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Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 308 (view)

Guys who dont like boobs,,,, Posted: 9/28/2008 4:06:14 AM
My man isn't a real big boobs guy. Me, I'm cursed with DDs, and have been since I was an early teen. (The stares you get, ugh.) But he's learned to deal with them, and often practices auto-erotic asphyxiation between them during foreplay. He's lucky I know CPR.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 76 (view)

Is this really so unforgiveable???? Posted: 9/28/2008 4:03:15 AM
Oops, you're right. Timestamps for the lose!

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 22 (view)

Who replaced who more? Posted: 9/28/2008 4:00:50 AM
I'm not so sure about that. Switching it on, isn't everything. Is it the BIG or the little O that bob can give you? Does he do more than in and out, or does even that require your own mobility? Does it requre additional stimulation? Most of the women I have been with required at least three stimulations at the same time to get the big move. I think I might have a new intellectual property idea here. Maybe you could email me about it? I figure it takes much more than a machine to satisfy a woman. Maybe you are like the fat, bald, short guy I met a few years ago who pretended to be a woman on this site a few years ago. You speak of women you know, but every woman is different. Bob gives me a satisfying Big O every time. By the way, it's clitoral, not vaginal, and I can often achieve multiple orgasms solely with Bob. No in and out involved. If I do not get satisfaction with a partner, I know for a certainty that I will with Bob. Maybe the women you know require more. For me, no additional stimulation needed: just Bob, my clit, and some towels to clean up afterwards. A 10 out of 10 every time. Think of it this way: I have only been in one real serious relationship; he is wonderful in bed, definitely, and I enjoy great sex with him. But before then, self-stimulation was vigorously practiced for years with a machine, and I was satisfied to the point of orgasmic hysterics on a regular basis until I began my relationship. It was quite satisfying, did the job, and even now, I return to it often when I can't get the real deal. (I am in a LDR.) I promise you, a machine can be quite satisfying if used correctly, and one understands their own bodies. Speaking for me personally, Bob's been a life-long friend of mine. Hence why I can easily go back to him at any time and get the physical pleasure I need without hesitation. True, intimacy you feel with a partner is not there, and given the choice, I'd be with my SO right now. But for pure, mind-blowing orgasms and a physical release? I can administer those myself. And I don't feel the need to prove my gender on a dating site to an anon poster. I am most definitely female regardless of your skepticism. :)

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

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Who replaced who more? Posted: 9/28/2008 3:17:01 AM
I say we're about equal. In the time it takes for him to replace me with his hand, I've got my BOB switched on.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 72 (view)

Is this really so unforgiveable???? Posted: 9/28/2008 3:13:16 AM
What I see is it went beyond just getting pissed and saying something in anger on the phone. You clearly went beyond the heat of the moment, went so far as to breaking up with him, and THEN the next day gathered his things and dropped them off with a note. All this without any attempt at discussing the issue or seeking a resolution! Really, you didn't cool off overnight and stop yourself from continuing to act impulsively the next day? Your actions were pretty clear. "I'm done, get your stuff and get out." Honestly, if someone went nuts at me after an argument, broke up with me on voice mail - hey, who here likes being dumped via text/phone/sms, honestly? - and THEN had my stuff dropped off, I'd be a little annoyed too. And probably not too keen on picking up where we left off, especially if I weren't as committed to it as you. It's not unforgivable, no, but you both weren't communicating and this is what happened. Now you regret your actions and he's not interested in repairing it. Oh well. Move along.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

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Why do guys think girls dont like compliments? Posted: 9/28/2008 3:04:22 AM
Ling Zhi is right. It has to be sincere, and not given with some other meaning behind it.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 21 (view)

I have a theory about movie interests? Posted: 9/28/2008 2:57:08 AM
Never saw it, not going to. I prefer action, drama, suspense/thriller, horror. Shoot me if you want to watch romance or comedy.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

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Nothing in common Posted: 9/28/2008 2:45:40 AM
I love a common ground for us to build our communication and relationship on. It's a good start. But spicing it up and mixing it up is exciting as well. You get to learn and experience new things and discover a lot about a new person.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

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Embrace the Baldness? Posted: 9/28/2008 2:40:21 AM
My SO is balding. He just shaves it all off, and I prefer that. It's also nice to reach over and rub it like a Buddha from time to time, for luck. As for attractiveness, I never previously found myself attracted to bald/ing men. Then again, I wasn't much attracted to anything. But I think my SO has the sexiest grin, the most beautiful eyes, a great body, sensual voice and so much more. His baldness is something I accept as part of an overall gorgeous package!

