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~Hams~

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Under my umbrella, ella, ella .... Posted: 11/24/2009 1:09:39 PM
I think umbrellas should be banned for being dangerous. I'm fed up when walking down the road if its raining and almost having an eye pocked out by some idiot walking past me not looking where there going.

~Hams~

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~New venue~London West End~Cocktail Club(At The Arts Theatre)-Leicester Square Sat November 28th~ Posted: 11/23/2009 12:40:18 PM
Hi Wheelup Will be good to see you again too mate and I'm sure you'll like my tunes:-0) West end venue=West End prices ? I'm afraid so mate. With this being an upmarket venue and in the heart of The West End of London. So I'd advise everyone coming to bring re-inforced wallets or purses if at all possible! Jeez, capacity of 150 and already 202 folks have signed up. Unfortunately some members may well have to be turned away if the venue reaches its capacity. This is due to the bars health and safety laws and for the safety of all members attending on Saturday. There are a number of other bars and clubs in the area that members could go to if you find that you can't get into the meet if its full to capacity when you turn up. It will be a first come first served basis to try and be as fair as possible to everybody. If any members have signed up but can't make it on Saturday please could you help out by removing your name from the sign up list and it will be much appreciated Dress Code Although there is no dress code, with it being an upmarket venue and The bar that were using being part of a theatre I think smart casual would be suitable on this occasion. So no trainers please guys,tracksuits or hoodies but jeans are OK. We all need to make a good impression so that we can use this venue again in the future.

~Hams~

Joined: 9/18/2008

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All or nothing…. or just settle for a companion Posted: 11/22/2009 4:16:46 PM
I think it depends. A lot of people are used to living on their own and don't need a companion. Where as many folk can't go more than 5 minutes without being in a relationship. I think I'd rather be on my own than have company just for the sake of it. At least I can still watch football all day in just my underpants and burp and fart if I wish without annoying anyone.

~Hams~

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~2nd Social Night at The Elche Bar~Leytonstone,East London November 19th~ Posted: 11/19/2009 5:36:56 AM
Msg 27 Don't worry Annie! I'm sure there will be another Social Night the week before Christmas So hopefully it will be 3rd time lucky! Thanks Misty for the best wishes and encouragement for any newbies coming. The Sun has come out so with a bit of luck there won't be any rain this time! If you have no plans tonight and live nearby why not come and join us there? If you have work tomorrow you could still attend even if its just for an hour or so. I'll be there about 7.30pm and looking forward to seeing you all this evening

~Hams~

Joined: 9/18/2008

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~2nd Social Night at The Elche Bar~Leytonstone,East London November 19th~ Posted: 11/16/2009 11:07:55 AM
Hola amigos Only 3 more sleeps to go now The manager of The Elche bar/restaurant is looking forward to having us on Thursday. I hope the weather is a bit more kind this time! It looks like we might need our umbrellas according to the news just now but I'll still be there what ever happens. If anyone would like me to meet them outside if your attending a POF do for the first time and are a little shy or nervous just drop me a line and we'll sort something out. Hasta Pronto

~Hams~

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~New venue~London West End~Cocktail Club(At The Arts Theatre)-Leicester Square Sat November 28th~ Posted: 11/12/2009 4:04:13 AM
it wont let me sign up, i will be there Msg 38...I can see your username on the sign up list so no need to worry.:-0) Welcome to everyone who has signed up for this event in the last few days. If anyone has any questions or needs some advice if you havent been to a meet before Please don't hesitate in getting in touch with either myself,Misty and SandFairy. And I like to say thank you to SandFairy who has kindy offered to help out as Co Host also. The manager of The C0cktail club is looking forward to having us on November 28th. Will be going up there soon to get some more info on things like travel directions. Although its a really easy venue to find and just a few mins walk from the station. (All the details you need are on Msg 1 of this thread)

~Hams~

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Have you cheated death? Posted: 11/12/2009 3:40:00 AM
I once very stupidly tried to sneak into the front of the queue at my local post office during pension day and was confronted by an angry mob of pensioners who chased me down the high st and I'm sure it was only by luck that I cheated death! If the OP is true it would have been great if the RAF had blown up the Traffic Cops patrol car!! (With no casualties on the ground of course!)

