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itsmillertime6227

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Why would a man tell his friends all he did sexually with his new girlfriend? Posted: 11/20/2009 1:55:36 AM
He's boastful. Like women don't do this...

itsmillertime6227

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thigh high boots Posted: 8/4/2009 10:00:00 PM
Depends on where in public they are worn.

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would you text a ex if you didnt want them back Posted: 8/4/2009 9:49:15 PM
Who is more dumb...the guy who did this and continues to try to talk to the girl or the girl who continues to talk to the guy after he has done this instead of ignoring him? Hmmmmmm....

itsmillertime6227

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Facebook Friends.... Posted: 8/4/2009 9:46:41 PM
I really doubt they're adding friends to try to seem "popular." This isn't high school. And as far as people having friends, and you can check me on this, the people that have the most friends on facebook are WOMEN. Does that make them whores? Nope. Means a lot of people want to be their friend or a lot of people know them. I have a ton of friends because I play baseball. Just from baseball I've met a couple thousand people...and that's not an exhaggeration. Also from my hobbies--yachting and jeeping-- I've met tons of people all around the world. Now add in all my friends I've worked with, gone to school with, friends of friends, family members, friends of family members, random people, people I've met on vacation, ect...it adds up. I know girls that have friends with every girl they see that's from their sorority. Not just from their college but from their sorority nationwide. That's a ton of people right there. Also if they see someone that went to their same high school/college they'll add them. That adds up. Originally facebook was made for college students. You had to have a valid college e-mail address that you are given when you enroll. Now it's just to meet friends, remain in contact with friends or get back in touch with old friends. It's all social networking. Why are you pointing fingers when you're on a site like this? You're assuming they're doing this for "popularity" and are calling them immature because of it. I call you insecure because you don't really know why they do it thus you ridicule it. People's biggest fears are the unknown. Keep saying you're playing innocent and are not insecure but you wouldn't have posted this question if you weren't.

itsmillertime6227

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Tiger Woods - Overhyped? Posted: 8/4/2009 9:33:51 PM
The reason Tiger is "over exposed" is because he controls the raitings. The raitings control sponsorships. Sponsorship controls how much money is in the sport. Tiger is Golf's cash cow...without him it would be an afterthought. Just look at the ratings when Tiger plays in a tournament and when he does not play. It's not just the game that awards him the hype...it's the money he brings in. And in these times where money is slim they're going to shove Tiger down your throats so they get their cash. I'm sure they're pressuring him into doing more tournaments to bring in more money.

itsmillertime6227

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How do you really know if a guy is into you? Posted: 8/4/2009 9:28:04 PM
Everyone always thinks their sex is easier to understand because well...that's what they are. If you want to call, then call. Why let someone else control your life? Why wait?

itsmillertime6227

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Lets see who can answer this question... Posted: 8/4/2009 9:26:21 PM
This has been asked so many times. Sure, it would be more polite but these people are strangers and don't owe you anything. Just move on.

itsmillertime6227

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Should I move on? Posted: 8/4/2009 8:48:57 PM
Wow, you sound crazy. Leave him alone! Obsessive much? Are you really that dense you can't see what he is saying? He told you flat out he doesn't want to be friends with you. He finally said leave me alone for a while just to shut you up. And be careful Miska...knowing this chick she will do it.

itsmillertime6227

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Facebook Friends.... Posted: 8/4/2009 8:45:49 PM
Apparently y'all know nothing about Facebook. It has nothing to do with how serious someone is about a relationship. Why do people always correlate things like this to a future relationship? The people that are on your friends list are either your friends, friends of a friend, family or someone you share common interests/background with (went to school/worked with them). It's just there. It's nothing to worry about. I don't talk to a 1/4 of the friends on my friends list. Same with the people in my phonebook on my cell phone. I talk to about maybe a 1/3 of the people in there but they're in there. If you're really freaking out about this then you have some severe insecurity issues. It is nothing to worry about.

itsmillertime6227

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The calling game after a date...opinions please.... Posted: 8/4/2009 12:30:33 AM
Why should it matter? If you had a good time, call him. Why wait? Why let someone else control part of your life. Let them know you had a good time. If they didn't, they'll let you know after you call.

