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Angel Eyes_Sassy Mouth

Joined: 10/11/2005

Msg: 26 (view)

Ex-Boyfriend as God-father? Posted: 2/12/2008 2:49:44 PM
Just my opinion but maybe joe is picking up on the discrepancies in your stories and he might be feeling like there is more to what you tell him about guy. You attended a party and asked your new boyfriend to tell a guy , who he did not know or find out till the next day, was your old boyfriend , that it was ok for him to still come over? Who did your new boyfriend think this guy was? I would wait till you are further along in the relationship and if it is as good as you say, perhaps after marraige to ask to let your son call him daddy. Maybe he can adopt him. As far as the shirt, inappropriate perhaps, i wouldn't let my son wear it. He has a point there, as far as him being a god father to your son, When he's older and asks who this person is, there is nothing wrong with saying it's your godfather. That's what you should be telling him now. He doesn't have to know the whole story that you dated him. If you do end up having more children, they aren't all going to have the same godparents. Whoever the godparents will be i don't think will disregard other children in the home. If they do then i'd have a problem. When someone is made a godparent they will always be the godparent in the eyes of the church. Can't just exchange them. You can have the godparent not involved in the childs life. If you are going to make a decision like that, do it soon before the 2 year old becomes attached. They realize more then you think.

Angel eyes_Sassy mouth

Joined: 10/11/2005

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Continuing War on Illegal Aliens Posted: 12/24/2007 5:41:22 AM
Has anyone heard of the green Card Lottery?! The United States Government (from what i have read) Has a lottery every year...The Diversity Immigrant Visa Program... that imports 55,000 immigrants into the United States every year simply by entering this lottery and having a computer pick their lottery number. If that person who put in the entry wins, the Government allows them, their spouse and any children under 21 to come and live and work in the USA. Airfare provided as well.......They don't have to try and enter illegally anymore, just pick a number! So...at the rate of 55,000 a year pretty soon us USA legal citizens will have to move to some foreign country to live where no one else lives because they all will be here!! What are they thinking??

greeneyez_cutie

Joined: 10/11/2005

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If she only had one Condom, a potential relationship could have been saved. Posted: 7/16/2007 5:34:12 AM
"with the morals of a goat "........ I'm sorry but that was funny!

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

Msg: 60 (view)

would you marry this man Posted: 1/20/2007 8:39:53 AM
Wow....well the new girlfriend should have dumped his sorry a** the first time he was HONEST enough to tell her he was seeing the ex ! Why would someone even want to be with someone they KNOW is cheating on them? This went on for 14 months of her knowing what he was like and she agreed to marry him anyway? Now they are engaged and he has been caught twice more AND he tells her he dreams of her and CAN he go see her? (I am still laughing)...Did she say "ok Honey"...?? OF COURSE she should break it off....They both should!! People only do to you what you let them do ......remember that!!

Babie_Dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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DUSTY ANTIQUES Posted: 12/3/2006 6:57:46 AM
My passion as well. I understand what you mean by the "mystical quality". My collection consists of old dolls...books.....and couple other oddities. If it's old and unusual i'd probably buy it. I have a Three Faced Doll circa 1905 or earlier that i can't find any info on...Would love to find out more info on her! Not the one with the knob on her head either. I see these really old houses and just wanna go through the attics to see what treasures i would find...LOL...

Babie_Dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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Cockatiel vs Cat - Bird loses Posted: 11/28/2006 11:36:27 AM
Hi...as to the question of leaving the eggs...LEAVE THEM as both the male and the female would have taken care of them. I would though put the cage(if able) in a location where Mr Kitty won't be able to get them. Don't wanna add any more stress to the bird and the eggs. I had that happen to me once but i came home to find the lil leftover bones on the table. My kitty musta suddenly developed table manners LOL...Good luck.....

Babie_Dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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Excellent review .. 360 verses PS3 Posted: 11/27/2006 5:19:06 AM
Me personally...not a big connect the wire fan! Just have fun with my frogger game that you just connect the two wires(color coded of course) to the tv! LOL.....My son on the other hand has GOT TO HAVE ya know the newest thingy...PS3 though...anyone see that new Wii game?

Babie_Dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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The creepiest date ever! Posted: 11/24/2006 5:00:59 PM
That is soooo funny! Does he take the dog for a walk? Does kitty have a litter box (with something in it)? Last but not least...was there lil birdy chirps coming from the cage! LOL....I hope you got out of there before the Stuffed Peppers were served!

Babie_Dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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Serial Killers ? Born or Made ?? Read the Book And Find Out! Posted: 11/24/2006 6:15:35 AM
Interesting topic. I too have many books written about serial killers. I especially enjoy Anne Rule's books. I just finished reading one about Henry Lee Lucas... written by Dr. Joel Norris...now he was sick! This book "My life among the serial killers"....is another i'll have to get. You can't believe these people only kill because they were physically and emotionally abused. There ARE those who were abused to horrific extent like Lucas who killed his own mother and then there are those like Ted Bundy who had loving parents...excellent job.....Then they say they have split personalities.....many different views as to why these people kill....now they say it's a gene, interesting...i'll have to read it.