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 128 (view)

Claiming To Treat You Like A Princess Or Goddess Posted: 9/28/2008 2:38:06 AM
I'd rather he treat me like an equal, and an intelligent woman. Pedestals are for statues. I can't tell you how many times I've heard a guy say, "I treated her like a princess, I gave her EVERYTHING, gave up all I had, and I don't know what happened!" As if you spoiling the wench rotten was going to ensure she stays devoted to you for life? C'mon, stop fooling yourselves.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 387 (view)

for the ladies....can you TRULY say money ain't a factor? Posted: 9/28/2008 2:34:54 AM
Money is not a primary attraction in a man. What IS is his ability to make it stretch, whether he makes $5 or $50 an hour. I'm not looking for a sugar daddy, but I AM looking for someone sensible and dependable, and not some jackass who'll piss his savings away on stupid things.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 334 (view)

Rejected after the first date? Posted: 9/28/2008 2:31:35 AM
no way you can feel a spark with someone on the first date unless you have a buildup of static electricity And that hurts! Maybe these women are looking for the elusive thunderbolt that strikes them dead on the spot when they meet Mr. Right, who knows. 1 date isn't enough for a spark, I agree. On the other hand, though, 1 date is enough to determine: he's not physically attractive to me, our conversation was really lacking, he was not at all who he told me to be, he was too busy eyeing some woman's boobs across the room. Could be you're just getting an excuse.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 108 (view)

I'm gonna start hanging out at Lowe's and Home Depot Posted: 9/28/2008 2:28:37 AM
Damn. Last time I was there, I must have been too busy eying the power tools to notice the men eying me.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 72 (view)

Why do men like to give women backrubs? Posted: 9/28/2008 2:22:19 AM
I'm just guessing here......ummmm, perhaps it's because they're hoping she'll turn around. I get those a lot after we go tobed. They're a quiet, subtle, "Let's bonk". But he also gives them when we're relaxing, and they're just meant to be a rub. Either way, looove those rubs.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 102 (view)

sex with pregnant women Posted: 9/28/2008 2:17:49 AM
Never been pregnant, but bring it on! Hey, buddy, you helped put me in this position, suck it up and let's ride!

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

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piercings Posted: 9/28/2008 2:05:35 AM
Go talk to your doctor, and be candid with them. They've heard it all, and they'd need to know what your piercing has been exposed to to give you a good idea. On a personal note, one of my girl friends has discolored scarring on her belly piercing. It's just the way it's healed. After all, it is a scar, and you know those can be quite visible in some way or another. But for a final answer, doctor.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

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Single until you are married??? Posted: 9/28/2008 2:01:34 AM
Am I naive for thinking boyfriend-girlfriend or finance means commitment? I must be naive too. You're not alone.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

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Some advice on moving in together Posted: 9/28/2008 1:58:24 AM
Looking for a roommate and for your GF to move in are two very different things. Personally, I'd be wary. If he has told you he wants to find a roommate, then a.) he means roommate, and b.) he didn't say you. I think first you need to talk to him and clarify what he's looking for, and if that includes the possibility of a roommate which he's also romantically involved in. A roommate is a paying tenant and independent; it is, for all intents and purposes, a business deal. An SO, on the other hand, in that situation, is very different. You live together, share far more together, there is far more involved. And he hasn't given indication he wants that.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 537 (view)

