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gentleplus

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ADHD and ADD the real thing or a cop out? Posted: 11/19/2009 8:42:49 PM
Daily doses of the nutritional suppliment GABA is a wonderful and very effective alternative to meds for children and adults

gentleplus

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Has your Adult ADD ruined/sabotaged relationships? Posted: 11/17/2009 4:26:56 PM
PS... I also have asbergers subtype that is unresponsive to any tradional medications... but this works quite well!!!

gentleplus

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Msg: 153 (view)

Has your Adult ADD ruined/sabotaged relationships? Posted: 11/17/2009 3:19:16 PM
Yes it has affected my life.... the solution without drugs???? GABA 500 mg 3-6x daily, DHEA 50 mg daily, MACA 200 mg daily.... U will feel totally different in ur mind with zero drug effects.... these will feed ur body to do what it knows to do not force it to behave as with a mind altering drug.... good luck!!!!

gentleplus

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hidden profile Posted: 10/16/2009 4:52:48 PM
YES u are correct

gentle100plus

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GF boring in bed getting to point where i'm not interested in her at all Posted: 7/18/2009 6:24:29 PM
Consider getting her evaluated for Bioidentical Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT)... it will change everything.... i have had partners just like this and eventually had to leave when they refused to take care of their body

gentle100plus

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Could Not tonight honey, I have a headache soon become an obsolete phrase? Posted: 6/4/2009 11:57:40 AM
What is a headache???? Basically an uneven blood flow to the brain.... so any substance or activity that equalizes blood flow and relaxes cerebral vesicular constrictions will work.... so get to know ur body and ur triggers and interventions that work or any combinations of them.... any aerobic activity such as sex will help and it also releases endorphins and other natural pain killers in the process

gentle100plus

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Preacher Man? Posted: 5/25/2009 6:33:24 PM
Dont worry..... It may cut down the quantity but will increase the quality of women interested in u.... and how many more then THE ONE do u need?

gentle100plus

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Msg: 146 (view)

orgasm count, is he lying?? Posted: 5/7/2009 5:28:41 PM
Dave thanks for all ur efforts and insights..... I have applied all ur methods and instructions on G-spot massage..... and yes please add me to ur list of believers.... and successful practitioners of said arts (if i told u how many she had u would not believe it ever, ever .... nuff said) ..... Ladies I can only say why don't u challenge one of those so called fakers and spend a nite with one man so gifted.... and the loser buys dinner and a nite on the town.....

gentle100plus

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why do men always have to look at other women!! Posted: 4/23/2009 8:10:07 PM
Thanks shipoker58 for your clarity and wisdom.... nuff said

gentle100plus

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Favorite romantic movie scene Posted: 4/21/2009 7:30:04 PM
The Notebook.... final scene of them both lying in bed side by side at eternal peace together... get a tear and a lump everytime I see it

gentle100plus

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If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex? Posted: 4/19/2009 3:05:26 PM
Until we both were exhausted

gentle100plus

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Honesty in the sexual issues forums... Posted: 4/17/2009 3:32:17 PM
Sticks and stones....... but words in a post are forever!!!!!

gentle100plus

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Leaving panties (and T's) Posted: 4/17/2009 1:17:27 PM
I had it happen to me in college.... at this age I would think it was childish and manipulative.... but also accidents do happen too.... so her reaction when returned them would be telling

gentle100plus

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EVER HEARD OF A SKINNED UP PENIS? Posted: 4/17/2009 12:37:43 PM
Yes it does happen.... I have had it happen and if the skin is broken during anal a slight infection will result.... but triple antibiotic and a zinc oxide diaper rash formula will fix it in about 3-4 days..... the overnite stays and 8 days is a bit suspicious.... so ask him to look at it and see how it is healing... if it looks redder than usual around the head.... continue the above treatment .... that should fix it.... good luck and please message me too for more insights as well

gentle100plus

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does a woman's nipples always get hard when turned on? Posted: 4/17/2009 10:03:29 AM
Love those full nipples.... cant get enuf of them..... hard is all the better.... mmmmm