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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What does 69 mean? Posted: 10/25/2006 10:48:11 AM
It could mean anything...Only the member using it knows.....BUT if you look, there are lots of uses for 69...such as a Route...Woodstock(before my time) LOL....could be a channel....birtdate...etc...how the interperter views it is another thing....

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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A baby was killed Posted: 9/25/2006 4:10:16 PM
Arrested OR convicted......the outcome was still the same. An innocent child died in the hands of a person who was indeed a physco. As a mother it is her RESPONSIBILITY to make sure she is PROTECTING her child and to even get into a relationship to begin with ...with someone who was previously arrested for the act he just commited....(and I don't wanna hear maybe she didn't know) AS again it is her RESPONSIBILITY to know WHO she is getting into a relationship with , especially before bringing this person around her child. She DEFINATELY should get time as well because she is just as GUILTY....If the courts don't see this then there is something wrong with our judicial system! It truly amazes me some of the people men/women bring into their lives just for the sake of not being alone.....

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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The pedofiles among us Posted: 8/28/2006 3:48:03 PM
It's cases like this when you are glad that someone IS on the internet POSING as a child so that these sickos can be caught. I hope they catch them all. I tell ya IF I KNEW what piece of jewely they all were wearing every time i saw one of them , they'd get a foot up their a**! I can't believe they actually call it a "Childrens Rights Movement" . Children have the RIGHT to be SAFE and PROTECTED.. NOT to be preyed on by these sickos.

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

Msg: 42 (view)

The pedofiles among us Posted: 8/27/2006 5:28:09 PM
Try Family Watchdog.com .....It'll say do a free search. If it still does not work for you there are websites that you can do free sex offender searches as well.

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

Msg: 40 (view)

The pedofiles among us Posted: 8/27/2006 2:44:38 PM
That's pretty disturbing...there's a website you can go to ...check and see if they are in your neighborhood. Watchdog.com. You'd be surprised to see just how many actually are in YOUR NEIGHBORHOOD.

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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Snobby People in life Posted: 8/27/2006 2:36:57 PM
I can't stand snobby people. I had this neighbor once (she moved) this woman just thought she was better...prettier.....I don't know about smarter as in the entire 4 years i lived next to her we spoke approximately 10 words. She never spoke to anyone but her son. Talk about walking like a stick was up her a**...she had an entire tree trunk! She just ooozed snob. I still don't know whay she was that way. She was no better then anyone else but SHE thought she was. I have no time or patience for people like that. She wasn't rich either. You don't have to be wealthy to be snobby. I know people very well off and they aren't snobby at all. I even know of this really really ugly girl from my bartending days...missing teeth ...the whole bit. She was as snobby as they come.....

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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why if I search for someone to date they all ways has kids Posted: 8/6/2006 5:56:38 PM
You ALWAYS like to start fresh and build a family the old fashioned way ?? How many families do you have and please let us know WHAT you have done with the mothers of these children since you "DON'T LIKE DIVORCE OR LEAVING SOMEONE"..... Me thinks you just scared off a lot of women.....AND WE THANK YOU!!

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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Man Boobs Posted: 8/2/2006 10:10:13 AM
Man Boobs huh? I don't know ...definately not~ if he also had a "Mangina"

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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too many dogs Posted: 7/23/2006 5:10:36 AM
Breeders that OVERBREED their animals purely for profit should be limited by the AKC or there should be some kind of law to prevent this. The animals in pounds and shelters usually are older and already set in their ways and lots of people want puppies especially if they have kids. So there should be some way to prevent overbreeding and by that i mean...litter after litter but what people do in their own homes can't be controlled so easily. There are responsible breeders that do actually care for their pets and actually look into WHO is bringing their animal home. They ask for references and permission slips from landlords if they rent. Maybe more concern like this from the breeders themselves will help control animals just tossed out or thrown in shelters.....

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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You know what they say about guys with big feet?! Posted: 7/3/2006 8:30:56 AM
Yeah...But not true! I know this guy who is a big guy 6 ft something...big feet...big hands...big everything cept the weenie! The size of a cigarette butt.......without the cigarette.....I think...he used to be a woman!

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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Feeling lost and heartbroken for my son Posted: 6/30/2006 8:21:01 AM
Good luck in finding everything you need to...I hope everything works out for you and your son. Hopefully the family will be back in touch with you!!

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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CT girls Posted: 6/29/2006 4:30:36 PM
I'm not shallow or stuck up.... I have however met both men and women who are though...but thats all over not just in Ct.....