Smokers: Would you quit smoking for your dreamboat? Posted: 9/28/2008 1:41:48 AM
I'm a non-smoker, and I wouldn't demand someone stop smoking, but I would have a hard time being around them. I'm the kind of person who gets dizzy and nauseous when I pick up even the smallest amount of smoke. I nearly fainted when I had to sit for half an hour in someone's house when they were smoking. So for my own health and well-being - and not preaching for theirs - I couldn't do it.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

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Tuck It In? Posted: 9/27/2008 6:02:37 AM
In for formal dress; out for everything else. :) Helps to keep me guessing about that backside under the shirt.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

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Woman that talk dirty during sex ? Posted: 9/27/2008 5:56:48 AM
Oh man, you had me thinking. "Oh... BUGGER ME! That is wonderful! ... AH WHAT ARE YOU DOING?" "Why, you told me to bugger you!"

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 414 (view)

Very long hair on a woman is very femine and sexy, but few women have long hair Posted: 9/27/2008 5:54:06 AM
Short hair is just easier. Less shampoo, less drying time, easier to brush and manage. I always tell my SO if he wants me to have long hair, then cool. He can wash it, brush it, dry it, style it daily. He still hasn't taken me up on the offer.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 409 (view)

Can women really go without sex???? Posted: 9/27/2008 5:49:47 AM
Yep, they can. I've been in a long term, long distance relationship. You tend to go long periods without any fun. Me, I love sex, but can do without it. If I get the urge, I can take care of myself.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 192 (view)

Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people? Posted: 9/27/2008 5:45:40 AM
Yes, it's cheating. You're engaging in a mutual sexual act with someone else. It's not jacking off to a mag. That's not interactive and doesn't actively involve another person. Webcam sex is.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 131 (view)

G spot nears a climax Posted: 9/27/2008 5:42:01 AM
I love my G-Spot. And I love the man who can find it and work it until I'm a screaming, shaking, gushing mess. Trust me, guys, if the girl has one, find it. You will be well rewarded for your trouble. Oh yeha.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

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Feelings of Big Handsome Men Posted: 9/27/2008 5:39:29 AM
Bring it on! I'd rather have a bit more meat for me to hug. Nothing better than being cuddled in a big bear hug. I think I'd rather that than to be crushed against a hard body. :)

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

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the cup Posted: 9/27/2008 5:38:06 AM
Huh. Never heard of it before. Learn something every day.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

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Not attracted Posted: 9/27/2008 5:32:47 AM
I cant stand him really, i like to get away. [...] He told me if we broke up he would go back heavy into drinking again and probably the drugs he used to do. Total guilt trip. You love him, but you can't stand him. As others have said, you can't change a person. He sounds like a slob, a clingy type, and not afraid to use emotional blackmail to keep you with him. Me? I'd kick him to the curb.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 1024 (view)

Is Intelligence A Curse In Relationships? Posted: 9/27/2008 5:28:47 AM
But I have read articles, that suggest, apparently many women are not particularly turned-on by intelligent men. Not this woman. I love to meet men who can hold a conversation, speak about a range of subjects, and engage in discussions/banter/debates. I think this is very sexy, and I have had the pleasure of meeting a number of intelligent men. In fact, one of my best discussions was with a friend where we talked for hours about astrophysics. 8B I would rather beat my head against a wall than date and face a lifetime of dealing with some guy who can only discuss football and South Park. (Both of which I love, but come on.) Are intellectual types too wrapped up in themselves, too full of themselves, in other words, too Egocentric? No, not all. Some, unfortunately, CAN come off as complete know-it-alls, and that is a turn off. When those discussions turn into "I know more than you do, so listen" lectures, a flexing of their "I'm better than you" muscles, then I am completely disgusted.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 152 (view)

smell plays a big part......!!! Posted: 9/27/2008 5:21:45 AM
Smell is very important. It heightens (or lessens) my attraction to someone. I remember going out on a first date with a guy who smelled sweaty and had just smoked. It wasn't truly offensive enough to make me sick, but it turned me right off. Nice guy, not so nice smell. On the other hand, nothing is better than to bury your face in your lover's neck and breathe them in, and they smell so wonderful. A warm combination of clean, fresh, and their very own scent.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 589 (view)