~Hams~

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New laws for men who pay for sex with vulnerable girls...is it enough? Posted: 11/10/2009 4:33:23 PM
Do yo believe that this new law will make any difference to the prostitution trade? If this new law will help stop young girls from Eastern Europe being sold like slaves and trafficked to work in The UK as Prostitutes then I'm all in favour of such legislation. I also think its about time we had licensed brothels also like they have over in The USA. If I guy wants to get his leg over and doesn't mind paying for it legally why cant he?

~Hams~

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Did Addict Prisoner Deserve Compensation? Posted: 11/10/2009 4:18:00 PM
No I don't think this man deserved any compensation for taking drugs whilst in prison and think this award is a joke. If he felt depressed for being wrongly convicted he could have gone to ask for help rather than take all these drugs which nobody forced him to take. I get depressed every week when my football team loses but I don't go down to my local pub and drink myself to death after every defeat. So can I sue my local pub now for serving me as much alcohol as I wanted then? On a side issue I have read that this charming gentleman is now standing trial again for attacking a social worker and could be sent down to prison again!! I hope the government appeals against this crazy decision in the house of lords or whatever.

~Hams~

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Hate being truthful about myself. Posted: 11/10/2009 12:28:02 PM
I can understand why you might not like being truthful about yourself OP. I have a disability and wish I could hide it or not have to mention it on my profile. But I'd feel bad if I agreed to meet a woman for a date without telling her about it first. If she decided not to meet me afterwards I'd be upset but know that I did the right thing. Even if she had the biggest natural breasts in the world ever and liked watching football. I'm sure there are many guys out there who wouldn't mind going out with a transexual But its only fair to let people know and to be honest from the start even if its hard to say.

~Hams~

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Does Gordon Brown deserve such criticism over his miss spelt letter? Posted: 11/10/2009 11:09:53 AM
As a Tory I'm not a fan of Gordon Brown or The Labour party at all but I think all this criticism he has been getting the last couple of days over a few spelling mistakes in a hand written letter he sent to the mother of a soldier who died in Afghanistan is really unfair. I'm really sorry that this lady lost her son but what is she trying to achieve by all this and isn't she just being manipulated by a certain newspaper for their political gain? The PM went out of his way to personally telephone this woman and say sorry about it all but she has recorded the conversation which has now appeared in the media. Does Gordon Brown deserve such criticism over his miss-spelt letter? And does anyone else feel sorry for him and think he is being unfairly treated? I hope there are no spelling mistakes in my post!!

~Hams~

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being honest with yourself? Posted: 11/9/2009 11:02:22 AM
could we all be better off being more honest and genuine with ourselfs first? I've always been honest and genuine with myself from the first day I joined here. Whats the point in being anything else as you will always be found out in the end. I wish I didn't have a disability sometimes but I'm still as good as any other bloke. I can't help liking women with big breasts either but at least I'm honest about it! I've never writen I'm honest and genuine on my profile as thats for you to find out if I am or not.

~Hams~

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X factor 2009 Posted: 11/9/2009 4:12:23 AM
None of us should be surprised that John and Edward are still in this karaoke show. Its quite obvious that there going to win even if they cant sing and don't deserve it. The other contestants might as well give up now as it doesn't matter how well they do. Simon Cowell will keep these young lads in this show right until the end as its good for the ratings. Expect them to have a christmas No1 hit also!!

~Hams~

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Can Haye Win ? Posted: 11/8/2009 2:15:50 PM
It sadly wasn't a very exciting fight to watch after all the hype the last couple of weeks. But David Haye deserved the victory as he always looked to go forward and landed some good punches especially in the last round when The giant Russian almost went down. Its great to have a British heavyweight champion of the world again. I hope this will wake up our friends across the Atlantic to produce some genuine challengers This division has been quiet for far too long now and needs some new heroes.

