How Many Of You Are Doing This? chat & forums.

Posted In Forum:

Home

MyForums

Show ALL Forums

Author

Thread: How Many Of You Are Doing This?

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 64 (view)

How Many Of You Are Doing This? Posted: 11/10/2009 1:52:09 PM
I guess there's no hope for me then huh.

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 184 (view)

Why women want guys to come to THEM Posted: 7/18/2009 9:39:18 AM
I still have a hard time speaking with women who i might be attracted to just to get started. The thing is that if i had the chance i'd be able to get past that. Maybe this isn't the right thread for me but it seems that rather than rejection, that women should give "some" guy a chance and atleast chat with them a little before dismissing the altogether. Women should show some interest to the guy that might be a little too shy to make that contact to start with.

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 72 (view)

When You Stop Looking You Will Find What You're Looking For. Posted: 3/10/2009 11:34:18 AM
After reading most of the replies on this post you all finally tell me that i'm waisting my time looking for a date on a dating site!!!!!!!!!!!!! Go figure huh I guess some of it makes sense though. I think i need to find another pass time than reading the forums.

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 609 (view)

Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married? Posted: 3/9/2009 9:41:08 AM
I'm looking for the "one " to spend forever with. Not sure if i will ever find her but i am looking.

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 78 (view)

What kind of coments are ladies looking for on a first emails! Posted: 3/9/2009 9:37:58 AM
First let me tell everyone that i did read most of the post on this thread. Also , it seems to me that most people are visual creatures. That's why GOD gave us 2 eyes. So, when looking at the profiles, we/alot of people are looking for some kind of attraction. This is not wrong by any means although it seems that some women take offense at this . Example: if you try to tell a woman that you think she is cute or attractive, it seems that they expect moreattraction to their personality. The problem being that you can not get to know someones personality from a profile. I think women should give guys more of a chance to get to know them and not be so interested in the size of his bank account. I changed my profile recently because I thought i was giving too much info. As far as intelligence, I am Electrician, not an English teacher so sorry if my spelling sometimes is incorrect but if you got the chance to know me better first you might e able to accept that fault. Nice guy in Florida "flaboy32747"

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 1350 (view)

so, why are you still single? Posted: 2/3/2009 2:36:40 PM
Why? I'm still trying to figure this out. Can anyone tell me what's wrong with me? Or maybe just what i'm dong wrong?

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 107 (view)

Do people actually meet on this site??? Posted: 2/3/2009 2:31:03 PM
Yeah but are there any women here on this site willing to meet a decent guy?????????

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 76 (view)

Do people actually meet on this site??? Posted: 1/26/2009 1:39:04 PM
Your post got it right that none of the women here really want to chat or get to know anyone or date. What's the deal with that. I am a great guy if i do say so myself. I work full time and yes i would like someone in my life i also believe that i have put some effort into contacting women i might be attracted to but most of them don't want to give me the time of day. I don't think most of the women here really want to meet anyone.

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 138 (view)

what is the strangest thing you have encountered on POF? Posted: 1/26/2009 1:33:15 PM
The strangest thing that has happened to me on this site is actually what has not happened. Most of the women that i've tried to contact just didn't really seem that they were really interested in getting to know anyone. I might have it figured out though that my wallet isn't quite big enough or something.

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 54 (view)

How do you get and keep a girlfriend? Posted: 1/26/2009 1:28:58 PM
It seems to me that in this area of Florida that i'm in that most of the women on this site are NOT really looking to date or even get to know anyone new. Someone please explain this to me, after all this is an online dating service right? I hope some of the women from around here see my post and explain what the deal is.

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 63 (view)

Why are so many women over 30 Cynical Posted: 8/28/2008 3:10:20 PM
Maybe there are too few of your kind left and you are the exception to the rule. Basically i think that most women don't want to give a guy a chance unless he is willing to put up some mucho bucks to start with and what kind of woman is that anyway?

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 101 (view)

Where do the 30+ women hang out? Posted: 8/28/2008 3:05:32 PM
I agree that most women 30 + don't seem to go out that much . Why is that?

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 1196 (view)

so, why are you still single? Posted: 5/13/2008 1:55:16 PM
I'm still trying to figure out why i can't get a date. I'm an honest kind of guy and maybe too nice is the problem. I mean i see people that i wonder how come they have someone in their lives and i don't have anyone in mine. What gives?????? What are women really looking for? Do they all just want someone to give them money or what because if that's the case then maybe i should move to Nevada. I'm in FLORIDA , Where are all the available women in my town?

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 47 (view)

Sex Drive Posted: 2/28/2008 4:21:23 PM
Thank for the advice . I've change the wording and infact i am working on fixing the problem.

