into it severely...hell you'd be on my list crazy03 after looking at your profile but you unfortunately live like a half week away....it's unfortunate really...I've seen a lot of people on here that are interesting and they live like a two three days drive away...and I'm sure allthe guys who are interested in relationships have stumbled upon this problem when looking at profiles.
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 153 (view)
 
Myers-Briggs Personality type...if you know it?
Posted: 2/24/2006 8:32:28 PM
Hey ENFP! I'm an actor though so go figure ....lol I'm on a quest to entertain the world but my test results are all barely over the line to the side I get so I'm also up to helping with that world domination thing too...but I request that we use the top 100 things to do if I was an evil overlord as a guide so we don't fail like Vader...Hitler, Napolean...you get the idea....lol
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 24 (view)
 
I think nice guy and jerk should be renamed.
Posted: 2/24/2006 3:50:13 PM
that's not true I cant agree with fran 100% I'll agree 99% though...there are guys out there who don't change their opinions just based on whether you can make them hard...some guys really don't care that much and are more interested in your intelligence and knowing that there's more to you than a body...because honestly by the time your forty or fifty....that great body is gonna leave you some time then what happens?
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 19 (view)
 
I think nice guy and jerk should be renamed.
Posted: 2/24/2006 3:44:30 PM
eat the carrot yourself jumpypants I'm a carnivore I'll stick to big game and steak...lol
 musicalthespian
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 9 (view)
 
I think nice guy and jerk should be renamed.
Posted: 2/24/2006 3:35:04 PM
I think the prey thing is a load of crap...I'm a nice guy...granted I don't wine about not getting women I have no troubles but some guys can't help it they have to be babies it's all they know....and as far as nice guys being prey I'm offended ...and would like to ask you what you mean by prey because it isn't easy for someone get to me even gorgeous women...it's called having common sense and knowing how to spot the so called predators...who are really terrible hunters I might ad cuz' no ones caught me yet but I've caught a couple of them so maybe they need hunting lessons from the prey...lol but hey I do like your creativity ...and there is small truth in some of what you say so contemplate the subject a little more and come up with something solid as evidence. then I'd be willing to consider your statement worth considering.
 
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