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sebastian_in_902

Joined: 9/5/2008

Msg: 31 (view)

no sex for 15 months Posted: 7/7/2009 6:38:56 PM
It's been so long since I last had sex I can't remember who gets tied up.

sebastian_in_902

Joined: 9/5/2008

Msg: 258 (view)

why do alot of the guys at this site have a problem with dogs? Posted: 7/5/2009 5:44:16 AM
There should be a searchable "Do you have a dog?" setting on each POF profile, just as there is with smoking, children, age, height, etc. While all generalizations are iffy, my experience has shown me that dogs are generally: Noisy, aggressive, dirty, stinky, needy, destructive, and unpredictable around children and strangers. They are especially troublesome in public parks. For those who defend the ownership of dogs on the basis that a dog is somehow a better "partner" than a man or woman, I would say they are probably dizzy from the heavy stench of dog-stink that permeates the home where they and their dog lives. Ewww ...

sebastian_in_nova_scotia

Joined: 9/5/2008

Msg: 79 (view)

What scares you the most about starting a relationship? Posted: 3/24/2009 5:16:20 AM
New relationships are often threatened by the presence of disruptive children. These little monsters usually have the all-take-no-give attitude, and will do everything possible to ensure Mommy's remaining time and treasures are not diluted by new men in her life. This would scare anyone in their right mind.

sebastian_in_nova_scotia

Joined: 9/5/2008

Msg: 64 (view)

Are you threatened, when dating someone who speaks a Foreign Language? Posted: 3/21/2009 12:14:53 PM
so you have to be careful when your dating outside your race This is absolutely the best advice I have seen in these forums. I would also be careful dating outside one's own age group, too.

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

Msg: 176 (view)

Dating European versus North american girls.. Posted: 3/9/2009 8:23:17 AM
Americans would rather take 2~4 mini trips while Europeans would rather take one, more exotic trip Yes, these European travellers are great for mooching off family members for a MONTH at a time, so as to maximize the use of the few bucks they spent on the airfare.

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

Msg: 160 (view)

Dating European versus North american girls.. Posted: 3/6/2009 6:26:58 AM
As Europe is a big place, it's hard to generalize - Even for me. I'm more concerned with culture, rather than place of birth. As such, I tend to stick to WASPs, regardless of where they were born. As far as "traditional" Europeans are concerned, my experience with Slavs has been entirely unpleasant. I have found them to be rude, aggressive, loud, jingoistic, religiously-bigoted, money-worshipping, obsessed with personal appearances, , and many still have that The-KGB's-gonna-get-me paranoia. DISCLAIMER: This post discusses culture & comportment, not race.

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

Msg: 45 (view)

Are you threatened, when dating someone who speaks a Foreign Language? Posted: 1/31/2009 4:59:40 PM
After 33 years of living in I'm-so-great-because-I'm-a-Foreigner Toronto, I learned not to be offended by the rude use of an exotic language. Most of the time, the participants are heard discussing one of the following topics: 1) Who's having the biggest wedding and getting the most gifts? 2) Who's ripping off the government the most? 3) Who won the war? 4) Which soccer/cricket team is the best in the world? 5) Why things were "better" back home 6) "My people" or "my country" so-and-so 7) There are "too many" immigrants in Canada

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

Msg: 338 (view)

Calling Kids baggage Posted: 1/31/2009 9:10:46 AM
Use whatever euphemism you will, but offspring from prior romantic relationships are probably going to be of little interest to any future romantic partner(s). Similarly, Brattney & Pissany will likely have little use for any future partner(s) who would inherently usurp a portion of Mommy's remaining time and treasures. Little ones are smart; they know Mommy is a whole lot easier to control when there are no new men around.

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

Msg: 502 (view)

Sleeping naked Posted: 1/26/2009 7:14:30 PM
J'aime dormir nu parce qu'il fait pour l'approche plus facile dans les cas d'urgence.

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

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What does my children come first mean to you? Posted: 1/26/2009 6:44:08 PM
Really you have ZERO importance in the life of a women with children until she lets you meet her children. Up until that point...she can and will write you off like the alphabet. Yoooooo-hoooooo! I've never considered meeting Brattney & Pissany to be any great honour, and typically avoid broken homes at all costs. Ewww ...

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

Msg: 38 (view)

who recovers faster after a breakup men or women? Posted: 1/24/2009 3:11:50 PM
Despite men usually being the more careless and thoughtless during a romantic relationship, it seems these same men are less skilled at accepting or giving closure once the couple splits up. I think this dichotomy is the result of men generally being more insecure about their sexuality than women are. However, like all generalizations, this one certainly has its exceptions.

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

Msg: 32 (view)

How do i get over my jealous feelings? Posted: 1/21/2009 4:27:54 PM
"wonderwhywoman", my advice is to continue dating Superdad until you're tired of him, then throw him on the heap with the rest of the trash out there. I wouldn't feel any jealousy towards Superdad 's love child, as the kid is probably already a born loser.