Your Pet or YourRelationship? Posted: 9/27/2008 5:14:29 AM
My SO has allergies to anything with hair; he's told me that from the start, and though I love cats and dogs, I accept that we may not be able to have them. I think our relationship is serious enough for me to make that sacrifice. Now, if I had a pet already, I would compromise. He has medication, and I would ensure to keep the place clean and tidy, and animals (if possible) can stay outdoors for the most part. If he has a serious reaction, on the verge of life-threatening, then I would definitely consider finding a new home - friends, family - for my pet. I've been with my SO for years, and I'm not prepared to bump him off yet! But an ultimatum? Uh, no. I will discuss, find a happy medium, but if someone demands? Later. Can't talk to me and reason over this, I see problems in the future.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

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Do guys really care about the wedding day? Posted: 9/26/2008 7:08:54 AM
Not all girls care, either. Hell, let's go see the JP and pop some beers.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 536 (view)

When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her. Posted: 9/26/2008 6:40:19 AM
Women do you feel sometimes men avoid you because they are intimidated? Yes. If you're intimidated, don't be! I have had countless men tell me at some point or another that they're completely intimidated by me. I'm actually quite a shy, friendly person, but apparently I come across to them all as extremely confident in myself, intelligent, attractive and personable. While they all say these are qualities they look for, I scare the hell out of them. It's very frustrating to know that something about you which you cannot control is causing men to run in the other direction. I'm with my current SO because while everybody was flirting and yet not making a move, he was the one with the balls to step up and say "Hey, I like you. Want to go out sometime?" So yes, if you're a guy and you see a confident, smart, sexy woman, go talk to her. It sucks being passed over for being who you are.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 45 (view)

Tothpaste as a Lubricant Posted: 9/26/2008 6:29:32 AM
Um, nope. Heard stories of people using mouthwash or popping in a menthol drop before oral or something for a cool feeling, but not toothpaste. Nope.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

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Do we ever conceive of sex? Posted: 9/26/2008 6:26:40 AM
"Other animals do it solely, and as frequently, as necessary for reproduction." Not really. Other higher primates, like chimpanzees, apparently enjoy sex. Dolphins definitely do. And good for them. I think occasionally of pregnancy when I am having sex, but not all the time. It's mostly when there's a change of contraceptive, or a gap in between two types. For the most part, sex for me is intimacy, bonding, loving.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 404 (view)

men in uniforms Posted: 9/26/2008 6:21:57 AM
Never really dug a guy in a uniform until I fell for one. Now, bring it on. Lemme peel those BDUs off!

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

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Funny antics Posted: 9/26/2008 6:19:12 AM
Best time ever with the SO: getting escorted out of WalMart after being caught running up and down the aisles, tickling all the Tickle Me Elmos. Man, orchestrating an army of Elmos is tough work; and quite frightening for the unprepared.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 46 (view)

Late 30's women w/o children that indicate “undecided” in wanting children. Posted: 9/26/2008 6:01:13 AM
I would want to start a family ideally from my early to mid-30s. Any later? No thanks. My parents had a child at the end of their 30s, and I just don't see that for me. They're about to hit 50 and are dealing with a precocious pre-teen. Hahah. I would want to be in a committed relationship at least 2-3 years before starting a family. I want my us time, before we add more to the equation. I'm 25, not exactly the kind of women you're looking for answers from, but there's my 2c.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 342 (view)

I feel bad when I judge people on their weight.. Posted: 9/26/2008 5:54:00 AM
People judge others for something or other. If you're attracted to something, then so be it. I just wouldn't go so far as to say, "I like skinny chicks, and bigger chicks are ugly heifers who can't get a date" etc. Or conversely, "I like the bigger ones. The skinny anorexic ones make me feel like I'm molesting a boy." To each his own. And I personally wouldn't go so far as to discount other possibilities outside your ideal range. My SO isn't exactly what I would have been physically attracted to off the bat. He's rather shorter, and more slender than what I believed to be my "type". But hell, he looks damn good to me. Mmhmm.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 36 (view)

