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Just Curious Posted: 10/24/2009 6:03:05 AM
Why do you suppose in the profile section it would say 40 year OLD woman or 40 year OLD man, or any age as far as that goes. I don't feel old society has a way of making a person feel likecrap. Why doesn't it say 40 year young woman or 40 young man? Just a thought!!!!! :

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need help Posted: 4/29/2009 10:58:19 PM
Wow Thank you all so much, I can't tell you how much it means to me that yall would take the time to help me. Once again thank you.

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need help Posted: 4/29/2009 8:18:35 PM
thank you for your help

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need help Posted: 4/29/2009 7:21:16 PM
Can someone review my profile tell me whats wrong with it? I have so many women that look at my profile but I can't seem to get anyone to respond to me and want to chat. I am knew at this kinda thing. and can use all the help given good or bad. Don't worry about hurting my feelings I have thick skin . Your advice will be appriciated Thanks Ron

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FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS SURVEY Posted: 2/22/2009 7:28:02 AM
bedroomblue63 one of the main reasons my own profile states I will NOT be a FWB. The answer is, as someone else already stated - someone, or both parties LOSE The other reason being, I have too much respect for myself. I'm so glad to see your post. What the heck is going on in society where anyone would want to attach their body to someone they don't love?

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FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS SURVEY Posted: 2/22/2009 7:26:23 AM
I'm so glad to see your post. What the heck is going on in society where anyone would want to attach their body to someone they don't love?

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Changes in Men....After A Heart Attack Posted: 2/21/2009 8:40:33 AM
I can tell you from experiance, I had a tripp;e by pass 2 years ago on valentines day. It was the hardest thing I had to overcome. I was unable to perform sex for about 12 months and then when my heart would raise with passion I would get panicy. That was hard to overcome. The Dr said I didn't damage my heart and that I had a strong heart. I did have an onset of depression which is common in heart paitients. I can tell you now two years down the road I am a lot stronger, I go to the gym sometimes 4 times a week and work out. When I came out of surgery I couldn't walk far at all without being wore out I couldnt even think about being close to anyone. Unfortenatly my wife took that time to leave me and find someone 11 years younger than both of us. So i havnt had the luxery to test my abilities, but my mind is now all there and the desire to love someone is as well. If your friend loves him she will be paitient and wait on him. He will return again. I hope he is exercising that is the key to it. My wife and I were together for 23 years and she took my weakest pont in my life to tell me she quit loving me 2 years after our marriage and walked out? Tell her not to do that to him, It's hard enough getting over the heart problem. His meds could be a factor as well>

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fried potato skins Posted: 12/5/2008 8:38:27 AM
I like to bake potatoes, then let them cool or next day slice the skins leaving some of the potato in them (use the rest for hashbrowns for breakfast.) deep fry them until crisp salt to taste then serve them with ranch dressing. Be carefull Triggar food you will quit eating them nly when they are all gone.

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Gumbo Posted: 12/5/2008 8:35:04 AM
I like to by the Zatarans Gumbo mix you can find it in your grocery store arount the Rice. Follow the directions but add 2 extra cups of water it call for 6 I like to put sausage regular sausage (like bryons of Jimmy Deans Hot ) Cut up boneless skinless chicken breast and don't forget the okra, It makes it thick and slimy . you can adfood seafood or anything in Gumbo whatever you like it's like the Cajun form of vegitable soup. if it dosnt have enough flavor add some chilie powder and some cyann pepper and paparika just a pinch of garlic and onion. Remeber you can always add but it's hard to take away.

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Chicken Egnile Posted: 12/5/2008 8:28:20 AM
Take boneless, skinless chicken breast wrap dried beef around the chicken then wrap bacon around the beef (you can find sliced dried beef in the baking Ilse in a jar) put a tooth pic in it to hold it together Open a can of campbells (spend the money get Campbells, It's far better then any other)Cream of Chicken and a can of Cream of Celery Soup and a pint of Sourcream mix them well together pour over chicken. Then place in the oven at 3:50 for about 2 Hours let it all cook together. Then poor over rice. It's to die for.