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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Grizzly Man Posted: 6/29/2006 4:21:33 PM
I bought the DVD....I think what he did in his last year was plain stupid. He said all through the movie NOT to camp where bears can't see you. So ...why did he? He should have followed his own advice. Then there's the girlfriend...she didn't like the bears. WHY...would she stay with him there ...she was even talking of leaving him? If you didn't believe in killing the bears at least he should have had a method of protection, such as a tranquilizer gun...dumb....dumb...dumb....Even though the bear that ate him in the end was not one he had been filming and living with...still should have had some sort of protection...movie gave me the creeps...especially where they kept showing him filming just hours before he died...creepy......

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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what's your one requirement for men/women? Posted: 6/28/2006 8:51:11 AM
That he's breathing...LOL....ya gotta have chemistry. If that doesn't clik then no matter how nice or cute or funny or sweet the other person is, it won't matter.

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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I love u but u r not the one for me Posted: 6/28/2006 8:44:34 AM
Sometimes it's possible to love someone and not be "in love" with them. That's what this sounds like. At least he was honest with your friend and now she knows to keep fishing!

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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Feeling lost and heartbroken for my son Posted: 6/26/2006 7:58:26 AM
You say you didn't mention you had a son yet to this mans family? Don't you think it's time you did? This way even if his story is not true knowing he has a son might make him come forward and at the least i'm sure his family would want a relationship with his child. Also i believe , not sure but wouldn't your son be entitled to benefits as well?

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

Msg: 37 (view)

My Girlfriend went on a date with someone off here tonight and now shes missing! Posted: 6/25/2006 11:14:00 AM
Yeah...that's what i was thinking...maybe just having a long weekend date. Hopefully! Nothing else yet from the OP yet i see. Hope she keeps us informed and her friend is safe.

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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My Girlfriend went on a date with someone off here tonight and now shes missing! Posted: 6/24/2006 2:35:23 PM
Seeing as to how it is the week-end maybe they are still just having fun? Hopfully anyway. Does this guy live anywhere near her? You don't have any other info on him other then the name he gave her? She hasn't called home? too weird....hope everything turns out ok.

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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need some gardening tips Posted: 6/24/2006 10:04:44 AM
Read the little information stick that usually comes with a potted plant. Plants differ as to watering and sun...some like lots of water and sun and some don't. Some prefer shade and some sunlight (direct). Try growing your own from seeds and bulbs...they seem to do better. If you are buying them from greenhouses...ask about the plant and also check for pesky insects. Good luck*

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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Leave It To Beaver Posted: 6/22/2006 4:23:20 AM
I love that show......I like the one where Wally cut Beavers hair and he wore the hat to hide it! That was one of the worst haircuts i have ever seen....so funny.

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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Something really bothering me.... Posted: 6/14/2006 5:32:09 AM
Someone stirred the melonaide a little tooo long.....It is possible to to be on more the one dating sight and lots of people are. If he's not responding back to you just leave it alone. He probably read this and you scared the h*** out of him. As you go on your replies get more compulsive..neurotic..and more skitzo! I'd not reply back either. As you said in your profile you are trying to agitate someone...perhaps you did...maybe he's run for the hills..or hiding in a bar! You need to get a grip...This reminds me of the way a 15 yr old acts when someone doesn't call her when he says he is! Why won't he answer meeeeeeeeeee...waaahhhhh.

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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Crazed Laws.......... Posted: 6/6/2006 9:06:40 AM
In Connecticut.... Town records can not be kept where alcohol is sold...go figure You can not dispose of used razor blades. A pickle must bounce in order to be considered a true pickle..... In Devon..you can't walk backwards after sunset. In Southington..silly string is banned. In Hartford...Can't kiss your wife on Sundays...also can't educate your dog!

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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Jared is the LOVE of my life and i met him here!!! Posted: 6/6/2006 7:57:04 AM
Wow....what bait did YOU use? After 5 days too? Hmnnn....see ya in Broken Hearts!

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

Msg: 87 (view)

I gotta know. What possesses a man to dress up like a cowboy? Posted: 6/4/2006 5:03:44 AM
If they're from a state where it's natural to dress like that...nothing wrong with it at all...Like GEORGIA for instance.....The look is natural and sexy. If they're from Ct. where i live , if i see one dressed like a cowboy i do have to ask..Where are you from! There are farms here but not like in the south. Here you'll see them in the jeans and boots and yes..some are sexy but when you get the dufus who thinks you should wear cowboy boots and sky blue polyester pants two inches too short ......well those are the ones i am embarassed for!

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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What's your ULTIMATE break up song?!?!?! Posted: 5/26/2006 9:54:50 AM
Queens...Another one bites the dust!!

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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Do You Like Blue Collar Comedy? Posted: 5/21/2006 4:08:08 PM
You might be a red neck....Those guys are sooooo funny!! Lets not forget Larry the cable guy !!