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

Msg: 50 (view)

in love with alcoholic Posted: 1/20/2009 6:50:53 PM
2dolphins, I share your anguish of still being emotionally involved with an alcoholic you once loved. I'm probably in worse shape than you, as I have made this futile attempt to be the rescuer at least four times in my dating life. Like you, I've been thru the suicidal partner thing. It was only after being with "B" for two years that I learned she had already attempted suicide twice before I met her. Our three-year relationship finally ended with her third suicide attemptjust over a year ago -- this time with a large-calibre firearm. Fortunately, she missed. My advice is to always remember these alcholic people are suffering from a genetically-transmitted mental illness, and will always be ill -- as their children probably will be. We enablers need to stop trying to save these people and spend our remaining mental and romantic energy on other, more promising social prospects.

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

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Desperate times call for desperate measures Posted: 1/19/2009 11:10:18 AM
I don't see much wrong remaining with your profile, other than the lingering grammatical & spelling errors which are par for the POF course. I would just continue plugging along here (like the rest of us), and hope for the best. It is also important to remember that each new day brings new opportunities, and that all the rejections of the past mean nothing to the realities of today and the hopes for tomorrow.

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

Msg: 1183 (view)

Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs? Posted: 1/18/2009 6:26:38 PM
tayl0rd: Thank you for inferring that her 300 lbs., was "no big deal" to me, but I never said that. You are kind to assume I didn't mind her obesity. Because my eyes were closed during her blowjob attempt, I could forget how fat she was, but once she started shaking the bed apart it was hard to overlook. I don't even remember why I let her touch me in the first place. The worst part is that she jerked herself to orgasm, while I only ended up with a bad case of blue balls. Talk about selfish!

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

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Have you ever walked out in the middle of a date or do you just grin and bare it Posted: 1/17/2009 8:32:23 PM
and 2) so the "offender" may actually LEARN a lesson. Tigerwoods0924, I share your belief 100%. A little "peer pressure" goes a long way.

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

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Would you date someone in a wheelchair or with a physical disability? Posted: 1/17/2009 6:12:26 PM
I dated a blind-since-birth woman for almost a year, and had very few problems with her obvious disability. She had been married for 30 years, raised 3 kids, and earned 2 university degrees as a mature student in her 40s. We played Scrabble, dominoes and several card games -- all with the use of Braille-encoded game pieces. In the interest of fairness, we played Scrabble in the complete dark, once I learned the required Braille. We watched numerous DVD movies, where I faithfully described what I was seeing on the screen. The pausing/unpausing required for my dictation to keep up with the action added about 50% to the running time of each movie, but I never minded. Sadly, the relationship ended because she and I had different opinions about how her all-take-no-give adult children should treat her, etc. That was the only time when her disability became an issue between us.

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

Msg: 179 (view)

How do men feel about women with silver hair? Posted: 1/17/2009 5:50:53 PM
I just love silver-coloured hair on a mature woman. When I first met my girlfriend from a few years back, she had the dyed red hair so typical of women pushing 50. Her natural hair was originally medium brown, and when the grey arrived, her know-nothing GenY children talked her into the unsightly reddish-brown I saw upon meeting her. When the girlfriend's financial situation deteriorated, she went further & further between $100 hair colourings, which gave me a chance to see that her roots were coming in a beautiful shade of silver grey. I finally convinced her to let the red grow out. After a few months of the girlfriend living with the neo-skunk hair colour, the red was gone and she was left with the most beautiful shade of silvery platinum. Several older ladies stopped us in stores to compliment my girlfriend's silver hair. During our weekly cross-border shopping trips, the girlfriend loaded up on Jhirmack, which did a wonderful job in further brightening up the grey.

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

Msg: 73 (view)

Have you ever walked out in the middle of a date or do you just grin and bare it Posted: 1/17/2009 11:26:44 AM
I once left a date within 5 minutes of sitting down with her. It was our "introductory meeting", if this qualifies as a "date". My date's first mistake was insisting we meet in one of those ice-hockey-player coffee shops -- which I hate doing. Her second mistake was showing far more interest in text-messaging one of her friends, from the instant I sat down with her. Her third mistake was rejecting my suggestion that she put her cell phone away, as I had just done for her. Poof! End of date.

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

Msg: 1181 (view)

Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs? Posted: 1/17/2009 10:57:20 AM
I can take or leave a blowjob; it's not a priority for me. One woman totally turned me off the idea of future blowjobs (from her) when she insisted on forcefully jerking off while blowing me. As she was on her merry way to 300lbs., her jerking shook the bed so much it spoiled my erection. Ewww ...

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

Msg: 199 (view)

What does my children come first mean to you? Posted: 1/17/2009 10:38:57 AM
They have a controlling attitude, any person they dated would only ever be second, third, forth best in their lives "not_a_nurse", I agree with you 100%.

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

Msg: 80 (view)

Is it selfish/unrealistic to never have been married & want the same? Posted: 1/17/2009 8:05:02 AM
I will never again date a 40+ woman who has never married. A divorced woman benefits from the experience of going through the whole engagement, marriage, separation and eventual divorce thing. She is probably more realistic about life and what she can expect from it. The few 40+ never-married women I have dated were each quite immature, selfish, worshipped money, and each treated their dirty ol' dog like a surrogate child.