gentle100plus

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What are women really looking for? Posted: 4/16/2009 7:15:30 PM
Consider using a jedi mind trick.... works every time for me

gentle100plus

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Men who are nuts Posted: 4/16/2009 10:59:16 AM
Lots of crack pots out there and lots of good guys... but very few just right for u.... those who act that way are doing u a favor and self selecting.... saving u the time and trouble later of dating then ending it sooner.... Think of it as a gift to you from the universe.... those that are so imbalanced dont deserve u.... move on and be happy

gentle100plus

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How rare are really good Lovers? Posted: 4/16/2009 10:14:53 AM
" The guy like u spoke of above probably puts the woman before himself. Wish I could find one like that." Mello they are out there dont give up hope.... sometimes some training helps and maturity (not age related) just plain respect, maturity and caring is what it takes... ps look at my profile if u want and comment as well

gentle100plus

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When is taking a drunk girl home from a bar and having sex considered rape? Posted: 4/16/2009 9:52:40 AM
this actually happened to me in college.... we were having a kegger on my dorm floor and this girl was totally wasted and getting amorous with me and wanted to go to my room.... Once we arrived at my room with her stumbling down the hall I realized she was not thinking totally clearly about her choices.... I let her into my room and went to the bathroom.... when I got back she was nekked on the bed waiting..... so I went up to her ear and said... "I dont think this is a good time for u now and I want u to sleep here in my bed alone... and if u still feel the same in the morning we will go from there" ... So I covered her up and slept on the floor all nite... really!!!! well sort of slept... couldnt get the idea out of my mind that a nekked willing girl was in my bed alone.... but I resisted...lol The next morning she asked me "why didnt u just take me when i was there for u?" .... I said "What I want to share with u is soooo good I didnt want either one of us to miss one heart beat of it all"... OMG!!!! for the next 4 hours we shared a wonderful experience that was consensual and respectful and intense!!!!

gentle100plus

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The beginning of the End? Posted: 4/16/2009 8:08:07 AM
do a g@@gle search on borderline personality disorder and post your answer again!!! good luck!!!

gentle100plus

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Establishing interest & relationships - A mans job? Posted: 4/16/2009 7:42:44 AM
Props to BDJ once again for articulation of truth, wisdom, fairness and good sense!!!! I agree!!!! Keep it going

gentle100plus

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Noise during sex? Posted: 4/14/2009 5:25:41 PM
Its ALL music to my ears..... mmmmm

gentle100plus

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Going from Hi to bed?????? Posted: 4/11/2009 8:52:34 AM
"But if one is Jewish or Christian when does the scriptures teach that the 'bedtime story' is to be experienced?" vixen.... I think you might consider some of the more current works that interpret and modernize the imagery and symbols in the song of Solomon ..... talk about hot and sensual intimacy.... wow!!!!

gentle100plus

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When it's good it's The BEST, but when its bad it's the WORST? Posted: 4/10/2009 1:41:21 PM
You might consider a g@@gle search on Borderline Personality Disorder

gentle100plus

Joined: 9/8/2008

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Men who dont/won't share feelings- think they are intellects Posted: 4/10/2009 9:43:46 AM
"What's with all of these men with tuxs and suits on? Is there a funeral I missed?" This sort of monologue exactly validates a mans desire to retreat from the female communication cycle that is directed not at the issues but at the person .... that sort of gratuitous and directed personal attack is what repels thinking and intellectual, stable men of good character.... Yes there is a funeral and that is the death of civility .... but I wear a tux as a show of celebration of life, dignity, joy and hope.... Never have I seen a tux at a funeral.... maybe I am in the wrong pert of the country.... I have seen tuxes at weddings, inaugurations, dinners, charity balls, etc.... And these events are celebrations of life, hope, goodness, charity, and future leadership.... Or is it just me???? IMHO