itsmillertime6227

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How do I make it clear he's not my boyfriend Posted: 8/4/2009 12:23:52 AM
Well I can usually tell when a girl is with a group of people who is with somebody and who isn't. You aren't sending out the right signals and you are probably flirting with your gay friend too. So keep your distance from him, avoid flirting with him, avoid just talking to him, go out on the dance floor with your GIRLfriends, ect... And don't make a big deal of it. You don't have to bring it up. If they ask, just answer. But make sure you're into them and not worried about your c**kblo...I mean your gay friend.

itsmillertime6227

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Michael Phelps controversy...again Posted: 8/4/2009 12:19:09 AM
hold on there buddy boy! Women's gymnastics and Women's figure skating are the top watched events in the Olympics. That's why they go last Hmm, you sure about that? Because I thought it was Michael Phelps who set all the TV ratings. Also, the last couple days where the gymnastics was held were the lowest of any days until the final ceremony. Just look at the Nielsen ratings. " In the seven nights after Phelps' last race, NBC's primetime coverage out-rated comparable 2004 Olympics only once." 2008 Olympics US Nielsen ratings (NBC): FRIDAY, AUGUST 8, 2008 (OPENING CEREMONY) NBC --34,891,000 SATURDAY, AUGUST 9, 2008 NBC --24,082,000 SUNDAY, AUGUST 10, 2008 NBC --32,256,000 MONDAY, AUGUST 11, 2008 NBC --30,173,000 TUESDAY, AUGUST 12, 2008 NBC --34,014,000 WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 13, 2008 NBC --27,656,000 THURSDAY, AUGUST 14, 2008 NBC --29,708,000 FRIDAY, AUGUST 15, 2008 NBC-- 26,071,000 SATURDAY, AUGUST 16, 2008 NBC --31,593,000 SUNDAY, AUGUST 17, 2008 NBC-- 27,184,000 MONDAY, AUGUST 18, 2008 NBC --26,374,000 TUESDAY, AUGUST 19, 2008 NBC --26,629,000 WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 20, 2008 NBC --24,755,000 THURSDAY, AUGUST 21, 2008 NBC --22,438,000 FRIDAY, AUGUST 22, 2008 NBC --17,876,000 SATURDAY, AUGUST 23, 2008 NBC --16,756,000 SUNDAY, AUGUST --24, 2008 (CLOSING CEREMONY) NBC-- 27,834,000

itsmillertime6227

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How do I make it clear he's not my boyfriend Posted: 8/4/2009 12:04:50 AM
Invite his boyfriend. If he doesn't have one then just don't go out with him anymore. Or start approaching men when you're out instead of waiting for a guy...it's already difficult enough to approach women in public but you are compounding the problem having a male with you.

itsmillertime6227

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How do I know what he is looking for? Posted: 8/3/2009 4:24:53 AM
Why bother? The guy sounds like a complete bore. You don't think you can do better? The best thing to do is just talk to him about it. 3 months and this issue hasn't been approached? Sounds like a waste of time.

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Big Ten Football Discussion Posted: 8/3/2009 3:59:51 AM
1) Who cares? The Big Ten will just embarass themselves again. I'm tired of seeing them in BCS bowl games. 2) Terrible. 3) Ya, at Brunswick. 4) If only by pure luck. 5) Depends on who replaces Chase Daniel at QB.

itsmillertime6227

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About the gifts Posted: 8/3/2009 3:42:55 AM
You sound high maintanence. You're seriously getting worked up about online "gifts?" I agree with Navigator. You need to do some growing up.

itsmillertime6227

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Ask a Gay Guy Posted: 8/3/2009 3:31:26 AM
Wow...this is ridiculous. Well at least my theory of some women is true--they would like to play with men like Barbie dolls. Why can't you just do this with your female friends? You have control issues.

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Things That Make You Go Hmmmmmm... Posted: 7/30/2009 2:17:50 AM
Why did Jim Bowie just get a town, while Sam Houston got a city? Because Houston was the President of the Republic of Texas while Bowie just helped kill Mexicans...wait...good question. Hmmmmm

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Indicators that the economy is bad: Posted: 7/30/2009 1:22:30 AM
#4 made me laugh hysterically.