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

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* 67 to have ID Caller come up as blocked call Posted: 1/11/2009 1:30:21 PM
I agree entirely. Someone calling my phone with the *67 prefix is akin to them knocking on someone's apartment door and holding their thumb down on the door's peephole lens, thereby obscuring their identity.

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

Msg: 178 (view)

What does my children come first mean to you? Posted: 1/11/2009 1:11:48 PM
many of time I just bit my tounge and never said anything back because I did NOT want to hurt the child like your daddy is a dead beat father Thank you for your contribution to society, Sir. It's enablers like you that prevent these thankless children from learning the concept of consequences for one's actions at a young age. I got unconditional LOVE from all the children I have supported Wow, your idea of love is really quite sick.

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

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BEST CHRISTMAS GIFTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 1/11/2009 11:14:29 AM
The best gift I can imagine a man giving his wife or live-in girlfriend is a 4-day trip out of town with her BFF. I once tried to set this up for my beautiful live-in fiancee at the time, but [u]none[/u] of her Calgary girlfriends' husbands would go for it. The plan was to send them both away to NYC, where they were to have strictly *emergencies-only* contact with us men and the children. Each of the 2 gifts was to include the flight, room, US$750 spending money and a "Whatever happens in NYC stays in NYC" pact. Every woman I consulted with at the time said they could only dream of such a nice gift, but all said their husbands were too selfish and too insecure to give such a gift. As most of these men were debt-free and earned low six-figures annually, it probably had nothing to do with money.

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

Msg: 173 (view)

What does my children come first mean to you? Posted: 1/11/2009 9:41:03 AM
When reviewing a woman's POF profile, I consider "my children always come first" to be an insulting disclaimer that will someday be used to trump future criticism regarding her children or how much time they monopolize.

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

Msg: 28 (view)

Hey Mr. you've got bad breath! Posted: 1/11/2009 9:24:42 AM
This is a timely thread for me. I recently met a woman whose breath was so bad I could almost *see* it. Had I seen her again, I wouldn't have come right out and said, "Hey, you stink", but rather would have made up a story about someone else stinking, and hoped she got the drift. That is the considerate person I am. If the breath problem didn't go away, I would probably one day just tell her and offer some constructive solutions.

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

Msg: 189 (view)

Women: Would you date a guy that is shorter than you are,,,, Why/Why Not? Posted: 1/10/2009 6:52:52 AM
In my opinion, there is nothing more foolish, wasteful, and unsightly than for a nice tall lady, say 5'10", to be seen with a little RUNT of a man, say 5'8" and under. Ewww ... I also believe the probability of a man becoming physically agressive and/or abusive is inversely related to his height.

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

Msg: 57 (view)

Fear of dating single mothers Posted: 1/10/2009 6:09:08 AM
Assuming you are pursuing a permanent relationship, I wouldn't bother dating a woman with dependent children. In all likelihood, you and the woman's existing children will resent each other's existence, and, in the end, you'll be portrayed as the "wicked stepfather". Leaving the mother out of the equation, any GOOD that the existing children amount to will systematically be attributed to heredity (the biological father), and any BAD will be attributed to culture and environment (you, the stepfather). Once a woman becomes a mother, her prime responsibility should ALWAYS be towards her children, which justly leaves any new men as a distant second or third priority. At the risk of being trampled by a dinosaur, I happen to believe that single mothers should, in most cases, not even DATE again until the children are independent. With all the decent, kind, caring and attractive women that have not yet bred with another man, why take such a needless chance? Now, if you're just looking to sleep around, then all bets are off.

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

Msg: 88 (view)

Single Women, no kids at home, and dogs.......... Posted: 1/10/2009 5:27:45 AM
I would never again date anyone with a dirty ol' dog. Most dogs stink, are very unsanitary, bark at the air, urinate on everything, and are a constant source of noise, interruption, neediness, crotch-sniffing and feces. I would never schedule my dating life around a dog's urination schedule. Ewww ... Neutered cats, on the other hand, are more my style. Most cats are extremely independent, seem to be more attached to their territory & possessions, and have little use for people.

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

Msg: 71 (view)

Would you prefer to date someone with a cat or a dog? Posted: 1/10/2009 5:24:11 AM
I would never again date anyone with a dirty ol' dog. Most dogs stink, are very unsanitary, bark at the air, urinate on everything, and are a constant source of noise, interruption, neediness, crotch-sniffing and feces. I would never schedule my dating life around a dog's urination schedule. Ewww ... Neutered cats, on the other hand, are more my style. Most cats are extremely independent, seem to be more attached to their territory & possessions, and have little use for people.

sebastian_in_hamilton

Joined: 9/5/2008

Msg: 114 (view)

short men, tall women Posted: 1/9/2009 10:54:00 AM
Being 6'4" means that I haven't met many women who are taller than me. I seem to attract the little 5'2" ones, for some reason. In my opinion, there is nothing more foolish, wasteful, and unsightly than for a nice tall lady, say 5'10", to be seen with a little RUNT of a man, say 5'8" and below. I have also believe the probability of a man becoming physically agressive and/or abusive is inversely related to his height. Ewwww ....

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