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 33 (view)

As much as we are looking for the one, have we forgotten it still requires effort? Posted: 2/18/2008 12:53:34 PM
I am willing to put the "work" into a relationship at this point in my life the only problem is that i am not finding anyone willing to "work" with me. Maybe i am looking in the wrong place or i just need to stop looking. Someone please explain to me how to get out of this lonely feeling? I don't think it's healthy to be alone so long but I also don't really know how to attract a woman to spend time with me or get to know me.

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 24 (view)

Sex Drive Posted: 2/18/2008 12:48:51 PM
I'm still really confused, you see i've been single/selebate for going on 5 years now and i'm about going out of mind with loneliness. What's a guy gotta do to find a girl in this town.I don't wanna be alone when the sun goes down. Seriously,what's wrong with me?

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 150 (view)

this is for all of us who hurt inside, please read and respond! Posted: 3/7/2006 4:48:26 PM
Hi everyone . I live in Florida and like i said previously , my ex totally ripped my heart apart with a "friend" of mine and three years after she and i spliy up , they are still together and i am still alone . I don't understand that but one thing i can say now is " here's to the past they can kiss my ass" Seriously though i have been alone along time now and i think it's about time for me to be able to atleast have a friend. I hope that is what the man upstairs has in mind also because i am tired of being alone and mostly i would like a "freind" to share my life with. I'm not asking for much, just one woman who is everything or atleast most of what i'm looking for in a woman. Is that too much to ask for. Neil

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 145 (view)

this is for all of us who hurt inside, please read and respond! Posted: 3/6/2006 1:43:09 PM
Hey atleast i guees it's nice to know i'm not the only one feeling this way. I've been seperated for 3 yrs. also and it was not my fault. We were together for 14 yrs before that and have 2 sons together. I hurt for them and myself and i do look forward to the day i am able to share my life with someone worth while. Neil

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 12 (view)

1 year...Does it get easier? Posted: 1/1/2006 9:57:41 AM
Hey, I hope all is well and getting better with you. I've been seperated for about 3 years now and it is starting to get easier for me .I do still care about her in some way and i am hurt at how little she cres about me or our kids but dwelling on it is not going to change anything at this point. One thing i realized early on was that no mattter what i wanted, I could not compete with a new relationship.Coming to realize that was one of the most important things i had to come to terms with. Something that has also helped me was to get out and do things i enjoy even if only by myself. Like i like going to the clubs and dancing, it's not as much fun by yourself but if you get used to it then you start having fun and even having a few drinks and eventually you might even meet someone to atleast talk to about your situation. The main thing is to not sit around waiting for you ex to change their mind because chances are that they won't. You have to just decide to pick up the pieces of your life and move on as best you can and Praying helps alot too. Happy New Year Neil

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 16 (view)

married with kids slept with my ex who is almost engaged to someone else. Posted: 12/16/2005 2:53:43 PM
The OP sounds a little like someone i know. She is married to one guy , who she has been seperated from for 3 years and is engaged to her bf who used to be her husbands best friend. And also has been kind of seeing her ex husband some not to the point of sex but close. And yeah she ruined her husbands life and her 2 kids lives and she doesn't even seem to care!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 12 (view)

Stuck on my ex,,,,, Posted: 12/16/2005 2:33:04 PM
Hello, First let me tell you that i don't want to sound too messed up here and that i am trying to move on with my life. My ex hooked up with my "best friend" about 3 years ago right around this time of year also. She and i have 2 sons ages 14 and 7 who actually live with my folks,different story. I am living my life alone now just basically i haven't met anyone to spend my time with which at this time of year especially kinda sucks. I see my kids every weekend and that does hurt because i never wanted to live a day without seeing them everyday. I know i made mistakes in the past and i am just wanting to meet someone new to spend some time with and see where it might lead. I don't know how to go up to a woman and just start talking to her I think it might seem a little rude or something. I lost a home in the split and my whole existance was affected. Sometimes i think i need some major antidepressants. Does any of this make any sense and can someone give me some advise as to help move beyond where i am right now? I feel so lonely and i know i could be so good for someone else. Thanks for taking the time to read this.

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 19 (view)

THIS IS FOR ALL YOU GUYS OUT THERE!!! Posted: 12/15/2005 12:47:33 PM
This seems like good advise and all although some women really do take advantage of the situation too. I hope thisinfo will help me in the near future . I did a lot of this stuff in the past but it didn't all work out in the end. thanks just the same.

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 19 (view)

How long have you been active on this site? Posted: 12/14/2005 5:28:57 PM
I've been on here for a month or so and i haven't really received too many emails. I'm not ready to give up because i can still atleast get on here and read the forums. Might as well try and enjoy some of my time alone. As to looking beyond a 75 mile radius, there is only so far i can actually travel to meet someone so looking in another state probably isn't the best idea either.