gentle100plus

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Men who dont/won't share feelings- think they are intellects Posted: 4/10/2009 9:11:53 AM
Ahhhh yes daisypetal..... just as I thought.... please read my profile and see if I have something to say... then please review your comment and and then ask yourself are you being fair or are you using your own life experience to filter what u see.... I have no problem with dialogue .... even uncomfortable ones!!!.... but a monologue is not within my interest and is only to me a series of flaming darts intended to crush and/or dominate whether I am giving it or receiving it.... this is not conversation but domination.... So daisy please dialogue with me not monologue

gentle100plus

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Men who dont/won't share feelings- think they are intellects Posted: 4/10/2009 9:01:12 AM
And landra thanks as well to you for the Vulcan mind meld to give an actual transcript of what's in a man's mind during a conversation received from an individual unfocused rambling female... lol... (PS... does not apply to all females and not all the time... there is no gender hatred here or angst.... so save it ladies and don't succumb to becoming a hater...) .

gentle100plus

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Men who dont/won't share feelings- think they are intellects Posted: 4/10/2009 8:53:25 AM
Thank you Shippoker !!!!! you have said it like it is... no more no less!!!! Ladies please take note... and write it down in the universal gender conversation guide book!!!!

gentle100plus

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Darn it, it feels too right!... I gotta sabotage it :( Posted: 4/10/2009 1:06:57 AM
G@@gle Borderline Personality Disorder

gentle100plus

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Most Wild Place You Had sex! Posted: 4/6/2009 5:53:44 PM
too many to mention!!!!

gentle100plus

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Does someone considering dating me have a right to know?? Posted: 4/4/2009 9:42:27 PM
Your best defense to deflect a casual conversation about the topic from going too deep or too far... is that you have already thought out a game plan for the new person in your life should that become a serious relationship.... nuff said

gentle100plus

Joined: 9/8/2008

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why should the type of job u do matter? Posted: 4/4/2009 9:04:08 PM
Actually you have a gift...... you will not have the trouble millionaires have determining if it is their character or their money that is desired by a partner.... for you it will be all character hands down!!!!!!

gentle100plus

Joined: 9/8/2008

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Does someone considering dating me have a right to know?? Posted: 4/4/2009 8:58:33 PM
Any serious future relationship will need to be alert to his being stalked or otherwise messed with.... you need to possibly think thru adding a serious potential relationship to the protective umbrella u have constructed..... ie protective order, restraining order, peace bond against your ex .... Good Luck and Peace to U

gentle100plus

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Advice, please ladies. Posted: 4/4/2009 1:08:23 PM
Sweetie I have had a few partners with what u describe as your situation..... u need to go to a good endocrinologist and have all ur hormones tested and get medicated for bio identical hormone therapy... see susan sommers books on this topic very well done... educate ur self and g*oogle bioidentical hormone therapy good luck!!!!

gentle100plus

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How rare are really good Lovers? Posted: 4/4/2009 12:50:06 PM
This can be learned.... a solid understanding of the Kama Sutra is foundational for all good lovers

gentle100plus

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What makes a woman a good lover? Will take both, but especially from a ladies perspective Posted: 4/4/2009 12:46:01 PM
Not to rattle the kitchen/passionate theory.... it is quaint.... but my ex of 19 years was a home economics teacher in high school and a great cook & a true eskimo in bed... go figure.... I blame it on hormone imbalance at a minimum

gentle100plus

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What makes a woman a good lover? Will take both, but especially from a ladies perspective Posted: 4/4/2009 12:39:47 PM
Shameless, assertive, vocal, expressive, uninhibited, creative, inventive and willing to explore any healthy possibility

gentle100plus

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Do successful men want higher maintenance women? Posted: 4/4/2009 11:28:03 AM
To men like these everything is a possession or a tool.... each and every item is carefully selected & groomed to make a statement about their choices, power and character.... people are also tools to them

gentle100plus

Joined: 9/8/2008

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gaslighting, has anyone ever experienced this? Posted: 4/4/2009 11:12:59 AM
You might want to *oogle "Borderline Personality Disorder" as well

gentle100plus

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Msg: 99 (view)