~Hams~

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~2nd Social Night at The Elche Bar~Leytonstone,East London November 19th~ Posted: 11/8/2009 1:25:10 PM
I'm not that worried if the sign up is low in numbers. A POF meet can be considered successful even if only 2 people turn up but you both still have a good time. And these smaller do's are much better to meet other members and make new friends than one that might have over 300 people attending! Londonwoman I wouldn't think that dogs would be allowed in The Elche bar with it being a restaurant. Just under 2 weeks to go now until Leytonstones 2nd POF meet....... Looking forward to seeing you all there again soon

~Hams~

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should he be jailed Posted: 11/6/2009 5:20:04 AM
This case has highlighted the disgusting behaviour carried out by many people in our towns and cities up and down the country every night. Just because this student was drunk is no excuse in my opinion for him not to be jailed We should be showing a zero tolerance policy towards this sort of anti social behaviour If it means a few days in jail then it might just stop others from doing the same thing. I feel sorry for our Police who have to deal with these drunks as they take up a lot of their time when they could be doing something else more useful like catching real criminals. Will be interesting to see what the court decides on this case.

~Hams~

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Can Haye Win ? Posted: 11/6/2009 4:50:20 AM
Can Haye win If so how If I was fighting this giant Russian I'd have him no problem at all. I''d just run around the ring for 11 rounds trying to aviod his punches and hope that by round 12 he was so tired I could knock him out with one punch. Size isn't always everything!

~Hams~

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Christmas Dinner Posted: 11/5/2009 5:30:48 AM
I'm having a cheese sandwich and a packet of turkey flavoured crisps for my xmas dinner this year as I'll be on my own at home and can't be bothered to cook. If any ladies fancy coming round for dinner I'll get some extra packets of crisps

~Hams~

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is it a bird? is it a plane? its super boris!! Posted: 11/3/2009 5:40:51 PM
does this change your opinion of boris? No! I have always had a very high opinion of Boris and voted for him to be Mayor of London. This incident just goes to show what a legend and a great man he is. He may have his faults but he didn't have to think twice to help stop this lady being attacked. And it turns out she is of a completely different political opionion to her knight in shinning armour!

~Hams~

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Has anyone here ever been Hypnotized? Posted: 11/1/2009 9:41:05 AM
I was travelling home on the W12 bus one evening and a beautiful looking lady with the biggest cleavage I've ever seen came and sat opposite me and I don't know if I was hypnotized or not but I forgot where I was and missed my stop.

~Hams~

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~New venue~London West End~Cocktail Club(At The Arts Theatre)-Leicester Square Sat November 28th~ Posted: 10/30/2009 6:19:04 AM
Welcome to everyone who has signed up after receiving my invite. Its great to see so many new members deciding to come along to their first POF meet. I shall be trying to get some better directions to the venue in the next couple of days. Its only just a few minutes walk from Leicester Square tube station but I'm not sure which exit would be the best one to use when leaving the underground. If any of you guys know for sure please let me know so I can update the info on here. Cheers!

~Hams~

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Do our footballers think that they are above the law? Posted: 10/29/2009 10:51:06 AM
Just been hearing on the radio about this ex Wigan footballer Marlon King who has been sent down for 18 months for sexually assualting a woman in a night club. He had placed his hand on her bottom and when she protested he punched her in the face and broke her nose and was thrown out of the venue by security. So I ask do you think that our footballers think that they are above the law? What made him believe that he could get away with molesting a woman in a club? And finally should he be given another chance to play again when he has served his sentence?

~Hams~

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SUGGESTING A DATE Posted: 10/29/2009 10:39:54 AM
how would you feel if the lady suggested meeting before you did? I would be worried incase she was only after me for my body and not my mind! I'd be more than happy if a genuine lady suggested meeting for a date before I did. I know though that most women still prefer men to make the first move when it comes to dating.

~Hams~

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Dating people you haven't met online Posted: 10/29/2009 10:27:32 AM
For those of you having some luck in meeting people when you're out and about spill the beans where and how are you meeting them? I don't go down the pub very often unless its for a sunday roast and I'm far too old now to be spending the whole night out dancing in a club! So the best place for me to find someone now is on an online dating site. I do often get chatting to women whilst waiting for the bus which is very interesting. There is one lady I often see that is very attractive who I might ask out for a coffee! So I recommend guys to hang about bus stops even if your not travelling anywhere.