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 113 (view)

are all the guys on here looking for sex? Posted: 12/9/2005 1:09:16 PM
Sounds redundent , but some people like ME are looking for more than just sex. Although it wouldn't be a bad thing if women gave guys like me a chance to get to know them before assuming that all we want is sex. I want a companion who is female and who there might be a possibility of an intimite relationship but that is not the only thing i'm looking for. I'd like to meet someone to go out with and go dancing with and basically have fun with. I think all the fun women are already taken.

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 655 (view)

Let me rate your profile... Posted: 12/9/2005 12:32:49 PM
Thanks for the input. I'll probablly change a few things. Thanks again.

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 20 (view)

When you least expect it Posted: 12/9/2005 12:24:05 PM
OK then how do you consciously decide to stop looking or wanting to have someone to share your time with. I mean i've tried for a long time to just not care about all the time i'd like to spend with someone and it hasn't done any good yet. So now i am POF and not really having any success here either but atleast it gives me something to do to pass the time. I was depresed for a long time and most of that is behind me now thank GOD but someone please tell me how do you just stop wanting to meet someone? I was thinking of maybe hypnotism but i'm not sure thats a good idea either.

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 138 (view)

Guys i need your help.... let us girls in on your huy stuff Posted: 12/8/2005 1:31:50 PM
I'm still trying to figure out how to get a girls phone # . I go out to a club here in town sometimes on Friday night sometimes on Saturday. I might end up talking to one or two girls and have even danced with a few but then i forget to ask for a # or some tupid thing like that. I'm not there looking to get laid that night but basically to meet someone to talk to or dance with and maybe even meet up with them some other time just to chat and see if theres anything worth pursueing. I need to get a clue and maybe not drink so much. Ladies there are guys like me out there that are just looking to dance and have fun and not rush things . So if you see me some where then give me your # and tell me you'd like me to call otherwise i might never know!!!!!!!!!!!!!

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 20 (view)

X-Mas how many will be spending it single? Posted: 12/8/2005 1:04:05 PM
The only thing i'm really asking for for Christmas this year is a girlfriend to spend it with and hopefully Santa will deliver one for me. Other than that i'll go to my folks house and spend the day there with my sisters and brother and all the neices and nephews and my kids ofcourse. Neil

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 63 (view)

Seperated Claiming to be Single or Divorced Posted: 12/7/2005 1:11:01 PM
Hey, I've been seperated for three years now and i haven't dated anyone yet but i do plan to start now as soon as possible even though i haven't gotten the paper work done yet. All of that being said though it is still up to someone else to give it a chance and hear my side of the story instead of assuming. Hopefully i'll get done with it this year but even if i don't , i'd still like to date and meet someone.

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 646 (view)

Let me rate your profile... Posted: 12/7/2005 12:54:56 PM
All right then, i might as well see what kind of improvements i could make to get a little more attention. Or atleast see what you think. Thanks

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 85 (view)

Should women ask a guy out on a date? And if so HOW!!!!!?? Posted: 12/5/2005 7:22:26 PM
Definitely, If a woman sees a man she is interested in getting to know a little better then she really should contact him. Just like if i see a woman i'm interested in then i should too although i don't always take my own advise.

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 13 (view)

What have you learned from your failed relationships? Posted: 12/5/2005 7:19:32 PM
Mostly that love tastes bitter when it's gone. and Love bites. and love can be so sweet. and i want someone to love again.

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 120 (view)

Do women take the initiative in starting a relationship? Posted: 12/5/2005 7:14:16 PM
Hint, Hint ,Hint I hope some of the women here are a little assertive in this area and decide to contact me as that i'm a shy kind of guy and i might not get intouch with someone i'm attracted to just because of this. It doesn't mean i a bad person because once i get to chating with someone i open up some and i'm an easy person to talk to.

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 3 (view)

how many people on here like someone but Posted: 12/5/2005 7:06:50 PM
there are a few women on here that i think are attractive but i'm too shy to tell them.Also as for there being someone i like, well i don't really know them well enough to say that but there are some HAWT ones!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 17 (view)

What do you get from these forums? Posted: 12/4/2005 5:43:59 PM
Gives me something to do since i haven't met anyone yet and also provides some insight as to what other people think about all kinds of topics. It coould also be that someone might see some of the things i've posted and it might let them get a little interested in me .Even if i don't meet anyone here it does help break the bordom of just sitting around doing nothing. Checking out the cute women is fun too. Some of the exibitionist here are a trip to. If I pay attention then i'll hopefully find someone to spend some time with. That's what everyone is here for anyway isn't it? Even if the time is spent on the other side of the internet.

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 9 (view)

Why do guys take your number and never call? Posted: 12/4/2005 5:35:00 PM
Well as for me i'm pretty sure that when a woman gives me her number, I will definitely call and probably ask her if she wants to meet up sometime and go dancing or something. First though i need a woman to give me her number.