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Is it really too late? Posted: 7/29/2009 10:13:44 PM
No it's not too late. Continue to cry on his shoulder...that always brings them right back. But seriously, move on. Let go. Drop him abruptly. That might make him realize what he has lost then maybe you have a chance but really...move on!

itsmillertime6227

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Your thoughts... Posted: 7/29/2009 7:51:36 PM
Wow, glad you guys caught that. What a joke! hahahahahaha I told you women are just as bad as guys!

itsmillertime6227

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Michael Phelps controversy...again Posted: 7/29/2009 7:48:16 PM
Haha I'd have no problem with that. In the Original Olympics all the athletes were nude. Imagine, female sports would actually do well in the ratings for once! lol

itsmillertime6227

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What's the issue? Posted: 7/29/2009 7:36:18 PM
I don't know what's in your area but places I go are the lake, parks, bars, mall, pretty much places with a lot of people. Join a club that your interested in or something. Get active. Get out of the house.

itsmillertime6227

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Your thoughts... Posted: 7/29/2009 7:32:37 PM
Sex will come when it comes...pardon the pun lol. But I'm really not worried about it. If it happens in the first few dates then great. If not, no problem. I date people to get to know them better, not for sexual conquest. I let things flow naturally. I'm not going to put restrictions on waiting or not waiting. Whatever I'm comfortable with at that time with that particular person I'll do. I trust my judgment. You're second question is very subjective. It all depends on the women. If I feel we have a chance of being together then I'll continue to get to know her. When do I give up "chasing other tail" (you really make men seem like a bunch of dogs lol)? When we've had the exclusive talk and we both agree we don't want to be chasing other tails. Why is it that you believe you're only seen as a sexual object? Why do you feel they don't want to get to know you? And don't act like women aren't as sexual as men. I hear girls talking about wanting to get laid more than I hear guys now lol...except when I come on these forums and women talk about men as they are the devil.

itsmillertime6227

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What's the issue? Posted: 7/29/2009 7:19:26 PM
Men don't usually try to pick up women when they're just walking by. Have you tried going to places where men your age would hang out so you're in a better evironment or are you a hermit? Meaning you don't get out much. If you put yourself in the right environment there should be no reason you can't find a guy to approach you.

itsmillertime6227

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okay guys, here is another one Posted: 7/29/2009 7:15:42 PM
Sounds like prince charming to me! I wish he'd take me to Hardee's! What a joke. Ditch the loser.

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Michael Phelps controversy...again Posted: 7/29/2009 4:06:38 PM
Michael Phelps has landed in the headlines again for controvesial issues but this time it doesn't involve smoking marijuana or strippers. Rather it is over this new "super" swimsuit (Areana X-Glide) worn by German swimmer Paul Biederman who beat Phelps in the 200 meter free style by 1.22 seconds, breaking the world record and giving Phelps his first individual loss in four years. The controversy is that this new technologically advanced suit shaded 4 complete seconds off of Bidderman's previous time. FINA has already banned the suit for competition next year. Michael Phelps's coach is threatening of holding out Phelps until the suit is banned. The only thing that prevents Phelps from wearing this new suit is his contract with Speedo, who does not have the technology for the suit yet. However, Michael Phelps's LZR Racer suit was once the most advanced suit but no one was complaining then. What are your thoughts? Does Phelps have a legitimate argument? Should he just shut up and swim? Should it be banned? When should it be banned? Right away? My opinion is that he needs to get with Speedo. They are representing the best swimmer in the world and they are behind in technology?? That's their fault. They should of had him this suit before anyone else. They should be creating the next big thing. His gripe should be to Speedo and not towards FINA or other swimmers. But there is word that they are talking about returning to the regular type speedos, the likes of Spitz used to swim in. But I want to hear your opinions.

itsmillertime6227

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How many girls can you date or get to know at a time? Posted: 7/29/2009 3:20:21 PM
I can get to know several women at one time. That's pretty unlimited. Dating? I usually keep it to 1-3. It starts to become more work than fun if you have too many prospects at one time. But when you are dating and it's not exclusive you are free to date as many people as you want.

itsmillertime6227

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meeting people? Posted: 7/29/2009 12:02:49 PM
First guys a flake. Time to put up or shut up. I've had this happen to me before. She would do the exact same thing you were talking about. I'd say alright great what's your address or do you want to meet somewhere and then nothing. Happened about 5 times. I even got to the point of setting a date and time and I always heard lame excuse after another. Finally I just told her I don't like to play games and I no longer want to talk. I still get random messages from her saying she wants to hang out. Some people are just game players. Okay now to the second question. I never meet people off of POF intending to be friends. Her and I both know we are looking for more so I don't run into this problem. You should talk to them about this before you meet them. Yes, you want to meet them and get to know them but let them know you're not looking for another friend before you meet. However, you've already jumped in that pool. So the best thing to do is to talk to them. Guys will tell you if they like you or not. You just have to ask. Women pretty much run the relationship--y'all determine if there will be a relationship, when y'all will have sex, when to meet friends and family. Most guys assume you do not like them, you have to let them know you do. If he hasn't stopped talking to you by now it's a pretty good sign he likes you. We're that simple.