~Hams~

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New Feature: send a quick message Posted: 10/28/2009 7:14:51 PM
I'm not sure if women will like it if I ask them if they fancy a quick one. I always like to take my time as I'm an old fashioned guy and put some effort into it. I wonder if there is any info in the help forum about this new feature?

~Hams~

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~New venue~London West End~Cocktail Club(At The Arts Theatre)-Leicester Square Sat November 28th~ Posted: 10/28/2009 6:49:15 PM
Hams I walked past the venue last night (nice re-vamp it's had) but the sign on the door said 'members only' ................... do we have to join something to enter? Hi CK The downstairs bar which we shall be using is "members only" as its part of the theatre however on the night of this event it will be made available to us on POF for our social night. Nobody has to join anything to enter on Nov 28th and its free to get in as all my meets on here always are. Thats good to read that the venue looks nice as they had the painters and decorators in when I was there last!

~Hams~

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When do we stop looking Posted: 10/28/2009 9:21:50 AM
Sometimes its good for you to stop looking and have a little break as I do often. Then when your batteries are recharged and your confidence restored come back again! I always learn something new everyday from just reading the forum even if I don't post. I love to see peoples opinions on different subjects and its more educational than the TV! So don't worry OP if it seems like some us may have been on here for a very long time! It could be for all sorts of reasons!

~Hams~

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How Do You Handle Rejection? Posted: 10/28/2009 9:02:53 AM
Thats interesting to read Hams, i will admit i almost always lie, if i find a guy unattractive, i will always say its to do with distance or some other excuse like that, im not comfortable being blunt with people, is that wrong? I can understand if you find it uncomfortable to be blunt and that it must be difficult GG. But I'd prefer if a woman told me she didn't find me attractive than make up an excuse! It might be hard to take at first but better than knowing it wasn't for something made up. I can't speak for other men on this matter but that is how I feel about this particular issue.

~Hams~

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~New venue~London West End~Cocktail Club(At The Arts Theatre)-Leicester Square Sat November 28th~ Posted: 10/28/2009 7:05:39 AM
Thanks mate! I think it will be a great venue and I hope that you all like it when you see it! The manager there is looking forward to having us all and seems like a nice guy. Will be sending out a mass email for this event inviting other members to attend later today. If anyone has any questions when you get my PM please fell free to post on here or ask me direct. All the information needed is in Msg 1 of this thread and remember google is your friend also!

~Hams~

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How Do You Handle Rejection? Posted: 10/28/2009 6:56:07 AM
Having been on here a long time now I should be used to being rejected all the time but I'd be lying if I said that it doesn't bother me and still don't handle it very well at all. I don't have a problem if a woman doesn't fancy me and its their choice but when your always being told that your such a nice guy and a gentleman it does get very annoying!! I guess we all handle rejection in a different way but I'd rather be told the truth why I wasn't good enough for someone like if it was because of my disability than be lied to. I'd be able to accept it more then and would respect that person for their honesty.

~Hams~

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How much effort should we make? Posted: 10/27/2009 12:08:39 PM
Am I making things to easy for them? Why dont they make as much effort? How long do you get to know someone before you agree to meet them for a date OP? Maybe if you took a bit more time getting to them first it might help weed out the bad ones. As for how much effort should we make? On the rare occasion that I'm happy to go on a date which is hardly ever at all. As long as I look smart,turn up on time and behave like a gentleman thats good enough for me. I'll try my best not to stare too much if she has big breasts but I'm not perfect.

~Hams~

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~2nd Social Night at The Elche Bar~Leytonstone,East London November 19th~ Posted: 10/26/2009 12:57:55 PM
Msg 18...Lol!.....I wish I was still able to dance like that but I'm too old now! Welcome to everyone who has signed up recently for this social night Still a while to go but I'm looking forward to meeting you all on the night. So if you live nearby and have no other plans on Thursday November 19th I hope you'll come and join us even if its only for a couple of hours as I know many of you may have to work the next day and can't stay until the end. As always new members popping their cherry for the first time are most welcome. If anyone has any questions please feel free to ask on here or send me a message.

