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Joined: 9/12/2008

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Help is always appreciated Posted: 10/30/2008 11:30:46 PM
lose the geeky pics and no, we don't need to know that you're not the "dog" in the picture....lol...take some nice shots and you'll be fine.

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profile review please Posted: 10/30/2008 11:28:32 PM
there's really nothing wrong with your profile...give it some time!!!!

Joined: 9/12/2008

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I could sure use a womans perspective on my profile Posted: 10/30/2008 11:27:38 PM
you're not saying anything about yourself...try that!!!!

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Your Dreams Posted: 10/28/2008 8:06:50 PM
i used to lucid dream as a kid all the time...I loved going to sleep because of it!!! One of my oddest dreams was a recurrent dream I had as a child.....I must have had the same dream about 20 different times from ages 5-10. I would ride my tricycle into a museum and somehow get stuck in the belly of a large papermache'd looking dinosaur!!! Crazy...

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California women: fact or myth? Posted: 10/28/2008 7:56:41 PM
lol...don't eat tofu, been on the opposite end of the gold digging spectrum, catered to every man i've been with, and shallow is not a word for me...and born and raised here, so NO>

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controlling Posted: 10/28/2008 7:54:08 PM
lol....yeah, it's called marriage and the honeymoon period is over.

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it is okay to hookup with your ex for sex? Posted: 10/28/2008 7:51:08 PM
hell , why not??? it's when feelings on either end get involved where the problems arise.

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Haiku Game - Continuance From Previous Thread Posted: 10/28/2008 7:50:11 PM
I hate this web site Full of bullshit and liars So I go log in

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separated from bipolar husband Posted: 9/30/2008 12:06:38 AM
wow...been there done that~~~ it's difficult, but trust me you're going to be happier in the long run...My mother lived with my bipolar dad for 30 years until she passed away of cancer and let me tell you, things could have been better in our house. I ended up getting into a long term relationship with a bipolar man that lasted 4 years. I walked on eggshells a lot, saw the jekyl and hyde, and endured many, many "you don't know what you're talking about" when I asked him if he was cheating on me. Evidently, he was narcissistic too, because he needed to feel wanted by MANY different women. We broke up 5 months ago and today he's in jail because while I allowed him to visit our daughter he hit me...why did he hit me?? this is the good part. He snuck out to my car and went through my phone and noticed a number or two that he thought were men I was dating. Remind you...he's cheated on me my entire 4 year relationship AND is currently stringing along 3 women...but he went ballistic on me when he suspected that I was seeing anyone. If you need a friend, I'll be your friend. But you don't need the bipolar whack job...trust me....it's not worth it.

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How can men stop having feelings so quickly? Posted: 9/24/2008 12:49:43 AM
wow, if men express their hurt over a breakup as anger, is that why my ex keeps calling the police on me??? lol. we have a daughter together and at least once a week, I get the police calling me up saying something new related to his allegations. Then, he'll show up at my job and threaten to try to get me fired. drama.

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Domestic Violence Posted: 9/24/2008 12:41:33 AM
i know exactly what you've gone through. Trust me, it gets easier. You're so used to the "episodes" of violence, then honeymoon period, then the violent buildup, then the violence, then the honeymoon period all over again. It's called the cycle of violence. I had a hard time trusting people again after I ended my relationship, and the funny thing is I went right back into another abusive relationship. The second one wasn't physically abusive, but verbally and emotionally abusive. Now, I'm not falling for the same crap anymore. I question things more often. If there's red flags that pop up during dating, I heed the warning. You will too. I was independent before I met him and I'm independent now that he's gone. It doesn't mean that you don't still love him...it means that you're setting your boundaries and establishing self worth. Do yourself a favor and never go back...they will always be violent..they don't change, in fact, it gets worse. They say it takes a woman on average 7 times before she leaves her husband for good. I believe it. They're manipulators and charming, and they'll keep reeling you back in. Be thankful you're gone and I wish you the best of luck...drop me a line and let me know how you're doing.

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Split up with partner and he wont leave. Its making my life hell. ADVICE PLEASE!! Posted: 9/24/2008 12:21:06 AM
get an eviction....

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Where do the 30+ women hang out? Posted: 9/24/2008 12:19:05 AM
try... itsjustlunch.com

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A Slice of Life In 50 Words ............. Posted: 9/22/2008 11:50:35 PM
Dusk and the highway slithers like a snake on desert sand. Sun baked tires piled high against an old wooden fence. The old man sits and plays a hand of poker with the sun, the wind, and the highway. This old one pump gas station on route 66.

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Is she obessed with her ex? Posted: 9/22/2008 7:48:53 PM
Cut your losses and run for the hills...who wants to be with someone like that??? Hell yes, you're insecure, but not about their relationship...about yours!!!! You can do better than that!!! MOVE ON>

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When Does Someone Say Enough is Enough and Give Up Posted: 9/22/2008 7:42:59 PM
I think that when it stops being mutually fulfilling is when one gives up. If you feel like a booty call, girl, you're a booty call. point said. If he doesn't want to do anything with you other than sex, then ask yourself if you can live with that. If you can, then fine. If not, move on.

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