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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I like this one Posted: 5/13/2006 4:30:14 AM
Oh yeah...Well...the darker the wine the better the fruit!..LOL....or something like that!

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

Msg: 66 (view)

Mini skirts, low riding jeans, .........and cleavage Posted: 5/9/2006 8:53:29 AM
Well...I don't agree that wearing a mini skirt and thigh high boots and showing cleavage is dressing sexy at all...These days if you wore that out someone would likely slip you a fifty or a key!! Looking sexy also has to come from within...you could look sexy in a pair of sweats and low rider jeans(yes...they are still in....just ask TLC's Stacey and Clinton)..sexy is about having a good attitude and confidence in yourself...no matter what you wear..

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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strange messages/emails Posted: 5/8/2006 5:21:27 PM
I just read one where the guy actually thought the pic i have in profile is really me...He said i had a pretty face and eyes and wanted to kiss me.......I of course replied back with....You're kidding...Right??

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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What's your Southern sign? Posted: 5/8/2006 4:53:12 AM
Boiled Peanuts here....Thanx!! Now i know that i was looking for the wrong kind of fish in this pond.... here kitty kitty fish.........

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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Nursing Home Police Posted: 5/2/2006 3:31:41 AM
Now that was funny!!

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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you tell me hunz, just what YOU would do, dont tell me what i should do... but what you would do! Posted: 4/30/2006 1:46:01 PM
Well...if I were you...which i am not....i'd have to ask myself why i have a account on here to begin with saying i am single...which i am but you are not.....then i'd ask myself why i would have a profile up saying nothing would happen on the first date but maybe the second date if i like you ...which i wouldn't do but then again im not you.....So if you were me and i were you i'd have to say to myself that my boyfriend which is yours but not mine was doing the EXACT same thing i was doing if you were me and i were you....but are not....then i'd have to say i don't think neither one of us is really in any kind of trusting relationship...and i'd break up...if i were you ....that's what i would do....if i were you....

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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. . . and now for the news Posted: 4/27/2006 6:03:44 AM
Definately 9/11 ...especially after the second attack on the towers...that's when you really realize it was no accident when the first tower was hit....I wonder how many others like myself still look up when we hear a plane? Another was the Susan Smith News coverage...That's the woman from South Carolina who let her two small sons drown in her car when she let them go into the John D Long Lake....because a man she was interested in did not wan't kids....

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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eHarmony...STAY AWAY FROM THIS SITE!!! Posted: 4/25/2006 5:01:34 AM
I too also did the free questionaire and i was stopped right in the middle of filling it out because they said i was doing it too fast! LOL...My answers needed more consideration...well...after all of that and the looonnggg a** questionaire they make you fill out, i too like others here was told there were no matches for me....so just for fun...YES i did it again...different name and lied !! Guess what? I had lots of matches...WHAT DO THESE PEOPLE WANT.....LOL....

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

Msg: 19 (view)

Update Posted: 4/21/2006 2:38:38 PM
That's good to hear he's going to be ok......it's really nice to hear also of someone who actually took the time to be concerned as to the well being of someone he/she was in an accident with. People these days don't seem to care much.

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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Eddie0221 bad accident Posted: 4/20/2006 1:38:39 PM
Iv'e never had the pleasure of chatting with Eddie...but regardless my prayers are with him and the family and i hope he is being well taken care of and gets well soon

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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You Know Youre Too Horny When... Posted: 4/18/2006 4:10:19 AM
You won't let anyone eat your last cucumber and call it your saturday night date ! Watching National Geographic in hopes of sneeking a peek of the male bison breeding rituals..

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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I got my bell rung! Posted: 4/17/2006 4:59:30 AM
Bartending....slow night ...decide to clean the back of the bar. Cleaned and polished the big ol microwave...then while cleaning the inside of the microwave...heard strange noise from above...looked up just in time to see big slate board that sits on top of microwave come sliding down and land directly on my face! Hit me right in my nose...talk about having a bell rung...i heard an orchastra of bells..had black eyes for weeks!!

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

Msg: 43 (view)

Cartoons Posted: 4/14/2006 4:34:48 AM
Ed...Edd...And Eddie......They are so funny....can never remember who is who !! Lets not forget Dexter the nerd and his laboratory....I never know what he's saying but he's fun to watch as well....and my all time favorite is Cow And Chicken! Between Cows udders and Chickens waddle i laugh the whole time....lets not forget their friend The Sarge and his big red butt!!

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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Greeting cards you will not see at Hallmark Posted: 4/4/2006 5:45:47 AM
HAPPY FATHERS DAY.... ( i heard you were my daddy!)

babie_dollz

Joined: 10/11/2005

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Dirty Words Posted: 3/28/2006 6:27:29 AM
Cockchafer.....It's only a beetle....

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