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Joined: 9/7/2008

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playing the field Posted: 7/10/2009 1:42:08 PM
I truly understand where your questions lie Your questions are very thought provoking. I watch my 13 and 17 year old grand daughters mooning over a different guy every other week. they both giggle cause, Steve this and Fred that. Why does it change and become a black eye about dating? In other words, Why is it such a negative thing if someone Dates more than one person at a time when we get older? The names for a man dating more than one, and the names for women dating more than one all change too, if you know what I mean. When you are young you are, "learning and experiencing", who you will marry etc. But when your older, well...you know what I mean. I myself would not and can not date more than one at a time only because I can only deal with one physically and spiritually, But others might be able to maintain more than one at a time. I think, also that we shouldn't think in our minds that we own anyone.

Joined: 9/7/2008

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50+ Guys With Motorcycles?? What do women do? Posted: 4/4/2009 1:10:29 AM
I know there are more guys with motorcycles here in oregon and all that face hair. Some look nice, but most need to do sit ups first, .... then ride. I was a passenger in a motorcyle wreck so I don't think you could ever talk me into riding again. I think as long as I live in Oregon I will be single....sigh Oh what do women buy....I get pretty tired of bieng told that cause I am a women I buy diamonds, shoes and clothes. I am an electronics, and musical freak. I have a DS, two laptops, Sony Reader, Iphone, and a nice Dejembe, flute, and piccolo and yes.... I have to do a few sit ups too....

Joined: 9/7/2008

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How do you let go? (Just a little twist) Posted: 4/2/2009 8:16:25 PM
I can only share my experience with you ErinxCx, and here goes. I was married for 20 years and we were together for 25. This wasn't my first marriage nor for him. He past away suddenly about 2 and a half years ago. I am barely looking to just have a male friend or tipping my toe in the water. As I see it, to me, Love is like a bank. In any relationship you place a lot of time and presence in that relationship. You could say it becomes an addiction because everyday you nurture it over and over, day after day, and it really becomes involved if you are having sex too. Step back and think how may time have you told them, yourself, others, "I love You". It is almost like a Mantra. I love you, I care about you, I live for you, I want you all of these things. Your bieng really changes when you combine a relationship with sex. You share your whole life with love and it becomes a part of you. (Cell memory as it were). When the relationship dies, there has to be a mourning process. There is no way around it. You must give it time no matter what the cost. If you are still thinking of them, crying for them, or if you find yourself comparing your ex with others it is NOT time to move on, because your body is going through a change; as well as your, "Heart". If you go right into another realtionship you only become more mixed up and confused because you haven't finish the mourning growth period. This might all seemed unemotional but its not. Good luck and Please take the time. Sincerely Hope

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