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Post a JOKE Posted: 10/19/2008 7:14:58 PM
I love the one about the eye ball and your but thats so funny

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Funniest thing ever happened to you during sex? Posted: 10/8/2008 9:38:07 PM
Funny Now Freaky then- My wife and I befor we were married was on top of a hill in the back of her mustang hatch back we were right in the middle of Z()&*)& when i looked out the side glass and saw a guy on his knees peeking in the window of the car . My heart almost jumped out of my chest my wife freaked out I climbed out of the car with just my underwear on running through the woods trying to catch the perv. Needles to say I never did but we still get a kick out of it.

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Funniest thing ever happened to you during sex? Posted: 10/8/2008 9:30:35 PM
I was about 17 and me and my wife were together in my best friends sisters bed room (befor we were married), and his mother came home for lunch. She thoght I was in bed with her daughter. She was banging on the door and yelling I thought she was going to break the door down I kept yelling It's not Lorie It's not Lorie. After she calmed down we walked out I don't know She seemed so releived but still pissed but at least I wasn't Banging her sweet little daughter.

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Can't get it up???........ Posted: 10/7/2008 5:48:27 PM
I know that stress is a killer and it does crazy things. Befor I had my bi-pass my artries feeding blood into my heart were all stopped up and my circulation was terrible thus not pumping blood to my ha ha and that caused a very limp ha ha. anyway after having by-pass and a year and a half later what do you know mr. happy is really ok. anyway they may have a serious health condition.

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Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs? Posted: 10/7/2008 5:42:20 PM
Let me also say how sorry I am that you suffered the abuse that you did, I think any person that would force themselves on another should be taken out in the woods on a hunting trip camp out cook out, then right befor packing up and comming home, shoot them in the head and leave them out their.

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Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs? Posted: 10/7/2008 5:37:51 PM
To be honest with you I get more turned on and have a lot more fun giving plesure than receiving it. So it wouldn't bother me.

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Swinging i don't get it! Posted: 10/6/2008 10:38:45 PM
Tinkerbell4You WOW U HAVE BEUTIFUL EYES.

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Should I stay or should I go Posted: 10/6/2008 10:17:48 AM
the plot thickens... no sex in four years? - was that why she had the affair cos you couldn't ... ? ____________________________________________________________ No it's not that I couldn't, every time i attemted to make love to her it was like crawling in bed with an Ice Cube. Thats how I knew befor I found all the e-mails. a buddy of mine said she didnt like cheating on her lover. (isn't that funny?) Anyway I'm not into the rape thing so I would simply get out of bed and go find somthing to do. Once I found the emails I booted her out . Then I figured I didnt want anything we accumulated over the years, dosn't mean nothing to me without us sharing the joy of it so I told her to move back in and I will leave and so now 4months down the road I figure it's time to come to a decision. I have my close and my family photos thats all I need 400.00 bucks and I will fly away.

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What would you do ??? Posted: 10/5/2008 10:47:44 PM
In my opinion, when anyone is asking that question on a POF thread, one already knows the answer, and is merely seeking "emotional support" for a decision she/he has already made. Just to be clear I joined this only when a friend told me about it. However I'm not ready to date yet.

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Should I stay or should I go Posted: 10/5/2008 10:34:59 PM
For some reason there are those that think I found my wife unattractive and for what reason I don't know. What I said in my thread was that his wife was more atractive than mine. Now that that was said I am no dummy, I no that Cindy Crawford is a very sexy lady, and that she to is more attractive than my wife thats why she make a million dollasrs a picture and my wife dosn't. Did I say I find my wife unattractive? no . As a matter of fact i find her very attractive as a matter of fact I don't know if I will ever find another woman who arrouses me like she does even though the sex stoped 4 years ago compleatly. I do find her attractive but I'm not a bit nieve to think no one else is as attractive or even more attractive.

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Honesty Posted: 10/5/2008 6:08:41 AM
I really love the response you ladies are giving to this tread my gosh there are some really funny people out there.