Screening New Contacts Posted: 4/4/2009 10:50:29 AM
I have developed a system that pretty well sorts out dead end dating.... the key is to step outside your emotions and feelings (yes men have those too!!) First you choose a time when you are not dating or don't have anyone on your to check out list... you sit down and write a sacred contract from you to you and sign and date it... and review and add to it as time goes on You set out categories of character qualities and behaviors or life context that you will or will not tolerate There are 3 categories like a traffic light 1. Red Light= Behaviors that trigger IMMEDIATE termination of all contact Such as.... drugs alcohol, abuse, criminal record, mood & mind altering medications, bipolar swings, sexual behaviors that are not appropriate, excessive spending & shopping issues, any addictions or compulsive behaviors, severe health issues unaddressed, bad teeth, no job, etc.... basically RUN FORREST RUN when even ONE of these is triggered.... this screens out the broken down and life dropouts or washouts who are not healed and are not in a better place to live forward... 2. Yellow Light= issues that are not your choice but if they never changed You can live with Such as a sports nut, golfing, hobbies that take a lot of time or effort, any behavior or life choices that is not you cup of tea but you can learn to appreciate as well.... 3. Green Light= oooh la la.... These are things that really trip your triggers in a positive way... this needs to be as detailed and as intimate as you possibly can describe, Including your lifestyle choices, goals, financial situation, spiritual ideals and sexual preferences.... remember this is a sacred contract from you to you and only your personal business... so don't be ashamed or hold back because no one will know what is on this list but you and when you reveal it and tell your partner prospects... 4. Encourage your prospect to make their own list and compare notes over several conversations or dates before you lock in emotionally... Good Luck!

gentle100plus

Joined: 9/8/2008

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It's a Coffee! Posted: 3/30/2009 6:48:48 AM
Thanks womaninprogress for a breath of fresh air!!!! And the final answer too

gentle100plus

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Wanting to date someone younger.. how young is too young? Posted: 3/26/2009 2:39:31 PM
As a general rule you can use the 10% rule.... that is you should not date outside of 10% of your age... so at the start most people should refrain from even considering a permanent relationship until at least 25... apply 10% so at 30 your range is +/- 3 years at 50 it is +/- 5 years of your age

gentle100plus

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...SIX moons, no SEX.... Posted: 3/26/2009 1:58:44 PM
The perception of perfection will lead to refection and eventual self deception with no anticipation of consummation and all is frustration and not elation which leads to consternation and eventual stagnation or deflation of all expectation and concludes in the constipation of all humanity in all relations in every nation....

gentle100plus

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Men....what do you think if SHE pays ? Posted: 3/26/2009 8:00:18 AM
Equality is a beautiful thing... I want my partner to be exactly that... equal in ALL ways

gentle100plus

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My ex.. I need to understand this? Posted: 3/19/2009 7:53:28 PM
One word..... relationship addiction.... get help now!!!!!!!

gentle100plus

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BPD - What would you do? Posted: 3/6/2009 10:25:54 PM
I only knew the pain of it.... but never knew the name of it..... now I do..... thanks to all posters.... and I will soon be free too

gentle100plus

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Chemistry Test Usefulness Posted: 2/26/2009 10:42:13 AM
I would at least like to see the tests rank ordered on the thumbnail view starting with the most close match (100%) and then declining in order from there... the random thing is a bit distracting

gentle100plus

Joined: 9/8/2008

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Spanking Your Monkey in Public Posted: 2/25/2009 3:24:39 PM
One Word.... SICKO

gentle100plus

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Sleeping with your hand on partner's privates (or vice versa) Posted: 2/25/2009 7:26:37 AM
This is a wonderful and intimate way to affirm your connection and joy with each other..... I have done this often in the past and will continue to do so

gentle100plus

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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men? Posted: 2/21/2009 6:02:30 PM
The issue is whether this was a one time careless exploration or an unresolved deep seated emotional issue that was a driver.... the first is an innocent issue and not a problem .....the second requires counseling and discovery of issues to enable the healing of her soul.... the main point to consider is how she now feels about herself moving forward and what has this event shown her about her life's journey sexually and as a person..

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