I would to ask you how important is voice for you? Posted: 9/26/2008 5:35:29 AM
I'd say important and not so important. There have been countless times I've wanted to throw my computer against a wall because some woman has the voice of a lisping lolita, or the screech of a harpy from hell. Or some guy can't articulate more than a series of modulated grunts, or his valley girl accent is better than any impersonation I can do. If I cannot tolerate the person's voice, I am sorry. My ears bleed, can't do it. However, if they have a fairly normal voice, or accent, then it doesn't matter much. I have a girlfriend who would spontaneously orgasm at the sound of a particular type of male voice. I don't go that far. As an aside, apparently I've been gifted with a natural phone sex voice, and men everywhere grab themselves at hello. It's a burden, but one I live with.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

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Is this as likely as men like to think it is? Posted: 9/25/2008 4:00:30 AM
Hell, as long as he knows how to use what he's got, then bring it on! Stir it up!

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 169 (view)

One for the girls.... Oral sex after intercourse Posted: 9/25/2008 3:58:40 AM
And condoms taste horrible! They do! I wandered down for a post-sex kiss after he'd removed the condom, and nearly gagged. Latex is not nice. :( I want it au naturale!

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 261 (view)

Watching Men Pee Posted: 9/25/2008 3:56:18 AM
If you hold it, then you can practice writing YOUR name in the snow! LOL Oh, can I, can I?!

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

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Would you date someone who is disabled? Posted: 9/25/2008 3:27:01 AM
I wouldn't discount dating someone with a disability. I myself suffer from acute pain in my joints; though it's nothing compared what you or others have, I would hope someone would try a little understanding and compassion for a condition we cannot control, and give a friendship or more a genuine shot. :) Rather than just writing it off from the get go.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 201 (view)

are women willing to look past a mans flawed teeth. Posted: 9/25/2008 3:23:03 AM
I love a man's smile. I can trip and fall flat on my face if he has a dazzling grin. A real weakness! Beautiful teeth come with that package. It really does depend on what you mean by "flawed". If crooked, that doesn't bother me. (Have those myself, and I find some crooked flaws quite endearing.) But flaws from poor hygiene or something along those lines? Something else entirely, and should be checked by a dentist. :)

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 315 (view)

how do u handle being a virgin past 25 Posted: 9/25/2008 3:13:45 AM
I made a personal choice to focus on my degree, and I lost my cherry just before my 25th birthday a few months ago to my boyfriend. Yum, yum, yum. We'd been apart for a year, and the first night we saw each other again, we were voracious. Hot, sweaty, breathless, and raring to go again. And again, and again, and again. If you're a late bloomer? Deal with it. It's not the end of the world that you haven't had sex yet, and anybody who calls you a loser is just a jackass. If you want sex, go for it. If not, then chill and keep doing what you're doing.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 21 (view)

Eating Pussy with tounge ring Posted: 9/25/2008 2:59:51 AM
Not much difference. You can feel it a bit, but it's all in the tongue and technique and not some bit of metal.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

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Ejaculation etiquette, early in relationship??!! Posted: 9/25/2008 2:45:23 AM
First time I went down on my SO, he warned me and reached down to push me away, not wanting to blast me. I slapped his hand away and kept a-going. What didn't make it in the mouth ended up all over, including somehow in my hair. Not funny, but hot. I think he proposed to me on the spot.

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 46 (view)

Is it cheating . . . . . . Posted: 9/25/2008 2:38:15 AM
She should have thrown down an ultimatum. "Either the penis goes, or I go!"

Aerynn

Joined: 9/21/2008

Msg: 259 (view)

Watching Men Pee Posted: 9/25/2008 2:34:19 AM
I think I'd just be more fascinated than turned on. Like, "Whoa, cool! Now make it dance!"

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