~Hams~

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Does 70 stone man deserve NHS treatment? Posted: 10/21/2009 5:22:07 AM
Paul Mason the fattest man in the world from Ipswich at 70 stone is about to undergo life saving surgery. A compulsive eating disorder has left him super obese and with an annual care bill estimated to be over £100,000. So I ask does this gentleman deserve any NHS treatment? Hasn't he brought all these problems upon himself? Wouldn't the £20 k cost of the operation be better spent elsewhere? Is there such a thing as a compulsive eating disorder or is it just a lack of will power? I'm sure we would all love to eat what we wanted but no our limits.

~Hams~

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Friends - love em or leave em up a mountain? Posted: 10/20/2009 1:52:18 AM
This reminds me of when I went shopping with an old friend who left me behind at the supermarket so he could fill his car up with packs of beer as there was a special offer on and I had to walk all the way home carrying my bags and wasn't amused at all. (Were no longer friends) In this case I think the Mountain rescuers have every right to be annoyed with these martial arts experts who shouldn't have carried out this walk if they weren't up to it.

~Hams~

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KARAOKE AT THE BLUE LAGOON, HOVE 17-10-09 COMMENTS AND PIX Posted: 10/18/2009 10:42:29 AM
Well done Gary for organising the meet....It was great to see you again as well as all my other buddies down Brighton way after such a long time. I do have a slight complaint about the guy who was running the karaoke though. I thought it was a little unfair that some of the pub locals sang twice or more while some POF members never had a chance to even get up and have a go once during the night! Maybe that is something that could be rectified between now and the next event there? I'd like to say thank you to my lovely host for the weekend and for all those cups of tea and cheesecake x

~Hams~

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Leona Lewis 'punched' at signing !! Posted: 10/15/2009 1:09:26 PM
What a cowardly act that was to hit a defenceless lady in the face for no reason at all. Any man who thinks its OK to punch a woman deserves the utmost contempt in my view. Should we urge this man to punch any other celebs ? Not really however there are one or two who should have custard pies thrown at them!

~Hams~

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Too old for jeans? Posted: 10/15/2009 4:33:51 AM
Do you think there's an age when we should start dressing differently, "older"? I sometimes go down the shops in my dressing gown if I need some milk or the paper but thats nothing to do with getting old just being too lazy to get dressed.

~Hams~

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~New venue~London West End~Cocktail Club-Leicester Square Sat November 28th~ Posted: 10/14/2009 5:36:38 AM
Oooo Leicester Square is easier for me than the North London meets so maybe I can get along to this one. This new venue is really easy to get to Cosmic and just a few mins walk from the station. I hope all of you guys who used to attend our previous events at Corks will like this new location. Will be providing more information about how to get there and other details in the next couple of days.

~Hams~

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~2nd Social Night at The Elche Bar~Leytonstone,East London November 19th~ Posted: 10/14/2009 5:20:03 AM
but wheres the ladies guess its still early days for this one. Will be sending out an invite to all the local members about this event on Thursday. I'm sure a few ladies will sign up otherwise we will have to spend the whole evening talking about football!

~Hams~

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Airport body scanner optional, whats the point? Posted: 10/13/2009 5:04:03 PM
I'd be more than happy to walk through one of these new airport body scanners and don't care if the operators see me naked. As long as none of them laugh if they see my Denis the menace boxer shorts. I guess it won't be long until we all have to travel in the nude if we want to fly abroad!

~Hams~

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cigarette vending ban, whats next Posted: 10/13/2009 3:43:50 PM
Where will it all end? Will they make you stand on scales to check your weight in Asda if you decide you might fancy indulging yourself in a packet of chocolate hob nobs? Mean while as were all made to feel like criminals for enjoying a smoke outside the pub Our MP's who represent us at Westminster are free to enjoy a fag in the House of Commons bar as it has no smoking ban.

~Hams~

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cigarette vending ban, whats next Posted: 10/13/2009 10:30:29 AM
I never buy cigarettes from vending machines anyway as they only ever have 16 in the packet rather than the full 20. Why don't the government just round all of us up who smoke so we can undergo socialist re education training and be brainwashed. I'm fed up with this legalised witch hunt against smokers that has been going on the last few years. If there so concerned about smoking why don't they just ban it completely and save all this bother. But we know that will never happen as they will lose all that tax so we will continue to be persecuted. I'm off for smoke!