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Should I stay or should I go Posted: 10/5/2008 5:35:36 AM
Wow Babydoll272 You are Truly Awsom I like How you Think with your heart and mind at the same time

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Honesty Posted: 10/5/2008 5:23:55 AM
I really Like your respose You are truly an honest and a good heartrd person. And you know what to say and when to say it that tells me you have a very good head on you that is full of brains as well as beuty. You my dear would be the answere to ant mans prayer. Your right, I am making all the preperations of the split but I am trying to do it as painlessly for my kids as possible. Am I the fool for trying to stay amd make it work in the past? I to was trapped in the old fassion belief of once married always married. And through good times and bad, in sickness and in health. When I gave those vals, I ment it. But the last 8 years took a tole on my health because of her unfaithfulness with my Ex Partner. (She was very Sneaky About it) Any way tommorow is a better day and I know what I have to do and how to do. Thank you for your response you are truly an awsome lady.

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Honesty Posted: 10/4/2008 5:33:05 PM
Wow !!! Sorry I guesse I opend that one up > Ok let me refraze this. and I really don't mean to sound bad I really would like to meet some women over the age of 35 that dosn't hate men. Not that I have been burned befor but I'm sensere about this. Most of the time I talk to women and they are so on gaurd that the have been hurt befor and they can't seem to feel free hearted as most younger girls. Heck mabe I can't express my self thats the freaking problem>

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Should I stay or should I go Posted: 10/4/2008 5:26:00 PM
Thank You all for the response. I think the hardest thing is excepting that I to will be an EX . When i got married it was ssuppose to be for ever and for better or worse. Never thought this crap would happen to me. Thats what she agreed on also then somewhere along the way she changed her mind Go figure>

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Honesty Posted: 10/4/2008 5:02:12 PM
Are there any women out there that are honest and trustworthy. Have all the women over the age of 35 been burnned so bad by men they become men haters? Have to fill in just to get this to post I don't know why one cant ask a simple question without all the hoopla

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first time Posted: 10/4/2008 4:44:11 PM
Can a woman be a virgin and yet at the first time it not hurt or even bleed or has she been lying to me the whole time? For 23 years she still claims she was a virgin when she met me but our first encounter she never complined or even bled at all > Is all that just a myth? I know she tried to get me to do it one night and I had to tell her no that I wanted it to be special and that she was special to me and I didnt think the night was appropriate. The time we did do it I was expecting more Like her being in pain or somthing and I didnt get that at all. Any way she ended up cheating on me 8 times in my 26 years Ive been with her I figured she lied about being a virgin also.

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Should I stay or should I go Posted: 10/4/2008 4:15:26 PM
Its funny I live now with my mother God Help Me and yet she comes over here all the time. She says its cause the kids are want to come over here but I don't know my youngest is 11 years old so far they are taking it ok.

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Should I stay or should I go Posted: 10/4/2008 4:11:34 PM
Thank you for your reply, I have been going to counseling through my church, she says she is going to go but she hasn't called them yet.

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Should I stay or should I go Posted: 10/4/2008 3:45:36 PM
I'm 43 I have been married for 23 years. I have 4 wonderful kids and a beutiful grand baby. I kinda knew my wife was having an affair with my ex business partner and I finaly found the emails she sent him telling him how much she loved him and that one day they would be together. He is married with two kids of his own. And to be honest I think his wife is far more attractive then mine. (I don't get it) any way we are split up now and it has been 5 months sice the fireworks, she says they are done and she always hangs around but she says we are just good friends. I don't know what to do when IO see her I wan't to get back with her I think because I just don't want to be devorced , but I don't want to be played either. I am a very loyal guy I find it hard to talk to women because we are still married and I feel like then I would be cheating on her. I went to the vfw club the other night and I couldnt bring myself to dance with another woman because I feel like i'm cheating. How ever she says she needs time to find herself. I don't know what to do. I'm all screwed up. I miss laying down at night rubbing her back for her or messaging her breast then cuddling up and praying over her as she drifts off to sleep. I'm going crazy help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! should I stay and try to work through this or get the heck out.

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Can women really go without sex???? Posted: 10/4/2008 3:31:39 PM
I am 43 my wife and I quit having sex about 6 years ago. When i would try to have sex with her it was like having sex with a corps. Found out later she was having a fantasy affair with my ex business partner.

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