funkymonkee wrote: You don't have to try and protect yourself from these feelings in the future by giving less to your next relationship and loving her/allowing yourself to love her/trreat her any less.

treating a person differently based on some frivolous value such as tattoos and passing over good intrinsic qualities about that person just shows everyone around you the kind of self centered, self serving scumbag you really are. its this type of attitude that gives young people today the kind of social anxiety that causes mental health issues, low self esteem being chief among them.

if it seems im being harsh or mean or viscious, good, i am. i ****ing hate this bullshit attitude that tattoos, piercings, skin color, etc. has anything to do with the "goodness" or "badness" of the person and i will take up arms (not literally) every time its brought up.

Everybody is not clean, and there are SO MANY STD's out here that you cant get rid of.

It's good to see you again, Moon! Still hale and hearty and kicking at the dark until it bleeds daylight?

This is why people who stop and think and look beyond a year or two are very attractive to many men/women because it suggests the person is smart and doesn't act foolishly.