~Hams~

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~New venue~London West End~Cocktail Club(At The Arts Theatre)-Leicester Square Sat November 28th~ Posted: 10/12/2009 5:50:38 PM
Your host Hams and Co hosts xxMistyxx and Sand Fairy invite you to join us For a social night at ~New Venue!....The Cocktail Club....New Venue!~ A brand new upmarket venue for POF meets in London's West End! ~Where?~ London Cocktail Club (At The Arts Theatre) 6-7 Great Newport Street London WC2H 7JB ~When? Saturday November 28th ~Time~ 7pm until Midnight. ~Door Charge~ Free entry no charge. The bar only has a capacity of 150 so try and get there early. If it reaches its limit some members may have to be turned away. We will be using the downstairs bar which is part of the theatre for this social night ~Travel Directions~ The Cocktail Club is only 3 mins walk from Leicester Square tube station. There are night buses nearby in Trafalgar square or Tottenham Court Rd. ~Agenda for the evening~ A social occasion to chat and mingle with other members and their guests,have a drink or two and a boogie on the dance floor. ~Music~ I'll be playing for free 70's and 80's soul,funk and disco. ~Member Information~ This event is open to all regardless of age,race,religion or sexual orientation. Newbies and first timers are also especially welcome to attend this night out. If anybody is shy we will meet you outside the venue if you'd like to be escorted in. Members are also more than welcome to bring any guests with them if they'd like to. ~After The Event~ There is a number of nightclubs nearby should any members which to carry on dancing the night away after this event has come to an end. ~Finally~ If you have no other plans on Saturday November 28th why not come and join us? These nights out really are a great way to make new friends and improve your social life. I can't promise that you will find Mr or Mrs right but do promise a pleasant evening out!

~Hams~

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KARAOKE AT THE BLUE LAGOON, HOVE (actually) SATURDAY 17th OCTOBER, 2009 Posted: 10/12/2009 12:26:14 PM
Less than a week to go!! I hope your ready for our duet on Saturday Gary as I've been practicing my singing. I've been asked to perform with a rather gorgeous lady also so it looks like I'll be busy. There was me thinking that I'd be sitting in the corner quietly on my own Not long to go now! If you live in the area why not come and join us all if you have no plans this weekend. Looking forward to seeing you all in a sunny Hove on Saturday I hope!

~Hams~

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Have you found what your looking for.. Posted: 10/11/2009 1:17:38 PM
I've thought I have found what I'm looking for a couple of times however I wasn't what they were looking for. I think I may go and hand around Asda also in the womens lingerie section.

~Hams~

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Was it easier years ago? Posted: 10/9/2009 2:55:27 PM
"No well-bred lady will too eagerly receive the attentions of a gentleman, no matter how much she admires him. I seem to have this problem quite a lot with women who admire me and are well bred! I think dating would have been much more difficult back than with all the rules they had. You wouldn't have been able to just chat up a lady down the pub and take her back home. Although they did used to have a lot of ladies of the night for men to indulge their pleasure!

~Hams~

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Is It True Men think Of Sex Every 7 Seconds. Posted: 10/9/2009 11:18:41 AM
When ever Msg 69 posts on the forum I can't think of anything else!! OT....I don't believe it at all that men think about sex every 7 seconds as there are far more important things to think about like putting the rubbish out or if we can lend a hand carrying out important chores like washing the dishes.

~Hams~

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Should you date more than one person at a time Posted: 10/9/2009 10:43:58 AM
I've got 2 dates tomorrow night. The first one is just for a coffee and the second one involves a night out clubbing. If nobody sees me on the forum for a few days don't worry as will need time to recover. I think its fine to date more than one person until you go exclusive with the right one.

~Hams~

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~2nd Social Night at The Elche Bar~Leytonstone,East London November 19th~ Posted: 10/9/2009 9:46:05 AM
Hi Spindal No worries about missing the 1st event mate. The rain was torrential and I thought maybe I might have to swim home afterwards! Hopefully the weather will be more kind to us and few more locals will come along this time. Cheers

~Hams~

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Happy in your skin? Posted: 10/9/2009 9:37:55 AM
I'm very happy in my skin. I don't care if I have a disability,walk with a limp or am an ugly fecker. Things could be worse.

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