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 62 (view)

A round of applause for BAGGAGE!!!!!!!!! Posted: 12/1/2005 1:46:40 PM
The problem is that it seems like alot of women just expect every man they meet to not have a past and in the way i am thinking at the moment, PAST= BAGGAGE.

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 35 (view)

A round of applause for BAGGAGE!!!!!!!!! Posted: 11/28/2005 8:02:19 PM
I don't know if i should say it here or not but My ex didn't know how to be faithful. Does that qualify as BAGGAGE???????

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 33 (view)

A round of applause for BAGGAGE!!!!!!!!! Posted: 11/28/2005 7:56:13 PM
I have NO BAGGAGE did you hear me women , i said NO BAGGAGE!!!!!!!!!!!! Probabaly just kidding though, I think everyone has siome kind of Baggage. Mine just isn't that heavy.

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 29 (view)

A round of applause for BAGGAGE!!!!!!!!! Posted: 11/28/2005 7:43:27 PM
Hey. whatever you wanna call it , it gives us something to talk about but hey that doesn't have to be a bad thing does it?I don't know if I have Baggage or not but what i do have is a past !! like it or not. Don't you have a past? Come on Do you want to dwell on they past or try and establish a future. I know I do want to look to the future and the present because that's what it is " A Present"

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 115 (view)

Is it possible that girls are intimidated by me? Posted: 11/28/2005 7:34:59 PM
Hey, I don't know if this really relates to the topic but i've had a thought recently about the woman of my dreams and someone told me that i might be looking for the woman of my dreams in the wrong place and i told them that i wasn't so much looking for the woman of my dreams as i might have been looking for the woman of my dream last night Just kidding but it is true that i am not looking for perfection but more likely looking for someone i can talk to honestly. Thank you for taking the time to read this too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 37 (view)

Be honest Posted: 11/23/2005 12:58:08 PM
Hey, obviously I don't have any moves or else i would not be on POF looking to try and meeet someone. Most of the timei can't even tell if a woman is looking at me or someone behind me. I'm kinda clueless when it comes to women. HELP

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 88 (view)

Is it possible that girls are intimidated by me? Posted: 11/22/2005 2:17:32 PM
I'm curious now and i'd really like to hear from a few women as to me and my profile .I'd just really like to know what i'm doing wrongwhether it's my llooks or my personality. Or maybe something else. I'm not trying to draw attention, i'd just like some answers honestly........

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 20 (view)

I have nothing to say to you Posted: 11/22/2005 1:48:57 PM
Damn , but where do you start i mean it's not like i can read peoples minds and know much about them without asking a few common questions. Seems to me that some people are just to up tight to want to even have a conversation or maybe they are just too stuck on themselves to care what other people think or something like that. I f you expect some one to totally read your profile and then be able to ask you all the right questions than maybe you are expecting too much again. Give someone a chance. Is it really going to kill ya to try and let someone start to get to know you???

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 29 (view)

I am confused bout dating & what women really want. Posted: 11/22/2005 1:39:11 PM
Now was i right or are yoou being sarcastic or do i have to tell you which one you are being?

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 25 (view)

I am confused bout dating & what women really want. Posted: 11/22/2005 1:26:45 PM
Aren't we all,but i think women don't really know what they want or atleast like some of us guys aren't even willing to ask for what they want. Some women subconciously want someone who will treat them badly so they have something to complain to their coworkers about. Some kind of socialization deviance i guess. Like one woman has a problem with the guy she's with and then her female friend has to tell about how much worse her situation is than the first ones. Basically alot of women are just about the MONEY right?

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 246 (view)

Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..? Posted: 11/20/2005 2:47:36 PM
My ex cheated on me and totally destroyed my life and my kids lives. So i basically wouldn't want to put anyone else through that. Besides on of the Ten comamndment is thou shalt not commit adultry isn't it. Although now i am seperated and have been for about 3 yrs. When i do meet someone and have a relationship with them i don't think i would be considering it cheating because me and my ex aren't getting back together. I really do need to get the divorce finalized though.

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 27 (view)

What goes around comes around? Posted: 11/20/2005 2:40:15 PM
If what goes around comes around then i should really be in for some Great treatment by the Universe and the powers that be. Not perfect but i have tried to do better unto others than they have done to me .

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 35 (view)

Would you consider swapping your wisdom for your youth? Posted: 11/20/2005 1:06:04 PM
I thnk i'd like to just go back to my youth and relive my life and hopefully not make the same mistakes i made the first time around and make better choices. Oh yeah and FUNNY GIRL you are still HAWT

flaboy32747

Joined: 10/16/2005

Msg: 50 (view)

Of Mice and Men Posted: 11/20/2005 1:03:10 PM
" this one time at band camp..." what movie was that from

Show ALL Forums