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Are guys really happy w/a friends w/ benifits arrangement? Posted: 7/29/2009 11:45:12 AM
Lol how about you ask him and not us? Communication is the key. Why ask a bunch of strangers when you can get the answer if you ask him? Also, are you comfortable with the FWB or are YOU the one that wants more and your projecting your emotions to be his? Yes, guys can do the FWB and be fine with it. However, some guys do fall for the girl ....but not always.

itsmillertime6227

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Guys would you enjoy this? Posted: 7/29/2009 11:41:59 AM
Stupid question. Of course! Who doesn't like to recieve affection??? We're people too dumby. We come with feelings and everything!

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What is wrong with the guys on POF? Posted: 7/29/2009 11:38:24 AM
Lol are you serious? This happens to everyone. Don't take it so personal. Be patient.

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Why get nasty? Posted: 7/29/2009 2:09:55 AM
I'm not condoning his reaction at all but why did you talk to him about the guys you are dating anyway??? That's what girlfriends are for. No guy likes to do that crap even if his feelings for you are completely platonic.

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Can't figure out what's going on here. Posted: 7/29/2009 2:07:47 AM
I think everyone failed to read that the guy is a widow....It's hard getting back on the bike after something like that. Be patient with him. I doubt he's a pyscho. Just have a heart-to-heart with him and lay both of your emotions out there like I previously stated.

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Flirting with other girls?? Posted: 7/29/2009 1:51:26 AM
I'm a flirt. I get it from both my parents. It's harmless. And I usually only do it in person unless I'm talking to a girl I like on the internet. However, I do not flirt in front of the woman I'm dating. Meaning if I'm out with my girl I'm not going to be flirting and if I do it's a one liner and that's it. I'm not hiding anything it's just I don't want to make the person I'm dating feel uncomfortable. If they're dating me they would know already that I am a flirt. Also, there are many people like me that are harmless flirts and then there are the ones that are the cheaters...those are the flirts that tend to take things too far. Keep an eye out for those people.

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HOW CAN YOU DIFFERENCIATE? Posted: 7/28/2009 11:36:16 PM
It's part of the attraction. You have to find out if you're sexually compatible. If you don't like it tell them you're not ready for that conversation. There is no way to avoid talking about/having sex in the dating scene.

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picking guys up at the gym Posted: 7/28/2009 9:46:28 PM
Why do women always point at Playboy for examples?? haha So you're going to do whatever they do and not worry about what guys say they like? Guys don't look at Playboy because the girls are wearing makeup, Beth. haha Women wear makeup and get all dolled up because they're trying to look better than the other women. It has nothing to do with guys preferences. If you polled every guy in America you would probably see that men prefer women without makeup. I know every guy I've talked to about it agrees.

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Pete Rose Possible Reinstatement To Baseball Posted: 7/28/2009 9:41:11 PM
Haha there are already cheaters in the HOF. Ever heard of Gaylord Perry? Ya, he is celebrated for being a cheater and throwing the spit ball. Trust me, adding substances to the ball to make them do things it's not naturally supposed to do effects the game a lot more and immediately than if a guy does steroids. They should let them all in. Rose, Clemens, Bonds, ect... Make a "Steroid Era Wing" in the HOF and leave it at that.

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Can't figure out what's going on here. Posted: 7/28/2009 9:28:47 PM
You both need to stop acting like high schoolers and talk about your feelings instead of martial arts. This will clear up the miscommunication and the confusion. Quit beating around the bush and be straight forward with each other! Ask him what's up. Don't settle for the "Oh, that was an accident" BS. Have a little heart-to-heart chat with him. Jeeze. It's like watching the playground flirting all over again.

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picking guys up at the gym Posted: 7/28/2009 9:21:05 PM
So what's the question? Congrats...you get hit on by guys at the gym. Woo-hoo! The real question is do you do anything about it or do you just like the attention? There are several things that can factor into guys hitting on girls in a gym: -Testosterone -You look hot in your tight gym clothes -You are the only girl there or there is a higher men to women ratio -You actually care about your body Kinda puts the rest the myth that men actually care about make-up and all that stuff.

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Pete Rose Possible Reinstatement To Baseball Posted: 7/28/2009 6:39:15 PM
Rose will never be in the HOF reguardless of how many hits he had. I wish they'd let him in but he broke the BIGGEST rule in baseball...don't bet on the game. Just ask Shoeless Joe how that worked out. This will be a story until Pete dies. Then he will be talked about sparingly like Shoeless Joe.

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Rocky Balboa and Brett Farve Posted: 7/28/2009 6:37:07 PM
He'll come back in November to help lead them to the playoffs like Clemens did his last few seasons in the MLB.

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What is so hot about Goth/Alternative Girls? Posted: 7/28/2009 6:23:06 PM
It's just a kink for a lot of guys. I'm not turned on by it but I know plenty who are. It's just like any other fantasy. Some like the pigtails and school girl outfit, others like goth, etc...

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Do men think women are looking for perfection? Posted: 7/27/2009 10:27:57 PM
Everyone has their own definition of perfect. No one is perfect but you can meet/surpass all their personal preferences/expecatations and be "perfect to them."

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Texas vs Flordia Posted: 7/27/2009 10:20:27 PM
UT wins on the final drive led by Colt McCoy, 27-23.

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help...give it to me...have been on this site Posted: 7/27/2009 10:16:56 PM
too long...off and on for 3.5 years....letting this awesome Aussie man throw me bones...purely nonphysical YET FLATTERING ALL THE SAME...HE IS WIDOWED AND HAS HIS STUFF...and I realized the pipe...he has needs...he neveer lied to me...anyway...help and thanks alot... .....all of the mail that I get is from young boys and men...different cultures and countries ... ...I hate to find another free dating site...no time ....not enough interest in the cyber world... ...KidRock says lay it on me cause you aint seen a white boy quite like me...smile...(only reciting [SMILE]).... ...thank you...fair skies! Laurie This is your brain on drugs....any questions?

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What's the best time to ask for a phone number? Posted: 7/27/2009 10:14:58 PM
I have no problem being asked for my phone number within the first few messages. Just excuse yourself for being forward and give your phone number. They can give theirs in return or politely reject the offer.

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why do guys like girls to call Posted: 7/27/2009 10:05:33 PM
Lol "Please call me at 8pm today???" Seriously? I can't wait to see a guy say that to a woman and then have her come on here and ask what he meant by that and all the other women say that he is a player and has to have his phone calls scheduled. oneofakindlisa--you contradict yourself. You say you don't want the man to ask you to persue him yet you say it should be even. She isn't talking about swapping phone calls like you are, she is talking about who is going to take the initiative. He was measuring her interest in him, not trying to get her to persue him. Some women aren't comfortable with giving out their phone numbers so he was giving her an opportunity to say she doesn't want to or for her to call him from a private/different number for safety. There are different rules to online dating. He may not even mean he wants her to call him. He might just be asking for clearance for him to call her b/c she can always answer "How about you call me?" It's not that hard. It doesn't matter who makes the first phone call just as long as the ball gets rolling if you're both interested.

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hey guys :) Posted: 7/27/2009 9:57:28 PM
It's a maturity level thing. Or some people are not over they're ex and aren't ready for dating, thus subjugating you to their poor attitude. Either tell them to discontinue their annoying ways or leave. I'd choose leave.

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Single mom- how to make it easier on men? Posted: 7/27/2009 9:14:14 PM
I've been here so I'll give you some advice from my learning experience. 1. Wait until you are serious to meet the kids. Maybe 6 months. This will protect them and the guy. Yes, inform him about the kids but he doesn't have to meet them. 2. It is appropriate after the 6 month period. Until then, stay at his house. 3. Don't make him do daddy things. Those are your kids. If he offers then that's okay but don't ask him to help you until you are very serious. Things we want to know: How's the relationship with the father? (Baby daddy drama is the worst) Are you independent? (Money, mother activities, ect..) Are you a good mother? (It's very unnattractive if you're a bad mom...not saying you are at all though!) Are you wanting more? (Birth control?)

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